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haloiscoolisbak 12/26/19 3:48:21 AM #1:	Made plans for 5pm today At 3 I asked if we were still on for 5 and she said maybe bit later(tonight) as she's busy. I said all good let me know when and I haven't got a message back yet and it's nearly 8. I assumed a bit later meant 6 or 7 She told me last night she was really excited to see me(this is our third date) so normally I'd just accept I'd be going to bed uncertain but in this circumstance I'm really considering sending another text to clarify. It doesn't seem that creepy does it? Should I send another message or should I play it cool. Dating is hard --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:932068108] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>Made plans for 5pm today At 3 I asked if we were still on for 5 and she said maybe bit later(tonight) as she's busy. I said all good let me know when and I haven't got a message back yet and it's nearly 8. I assumed a bit later meant 6 or 7 She told me last night she was really excited to see me(this is our third date) so normally I'd just accept I'd be going to bed uncertain but in this circumstance I'm really considering sending another text to clarify. It doesn't seem that creepy does it? Should I send another message or should I play it cool. Dating is hard </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 12/26/19 3:49:39 AM #2:	First date? I don't really get first date protocol. I'd just show up, but that might be creepy. --- formerly evening formerly guide https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:932068133] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>First date? I don't really get first date protocol. I'd just show up, but that might be creepy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 12/26/19 3:50:32 AM #3:	Guide posted... First date? I don't really get first date protocol. I'd just show up, but that might be creepy. Third date and I can't show up without some kind of agreed time --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:932068144] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>Guide posted... </cite> <quote>First date? I don't really get first date protocol. I'd just show up, but that might be creepy.</quote> Third date and I can't show up without some kind of agreed time </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 12/26/19 3:52:30 AM #4:	If you have to consider if it's creepy or not, it's a big sign to not do it. Don't be pushy, don't be eager, don't seem desperate. Play it cool, always. If you ever blindly follow any advice in your life, take this advice. Please. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign, Twenty million starving and writhing in pain. Vicious_Dios Original - https://i.imgtc.ws/Zl0aw6F.png <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:932068170] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>If you have to consider if it's creepy or not, it's a big sign to not do it. Don't be pushy, don't be eager, don't seem desperate. Play it cool, always. If you ever blindly follow any advice in your life, take this advice. Please. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 12/26/19 3:55:02 AM #5:	MabusIncarnate posted... If you have to consider if it's creepy or not, it's a big sign to not do it. Don't be pushy, don't be eager, don't seem desperate. Play it cool, always. If you ever blindly follow any advice in your life, take this advice. Please. It's only because I thought it was always creepy without exception to send more messages if your first one hasnt got a reply When you're essentially being stood up I thought maybe it's okay so I'm not sitting on my hands all night --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:932068204] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>MabusIncarnate posted... </cite> <quote>If you have to consider if it's creepy or not, it's a big sign to not do it. Don't be pushy, don't be eager, don't seem desperate. Play it cool, always. If you ever blindly follow any advice in your life, take this advice. Please.</quote> It's only because I thought it was always creepy without exception to send more messages if your first one hasnt got a reply When you're essentially being stood up I thought maybe it's okay so I'm not sitting on my hands all night </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 12/26/19 3:57:18 AM #6:	If the first message is sent, it's there for her to see. A 2nd message won't change that. Persistence is annoying to a lot of people. If she wants to reply, she will. If not, she won't. Another "Hey, in case you didn't see my first message..." message is not the route to go. Don't get hung up, and don't get too much into your own head. Let it rest and see what happens. Also, it's literally Christmas. A lot of people have a LOT going on right now. Consider that also. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign, Twenty million starving and writhing in pain. Vicious_Dios Original - https://i.imgtc.ws/Zl0aw6F.png <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:932068240] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>If the first message is sent, it's there for her to see. A 2nd message won't change that. Persistence is annoying to a lot of people. If she wants to reply, she will. If not, she won't. Another "Hey, in case you didn't see my first message..." message is not the route to go. Don't get hung up, and don't get too much into your own head. Let it rest and see what happens. Also, it's literally Christmas. A lot of people have a LOT going on right now. Consider that also. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 12/26/19 3:58:46 AM #7:	MabusIncarnate posted... If the first message is sent, it's there for her to see. A 2nd message won't change that. Persistence is annoying to a lot of people. If she wants to reply, she will. If not, she won't. Another "Hey, in case you didn't see my first message..." message is not the route to go. Don't get hung up, and don't get too much into your own head. Let it rest and see what happens. Yeah fair enough. --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:932068265] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>MabusIncarnate posted... </cite> <quote>If the first message is sent, it's there for her to see. A 2nd message won't change that. Persistence is annoying to a lot of people. If she wants to reply, she will. If not, she won't. Another "Hey, in case you didn't see my first message..." message is not the route to go. Don't get hung up, and don't get too much into your own head. Let it rest and see what happens.</quote> Yeah fair enough. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 12/26/19 4:00:55 AM #8:	But for the record it's 8pm on the 26th not Christmas where I live --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:932068288] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>But for the record it's 8pm on the 26th not Christmas where I live </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 12/26/19 4:03:23 AM #9:	Well yeah, but still it's the day after. You know how I feel right now? Drained and exhausted, because the holidays are a lot of work. Some people are busy through New Years, family is in town, a lot is happening. Sometimes the day after Christmas people just wanna chill out and lay around. It's an odd time to be juggling a new potential relationship. Just be patient. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign, Twenty million starving and writhing in pain. Vicious_Dios Original - https://i.imgtc.ws/Zl0aw6F.png <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:932068323] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>Well yeah, but still it's the day after. You know how I feel right now? Drained and exhausted, because the holidays are a lot of work. Some people are busy through New Years, family is in town, a lot is happening. Sometimes the day after Christmas people just wanna chill out and lay around. It's an odd time to be juggling a new potential relationship. Just be patient. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 12/26/19 4:08:26 AM #10:	Yeah okay. Just frustrated as I put aside other plans tonight with friends to see her. But yeah I won't message her --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:932068394] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>Yeah okay. Just frustrated as I put aside other plans tonight with friends to see her. But yeah I won't message her </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NonDairyMiltank 12/26/19 4:11:04 AM #11:	haloiscoolisbak posted... Need some urgent dating advice and you came here...why? --- Moo. #Listen&Investigate <cite>NonDairyMiltank posted [p:932068430] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>haloiscoolisbak posted... </cite> <quote>Need some urgent dating advice</quote>and you came here...why? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 12/26/19 4:12:25 AM #12:	NonDairyMiltank posted... and you came here...why? Sometimes it's good to get a strangers objective opinion --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:932068451] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>NonDairyMiltank posted... </cite> <quote>and you came here...why?</quote> Sometimes it's good to get a strangers objective opinion </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 12/26/19 4:14:35 AM #13:	If this matters to you, and I mean this, your friends will be there regardless. They will get it if you are trying to get with a girl and you need to set them aside here and there. If your friends are good friends, it won't hurt your relationship with them at all. They will let you do your thing and understand. You don't have to listen to me, i'm 38, I dated for years and years before I got married, i've seen the ins and outs, i've seen what friends have gone through. Most importantly, I still have a couple of those friends that made the same mistakes over and over, and continue to do so, and not learn from those mistakes. They are still single. I'm solely speaking out of experience. Others may feel differently. The worst thing you can do is be overbearing, and that's my opinion on the matter. I hope this works out for you, and i'll check back in to see how it goes. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign, Twenty million starving and writhing in pain. Vicious_Dios Original - https://i.imgtc.ws/Zl0aw6F.png <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:932068480] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>If this matters to you, and I mean this, your friends will be there regardless. They will get it if you are trying to get with a girl and you need to set them aside here and there. If your friends are good friends, it won't hurt your relationship with them at all. They will let you do your thing and understand. You don't have to listen to me, i'm 38, I dated for years and years before I got married, i've seen the ins and outs, i've seen what friends have gone through. Most importantly, I still have a couple of those friends that made the same mistakes over and over, and continue to do so, and not learn from those mistakes. They are still single. I'm solely speaking out of experience. Others may feel differently. The worst thing you can do is be overbearing, and that's my opinion on the matter. I hope this works out for you, and i'll check back in to see how it goes. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NonDairyMiltank 12/26/19 4:17:59 AM #14:	haloiscoolisbak posted... Sometimes it's good to get a strangers objective opinion yeah but this is like going to a Chuck E. Cheese restaurant to ask the employees for reliable stock advice they wouldn't be working in a dead end shithole full of kids puke if they had that kind of knowledge... --- Moo. #Listen&Investigate <cite>NonDairyMiltank posted [p:932068521] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>haloiscoolisbak posted... </cite> <quote>Sometimes it's good to get a strangers objective opinion</quote>yeah but this is like going to a Chuck E. Cheese restaurant to ask the employees for reliable stock advice they wouldn't be working in a dead end shithole full of kids puke if they had that kind of knowledge... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Looked gf 12/26/19 4:20:12 AM #15:	Doesn't seem like she's interested --- https://gfycat.com/chillynearfiddlercrab.gif <cite>Looked gf posted [p:932068558] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>Doesn't seem like she's interested </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 12/26/19 4:21:21 AM #16:	NonDairyMiltank posted... yeah but this is like going to a Chuck E. Cheese restaurant to ask the employees for reliable stock advice they wouldn't be working in a dead end shithole full of kids puke if they had that kind of knowledge... Not all of CE is basement dwelling nobodies who have never dated another human being. Generalizations like this make people like us look bad. I play video games, I post on forums, I have a very good job, a college degree, and i'm married. Shocking, I know. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign, Twenty million starving and writhing in pain. Vicious_Dios Original - https://i.imgtc.ws/Zl0aw6F.png <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:932068578] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>NonDairyMiltank posted... </cite> <quote>yeah but this is like going to a Chuck E. Cheese restaurant to ask the employees for reliable stock advice they wouldn't be working in a dead end shithole full of kids puke if they had that kind of knowledge...</quote>Not all of CE is basement dwelling nobodies who have never dated another human being. Generalizations like this make people like us look bad. I play video games, I post on forums, I have a very good job, a college degree, and i'm married. Shocking, I know. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 12/26/19 4:22:58 AM #17:	No it's all good advice. I'm just a chronic overthinker. I despise text communication with dating --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:932068603] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>No it's all good advice. I'm just a chronic overthinker. I despise text communication with dating </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 12/26/19 4:23:35 AM #18:	Looked gf posted... Doesn't seem like she's interested She hit me out of the blue last night to tell me she was really excited to see me today. We'd made plans on monday but there'd been radio silence due to Christmas stuff --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:932068610] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>Looked gf posted... </cite> <quote>Doesn't seem like she's interested</quote> She hit me out of the blue last night to tell me she was really excited to see me today. We'd made plans on monday but there'd been radio silence due to Christmas stuff </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 12/26/19 4:26:03 AM #19:	haloiscoolisbak posted... She hit me out of the blue last night to tell me she was really excited to see me today. We'd made plans on monday but there'd been radio silence due to Christmas stuff That's exactly how I would take it. No one is going to contact you and tell you something like that if there is no interest. If she wasn't interested, it would begin with an excuse, and then another, and a reason why she can't see you another night. There's something there, this is an early feeling-out process. Just go with the flow. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign, Twenty million starving and writhing in pain. Vicious_Dios Original - https://i.imgtc.ws/Zl0aw6F.png <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:932068641] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>haloiscoolisbak posted... </cite> <quote>She hit me out of the blue last night to tell me she was really excited to see me today. We'd made plans on monday but there'd been radio silence due to Christmas stuff</quote>That's exactly how I would take it. No one is going to contact you and tell you something like that if there is no interest. If she wasn't interested, it would begin with an excuse, and then another, and a reason why she can't see you another night. There's something there, this is an early feeling-out process. Just go with the flow. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 12/26/19 4:29:16 AM #20:	MabusIncarnate posted... That's exactly how I would take it. No one is going to contact you and tell you something like that if there is no interest. If she wasn't interested, it would begin with an excuse, and then another, and a reason why she can't see you another night. There's something there, this is an early feeling-out process. Just go with the flow. Yeah or a ghosting. I guess I'll go with the flow yeah. She might send an apology text tomorrow I guess --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:932068680] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>MabusIncarnate posted... </cite> <quote>That's exactly how I would take it. No one is going to contact you and tell you something like that if there is no interest. If she wasn't interested, it would begin with an excuse, and then another, and a reason why she can't see you another night. There's something there, this is an early feeling-out process. Just go with the flow.</quote> Yeah or a ghosting. I guess I'll go with the flow yeah. She might send an apology text tomorrow I guess </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClockworkHare 12/26/19 4:31:02 AM #21:	haloiscoolisbak posted... Sometimes it's good to get a strangers objective opinion You won't get that here either rofl. --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. https://i.imgtc.com/k1IlqEz.jpg https://i.imgtc.com/p1ooHhw.png <cite>ClockworkHare posted [p:932068695] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>haloiscoolisbak posted... </cite> <quote>Sometimes it's good to get a strangers objective opinion</quote>You won't get that here either rofl. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 12/26/19 4:32:56 AM #22:	ClockworkHare posted... You won't get that here either rofl. Not from an awful poster like yourself --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign, Twenty million starving and writhing in pain. Vicious_Dios Original - https://i.imgtc.ws/Zl0aw6F.png <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:932068714] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>ClockworkHare posted... </cite> <quote>You won't get that here either rofl.</quote>Not from an awful poster like yourself </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 12/26/19 4:40:23 AM #23:	Not being overbearing seems like pretty universally good advice I needed to hear it from someone --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:932068800] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>Not being overbearing seems like pretty universally good advice I needed to hear it from someone </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sad_Face 12/26/19 6:27:36 AM #24:	NonDairyMiltank posted... yeah but this is like going to a Chuck E. Cheese restaurant to ask the employees for reliable stock advice they wouldn't be working in a dead end shithole full of kids puke if they had that kind of knowledge... I've gotten reliable investment advice from a bunch of racist weeb NEETs on the internet. You should try it some time. --- imgtc.com/i/4HgTl0ebzq.jpg imgtc.com/i/60CWP2Gtlg.gif <cite>Sad_Face posted [p:932070047] in Need some ... [t:78282960]...</cite> <quote>NonDairyMiltank posted... </cite> <quote>yeah but this is like going to a Chuck E. Cheese restaurant to ask the employees for reliable stock advice they wouldn't be working in a dead end shithole full of kids puke if they had that kind of knowledge...</quote>I've gotten reliable investment advice from a bunch of racist weeb NEETs on the internet. You should try it some time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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