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_Rinku_
05/19/20 7:51:58 PM
#51:


epik_fail1 posted...
I am not sure I follow. I am a bit confused
About what?
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Perascamin
05/19/20 7:53:15 PM
#52:


epik_fail1 posted...
I agree. 26 years old should date only 20 years old. Anything older or younger should go to jail.

What's up with these losers trying to micromanage other people's relationships anyway?
The part you misunderstand is that social media is by and large a place people use to vent about their relationships. Especially women. And one of the problem women have is using things like twitter, facebook, or tinder to meet new men when they're looking for a relationship. Here's what happens:

Social media profiles tell people your appearance only. Men and women use this to pick out the most physically attractive people they can and try to form relationships based on that. It largely doesn't work because: A.) There is a constant implied intention that the suitor is pursuing (in this case, sex) because of the circumstances in which they're able to meet or B.) Men are more driven to seek relationships for sexual purposes than women, while women are more driven to seek relationships for companionship. The age of social media allows men to give interest to a woman from anywhere on the planet, and if after a couple of real dates sex still hasn't happened, men are free to drop their interest and pursue another woman. This puts pressure on women to have sex earlier and earlier as time goes on to the point where people really believe its healthy to have sex with someone within 1 week of seeing each other in the real world, which is actually quite laughable.

So how does this tie back to much older men seeking sex from much younger women? Men who are older have been around the block much more than women that are 5+ years younger than them. They will simply have more experience, and what it leads to is younger women falling into a false sense of security based on the manipulation tactics older men use get women naked. People often refer to this as "charm" or "flirting", but you would be surprised just how quickly new "couples" begin talking about children, a future home together, and just how much a new man will "provide" for a new woman initially through emotional support and constant food dates. What people don't like to acknowledge in this regard is biology.

The problem with this is that men within a 1-3 year age difference of women are likely to be less successful and have less power because they haven't been working on themselves as long. This makes women believe older = more mature and good-natured. And all of that talk men will do to women about children, a home, and incredibly attentive emotional support + attention upon first interacting? It sends women over the moon because of their inherit maternal instincts. (Please note, women in this regard must have clear interest in the man)

All of this leads (more often than not) to people being used for sex until they get tired of each other and break up which creates a cycle of relationships with incredible initial highs and horrible, shitty breakups that hurt for months or years and more relationships until you can finally settle.

The problem men have in relationships is that they often begin based on sex, and once you achieve sex it gradually becomes less interesting. The problem women have is that they're pulled into these relationships based on sex with their suitor giving them the world in attention, but once sex is achieved leads to decaying attentiveness and badly hurt feelings.

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epik_fail1
05/19/20 8:03:17 PM
#53:


Perascamin posted...
The part you misunderstand is that social media is by and large a place people use to vent about their relationships. Especially women. And one of the problem women have is using things like twitter, facebook, or tinder to meet new men when they're looking for a relationship. Here's what happens:

Social media profiles tell people your appearance only. Men and women use this to pick out the most physically attractive people they can and try to form relationships based on that. It largely doesn't work because: A.) There is a constant implied intention that the suitor is pursuing (in this case, sex) because of the circumstances in which they're able to meet or B.) Men are more driven to seek relationships for sexual purposes than women, while women are more driven to seek relationships for companionship. The age of social media allows men to give interest to a woman from anywhere on the planet, and if after a couple of real dates sex still hasn't happened, men are free to drop their interest and pursue another woman. This puts pressure on women to have sex earlier and earlier as time goes on to the point where people really believe its healthy to have sex with someone within 1 week of seeing each other in the real world, which is actually quite laughable.

So how does this tie back to much older men seeking sex from much younger women? Men who are older have been around the block much more than women that are 5+ years younger than them. They will simply have more experience, and what it leads to is younger women falling into a false sense of security based on the manipulation tactics older men use get women naked. People often refer to this as "charm" or "flirting", but you would be surprised just how quickly new "couples" begin talking about children, a future home together, and just how much a new man will "provide" for a new woman initially through emotional support and constant food dates. What people don't like to acknowledge in this regard is biology.

The problem with this is that men within a 1-3 year age difference of women are likely to be less successful and have less power because they haven't been working on themselves as long. This makes women believe older = more mature and good-natured. And all of that talk men will do to women about children, a home, and incredibly attentive emotional support + attention upon first interacting? It sends women over the moon because of their inherit maternal instincts. (Please note, women in this regard must have clear interest in the man)

All of this leads (more often than not) to people being used for sex until they get tired of each other and break up which creates a cycle of relationships with incredible initial highs and horrible, shitty breakups that hurt for months or years and more relationships until you can finally settle.

The problem men have in relationships is that they often begin based on sex, and once you achieve sex it gradually becomes less interesting. The problem women have is that they're pulled into these relationships based on sex with their suitor giving them the world in attention, but once sex is achieved leads to decaying attentiveness and badly hurt feelings.

I am with someone in 20s despite being in my 30s. Never ever once did I thought "Oh he is younger, he will be easier to abuse" and I am gay so I am 100% aware of the pain a emotional pain of one night stand can cause. A serious relationship with people of different age can work. People should mind their business unless they witness abuse. What other people do with their bodies(as long as it's legal of course) is none of our business and it's way to intrusive to get into other people's relationships without their consent.

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Perascamin
05/19/20 8:07:52 PM
#54:


You are still failing to understand that this is not normally the case

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epik_fail1
05/19/20 8:10:10 PM
#55:


Perascamin posted...
You are still failing to understand that this is not normally the case

It is. You are just way intrusive into other people relationship and so is this guy. I know tons of couple with a bigger age gap than me. Both straight and gay who have been together for years. And stop acting like the younger ones cannot be abusive. A 21 years old is DEFINITELY not a harmless kid

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Gamerguymass
05/19/20 8:17:40 PM
#56:


Perascamin posted...
The part you misunderstand is that social media is by and large a place people use to vent about their relationships. Especially women. And one of the problem women have is using things like twitter, facebook, or tinder to meet new men when they're looking for a relationship. Here's what happens:

Social media profiles tell people your appearance only. Men and women use this to pick out the most physically attractive people they can and try to form relationships based on that. It largely doesn't work because: A.) There is a constant implied intention that the suitor is pursuing (in this case, sex) because of the circumstances in which they're able to meet or B.) Men are more driven to seek relationships for sexual purposes than women, while women are more driven to seek relationships for companionship. The age of social media allows men to give interest to a woman from anywhere on the planet, and if after a couple of real dates sex still hasn't happened, men are free to drop their interest and pursue another woman. This puts pressure on women to have sex earlier and earlier as time goes on to the point where people really believe its healthy to have sex with someone within 1 week of seeing each other in the real world, which is actually quite laughable.

So how does this tie back to much older men seeking sex from much younger women? Men who are older have been around the block much more than women that are 5+ years younger than them. They will simply have more experience, and what it leads to is younger women falling into a false sense of security based on the manipulation tactics older men use get women naked. People often refer to this as "charm" or "flirting", but you would be surprised just how quickly new "couples" begin talking about children, a future home together, and just how much a new man will "provide" for a new woman initially through emotional support and constant food dates. What people don't like to acknowledge in this regard is biology.

The problem with this is that men within a 1-3 year age difference of women are likely to be less successful and have less power because they haven't been working on themselves as long. This makes women believe older = more mature and good-natured. And all of that talk men will do to women about children, a home, and incredibly attentive emotional support + attention upon first interacting? It sends women over the moon because of their inherit maternal instincts. (Please note, women in this regard must have clear interest in the man)

All of this leads (more often than not) to people being used for sex until they get tired of each other and break up which creates a cycle of relationships with incredible initial highs and horrible, shitty breakups that hurt for months or years and more relationships until you can finally settle.

The problem men have in relationships is that they often begin based on sex, and once you achieve sex it gradually becomes less interesting. The problem women have is that they're pulled into these relationships based on sex with their suitor giving them the world in attention, but once sex is achieved leads to decaying attentiveness and badly hurt feelings.

Aside from being pretty sexist this is a bunch of bullshit. Women don't believe older men are more mature based on the success of guys their own age, they believe that because of biology. Women have the biological instinct to be attracted to older men because from as every species of human evolved the older males had more experience hunting and were better able to provide for a family. While men have the instinct to be attracted to younger women because they are more fit and more capable of providing healthy children thus allowing the male to pass on his genes. This is the case with most mammals on earth.

Also as an FYI, research has shown that marriages where there is a ten year difference or more have a much lower divorce rate then the average three year difference. So the claim about these relationships not working out is just blatantly false.

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epik_fail1
05/19/20 8:21:01 PM
#57:


Gamerguymass posted...
Aside from being pretty sexist this is a bunch of bullshit. Women don't believe older men are more mature based on the success of guys their own age, they believe that because of biology. Women have the biological instinct to be attracted to older men because from as every species of human evolved the older males had more experience hunting and were better able to provide for a family. While men have the instinct to be attracted to younger women because they are more fit and more capable of providing healthy children thus allowing the male to pass on his genes. This is the case with most mammals on earth.

Also as an FYI, research has shown that marriages where there is a ten year difference or more have a much lower divorce rate then the average three year difference. So the claim about these relationships not working out is just blatantly false.

Can you give me the source? I want to put in in the face of people who are judgmental about my relationship

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_Rinku_
05/19/20 8:21:31 PM
#58:


Gamerguymass posted...
Also as an FYI, research has shown that marriages where there is a ten year difference or more have a much lower divorce rate then the average three year difference. So the claim about these relationships not working out is just blatantly false.
There could be a correlation there between the types of people who would marry someone much older than themselves and people who wouldn't consider divorce at all.

It's like how the statistics "show" that you're more likely to break up or divorce if you co-habitate before marriage... ignoring the fact that a large swathe of people who would adamantly refuse to cohabitate (say for religious reasons) would also be staunchly opposed to divorce as a concept.
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Turbam
05/19/20 8:22:35 PM
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@_jorts_

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Akagami_Shanks
05/19/20 8:26:42 PM
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my question is, why do people take it upon themselves to police two consenting adults relationship? Ok, they're 18,19,20,21, they wanna date a 26 year old, why do you care? The law doesn't care, why should you? I know it's a quarantine and all so people have nothing better to do, but I'm sure there is something better to spend your time on, like ya know... actual illegal relationships

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epik_fail1
05/19/20 8:29:19 PM
#61:


Akagami_Shanks posted...
my question is, why do people take it upon themselves to police two consenting adults relationship? Ok, they're 18,19,20,21, they wanna date a 26 year old, why do you care? The law doesn't care, why should you? I know it's a quarantine and all so people have nothing better to do, but I'm sure there is something better to spend your time on, like ya know... actual illegal relationships

Everyone needs to feel like they are some kind of superhero savior nowaday and their solution is harassing and shaming people into legal relationship that is not of their business

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epik_fail1
05/19/20 8:36:23 PM
#62:


_Rinku_ posted...
There could be a correlation there between the types of people who would marry someone much older than themselves and people who wouldn't consider divorce at all.

It's like how the statistics "show" that you're more likely to break up or divorce if you co-habitate before marriage... ignoring the fact that a large swathe of people who would adamantly refuse to cohabitate (say for religious reasons) would also be staunchly opposed to divorce as a concept.

Well I am gonna need to gimme a source to your study that validates your hypothesis

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Perascamin
05/19/20 8:37:22 PM
#63:


Gamerguymass posted...
Aside from being pretty sexist this is a bunch of bullshit. Women don't believe older men are more mature based on the success of guys their own age, they believe that because of biology. Women have the biological instinct to be attracted to older men because from as every species of human evolved the older males had more experience hunting and were better able to provide for a family. While men have the instinct to be attracted to younger women because they are more fit and more capable of providing healthy children thus allowing the male to pass on his genes. This is the case with most mammals on earth.

Also as an FYI, research has shown that marriages where there is a ten year difference or more have a much lower divorce rate then the average three year difference. So the claim about these relationships not working out is just blatantly false.
Studies about relationships mean jack shit

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_Rinku_
05/19/20 8:44:58 PM
#64:


epik_fail1 posted...
Everyone needs to feel like they are some kind of superhero savior nowaday and their solution is harassing and shaming people into legal relationship that is not of their business
So, 16 is the age of consent in my state. I had a buddy in college who, at 20 years old, got his 16 year old girlfriend pregnant. Again, completely legal in my state. At the time, everyone thought it was a bit weird and irresponsible, but not criminal.

I mentioned the situation to a friend when the subject of AoC came up and, hoo boy, the way she reacted, you'd think the dude was some creepy, scheming pedo.

I'm not sure how to view it. My college buddy was legitimately pretty immature for his age. The whole situation seemed a bit... calculated on the girl's part. Also, weirdly, if the whole relationship was roughly an hour's drive North, he would have gone to jail/had to register. Something being legal doesn't necessarily make it right, but strict legal parameters don't allow for nuance.
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Perascamin
05/19/20 8:45:25 PM
#65:


epik_fail1 posted...
epik_fail1 posted...
Can you give me the source? I want to put in in the face of people who are judgmental about my relationship
Here's a hint: there isn't one. People that are aged 18-23 at this time haven't existed long enough to have conclusive data for "successful" relationships and there likely never will be hard data for it because of how much dating/marriage has changed since the advent of social media and smartphones. It's too complicated with too many variables.

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coh
05/19/20 8:45:50 PM
#66:


I'm 29 and I wouldn't want to date anyone older than 25
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_Rinku_
05/19/20 8:46:08 PM
#67:


epik_fail1 posted...
Well I am gonna need to gimme a source to your study that validates your hypothesis
I'm not saying that there is. I'm imploring you to think critically about statistics and not just take them at face value.
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epik_fail1
05/19/20 8:50:02 PM
#68:


_Rinku_ posted...
So, 16 is the age of consent in my state. I had a buddy in college who, at 20 years old, got his 16 year old girlfriend pregnant. Again, completely legal in my state. At the time, everyone thought it was a bit weird and irresponsible, but not criminal.

I mentioned the situation to a friend when the subject of AoC came up and, hoo boy, the way she reacted, you'd think the dude was some creepy, scheming pedo.

I'm not sure how to view it. My college buddy was legitimately pretty immature for his age. The whole situation seemed a bit... calculated on the girl's part. Also, weirdly, if the whole relationship was roughly an hour's drive North, he would have gone to jail/had to register. Something being legal doesn't necessarily make it right, but strict legal parameters don't allow for nuance.

Ok. 16 is also legal in my country and I don't support it. But do you apply the same logic to people who are 21 or more?

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_Rinku_
05/19/20 8:55:57 PM
#69:


epik_fail1 posted...
Ok. 16 is also legal in my country and I don't support it. But do you apply the same logic to people who are 21 or more?
You never clarified what you misunderstood about my earlier post, but I think I see it now.

I do not give a single shit what someone who is an adult does with other consenting adults. 21 year olds are free to date 26 year olds. I would personally find it a bit weird if the 21 year old were still in college and the 26 year old had a "professional" job, but it's certainly not illegal or morally suspect. I do find older dudes who ONLY go after younger women suspicious.

I gave an example that someone I knew, who makes similar rants and outcries to the original tweet, was a hypocrite because they began dating someone who was 23 when they themselves were 16.
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epik_fail1
05/19/20 9:01:27 PM
#70:


_Rinku_ posted...
You never clarified what you misunderstood about my earlier post, but I think I see it now.

I do not give a single shit what someone who is an adult does with other consenting adults. 21 year olds are free to date 26 year olds. I would personally find it a bit weird if the 21 year old were still in college and the 26 year old had a "professional" job, but it's certainly not illegal or morally suspect. I do find older dudes who ONLY go after younger women suspicious.

I gave an example that someone I knew, who makes similar rants and outcries to the original tweet, was a hypocrite because they began dating someone who was 23 when they themselves were 16.

Oh ok I get it now.

As the professional job. This is the case in my relationship. Although I did not actively look for younger in my case. He is still attending university and we both mostly pay for our stuff though

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_Rinku_
05/19/20 9:19:28 PM
#71:


epik_fail1 posted...
Oh ok I get it now.

As the professional job. This is the case in my relationship. Although I did not actively look for younger in my case. He is still attending university and we both mostly pay for our stuff though
My issue with the 21 to 26 age gap would just be the differing life stages. A five year age gap isn't too bad at that point; the 21 year old will get a post-college job soon and basically be on the same level as the older person. Personally, I couldn't date someone who was still in college; I'd feel out of place with their friends and at parties they might want to go to.

It does get a bit weirder as the gaps get larger. I find the idea of dating anyone who would be old enough to be your parent to be off-putting (and vice versa for the older person to date someone young enough to be their child). I'm always suspicious of those relationships where an eighty year old suddenly gets a twenty year old spouse.
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KamenRiderBlade
05/19/20 9:24:05 PM
#72:


epik_fail1 posted...
I might start saying that from now. Why are they trying to micromanage other people's relationships, it's predatory as fuck and they believe they are some kind of saviors. That's the worst part

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epik_fail1
05/19/20 9:36:21 PM
#73:


_Rinku_ posted...
My issue with the 21 to 26 age gap would just be the differing life stages. A five year age gap isn't too bad at that point; the 21 year old will get a post-college job soon and basically be on the same level as the older person. Personally, I couldn't date someone who was still in college; I'd feel out of place with their friends and at parties they might want to go to.

It does get a bit weirder as the gaps get larger. I find the idea of dating anyone who would be old enough to be your parent to be off-putting (and vice versa for the older person to date someone young enough to be their child). I'm always suspicious of those relationships where an eighty year old suddenly gets a twenty year old spouse.

I got a 8 years difference and when we met. I hesitated because of that. I usually prefer closer to my age, but we just happened to get along and have tons in common. I would never be able to date someone 20 years old older than me though... it would be weird. But if a guy/girl my age want to do it. Who am I to judge or interfere in their relationship?

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Eevee-Trainer
05/19/20 9:55:00 PM
#74:


dolomedes posted...
i want attention on the internet here's a dumb take i just pulled out of my ass
Nailed it. No one rational genuinely thinks this. They're adults and they're consenting and no one is being hurt? None of my business nor anyone else's.

I think there *might* be something to say in terms of a life experience gap that makes a long-term relationship less likely to last at that age, but I'm sure a not insignificant number of people here have parents with even larger age gaps. And if they make it work, more power to them.

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KamenRiderBlade
05/19/20 9:55:07 PM
#75:


epik_fail1 posted...
I got a 8 years difference and when we met. I hesitated because of that. I usually prefer closer to my age, but we just happened to get along and have tons in common. I would never be able to date someone 20 years old older than me though... it would be weird. But if a guy/girl my age want to do it. Who am I to judge or interfere in their relationship?
Hypothetically, you meet the "Perfect Guy" that is 20 years older than you. Everything clicks, you're not in a relationship with your current BF for whatever reason.

I'm sure there is no reason why you two shouldn't hook up and become a couple?

Don't let "Age" or "###'s" distract you from love.

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KamenRiderBlade
05/19/20 9:56:21 PM
#76:


@FF_Redux

I'm sure you have meaningful insight on dating somebody older, with your BF being ~20 years older than you, please chime in.

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MutantJohn
05/19/20 11:21:02 PM
#77:


If you're 26 and not using a 21 year old for a hit and quit it kind of scenario, you done fucked up

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Perascamin
05/20/20 5:55:04 AM
#78:


MutantJohn posted...
If you're 26 and not using a 21 year old for a hit and quit it kind of scenario, you done fucked up
And theres the mindset I was talking about that you guys pretend doesnt happen

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epik_fail1
05/20/20 9:48:57 AM
#79:


Perascamin posted...
And theres the mindset I was talking about that you guys pretend doesnt happen

You are litterally the one who pretend it only happen with older/younger and that the younger one or same age cannot do that. Generalizing all relationships based on the shitty actions of a few is ridiculous.

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FF_Redux
05/20/20 6:13:51 PM
#80:


KamenRiderBlade posted...


I'm sure you have meaningful insight on dating somebody older, with your BF being ~20 years older than you, please chime in.

I dunno what to chime in with, and he is 28 years older than me. Works for us, we have several things in common, especially our values, we are there for each other, we always have things to discuss. And the differences are fun too, we can share different kind of knowledge with each other etc.

Worst part is that I'll lose him faster and I can't grow old with him.

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Demon1050
05/20/20 6:37:00 PM
#82:


moron. fyi in west virginia legal age is 16...how would he feel about that?

I'm 31 and enjoy the company of mature gals in the 35-45 range. Older but still young at heart = best sex. Immature wild crazy 20 year olds just don't mix with me. each their own tho
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epik_fail1
05/20/20 8:20:29 PM
#83:


FF_Redux posted...
I dunno what to chime in with, and he is 28 years older than me. Works for us, we have several things in common, especially our values, we are there for each other, we always have things to discuss. And the differences are fun too, we can share different kind of knowledge with each other etc.

Worst part is that I'll lose him faster and I can't grow old with him.

That is sweet and sad at the same time...

How old are you?

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epik_fail1
05/20/20 8:21:51 PM
#84:


Demon1050 posted...
moron. fyi in west virginia legal age is 16...how would he feel about that?

I'm 31 and enjoy the company of mature gals in the 35-45 range. Older but still young at heart = best sex. Immature wild crazy 20 year olds just don't mix with me. each their own tho

It's pretty fair to have your preferences. I think not getting involved into other people's relationships is another story though.

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Rika_Furude
05/20/20 8:25:21 PM
#85:


cjsdowg posted...
How in he hell does he have so many likes for that.
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FF_Redux
05/21/20 12:30:06 AM
#86:


epik_fail1 posted...
That is sweet and sad at the same time...

How old are you?

Im 34 he is 62

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SevenX
05/21/20 12:44:49 AM
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Even in your mid-teens like 16, you are already an adult, let alone 21. A 21 year old which is more than likely an adult.

Is this guy seriously thinks that dating someone who is 21 is a pedophile?
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JTilly
05/21/20 12:54:39 AM
#88:


What a scumbag

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KamenRiderBlade
05/21/20 1:01:55 AM
#89:


SevenX posted...
Even in your mid-teens like 16, you are already an adult, let alone 21. A 21 year old which is more than likely an adult.

Is this guy seriously thinks that dating someone who is 21 is a pedophile?
*facepalm*
Stupid people exists everywhere.

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SevenX
05/21/20 1:28:52 AM
#90:


KamenRiderBlade posted...
Stupid people exists everywhere.
Unfortunately, true. If it was an 8 year old child, that make him an actual pedophile. 21 is far too old to be a kid.

If a 21 year old is a child and dating one makes him a pedophile, then he'd be a person who never had sex/never had a relationship at 21 year old or even around that age.

Men, if you listen to this fool in twitter, you can forget about finding a wife because she had been with other men already. Smh.
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Geno4LoveGeno4L
05/21/20 2:19:41 PM
#91:


SevenX posted...
Unfortunately, true. If it was an 8 year old child, that make him an actual pedophile. 21 is far too old to be a kid.

If a 21 year old is a child and dating one makes him a pedophile, then he'd be a person who never had sex/never had a relationship at 21 year old or even around that age.

Men, if you listen to this fool in twitter, you can forget about finding a wife because she had been with other men already. Smh.

Why are you guys cyberbullying him for telling it like it is

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SevenX
05/21/20 4:14:45 PM
#92:


Geno4LoveGeno4L posted...
Why are you guys cyberbullying him for telling it like it is
Cyberbullying my behind.

If you take him seriously, then you're crazy. This guy believes that dating someone in early 20s while he himself is close to be in his late 20s will be jailbait and make him a pedophile.

Women had sex long before they even reach the age of consent depending on the state. I highly doubt most women in 2020 are even virgins in their mid/late 20s. Some already had been with other men before they even reach in their mid 20s and even more may have kids. At his current age, it's mostly a rap.

It's facts. Not to mention that more women are signing up on onlyfans during the corona time.

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MuayThai85
05/21/20 4:31:54 PM
#93:


Guess he thinks I should serve a life sentence for dating (and eventually marrying) and 18 year old when I was 29.

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SevenX
05/21/20 4:43:22 PM
#94:


MuayThai85 posted...
Guess he thinks I should serve a life sentence for dating (and eventually marrying) and 18 year old when I was 29.
In his views, he'd call FBI on you only for you to backtrack at him. Some states' age of consent are 18. Most of them are 16 which is still unbelievable to some people here.
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Geno4LoveGeno4L
05/21/20 4:46:21 PM
#95:


MuayThai85 posted...
Guess he thinks I should serve a life sentence for dating (and eventually marrying) and 18 year old when I was 29.

And you never thought it was unethical because....?

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epik_fail1
05/21/20 4:49:01 PM
#96:


SevenX posted...
In his views, he'd call FBI on you only for you to backtrack at him. Some states' age of consent are 18. Most of them are 16 which is still unbelievable to some people here.

Honestly I am more disturbed at how much people like his comment. How the hell did over 90000+ karens liked this?

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SevenX
05/21/20 5:31:25 PM
#97:


epik_fail1 posted...
Honestly I am more disturbed at how much people like his comment. How the hell did over 90000+ karens liked this?
Most of them are probably incels and simps.
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_Rinku_
05/21/20 5:42:50 PM
#98:


SevenX posted...
Most of them are probably incels and simps.
I doubt it, actually. From my experience in left-leaning spaces, there's a growing movement to heavily infantilize young adults and let them shirk responsibilities. I mentioned earlier that crazy person I knew (the 21 year old). I only know them because they "had a thing" with one of my friends (who was 29 at the time) and then tried to turn it around like my friend "took advantage of them" and that there was an "imbalance of power." You know, between two consenting adults who do not work together.

I also see this in fandom spaces where people absolute freak the fuck out over "adults" being involved and throw out the "I'm just a minor, you can't criticize anything I do" card at every turn. I've even seen it stretched to "I'm only 25, I don't know what I'm doing!"

Incels and simps want lower age of consent, generally speaking
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epik_fail1
05/21/20 6:14:24 PM
#99:


_Rinku_ posted...
I doubt it, actually. From my experience in left-leaning spaces, there's a growing movement to heavily infantilize young adults and let them shirk responsibilities. I mentioned earlier that crazy person I knew (the 21 year old). I only know them because they "had a thing" with one of my friends (who was 29 at the time) and then tried to turn it around like my friend "took advantage of them" and that there was an "imbalance of power." You know, between two consenting adults who do not work together.

I also see this in fandom spaces where people absolute freak the fuck out over "adults" being involved and throw out the "I'm just a minor, you can't criticize anything I do" card at every turn. I've even seen it stretched to "I'm only 25, I don't know what I'm doing!"

Incels and simps want lower age of consent, generally speaking

Yeah I have seen it as well. Those people are insanely predatory to try to interfere into other people's relationships. I hate how those pseudo superhero wannabe want to dictate who can date who and think they have the moral high ground. Of course we should have age of consent laws, but trying to dictate other people who they can date among consensual adults is creepy as fuck. I am leaning left though

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_Rinku_
05/21/20 6:25:36 PM
#100:


epik_fail1 posted...
Yeah I have seen it as well. Those people are insanely predatory to try to interfere into other people's relationships. I hate how those pseudo superhero wannabe want to dictate who can date who and think they have the moral high ground. Of course we should have age of consent laws, but trying to dictate other people who they can date among consensual adults is creepy as fuck. I am leaning left though
I lean left as well, but I think it's important to criticize the parts of the community I see as bad.

I blame a lot of this on a general lack of Internet street smarts. I started browsing websites when my age was a single digit number, registered on a message board when I was eleven (with my mom's permission, of course lol), and was interacting heavily with fandom spaces by the time I was thirteen. I always understood that I needed to keep myself safe and that it was up to me to curate my own Internet experience.

Now anyone with a phone can hop online and feign helplessness with regards to social norms they should have already picked up on in real life. I had to explain to a grown ass woman that she shouldn't use (part) of her real name for her *ahem* spicy adult content.
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epik_fail1
05/21/20 8:18:17 PM
#101:


_Rinku_ posted...
I lean left as well, but I think it's important to criticize the parts of the community I see as bad.

I blame a lot of this on a general lack of Internet street smarts. I started browsing websites when my age was a single digit number, registered on a message board when I was eleven (with my mom's permission, of course lol), and was interacting heavily with fandom spaces by the time I was thirteen. I always understood that I needed to keep myself safe and that it was up to me to curate my own Internet experience.

Now anyone with a phone can hop online and feign helplessness with regards to social norms they should have already picked up on in real life. I had to explain to a grown ass woman that she shouldn't use (part) of her real name for her *ahem* spicy adult content.

For the onlyfans part... I have a friend that is doing the same thing you mentioned. Honestly I never told her because I feel like I would overstep my bounds, but stl

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