Current Events > wasn't gonna make a thread but I'm looking for advice *gross warning*

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so lately I learned a lot about myself and finally, finally started accepting myself. I'm in pretty high spirits. I've been taking care of myself

but this introspection knocked something loose in my brain and turned my libido back on. and now it's like in overdrive, it's like the past 2 years are hitting me all at once. and I've been masturbating a lot, like multiple times a day. I don't like that and want to stop, but I'm like really horny all the time now. I still feel gross about this. I've been keeping myself busy after work with games and exercise, but I'm getting so easily distracted

does anyone have any advice on this silly problem? I really don't like being horny all the time after it was so rare for so long. I've come close to getting reckless with casual encounters again and I don't want to do that during a pandemic

I started hitting people up on tinder and I just don't like that I'm doing that too

Neckhomachus posted...

I've come close to getting reckless with casual encounters again and I don't want to do that during a pandemic

It's fine to have a casual encounter during the pandemic. Just wear a mask and wash your hands.

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I just wish I had an iron will. I kind of want to reclose the box I opened, at least as far as libido goes. like I want to turn off until well after a vaccine is distributed

Dark_SilverX posted...

It's fine to have a casual encounter during the pandemic. Just wear a mask and wash your hands.

No it's not, can't practice social distancing when fucking in an enclosed room.

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like don't get me wrong I actually do kind of appreciate being human again but I haven't had to temper myself in this way the past couple of years and I don't really know how to anymore

it's just this stupid cycle that makes me feel like a loser lol. it goes jack off a lot -> feel like a loser -> meet people and stop feeling like a loser

and then after that (if i break and do something), i'll feel like a loser anyway

Theres nothing wrong with jerking it. Everyone does it, anyone who makes fun of you for doing it shouldnt be taken seriously.

Also nothing wrong with meeting people during a pandemic. Just be safe, make sure they take it as seriously as you do, etc. I just would keep it to a minimum and isolate after for a little bit.

Get it TC
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for fuck sake.

"keep masturbating and ignore covid" is not what I want to hear

Lube up

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Neckhomachus posted...

"keep masturbating and ignore covid" is not what I want to hear

Keep masturbating lol is that what you wanted to hear?


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LepartialJury posted...

Pretty much all recent studies have been saying masturbation is healthy for you. Keeping it bottled up is what's unhealthy.

Dude whether jacking off 5 times/day is healthy or not is moot to me. It's wreaking havoc on my brain

yemmy posted...

Keep masturbating lol is that what you wanted to hear?

huh?

why can't i just be normal guys it's always something

Keep at it, hit people up on Tinder.
Life's too short.
But don't meet them.
Don't make life too, too short.

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LepartialJury posted...

Ok, that's a bit much, but it's probably making up for how much you've repressed yourself in the past. I think limiting it to once every other day after this initial burst would be healthiest going forward.
https://www.health.com/condition/prostate-cancer/male-masturbation-benefits

I'm fine with that but getting there is the problem. I feel like I'm losing control of myself

The cold shower thing does actually work. It's not just a joke told in movies


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Dreepapult posted...

The cold shower thing does actually work. It's not just a joke told in movies

And when that's not feasible?

Think of your grandma's loose flappy arm skin

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humanity was a mistake

Neckhomachus posted...

why can't i just be normal guys it's always something

I mean, what is normal.

Im just saying theres nothing wrong with wanting to masturbate. And I wasnt trying to say ignore COVID....literally said to isolate after anything and be safe about it. If theyre an anti-masker, obviously wouldnt meet up with them. If they take everything seriously, its a lower risk.

If you dont want to take it, dont. But dont think youre abnormal because you masturbate multiple times a day. Dont worry what other people think about you.
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sktgamer_13dude posted...

Im just saying theres nothing wrong with wanting to masturbate. And I wasnt trying to say ignore COVID....literally said to isolate after anything and be safe about it. If theyre an anti-masker, obviously wouldnt meet up with them. If they take everything seriously, its a lower risk.

there is no fucking being safe about it. everyone thinks and claims they're being safe, but dude youre on fucking tinder so that's a veritable lie. when you got a million people all thinking they're being safe, you're bound to have unknown spreaders. cases are getting out of control. the average person thinks all they need to do is wear a mask but they'll continue to dine in and fuck 3 people a week

sktgamer_13dude posted...

If you dont want to take it, dont. But dont think youre abnormal because you masturbate multiple times a day. Dont worry what other people think about you.

i'm not worried about what other people think. it's about what i think. I could give a darn about people judging me

covid has shown me my generation is just as selfish and entitled as boomers. it's gross and it makes me mad. and if I end up a part of that I'll feel even worse about it

how old are you?

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Neckhomachus posted...

covid has shown me my generation is just as selfish and entitled as boomers. it's gross and it makes me mad. and if I end up a part of that I'll feel even worse about it

don't worry about other people. they're not worried about you.

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go to bed horny -> wake up horny -> go to work horny -> get home horny -> go to bed horny...

Alright last bump for any morning people. For now I'm just gonna focus on work and try to not stop to think for too long