Current Events > Do you prefer submissive or dominant partners?

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Not just in the bed room but overall? I personally like a mix, leaning more on a dominant partner. I'm not a particularly dominant person, more a follower than a leader but I do like having control, outside the bedroom especially. Bedroom wise I'm definitely more submissive and seek my partners pleasure first and foremost. So I guess I prefer dominant partners but are willing to relinquish control to me if I so desire it.

Wbu you guys?

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absolutely prefer dominant, like aggressive, controlling, demanding, mean. idk why exactly, but i just really like being hit, fingers or arms being bent backwards, being squeezed, choked etc. I'm not even talking sexually, blunt force trauma is like a drug to me, i want to straight up be bullied and beaten up

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Depends on my mood and the gender of my partners, which also depends on my mood.

A playful back in forth sounds better to me than being thrown around belittled. Again, it would depend on the scenario for me. I guess I'm pretty open to it all.

But I draw some pretty deep lines in the sand when it comes to emotional relationships and sexual relationships.

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I prefer to be equals. I really can't handle being controlled or talked down to after an abusive (physically, emotionally and sexual) relationship and most dominant acts in the bedroom freak me out now.

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Either or, I've women I've hung out with that wanted to obviously wrestle into sex and I would let them dominate. Sometimes they would starfish and that's fine too.

Equals outside the bedroom. I like being the dominant one sexually but I'm flexible.

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Hmmm. I like confident/assertive women, so def dominant out of the bedroom. Under the sheets I don't particularly care. I can switch between Dom/sub, I'd like a partner who can adjust to our moods. Also more sexual exploration

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