Current Events > I don't get it, it's SO easy to get laid, how are there virgins my age?

(+) Yeah! (+)

There are so many girls on Tinder/OKC that are DTF, decent looking ones too. And you dont even have to be an absolute Chad to hook up. Im a pretty regular looking dude.

Is your personality that bad?
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How old are you?

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31
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Lmao I think the question is, why are you still looking for random girls to fuck at 31. A lot of guys my age (28~30) are just trying to find a stable relationship

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legendarylemur posted...

Lmao I think the question is, why are you still looking for random girls to fuck at 31. A lot of guys my age (28~30) are just trying to find a stable relationship

Im married now, but I dated around from 26-29 after getting out of a 5 year relationship.
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Not a virgin, but the women I've met up with have been more than batshit crazy. I've heard one chick say she was going to kill everyone at her work, to another threatening to kill me if I ever left her, to another nearly dying in my living room.

So yeah, not a virgin, but at 34, I'm in no rush to get back into another relationship. Taking time for myself, getting my education first.

I was a virgin til later in life and for me the older I got the more anxiety I had about being accepted and stuff. Like I didn't want to have an embarrassingly awful sexual encounter with a girl I was really interested in

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haloiscoolisbak posted...

I was a virgin til later in life and for me the older I got the more anxiety I had about being accepted and stuff. Like I didn't want to have an embarrassingly awful sexual encounter with a girl I was really interested in

See this is exactly why dating around is so important. You meet these girls, theyre completely separate from your real life and no matter how good or bad it goes you never see them again anyway.

One time I couldnt get a boner because I was exhausted from getting 3 hours of sleep the night before, one time I busted a nut prematurely because I didnt pace myself, and no one besides me and her ever knew and after the night was over I never saw them again and just moved on to the next one. Though sometimes they reached out for a 2nd date because we hit it off as people and the sex was way better the next time.

Dating around is how you hone your relationship craft sexually AND socially.

You cant be afraid of it going bad, if it goes bad you have a funny story to tell your bros.
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Well yeah I'm not worried anymore but that was my mindset at the time and unless you've been in that position(virgin in your 20s) it's hard to understand. Sex seemed so alien to me for so many years

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yeah man I know how you feel. Today I was walking down the street and BAM. My penis slipped into a vagina.

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