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WingsOfGood 02/24/20 2:03:36 PM #1:	Does telling a girl you like her ruin your friendship? Yes, we can never be friends again. No, whether she says yes or no, we can remain friends. Sorta, we can still be friends, but not in the same way. Does telling a girl you like her ruin your friendship? - Results (30 votes) Yes, we can never be friends again. 26.67% (8 votes) 8 No, whether she says yes or no, we can remain friends. 26.67% (8 votes) 8 Sorta, we can still be friends, but not in the same way. 46.67% (14 votes) 14 What is your honest opinion and or experience about the title and poll question that this thread is composed of? <cite>WingsOfGood posted [p:934814493] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote> Does telling a girl you like her ruin your friendship? Yes, we can never be friends again. No, whether she says yes or no, we can remain friends. Sorta, we can still be friends, but not in the same way. Vote View Results Does telling a girl you like her ruin your friendship? - Results (30 votes) Yes, we can never be friends again. 26.67% (8 votes) 8 No, whether she says yes or no, we can remain friends. 26.67% (8 votes) 8 Sorta, we can still be friends, but not in the same way. 46.67% (14 votes) 14 Show Voting Form What is your honest opinion and or experience about the title and poll question that this thread is composed of? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 02/24/20 2:12:24 PM #2:	On my end? I've openly liked girls I was just friends with. It's easy if you don't get in your feelings about them not wanting to date you. Just don't obsess over them and keep seeking elsewhere. You don't have to wait at their door. You can just come back and knock on it again here and their. It's also been the opposite --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:934814856] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>On my end? I've openly liked girls I was just friends with. It's easy if you don't get in your feelings about them not wanting to date you. Just don't obsess over them and keep seeking elsewhere. You don't have to wait at their door. You can just come back and knock on it again here and their. It's also been the opposite </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 02/24/20 2:14:44 PM #3:	It can ruin it, yes Namely if you were just friends with her in the first place because you interested in her, and upon the realization that she does not reciprocate, you then start to dial it back with her. This is either done naturally, so you can meet more girls, or less organically because you were never actually her friend in the first place and just using the friendship as a segue into a relationship. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:934814952] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>It can ruin it, yes Namely if you were just friends with her in the first place because you interested in her, and upon the realization that she does not reciprocate, you then start to dial it back with her. This is either done naturally, so you can meet more girls, or less organically because you were never actually her friend in the first place and just using the friendship as a segue into a relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lairen 02/24/20 2:17:09 PM #4:	If shes interested then it ruins the friendship and just starts a romantic relationship. If not shell be a lil defensive now knowing you have a motive. --- When it rains, it pours. <cite>Lairen posted [p:934815042] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>If shes interested then it ruins the friendship and just starts a romantic relationship. If not shell be a lil defensive now knowing you have a motive. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 02/24/20 2:20:33 PM #5:	Only happened once, but yeah, ruined things both ways. The pain of hanging out with someone you love, who doesn't reciprocate, was too much for me, so I cut it off. But then it turned out she did like me and eugh, high school drama. We banged and she stabbed me and then we broke up. --- formerly evening formerly guide https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:934815179] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>Only happened once, but yeah, ruined things both ways. The pain of hanging out with someone you love, who doesn't reciprocate, was too much for me, so I cut it off. But then it turned out she did like me and eugh, high school drama. We banged and she stabbed me and then we broke up. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lairen 02/24/20 2:23:13 PM #6:	Guide posted... she stabbed me Wot? --- When it rains, it pours. <cite>Lairen posted [p:934815291] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>Guide posted... </cite> <quote>she stabbed me</quote> Wot? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Artisan1990 02/24/20 2:25:50 PM #7:	It can definitely ruin it. Had a good female friend completely stop talking to me in HS after my asshole friend told her I liked her. <cite>Artisan1990 posted [p:934815380] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>It can definitely ruin it. Had a good female friend completely stop talking to me in HS after my asshole friend told her I liked her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 02/24/20 2:28:20 PM #8:	Artisan1990 posted... It can definitely ruin it. Had a good female friend completely stop talking to me in HS after my asshole friend told her I liked her. Because you were a shy boy with ulterior motives. Not because you liked her; but because you never told her. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:934815476] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>Artisan1990 posted...</cite> <quote>It can definitely ruin it. Had a good female friend completely stop talking to me in HS after my asshole friend told her I liked her.</quote> Because you were a shy boy with ulterior motives. Not because you liked her; but because you never told her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Artisan1990 02/24/20 2:30:39 PM #9:	philsov posted... Because you were a shy boy with ulterior motives. Not because you liked her; but because you never told her. Hmm. I mean, I was never really shy. Way too brash for that. I guess she just felt weird about it or something. She moved shortly after and came back after a few years and complete ghosted me when I said hello in the hallway. Doesn't matter and it was a long time ago, but eh. <cite>Artisan1990 posted [p:934815566] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>philsov posted... </cite> <quote>Because you were a shy boy with ulterior motives. Not because you liked her; but because you never told her.</quote> Hmm. I mean, I was never really shy. Way too brash for that. I guess she just felt weird about it or something. She moved shortly after and came back after a few years and complete ghosted me when I said hello in the hallway. Doesn't matter and it was a long time ago, but eh. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Irony 02/24/20 2:31:44 PM #10:	Lairen posted... Wot? You are a saucy boy --- I am Mogar, God of Irony and The Devourer of Topics. <cite>Irony posted [p:934815613] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>Lairen posted... </cite> <quote>Wot?</quote>You are a saucy boy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Infost 02/24/20 2:32:32 PM #11:	philsov posted... Because you were a shy boy with ulterior motives. Not because you liked her; but because you never told her. It's some moral obligation to do this now? --- Filler sig. <cite>Infost posted [p:934815649] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>philsov posted...</cite> <quote> Because you were a shy boy with ulterior motives. Not because you liked her; but because you never told her.</quote> It's some moral obligation to do this now?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 02/24/20 2:36:55 PM #12:	Lairen posted... Wot? With a letter opener. Don't dick crazy, etc. --- formerly evening formerly guide https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:934815831] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>Lairen posted... </cite> <quote>Wot?</quote> With a letter opener. Don't dick crazy, etc. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ElatedVenusaur 02/24/20 2:42:02 PM #13:	Two of my best friends are women I liked a lot. Both are married, one is straight, the other is gay. <cite>ElatedVenusaur posted [p:934816090] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>Two of my best friends are women I liked a lot. Both are married, one is straight, the other is gay. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Strider102 02/24/20 2:50:46 PM #15:	It can, yes. At the same time it can lead to those feelings being returned. The same can hold true for girls asking as well. --- Last Cloudia ID: 188850453 <cite>Strider102 posted [p:934816450] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote>It can, yes. At the same time it can lead to those feelings being returned. The same can hold true for girls asking as well. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 02/24/20 2:58:09 PM #16:	Infost posted... It's some moral obligation to do this now? No, but if she learns about it from a secondary source, it's a different scenario than being upfront (or even coy) yourself. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:934816745] in Does telli... [t:78428853]...</cite> <quote><cite>Infost posted...</cite> <quote>It's some moral obligation to do this now?</quote> No, but if she learns about it from a secondary source, it's a different scenario than being upfront (or even coy) yourself.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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