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Billy__Beane
05/22/20 9:50:01 AM
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I can actually recognize when a girl is interested in me. They seem to just get drawn to me magnetically. And they don't even know that I'm married. It's nuts.
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Rohccoo
05/22/20 10:03:56 AM
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The same thing happened to me after my girlfriend moved in with me. Before that I NEVER had girls I didn't know flirt with me. Now it happens regularly and I'm just like "where were ya'll when I was in college. It might just be because I'm older now.
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teepan95
05/22/20 10:08:40 AM
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People want what they can't have

"he has a girlfriend, there must be something about him worth liking"
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RedJackson
05/22/20 10:10:37 AM
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teepan95 posted...
People want what they can't have

"he has a girlfriend, there must be something about him worth liking"

Thats probably it tbh, Ive noticed the same
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tigerslashII
05/22/20 10:13:53 AM
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Rohccoo posted...
The same thing happened to me after my girlfriend moved in with me. Before that I NEVER had girls I didn't know flirt with me. Now it happens regularly and I'm just like "where were ya'll when I was in college. It might just be because I'm older now.
I've noticed more girls wanting to get with me once I turned 30. Going to the gym might have had something to do with that too.

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MC_BatCommander
05/22/20 10:15:14 AM
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Maybe since you got married you're more comfortable around women because you're not feeling pressured at all to try and ask women out. And they are picking up on that relaxed confidence and are attracted to it

idk

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divot1338
05/22/20 10:15:41 AM
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Attractive is probably the wrong word. You mean desirable.

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RetsuZaiZen
05/22/20 10:16:21 AM
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It happens in most relationships tbqh

Post #3 is correct

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SauI_Goodman
05/22/20 10:16:28 AM
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do you not wear your ring. that's how they know.

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Balrog0
05/22/20 10:16:36 AM
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I never noticed this. I think it's one of those things where there's some third, hidden variable that explains both why a woman likes you enough to marry you and why other women might like you

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Colorahdo
05/22/20 10:16:37 AM
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MC_BatCommander posted...
Maybe since you got married you're more comfortable around women because you're not feeling pressured at all to try and ask women out. And they are picking up on that relaxed confidence and are attracted to it

idk

yeah that's me, idgaf about other women and they can feel it

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RedJackson
05/22/20 10:30:03 AM
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MC_BatCommander posted...
Maybe since you got married you're more comfortable around women because you're not feeling pressured at all to try and ask women out. And they are picking up on that relaxed confidence and are attracted to it

idk



Wow, I think you nailed that right on the head tbh

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Parappa09
05/22/20 11:12:09 AM
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same thing happened to me. i had 3 guys who were attracted to me end of last year while i'm in a relationship. this NEVER happens

i only had 2 guys in the entire three years attracted to me while i was single and at uni smh

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Derwood
05/22/20 11:15:16 AM
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It's because when you are in a relationship, you stop being a tryhard with single women
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emblem boy
05/22/20 11:15:58 AM
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Lol, I've never seen that "in a relationship boost" that others talk about.

For me, I don't even buy the idea that you stop giving a fuck and they start noticing. Not giving a fuck never worked for me before getting in a relationship. Hell, I blame many of my failures with women when I was younger on me giving too little fucks.
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emblem boy
05/22/20 11:17:39 AM
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My limited success with women happened when I actively tried to make myself better. Better in appearance, mannerisms, conversation, etc.
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Evening_Dragon
05/22/20 11:23:52 AM
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It could be a combination package. Yes, I stopped caring about other women when I was in a long term relationship, but it was because I was in that relationship that I cleaned up a bit, had clothes with more colors, collars, and proper tailoring.

When you're in a typical relationship, you're already "working the part", so to speak. You gain the look and mannerisms of a generalized ideal.

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Eat More Beef
05/22/20 11:38:10 AM
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I think it has to do with your attitude towards whatever sex you find attractive. Like, if they flirt with me, I'm kinda aloof cause i don't really give a shit. I can be on full-homeless beard/haircut and chicks still shanelessly flirt with me.

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Parappa09
05/22/20 7:37:40 PM
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emblem boy posted...
Lol, I've never seen that "in a relationship boost" that others talk about.

For me, I don't even buy the idea that you stop giving a fuck and they start noticing. Not giving a fuck never worked for me before getting in a relationship. Hell, I blame many of my failures with women when I was younger on me giving too little fucks.
@emblem_boy honestly its more about not giving a fuck about other people when youre out with your mates or other half. you still care and give a fuck about stuff, but the effort is more on your other half

i got chatted up by another guy when i was with my other half and it wasnt good

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