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Doom_Art
05/14/20 10:10:54 AM
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Like someone whom you've only known as a friend

And then one day you're like "oh shit nice"

I've done it twice. One ended well and the other did not. Probably not doing it again though, just to be safe.

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ZTT888returning
05/14/20 10:12:06 AM
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Only cousins.
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Doom_Art
05/14/20 10:21:35 AM
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ZTT888returning posted...
Only cousins.
a man after my own heart

three of my cousins are pretty much female versions of me

and they're fucking hot

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Flockaveli
05/14/20 10:24:09 AM
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How do I pursue a sexual relationship with someone who is not a close friend?

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Doom_Art
05/14/20 10:30:50 AM
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Flockaveli posted...
How do I pursue a sexual relationship with someone who is not a close friend?
iunno

coworker, online, meet through other social shit

that's what i've done

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BuckVanHammer
05/14/20 10:33:42 AM
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nah, ive been the one pursued a few times. it was weird and i just ignored it and played dumb...

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treewojima
05/14/20 10:37:10 AM
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yeah, one worked out and the other failed awkwardly
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P4wn4g3
05/14/20 10:47:34 AM
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Regrettably yes

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FabIemaster
05/14/20 10:48:34 AM
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Yeah I was a little playa in high school. Was mostly fine until I made it clear I want looking for actual relationships. I told them beforehand but it's like they didn't believe me.

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philsov
05/14/20 10:50:18 AM
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Flockaveli posted...
How do I pursue a sexual relationship with someone who is not a close friend?


By giving them some compliments/flattery and expressing interest while being proactively social with them.

It's arguably easier hooking up with a tertiary friend than with a close one, since y'all's paradigm isn't established yet.
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P4wn4g3
05/14/20 10:53:54 AM
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philsov posted...
By giving them some compliments/flattery and expressing interest while being proactively social with them.

It's arguably easier than hooking up with a tertiary friend than a close one, since y'all's paradigm isn't established yet.
Yeah I have a platonic girl friend who is married and we definitely have mutual sexual interest in one another, but we just call each other hot and move on since husbando is a pretty chill dude and we care more about each other than the chance of fucking. In my 20s I was totally unable to manage a friendship like this though I will admit. Takes some maturity I guess.

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Cobra1010
05/14/20 10:54:12 AM
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I thought about fucking his sister when she was weirdly nice to me for a period of time. She was decent looking but the problem is, I could see my friend in her face. They are different sexes but they are them siblings where u can tell they are siblings right away because they kinda lookalike.

So i couldn't do it.

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kurdt032
05/14/20 10:59:51 AM
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How did it 'end well?'

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TheGoldenEel
05/14/20 11:00:05 AM
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yes, were getting married

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alimajor
05/14/20 11:00:12 AM
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I've done the opposite, I dated a girl for a little under two months, decided it wasn't going to work out and I'd say we're good friends now.
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Cheater87
05/14/20 11:00:32 AM
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Yes. Had fun for a while then lost contact.

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P4wn4g3
05/14/20 11:00:57 AM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Yeah I think thats my post lockdown plan. Might not go well but the more women I talk to on dating apps the more I realize my friend is a much bigger catch than any of them, so might as well shoot my shot at some point.
I mean, she better be the type of friend you can just walk away from at any point no fucks given.

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Doom_Art
05/14/20 11:02:02 AM
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kurdt032 posted...
How did it 'end well?'
We went at it like rabbits for a few months and then when we hit a crossroads.

I didn't really want an actual relationship and she did, so we parted ways amicably and remained friends afterwards.

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P4wn4g3
05/14/20 11:05:22 AM
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shockthemonkey posted...
sure thing bro
I speak from experience

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Doom_Art
05/14/20 11:06:02 AM
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shockthemonkey posted...
Yeah I think thats my post lockdown plan. Might not go well but the more women I talk to on dating apps the more I realize my friend is a much bigger catch than any of them, so might as well shoot my shot at some point.
yep this is why I rarely use dating apps nowadays

no one seems particularly interesting or "good" and it's extremely hard to make a connection to the point where i actually care about pursuing them

best of luck to ya with your friend though yo

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TheGoldenEel
05/14/20 11:08:37 AM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
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Oh wow. I didnt know you were engaged. Was this the girl you gave a second chance to almost 2 years ago
Yep thats the one. its actually been more than 2 years at this point

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P4wn4g3
05/14/20 11:15:38 AM
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shockthemonkey posted...
What was your experience?
Well long story short, we were close friends and expressed some mutual interest in each other, I turned out not to be into it but my friend wanted to go for it and pursue a relationship fairly aggressively so we just had to pull the plug on everything.

That's the kind of risk you run anyway. Obviously not my exact experience, but we'll I'd make expectations clear in advance to avoid as much heartache as possible.

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P4wn4g3
05/14/20 11:25:00 AM
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shockthemonkey posted...
How old were you? Because Im an adult who understands no.
22 or so.
Feelings happen, idk what to say. I agree with your point.

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P4wn4g3
05/14/20 11:32:37 AM
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shockthemonkey posted...
I asked because I think I would have handled it real poorly at 22, too. Wouldve been a real shitshow. But at 30, and with this person especially, I think its something I can handle maturely. Might get some temporary hurt feelings out of it but aint no point in living in fear of that.
Yeah absolutely. Good luck then, hope she feels the same.

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Colorahdo
05/14/20 11:34:05 AM
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I did in my 20s. She caught feelings and I wasn't interested and now she hates me

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TheGoldenEel
05/14/20 12:49:07 PM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Congratulations man!! I remember being extra curious as to how it would play out at the time as I was in a similar situation. When's the big day?
Currently scheduled for October but were expecting to have to move it


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