Current Events > Do you hold a grudge for life?

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Forgiveness can sometimes be tough to give, but I try to realize we all all have different experiences, and what people do is not always what they really are.

Too much the last option. It has gotten me into a lot of trouble and i've been taken advantage of.

But I've also made some amazing friends because of it.

I've also been taken advantage of, but some part of me wants to give the benefit of the doubt. It can be a slippery slope, but I want to believe in the best of people, even if a side of me wants to push everyone away.

i can hold grudges for a vvvveeerrrryyyyy long time

but i also understand that not only is no one perfect, but people change a lot over time
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I personally go through a lot of changes. Good and bad. I try to view others the same. I understand that a pattern of behavior can be difficult to dismiss, though. People can be complicated. I also said a lot of drunken, stupid shit.

I try not to hold a grudge forever.

But I'm also vengeful as fuck and find it difficult to let things go .
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