Current Events > Best way to ask out a pretty hot young amazing girl. Help a bro out.

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1. Ask her to lunch then at the end of lunch ask her on a date.

2. Ask her to lunch then during lunch ask her on a date.

3. Text her asking to go on a date.

4. Call her and ask her out.

5. See her in person somewhere (other than something like a planned lunch of coffee) and ask her out.

Topic remade because pedantics mocked my calling her a female.

RedWhiteBlue posted...

Girl or woman

A woman is a girl from a certain point of view. But let us (me) say middle twenties.

Ugh

Just repeat whatever you did that made her want to get lunch

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MedeaLysistrata posted...

Ugh

Just repeat whatever you did that made her want to get lunch

Then we just go to lunch again. That is not a date.

The best thing to do is to forget about it until the next moment arrives. Then take a chance . That way you'll be calm because you wouldn't have been stewing about it before the moment happens. I'm not trying to be a dick because I don't mind reading these topics and offering advice, but the best advice I can give is to not post this kind of stuff or talk about or think about the girl at all. Youve already decided you want a date with her. Great. So just forget about it until the moment comes. Focus on you and enjoying the things and opportunities that you can experience right now.

That way you'll be in a better state of mind when you ask her, and you'll have more things to talk about if she says yes. As a result, she will like that much more and might want to continue dating.

WingsOfGood posted...

Then we just go to lunch again. That is not a date.

Yeah... I see that someone said this already.


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6. See her in person somewhere (other than something like a planned lunch or coffee), take her phone, text me on her phone asking me to go on a date, then give her the phone back and call her on it and say "yo who dis? I got a text asking me out on a date... is u female?" (Using female as an adjective, not as a noun. It is rude and offensive to use female as a noun when talking about a girl or woman)
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Who post 8?
Some female?

Ask her if she wants to go to your place and look at your action figures.

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WingsOfGood posted...

Who post 8?

Your mom
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Ask her to lunch acouple times, then say something like, "hey, wanna do dinner together next time?"

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@Eat More Beef posted...

Ask her to lunch acouple times, then say something like, "hey, wanna do dinner together next time?"

Hmm. Thanks. Maybe this good advice. I just worry if I ask her to lunch and she be wanting a date it will annoy her. Should I buy her lunch if it not officially a date?

WingsOfGood posted...

Hmm. Thanks. Maybe this good advice. I just worry if I ask her to lunch and she be wanting a date it will annoy her. Should I buy her lunch if it not officially a date?

Insist to pay for her lunch and don't take no for an answer. Then eat it. When she gets mad that you ate her lunch, say "what? I paid for it. I had every right to eat it! If you wanted to eat it, you should have paid for it!" If she argues with you at all, grab her drink and your drink and pour both on your own head at the same time, then say "now look what you made me do!"
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Mr.Machete guy, why is this fun for you to give joke advomanice?

WingsOfGood posted...

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Hmm. Thanks. Maybe this good advice. I just worry if I ask her to lunch and she be wanting a date it will annoy her. Should I buy her lunch if it not officially a date?

Always offer. Lunches can be dates, why not?

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I would just text her and ask her to do an activity you like doing.

if she asks you if its a date just man up and say yes, if shes into shell say okay if not shell pass. You cant really mess it up just be chill and yourself and either itll happen or it wont

TheDarkCircle posted...

I would just text her and ask her to do an activity you like doing.

if she asks you if its a date just man up and say yes, if shes into shell say okay if not shell pass. You cant really mess it up just be chill and yourself and either itll happen or it wont

To be quite literally honest my friend, I would text her and ask her to a movie if there was a good one out right now. Sonic is the best they got and I do not know if that is a good movie for a first date or pseudo date. I am thinking no.

Thanks you for good advice, I will take it to heart.

Movies are terrible dates unless you already a couple.

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krazychao5 posted...

Movies are terrible dates unless you already a couple.

Yeah, you are right. Any suggestions?
Museum? Park? Amusement place with games to win fluffy imaginary critters?

WingsOfGood posted...

Yeah, you are right. Any suggestions?
Museum? Park? Amusement place with games to win fluffy imaginary critters?

Anything that's fun, really. Rock climbing, go karts, arcade bars, putt putt, etc.

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krazychao5 posted...

Anything that's fun, really. Rock climbing, go karts, arcade bars, putt putt, etc.

Yes this. I agree, and I guess should have clarified that i ascribe to the no movie on first date rule. You can't talk, she can't get to know your personality, vibe etc, so it leads to awkwardness and usually a failed date. Don't have to be a couple, but I wait till at least the 3rd date for a movie.

Anything else suggested or you like to do works. Amusement parks, museum exhibit, barcades, outdoorsy stuff, sporting events. Even concerts work cause even if its loud and you can't talk too much you still interact. Just think of something YOU'D have fun with and ask her to tag along.

Have 6 or 7 lunches in a row then tell her you dont really like her. She wont be able to resist

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Ask her out to lunch, if it goes well, ask if she wants to see you again at the end, and then say, 'let's go eat at (blank)'

anyways... pics.

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dj1200 posted...

anyways... pics.

no no no no no no

WingsOfGood posted...

no no no no no no

Why not? I'm not asking per se

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Ask for dinner if she agrees the during dinner ask to go to the zoo. I always pick the zoo.

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