Current Events > I've had women flirt with me as a joke 3 times in my adult life

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Like actual high school mean girl "my friends just dared me to flirt with you" type shit

Twice in college and once like a year ago at a bar.

Genuine connections and intimacy must feel nice I imagine


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What awful places are you hanging out in that are frequented by these horrible shibirds?

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People flirt because it makes them feel good, not generally to exert power over other someone they feel is beneath them. Have you considered that maybe youre extra sensitive due to some personal issues? Id work on that, and maybe itll help open you up to connections and intimacy.

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fhqwhgads posted...

What awful places are you hanging out in that are frequented by these horrible shibirds?

First one was just in my uni's dining area. Second was at a party my college roommates threw at our own fucking house. And like I said the last one was at a pretty nice bar actually.

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EnragedSlith posted...

People flirt because it makes them feel good, not generally to exert power over other someone they feel is beneath them. Have you considered that maybe youre extra sensitive due to some personal issues? Id work on that, and maybe itll help open you up to connections and intimacy.

I don't really know how you could pin their shitty behavior on me.

They literally came over, were super flirty, told me they were dared to do it and they they were sorry. And laughed as they walked away back to their friends.

I see that as a shitbag thing to do. You point out where I'm wrong tho


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sounds like normal girl behavior tbh. I'm not saying it should feel good but you're not some humiliating cretin because of it. sorry you haven't had a good time.

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berlyman101 posted...

sounds like normal girl behavior tbh

Jeez that's crazy. This has never happened to me and I'm hardly good with women or anything. Seems miserable

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berlyman101 posted...

sounds like normal girl behavior tbh. I'm not saying it should feel good but you're not some humiliating cretin because of it. sorry you haven't had a good time.

Bruh that shit def ain't normal. I've never heard of a guy being mocked like that outside of like shitty movies

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This is why you should carry laxatives.

Give em a poop roofie tha bloody whores.

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i don't know what really happened but it's possible tc's perspective made this seem worse than it is. if not, I apologize and you have my sympathy if they were mean.

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I feel like even an obvious joke about poisoning someone with something non lethal could still be againt TOS. Shouldn't be. But I think it would be.

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berlyman101 posted...

i don't know what really happened but it's possible tc's perspective made this seem worse than it is. if not, I apologize and you have my sympathy if they were mean.

I'm not THAT unaware. "I was too nervous to talk to you but my friends dared me" would be one thing.

But it was literally "i only flirted with you because they dared me. Sorry"


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damn. maybe you should have said "probably because they think you're a whore." keep that for next time

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berlyman101 posted...

damn. maybe you should have said "probably because they think you're a whore." keep that for next time

Seems like the same type of woman would probably tell a man always trying to prove himself that you called her a whore with made up context. Then if that man was like most my drunk cousins, he'd fight you over it and there was nothing you could say that would convince him he wasn't doing the honorable thing.

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yeah but at that point the damage is done and you can cheese it

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Lost_All_Senses posted...

I feel like even an obvious joke about poisoning someone with something non lethal could still be againt TOS. Shouldn't be. But I think it would be.

Looks like the mods agree these women need to shit themselves in public.

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