Current Events > Honestly, being in a relationship is SO much better than sleeping around.

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I had my slut phase after I lost my virginity. And couple of times after. Yeah it was hot, exciting and stuff. But having sex with a person you connect with on a deep emotional level is so much better.

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Depends what you're after and what stage of your life you're at.

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IloveJesus posted...

Depends what you're after and what stage of your life you're at.

I know. I also know I may get into that phase again. But personally comparing them both, I'm happier like this. I don't regret my slut phase since I learned a lot about several things doing that.

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Im too lazy to be a slut. All that work just to get a nut. Plus I don't drink anymore, so all that awkwardness added to it? Im good. I need me a wifey material homie already. She doesn't even have to be hot. Just nice and considerate.

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Lost_All_Senses posted...

Im too lazy to be a slut. All that work just to get a nut. Plus I don't drink anymore, so all that awkwardness added to it? Im good. I need me a wifey material homie already. She doesn't even have to be hot. Just nice and considerate.

I slutted around sober, mostly because I needed to drive everywhere anyway. I guesss it's more work for straight men. For me, a gay guy that likes older man it's super easy xD.

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I agree, only a connection level. Don't necessarily have to be in a relationship for me.
And the fact that you don't really know how a stranger is going to act or perform.

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I agree TC. I had two FWB's this year and the sex was just eh. I have a gf now and we waited over a month to have sex, and now we have it all the time and it's great.

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Extreme_light posted...

I agree, only a connection level. Don't necessarily have to be in a relationship for me.
And the fact that you don't really know how a stranger is going to act or perform.

I mean I've had some intimite and somewhat emotional moments with strangers, but knowing it wasn't gonna be anything real anyway wasn't that fun.

Tho with my bf David, he was one of the men on my slut phase period, but we just clicked, and slowly but surely got closer.

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wow thats crazy

next you're going to tell me I should be waiting for marriage before i have sex

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FF_Redux posted...

I slutted around sober, mostly because I needed to drive everywhere anyway. I guesss it's more work for straight men. For me, a gay guy that likes older man it's super easy xD.

Maybe. I haven't tried in awhile. But yeah, you probably can do very well. That preference and you got the internet? Wooo boy. I make it harder on myself by having no ability to be vain and looking like a scrub that puts only a lil effort in. I literally throw on the same pants and hoody everytime I walk out the house these days lol.

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Supernatural posted...

wow thats crazy

next you're going to tell me I should be waiting for marriage before i have sex

Nah fuck that nonsense. If I'm gonna marry someone I need to know we are sexually compatible.

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