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Told you in detail how big her exes were in comparison to you? And they were bigger?

wouldn't really bother me. i know mine is shorter than average (5) but it's also thicker than average (5.5) Nothing I can do about it. Makes no sense to dwell on it. Besides I enjoy using the tongue more anyway.

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i'd feel annoyed and tell her to stop talking about him.

i read a story on reddit like this recently. the dude was upset that his current wife of 2 years constantly talks about how good looking and attractive her ex was. apparently he was abusive as shit so she left him, but still loved him.

anyway things got to a breaking point where she got drunk and started lamenting how beautiful his uh, feet were? something. dude asked for advice

and you know what they did? they talked about it and worked it out and she agreed to keep that to herself and to move forward with their marriage.

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TheBlueMonk_ posted...

i'd feel annoyed and tell her to stop talking about him.

i read a story on reddit like this recently. the dude was upset that his current wife of 2 years constantly talks about how good looking and attractive her ex was. apparently he was abusive as shit so she left him, but still loved him.

anyway things got to a breaking point where she got drunk and started lamenting how beautiful his uh, feet were? something. dude asked for advice

and you know what they did? they talked about it and worked it out and she agreed to keep that to herself and to move forward with their marriage.

That guy sounds like a fucking cuck

TheBlueMonk_ posted...

i'd feel annoyed and tell her to stop talking about him.

i read a story on reddit like this recently. the dude was upset that his current wife of 2 years constantly talks about how good looking and attractive her ex was. apparently he was abusive as shit so she left him, but still loved him.

anyway things got to a breaking point where she got drunk and started lamenting how beautiful his uh, feet were? something. dude asked for advice

and you know what they did? they talked about it and worked it out and she agreed to keep that to herself and to move forward with their marriage.

Well that's good. But I can't forget what I've heard.

DarthAragorn posted...

That guy sounds like a fucking cuck

you sound like a fucking asshole.

go fuck yourself.

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Basically I'm always going to feel inferior because of what I know.

But apparently one of them was only a half inch longer, so I've been trying to Jelq for the past week to see if I can't catch up.

my dick and me are bros, why would I ever feel ashamed of my bro?

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EnragedSlith posted...

my dick and me are bros, why would I ever feel ashamed of my bro?

Idk. Mine is above average both length and girth but apparently her last two were freaks sooo >_>

if her aim is to use the comparison to imply that I was inferior to him in any way, I'd rethink our relationship, tbh.


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The dude needs to man up and tell her he doesn't give a fuck and if she keeps mentioning it he will go out and find a real wife after dumping her stupid ass, and cancelling the wedding.

No man needs or should put up with that kind of shit, she clearly has zero respect for him and he needs to get rid of her for a much better woman who actually respects him.

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boxington posted...

if her aim is to use the comparison to imply that I was inferior to him in any way, I'd rethink our relationship, tbh.

She's actually on the opposite side; that they were too long and it hurt her. I just have major self-esteem issues.

Offworlder1 posted...

The husband needs to man up and tell her he doesn't give a fuck and if she keeps mentioning it he will go out and find a real wife after divorcing her stupid ass.

Yeah, not at all what's happening here.

Artisan1990 posted...

Yeah, not at all what's happening here.

I thought they were already married, I corrected my post already.

Dude seriously needs to ditch this bitch though.

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Artisan1990 posted...

She's actually on the opposite side; that they were too long and it hurt her. I just have major self-esteem issues.

if that's the case, just appreciate that she appreciates what you have

like, there are guys out there who are 6'3", have the physiques of Greek gods, hang magnum dong, etc., and no one's going to be doing themselves any favors by negatively comparing themselves to them.

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TheBlueMonk_ posted...

you sound like a fucking asshole.

go fuck yourself.

Man you took that one personal.

Offworlder1 posted...

I thought they were already married, I corrected my post already.

Dude seriously needs to ditch this bitch though.

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She's my fiancee... she's a blabber mouth with no tact and told me a ton of unsolicited details about how big all of her exes were, what their sex was like (says I'm the best by far despite being 3rd biggest out of 20+ she's been with). I still feel inadequate hearing about so much detail. Apparently she commented on how big the guy she cheated with on her ex husband was but said nothing about me when she saw me for the first time.

TheBlueMonk_ posted...

i'd feel annoyed and tell her to stop talking about him.

i read a story on reddit like this recently. the dude was upset that his current wife of 2 years constantly talks about how good looking and attractive her ex was. apparently he was abusive as shit so she left him, but still loved him.

anyway things got to a breaking point where she got drunk and started lamenting how beautiful his uh, feet were? something. dude asked for advice

and you know what they did? they talked about it and worked it out and she agreed to keep that to herself and to move forward with their marriage.

See this is an example where "forgive and forget" doesn't work.

Because while she might stop talking about him, she isn't going to stop thinking about him. You can't forgive someone when they have no remorse and will continue to hurt you.
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boxington posted...

if that's the case, just appreciate that she appreciates what you have

like, there are guys out there who are 6'3", have the physiques of Greek gods, hang magnum dong, etc., and no one's going to be doing themselves any favors by negatively comparing themselves to them.

But my problem is I intrinsically equate size with manliness and what a man should be. In my warped opinion the ideal man is tall, muscular, has a big dick, etc.

Ever been dumb enough to ask?

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MrResetti posted...

Ever been dumb enough to ask?

I didn't ask. She just volunteered the information out of nowhere.

Tc she cheated on her ex husband and is a size queen. Shes already mind fucked you, get out before its too late and she destroys your self esteem. No decent woman is gona gas up her exes dong.

What would she do if you started talking about how tight your ex was? Flip the tables, tell her it was pinky tight. Like parking a cadillac in a fuckin dog house.

Keith_Valentine posted...

Tc she cheated on her ex husband and is a size queen. Shes already mind fucked you, get out before its too late and she destroys your self esteem. No decent woman is gona gas up her exes dong.

What would she do if you started talking about how tight your ex was? Flip the tables, tell her it was pinky tight. Like parking a cadillac in a fuckin dog house.

She cheated, but isn't a size queen. Just has no tact.

Artisan1990 posted...

Apparently she commented on how big the guy she cheated with on her ex husband was but said nothing about me when she saw me for the first time.

uh, major red flag there lol.

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As far as the saying anything about my exes, she pretends like she is never bothered by it, but I can tell she is. I made a somewhat friend at college who was a girl and she was asking about her for a while even though we hardly talked.

solosnake posted...

uh, major red flag there lol.

Said he was bigger than she thought he would be but thought I was just normal. We're apparently like a half inch apart :/

Gladius_ posted...

Woah why so angry? He voiced an opinion and one I happen to agree with. Just brought it up to my wife and she said "That girl can't respect him much to do that to him and him willingly accepting it probably made her respect him less. He would have been better off leaving him before her resentment festers leading to cheating. She is already emotionally cheating on him and eventually it will be physical." I agree with her in his shoes I'd walk and not look back. Aragorn's answer was crude but.. yeah. TC my wife agrees with other posters here. Get out while you can.

You really think once a cheater always a cheater? I'd love to believe that's not true, but idk.

Gladius_ posted...

Yeah we're both firm believers of that but even aside let's assume that wasn't the case. Would someone who has truly changed their ways really nonchalantly tell you what sex with their exes were like with no regards for your feelings?

She explained that she was just trying to be honest and that she doesn't have tact and wanted to talk to me like one of her gay friends or girlfriends, but still. One of my exes was tighter but I would never think of bringing that up....

Gladius_ posted...

This is the biggest red flag you have posted. Sounds like you are being pushed into the friend zone.

lol. No, not at all. Like I said, she's just a blabbermouth with no tact. I don't think she meant ill will, she just didn't realize that saying all those details would have the effect it did.

Although, I have to say, if it weren't for her comments I would have not much problem at all if any about my size.

If she kept it up, yes.

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I'd tell her to shut the fuck up.

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You need to stop making excuses for her, she clearly does not respect you and if she cheated on someone in the past not only is that a red flag but trying to claim she wants to "talk to me like one of her gay friends or girlfriends" is another huge red flag. The women who do that do not see the dude(you) as a lover or even as someone to date much less marry.

Women do not talk to their partner the same way they would a gay friend or one of her girls.

The fact it bothers you is your natural instincts telling you "something is not right here", and no woman I have ever dated or slept with said anything about their ex's cock size because most men would "fuck and run".

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No
I go into detail about how much bigger my ex's vags are to hers. It would be pretty hypocritical to get mad.

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