Current Events > So we have been talking about me meeting my bf's daughters.

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FF_Redux 09/28/20 1:22:51 PM #1:	Oldest one is my age, younger one is few years younger. He also has a stepson 5 years older than me. I told him to not feel pressured to do this because he has met my family this year, he has to feel comfortable about it. But Im honestly nervous as hell about meeting them. Well see whennit would happen. Im in no hurry. --- https://imgur.com/hRsG4 https://i.imgtc.com/zZQ38Hb.jpg https://imgur.com/Z4cir https://imgur.com/qEyGS https://imgur.com/37KDT <cite>FF_Redux posted [p:945185979] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Oldest one is my age, younger one is few years younger. He also has a stepson 5 years older than me. I told him to not feel pressured to do this because he has met my family this year, he has to feel comfortable about it. But Im honestly nervous as hell about meeting them. Well see whennit would happen. Im in no hurry. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VonOrdelia 09/28/20 1:23:45 PM #2:	Fuck them too, collect the whole set --- The carbuncle ate itself <cite>VonOrdelia posted [p:945186012] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Fuck them too, collect the whole set </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lysandear 09/28/20 1:25:00 PM #3:	Don't put them through that. There's no way anyone would be comfortable with someone their own age dating their father <cite>Lysandear posted [p:945186052] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Don't put them through that. There's no way anyone would be comfortable with someone their own age dating their father </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WashYourHands 09/28/20 1:25:56 PM #4:	Lysandear posted... Don't put them through that. There's no way anyone would be comfortable with someone their own age dating their father I thought we were all about acceptance? --- 20 seconds is all it takes! <cite>WashYourHands posted [p:945186096] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Lysandear posted... </cite> <quote>Don't put them through that. There's no way anyone would be comfortable with someone their own age dating their father</quote>I thought we were all about acceptance? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lww99 09/28/20 1:26:08 PM #5:	Its gotta be weird dating someone that is the same age as your kids, or close to it. How much of a gap is there? What happens if you get married? You might feel more like a step sibling, than a step parent. Assuming the kids are grown, maybe it wont be too big of an issue. --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif <cite>lww99 posted [p:945186106] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Its gotta be weird dating someone that is the same age as your kids, or close to it. How much of a gap is there? What happens if you get married? You might feel more like a step sibling, than a step parent. Assuming the kids are grown, maybe it wont be too big of an issue. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FF_Redux 09/28/20 1:26:59 PM #6:	Lysandear posted... Don't put them through that. There's no way anyone would be comfortable with someone their own age dating their father But since we are serious its just stupid to not to. Im just putting my hope on them being ok with it since they apprently are huge feminists and PC. --- https://imgur.com/hRsG4 https://i.imgtc.com/zZQ38Hb.jpg https://imgur.com/Z4cir https://imgur.com/qEyGS https://imgur.com/37KDT <cite>FF_Redux posted [p:945186137] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Lysandear posted... </cite> <quote>Don't put them through that. There's no way anyone would be comfortable with someone their own age dating their father</quote> But since we are serious its just stupid to not to. Im just putting my hope on them being ok with it since they apprently are huge feminists and PC. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FF_Redux 09/28/20 1:27:43 PM #7:	lww99 posted... Its gotta be weird dating someone that is the same age as your kids, or close to it. How much of a gap is there? What happens if you get married? You might feel more like a step sibling, than a step parent. Assuming the kids are grown, maybe it wont be too big of an issue. Im 35 he is 63 --- https://imgur.com/hRsG4 https://i.imgtc.com/zZQ38Hb.jpg https://imgur.com/Z4cir https://imgur.com/qEyGS https://imgur.com/37KDT <cite>FF_Redux posted [p:945186165] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>lww99 posted... </cite> <quote>Its gotta be weird dating someone that is the same age as your kids, or close to it. How much of a gap is there? What happens if you get married? You might feel more like a step sibling, than a step parent. Assuming the kids are grown, maybe it wont be too big of an issue.</quote> Im 35 he is 63 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lww99 09/28/20 1:29:52 PM #8:	FF_Redux posted... Im 35 he is 63 gotcha. Is this the guy you mentioned before? David maybe? Sorry Im kinda bad with names. How long have you been dating? --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif <cite>lww99 posted [p:945186235] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>FF_Redux posted... </cite> <quote>Im 35 he is 63</quote> gotcha. Is this the guy you mentioned before? David maybe? Sorry Im kinda bad with names. How long have you been dating? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lysandear 09/28/20 1:30:51 PM #9:	WashYourHands posted... I thought we were all about acceptance? who's we? tell me, do i seem like an accepting person to you? <cite>Lysandear posted [p:945186262] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>WashYourHands posted... </cite> <quote>I thought we were all about acceptance?</quote>who's we? tell me, do i seem like an accepting person to you? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheDogfather 09/28/20 1:32:49 PM #10:	@Lysandear I can't see your posts. Am I blinking too hard? --- I need a new signature. <cite>TheDogfather posted [p:945186327] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>@Lysandear I can't see your posts. Am I blinking too hard? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WashYourHands 09/28/20 1:37:18 PM #11:	Lysandear posted... who's we? tell me, do i seem like an accepting person to you? Your blanket generalization post deserved another, that is all. --- 20 seconds is all it takes! <cite>WashYourHands posted [p:945186490] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Lysandear posted... </cite> <quote>who's we? tell me, do i seem like an accepting person to you?</quote>Your blanket generalization post deserved another, that is all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FF_Redux 09/28/20 2:50:45 PM #12:	lww99 posted... gotcha. Is this the guy you mentioned before? David maybe? Sorry Im kinda bad with names. How long have you been dating? Yeah, we met over 6 years ago. Our relationship has grown slowly but It has grown. --- https://imgur.com/hRsG4 https://i.imgtc.com/zZQ38Hb.jpg https://imgur.com/Z4cir https://imgur.com/qEyGS https://imgur.com/37KDT <cite>FF_Redux posted [p:945188985] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>lww99 posted... </cite> <quote>gotcha. Is this the guy you mentioned before? David maybe? Sorry Im kinda bad with names. How long have you been dating?</quote> Yeah, we met over 6 years ago. Our relationship has grown slowly but It has grown. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jon1012 09/28/20 3:08:32 PM #13:	Cool. I think it would be a bit weird. Are you guys in a homosexual relationship or a heterosexual relationship? --- We are Borg. <cite>jon1012 posted [p:945189658] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Cool. I think it would be a bit weird. Are you guys in a homosexual relationship or a heterosexual relationship? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
berlyman101 09/28/20 3:12:02 PM #14:	VonOrdelia posted... Fuck them too, collect the whole set playing the long game by banging their dad to get close, classic move --- http://www.lukesurl.com/comics/2010-02-24-determinism.png <cite>berlyman101 posted [p:945189811] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>VonOrdelia posted... </cite> <quote>Fuck them too, collect the whole set</quote> playing the long game by banging their dad to get close, classic move </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PoundGarden 09/28/20 3:15:16 PM #15:	Lysandear posted... Don't put them through that. There's no way anyone would be comfortable with someone their own age dating their father And if you do, please record it and post the train wreck here for us to lol at. But yeah he's right. Nobody wants to meet the person their parent is banging out who could easily be their sibling. Pretty creepy and unsettling tbh --- "You cannot even beat somebody into that level of stupidity and delusion." Me, on Trump supporters <cite>PoundGarden posted [p:945189937] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Lysandear posted... </cite> <quote>Don't put them through that. There's no way anyone would be comfortable with someone their own age dating their father</quote> And if you do, please record it and post the train wreck here for us to lol at. But yeah he's right. Nobody wants to meet the person their parent is banging out who could easily be their sibling. Pretty creepy and unsettling tbh </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Yahtz09 09/28/20 3:19:23 PM #16:	Go for it. If you are in a legal, happy, and healthy relationship don't let CE tell you otherwise. I'd be nervous too regardless of age. --- Arkansas Razorbacks \|\| Oklahoma City Thunder \|\| Cleveland Sports <cite>The_Yahtz09 posted [p:945190075] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Go for it. If you are in a legal, happy, and healthy relationship don't let CE tell you otherwise. I'd be nervous too regardless of age. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lww99 09/28/20 3:25:25 PM #17:	FF_Redux posted... Yeah, we met over 6 years ago. Our relationship has grown slowly but It has grown. nice! Thats a pretty long time. Im assuming they know about the age difference. Since theyre almost into their 40s, maybe it wont be a huge deal. If David was like 40, and you guys were all in your early 20s, itd definitely be a bit different imo. Hopefully everything works out well! --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif <cite>lww99 posted [p:945190281] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>FF_Redux posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah, we met over 6 years ago. Our relationship has grown slowly but It has grown.</quote> nice! Thats a pretty long time. Im assuming they know about the age difference. Since theyre almost into their 40s, maybe it wont be a huge deal. If David was like 40, and you guys were all in your early 20s, itd definitely be a bit different imo. Hopefully everything works out well! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FF_Redux 09/28/20 3:55:27 PM #18:	jon1012 posted... Cool. I think it would be a bit weird. Are you guys in a homosexual relationship or a heterosexual relationship? We are gay yeah. They do know about him not being just hetero tho. But yeah it is weird. PoundGarden posted... But yeah he's right. Nobody wants to meet the person their parent is banging out who could easily be their sibling. Pretty creepy and unsettling tbh He has met my family. My parents are 7 years older than him and it was no problem. Even if it was weird at first. lww99 posted... nice! Thats a pretty long time. Im assuming they know about the age difference. Since theyre almost into their 40s, maybe it wont be a huge deal. If David was like 40, and you guys were all in your early 20s, itd definitely be a bit different imo. Hopefully everything works out well! They know my name and that I'm a friend, no more, but David said he thinks they might assume I dunno. --- https://imgur.com/hRsG4 https://i.imgtc.com/zZQ38Hb.jpg https://imgur.com/Z4cir https://imgur.com/qEyGS https://imgur.com/37KDT <cite>FF_Redux posted [p:945191325] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>jon1012 posted... </cite> <quote>Cool. I think it would be a bit weird. Are you guys in a homosexual relationship or a heterosexual relationship?</quote> We are gay yeah. They do know about him not being just hetero tho. But yeah it is weird. PoundGarden posted... </cite> <quote> But yeah he's right. Nobody wants to meet the person their parent is banging out who could easily be their sibling. Pretty creepy and unsettling tbh</quote> He has met my family. My parents are 7 years older than him and it was no problem. Even if it was weird at first. lww99 posted... </cite> <quote>nice! Thats a pretty long time. Im assuming they know about the age difference. Since theyre almost into their 40s, maybe it wont be a huge deal. If David was like 40, and you guys were all in your early 20s, itd definitely be a bit different imo. Hopefully everything works out well!</quote> They know my name and that I'm a friend, no more, but David said he thinks they might assume I dunno. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FF_Redux 09/28/20 5:08:54 PM #19:	hmm --- https://imgur.com/hRsG4 https://i.imgtc.com/zZQ38Hb.jpg https://imgur.com/Z4cir https://imgur.com/qEyGS https://imgur.com/37KDT <cite>FF_Redux posted [p:945194074] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>hmm </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 09/28/20 7:10:22 PM #20:	Theyre 35. Old enough imo. It would only be weird if you were like both just out of high school. Youre all full-grown adults now. --- "If you wanna grow your business you need to exploit more." ~Austin_Era_II "Out of those two? Racist for me... easily." ~Vicious_Dios <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:945198906] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Theyre 35. Old enough imo. It would only be weird if you were like both just out of high school. Youre all full-grown adults now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lysandear 09/28/20 7:11:31 PM #21:	Yea, sorry for being close minded about it. You seem happy and this was an inevitability so, I take back my comment. Apologies bro, continue being happy <cite>Lysandear posted [p:945198950] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Yea, sorry for being close minded about it. You seem happy and this was an inevitability so, I take back my comment. Apologies bro, continue being happy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FF_Redux 09/30/20 10:21:44 PM #24:	Indeed --- https://imgur.com/hRsG4 https://i.imgtc.com/zZQ38Hb.jpg https://imgur.com/Z4cir https://imgur.com/qEyGS https://imgur.com/37KDT <cite>FF_Redux posted [p:945294711] in So we have... [t:79005002]...</cite> <quote>Indeed </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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