Current Events > I gave in and bought a course on how to be successful with womenz

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No one really has any good advice it seems. Even "be confident" isn't good advice. There are confident dudes that get good women and there are confident dudes who get rejected easily and maybe get a few easy girls.

I found one off FB that actually offered good advice that I think would work in the intro. Most don't. They usually hint at success then are like "buy my package to learn how!". Since I could actually go out and use something from the intro, I decided to use a giftcard that has been collecting dust and got into it.

Will let you guys know if it is actually good or not.

This isn't an advertisement so I won't tell you which one it is just yet.

But if you are intrigued I will tell you what advice in the intro they gave for free that sparked my interest and why.

how is it fun to only post these threads

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Here's all the advice that you'll ever need:

Look like this:


If you aren't able to, then just give up and buy a sex doll.

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Is this a new gimmick

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@No_U_L7

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just smile and say hi
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Step 1: Never tell anyone you bought a course on how to be successful with women.

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Turbam posted...

Here's all the advice that you'll ever need:

Look like this:


If you aren't able to, then just give up and buy a sex doll.

I saw a video of a parapalegic with a cute wife.
This is how I know alot of the advice men take and are given is total bs.
You don't have to look like a model, be rich or even traditionally successful.

Anteaterking posted...

Step 1: Never tell anyone you bought a course on how to be successful with women.

You guys don't count. I won't tell any1 irl.

just be yourself

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AlephZero posted...

just be yourself

Nope. You are yourself. Don't be someone else. But JUST be yourself doesn't work.

You could of hit me up for free bruh.

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should've asked me for advice, i have extensive knowledge about the world of pick up artists including which ones do/don't work and could even give you free advice that's better than paid advice from a hack

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WingsOfGood posted...

I saw a video of a parapalegic with a cute wife.
This is how I know alot of the advice men take and are given is total bs.
You don't have to look like a model, be rich or even traditionally successful.

It's almost as if women have different tastes...

Personally, men who look like that do nothing for me. I like 'em tall and skinny.


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Lost_All_Senses posted...

You could of hit me up for free bruh.

And what would your advice be?

So far I learned a few interesting things I never knew about what to wear, certain behaviors, etc.

@No_U_L7 posted...

should've asked me for advice, i have extensive knowledge about the world of pick up artists including which ones do/don't work and could even give you free advice that's better than paid advice from a hack

Hey I need some advice.
This guy says it is not a good idea to use the word date in modern day. Do you agree disagree? Other advice I had said it is sneaky to ask a girl out with the intention of a date but not frame it as such.
He says to say like lets go grab a bite and even if she askes are you asking for a date say we just grabbing a bite.

I kinda wonder cause this girl I thought was into me and I know would be ok going with me just about anywhere but when I used word date she said no. So I kinda wondering if that was a mistake. And she used weird modern terminology like "I and this guy are talking".

Wouldn't have bought a "course", those are aimed at securing buyers and try to satiate the customers with $1 psychology tips you couldve learned anywhere.

The best way to learn about dating and women or whatever is to get out there and learn for yourself. Make mistakes take risks be your own person about it.

WingsOfGood posted...

I kinda wonder cause this girl I thought was into me and I know would be ok going with me just about anywhere but when I used word date she said no. So I kinda wondering if that was a mistake. And she used weird modern terminology like "I and this guy are talking".

As for that you gotta make your intentions clear. Nobody likes a person who can't be upfront about their feelings. If you want to go on a date tell her that, don't try to mask it.

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its all about connections

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WingsOfGood posted...

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Hey I need some advice.
This guy says it is not a good idea to use the word date in modern day. Do you agree disagree? Other advice I had said it is sneaky to ask a girl out with the intention of a date but not frame it as such.
He says to say like lets go grab a bite and even if she askes are you asking for a date say we just grabbing a bite.

I kinda wonder cause this girl I thought was into me and I know would be ok going with me just about anywhere but when I used word date she said no. So I kinda wondering if that was a mistake. And she used weird modern terminology like "I and this guy are talking".

that course is correct. framing it as a "date" with strong connotations puts too much pressure on the girl, even if she does kinda like you. it's better to ease up on that and then on the actual date cook your chemistry

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OffTempo posted...

Wouldn't have bought a "course", those are aimed at securing buyers and try to satiate the customers with $1 psychology tips you couldve learned anywhere.

The best way to learn about dating and women or whatever is to get out there and learn for yourself. Make mistakes take risks be your own person about it.

As for that you gotta make your intentions clear. Nobody likes a person who can't be upfront about their feelings. If you want to go on a date tell her that, don't try to mask it.

This is usually wrong. Just 'hanging out' is less threatening. Dont put labels on anything.

I realized this years ago when i had this sexy girl topless and was giving her a backrub. Shit was going good and i asked her to be my girlfriend and night was over.

No_U_L7 posted...

should've asked me for advice, i have extensive knowledge about the world of pick up artists including which ones do/don't work and could even give you free advice that's better than paid advice from a hack

This man is a master pick up artist.

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No_U_L7 posted...

it's better to ease up on that and then on the actual date cook your chemistry

So when is the "actual date"?
Or you mean when she says yes you call it a date in your head?

Huh. Tbh I guess when she asked me to lunch was she secretly dating me?

Why would you do that? All the advise youd ever need is on CE.

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Also, when she says she is talking with a guy (the excuse she gave when I directly asked for a date using the word date)
what does that actually mean?

WingsOfGood posted...

So when is the "actual date"?
Or you mean when she says yes you call it a date in your head?

Huh. Tbh I guess when she asked me to lunch was she secretly dating me?

change your definition of a "date"...there's really no difference between a "date" and "hanging out 1 on 1". as long as on the date, you are being at least slightly intimate (in conversation and physically)

WingsOfGood posted...

Also, when she says she is talking with a guy (the excuse she gave when I directly asked for a date using the word date)
what does that actually mean?

it means exactly that, it can range from just talking to banging but not official with a guy...a guy she likes more than you at this exact moment. however since they are definitely not 100% official at the very least, that means you do have a chance to win her over...but that requires getting her out 1 on 1 first.

essentially all it means is you have "competition", but that is almost always the case with hot girls.

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The best advice you will ever get is find a girl more desperate than you are, and the lower her self esteem is the better.

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No U is right.

Consider it a date if you must tc, you have the girls time and attention. Who cares what you call it?

No_U_L7 posted...

but that requires getting her out 1 on 1 first.

Well I had 3 one on ones with her before asking for a date. Not since though, but part of that was due to covid. We have seen each other since and we are cool. Infact, she approached me the other day to say hi. I was kinda sorta ignoring her as prescribed when someone rejects your date offer by other vids/articles. Now I wonder about that.

Guess I should ask her to hang out again and be chill and see how she takes it. If she goes I might assume she and the other dudes never got anywhere. Most likely not due to covid and distance anyways.

What would you do @No_U_L7 ?
This girl has invited you to lunch before, she texts back ( sometimes takes a day to reply though but always replies), hasn't seen you in a month or so due to covid, except last time when she approached to say hi. ?
Also she once invited me to her apt for lunch, not in a formal lets do it tomorrow sorta way, but in a "one day maybe you should". That caught me off guard. Kinda why I pretty sure she at least did like me and why her turning down date sorta confused me.

WingsOfGood posted...

Well I had 3 one on ones with her before asking for a date. Not since though, but part of that was due to covid. We have seen each other since and we are cool. Infact, she approached me the other day to say hi. I was kinda sorta ignoring her as prescribed when someone rejecrs your date offer by other vids/articles. Now I wonder about that.

Guess I should ask her to hang out again and be chill and see how she takes it. If she goes I might assume she and the other dudes never got anywhere. Most likely not due to covid and distance anyways.

What would you do @No_U_L7 ?
This girl has invited you to lunch before, she texts back ( sometimes takes a day to reply though but always replies), hasn't seen you in a month or so due to covid, except last time when she approached to say hi. ?
Also she once invited me to her apt for lunch, not in a formal lets do it tomorrow sorta way, but in a "one day maybe you should". That caught me off guard. Kinda why I pretty sure she at least did like me and why her turning down date sorta confused me.

sounds like you're not escalating nearly fast enough then or setting a romantic tone for your relationship. her inviting you to her place isn't even necessarily a good thing...friends invite each other over all the time. it could be a good thing, but you didn't initiate it further, which if she really wanted to do was your job to initiate after she seeded the idea.

at this point if you want to get out during lockdown, you'll first have to seed the idea of how willing she is to break quarantine in general. this is the formula i've been using:

-gauge how up for adventure she is. i'll send a text similar to "if it weren't for lockdown, i'd be in cabo right now! screw it, i may go anyway :)"
-suggest a general activity that can only be done during quarantine. i've been telling girls the local bars are doing "cocktails to go", if she responds positively to that, pick up the cocktails...and then go to your home to hang while drinking them. another suggestion is going grocery shopping together and then cooking her dinner.
-make light of breaking quarantine. i make jokes about how we'll talk through walkie talkies, hold hands with gloves on, etc. but she better be really hot if you're gonna break quarantine for her.

full disclosure, with this method i've set up 4 dates with 4 different girls...but they've all flaked so far

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Well, she said that when I barely knew her so.. that is kinda why I was like "huh".
On the first lunch meet.

WingsOfGood posted...

Well, she said that when I barely knew her so.. that is kinda why I was like "huh".
On the first lunch meet.

I wasn't there. I have no idea...she could be overly friendly, she could have wanted you to initiate going to her place to bang right then and there. Id need video of the entire lunch to confirm, possibly an exact transcript would be enough. But since there's no way for me to know, I'm just basing my advice off what I do know

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Thank you for answering my questions. You are a good guy no_u.
And your advice aligns with the course I bought if anyone is still doubting you.

How many pua or dating masters does CE have?

How old is op

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JBaLLEN66 posted...

How old is op

Why you wanna know?

WingsOfGood posted...

Why you wanna know?

cause it matters

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JBaLLEN66 posted...

cause it matters

Are you asking me out?

WingsOfGood posted...

Are you asking me out?

no, how is this even implied lmao

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scofield making an alt to talk to himself about pua techniques is really something

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NinjaBreakfast posted...

scofield making an alt to talk to himself about pua techniques is really something

Who is scofield?

WingsOfGood posted...

Who is scofield?

He's saying he thinks you're my alt

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Heavy_D_Forever posted...

The best advice you will ever get is find a girl more desperate than you are, and the lower her self esteem is the better.

Prey on the weak? Nonsense

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More or less you just need to be willing to put yourself out there by going out to social places and be willing be take rejection.

The most important thing is to be yourself because then you'll attract someone who will fit with you. If you put on a front for dating, the relationship will inevitably fall apart as your true self comes out because thats not what the girl fell for. This applies if ur trying to be in a real relationship and not just hit and quit. Your goals are important in determining how you go about things.

But regardless, you shouldn't be a slob and you should try to work on your appearance...that includes the clothes and shoes you wear, your grooming, your body. No one wants a fat slob at the end of the day.

You spend too much time in the basement/internet if you think ugly dudes can't get decent looking girls. There are literally endless examples of ugly dudes with decent looking girls, and they aren't necessarily rich. These dudes are usually alot of fun to be around including a great sense of humor and outgoing personalities.

Billy__Beane posted...

The most important thing is to be yourself because then you'll attract someone who will fit with you. If you put on a front for dating, the relationship will inevitably fall apart as your true self comes out because thats not what the girl fell for. This applies if ur trying to be in a real relationship and not just hit and quit. Your goals are important in determining how you go about things.

But regardless, you shouldn't be a slob and you should try to work on your appearance...that includes the clothes and shoes you wear, your grooming, your body. No one wants a fat slob at the end of the day.

You spend too much time in the basement/internet if you think ugly dudes can't get decent looking girls. There are literally endless examples of ugly dudes with decent looking girls, and they aren't necessarily rich. These dudes are usually alot of fun to be around including a great sense of humor and outgoing personalities.

The vast majority of guys aren't fun, funny or have good personalities. good recent pick up styles all focus on developing this aspect

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No_U_L7 posted...

The vast majority of guys aren't fun, funny or have good personalities. good recent pick up styles all focus on developing this aspect

Are you fun, funny, and have a good personality?

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Pepys Monster posted...

Are you fun, funny, and have a good personality?

at the top for each

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Billy__Beane posted...

The most important thing is to be yourself because then you'll attract someone who will fit with you

Are you saying to lay back and womenz come to you?