Current Events > How do I stop being so s***ty at committing to a relationship

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umax555
06/05/20 10:11:14 PM
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It's a constant cycle. I'll go on multiple dates with a girl, but then I'll start to really question whether she's the one. Eventually my uncertainty will lead to me breaking things off because I don't want to continue leading her on. Idk if it's because my standards for a relationship are too high, or if I'm just too afraid of commitment and don't want to give up the single life. I'm guessing it's probably a little bit of both. But I know that I eventaully want to get married and start a family. Ughhh
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NeonOctopus
06/05/20 10:11:34 PM
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Evening_Dragon
06/05/20 10:11:46 PM
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Ever talk with your partner about this?

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umax555
06/05/20 10:15:54 PM
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NeonOctopus posted...
s***ty

yes
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JuanCarlos1
06/05/20 10:17:30 PM
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A perfect relationship as in things being 100% the way you want it does not exist. The constant thought of what if grass is greener on the other side is disabling you from happy relationships. If your partner checks most of your boxes and has no huge deal breaker iyo then just give it a try without over thinking it.

Now...giving up the single life is probably the hardest part and probably part of the reason of so many divorces after marriage. You gotta find a happy medium in that regard...and btw it gets worse after having kids.

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