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The Top Crusader
11/20/19 12:58:38 PM
#51:


darklink1017 posted...
I found out she gained a tremendous amount of weight


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HBOSS
11/20/19 1:00:35 PM
#52:


its aight to express yourself but you gotta know your worth. that way you dont have to suffer any longer than you need.

yeah the letting go will come in time. just be able to give yourself another chance to love again. thats the main thing about this whole ordeal... being able to move on and start again.

otherwise youll suffer from keeping it and wont let go. nobody deserves to suffer like that and a big part about suffering is the mental and emotional scars left by those loved by us.

this is advice for later, few months. it dont have to be the next girl you see. the next girl you love. or even the next girl you meet years later. just be able to let go and accept whats done in the past stays there unless you hold on to it in the present.

so do yourself a favor. express what you need to say and feel in this short time then move on. good luck

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TheGoldenEel
11/20/19 1:00:59 PM
#53:


You didnt answer how long youve been together tc

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Crepes
11/20/19 1:01:10 PM
#54:


Was she any good in bed?
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Ilishe
11/20/19 1:02:55 PM
#55:


EvalAngell posted...
this had to be a long time coming. women don't just cheat spontaneously like men tend to do. they're more calculated in their approach.


Nah, women can cheat for cheap thrills too.

Sorry, TC. Life hits you hard at times. Don't lose hope.

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darklink1017
11/20/19 1:03:53 PM
#56:


HBOSS posted...
its aight to express yourself but you gotta know your worth. that way you dont have to suffer any longer than you need.

yeah the letting go will come in time. just be able to give yourself another chance to love again. thats the main thing about this whole ordeal... being able to move on and start again.

otherwise youll suffer from keeping it and wont let go. nobody deserves to suffer like that and a big part about suffering is the mental and emotional scars left by those loved by us.

this is advice for later, few months. it dont have to be the next girl you see. the next girl you love. or even the next girl you meet years later. just be able to let go and accept whats done in the past stays there unless you hold on to it in the present.

so do yourself a favor. express what you need to say and feel in this short time then move on. good luck


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FursonaNonGrata
11/20/19 1:04:31 PM
#57:


RuneScape girlfriends huh
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eston
11/20/19 1:04:31 PM
#58:


"After 7 years of working my way through the issues my last relationship left me with, I felt it was finally time to ask my parents to hook me up with some rando"
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Crepes
11/20/19 1:18:20 PM
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Is she Hindu by any chance?
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GoodOlJr
11/20/19 1:26:54 PM
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Crepes posted...
Is she Hindu by any chance?
Most american indians seem to be hindu

Brits muslim

Canadians sikh

From what I can tell

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Crepes
11/20/19 2:06:24 PM
#61:


GoodOlJr posted...
Crepes posted...
Is she Hindu by any chance?
Most american indians seem to be hindu

Brits muslim

Canadians sikh

From what I can tell


The UK has Hindus and Sikh as well.
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GoodOlJr
11/20/19 2:14:19 PM
#62:


Crepes posted...
The UK has Hindus and Sikh as well.


Yeah but in canada its gotta be over 90% sikh, I dont think englands like that, more pakistanis in the uk too

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LordFarquad1312
11/20/19 2:16:56 PM
#63:


Sucks that it happened to you, but it sounds like you dodged a bullet
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Jiggy101011
11/20/19 2:54:23 PM
#64:


Honestly long distance relationships dont work in the long run unless you actually plan on living together. Take the time to heal your heart but dont give up on women all together just because you had 2 bad experiences. When you go for girl #3 this time make sure it isnt long distance.

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TheGoldenEel
11/20/19 3:00:47 PM
#65:


TheGoldenEel posted...
How long were you together
?

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darklink1017
11/20/19 3:08:02 PM
#66:


6 months.

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Awesome
11/20/19 3:08:12 PM
#67:


i just say one thing here: you will most likely run into a woman soon thats perfect for you but in your anger and sadness you will reject or ignore her, dont do that.
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AwesomeToTheMAX
11/20/19 3:11:38 PM
#68:


darklink1017 posted...
6 months.


You said you were engaged for six months. So you got engaged with her the moment you started dating her?
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TheGoldenEel
11/20/19 3:19:19 PM
#69:


darklink1017 posted...
6 months.
tbh then I think youre making more of this than it really is.

calling someone your fianc implies a much deeper bond than I met this chick six months ago and its been long distance the whole time

its shitty, of course, but its not some big betrayal because the two of you never really earned each others loyalty given that it was an arrangement

my advice would be to try dating the normal way. If you hadnt been unnaturally engaged in the first place before you got a chance to truly know each other, she probably wouldve just broke it off a while ago instead of cheating

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SmidgeIsntBack
11/20/19 3:20:26 PM
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AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
darklink1017 posted...
6 months.


You said you were engaged for six months. So you got engaged with her the moment you started dating her?


Gotta drip feed the fake details to keep the topic going. That's fake relationship posting 101.
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codey
11/20/19 3:20:59 PM
#71:


darklink1017 posted...
6 months.


lmfao
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AwesomeToTheMAX
11/20/19 3:27:24 PM
#72:


SmidgeIsntBack posted...
AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
darklink1017 posted...
6 months.


You said you were engaged for six months. So you got engaged with her the moment you started dating her?


Gotta drip feed the fake details to keep the topic going. That's fake relationship posting 101.


Engaged the moment they started dating, only knew the chick for half a year and they didn't even meet in person

Lol. This is some Duncanwii type shit. Actually not even. At least he actually sees his girl
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Unite
11/20/19 3:29:19 PM
#73:


Was her older boss a 10inch chad?
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Crepes
11/20/19 3:57:47 PM
#75:


GoodOlJr posted...
Crepes posted...
The UK has Hindus and Sikh as well.


Yeah but in canada its gotta be over 90% sikh, I dont think englands like that, more pakistanis in the uk too

It would be easy for you to check.
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Crepes
11/20/19 3:58:43 PM
#76:


darklink1017 posted...
6 months.


Didn't you say you had been together for 7 years earlier? LMAO
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darklink1017
11/20/19 5:12:58 PM
#77:


AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
Engaged the moment they started dating, only knew the chick for half a year and they didn't even meet in person

Lol. This is some Duncanwii type shit. Actually not even. At least he actually sees his girl


This is not fake and you guys aren't familiar with arranged marriages in Islamic culture. Islam doesn't allow dating. You either get married or engsged or you don't.

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darklink1017
11/20/19 5:13:34 PM
#78:


Crepes posted...
Didn't you say you had been together for 7 years earlier? LMAO


No. I was single for 7 years up until I met my ex fiance. Not sure what's funny.

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Middle hope
11/20/19 5:14:15 PM
#79:


Good thing you werent married. Let this serve as a warning that you should never get married. It has a good chance of ending badly

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Deadpool_18
11/20/19 5:16:27 PM
#80:


Better you find out now than later.

I know that phrase is empty, but try to take some solace in it.
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Crepes
11/20/19 5:43:07 PM
#81:


How was she in bed?
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TheGoldenEel
11/20/19 5:55:47 PM
#82:


darklink1017 posted...
This is not fake and you guys aren't familiar with arranged marriages in Islamic culture. Islam doesn't allow dating. You either get married or engsged or you don't.
Well most of us live in America in the 21st century where this kind of thing is considered fucked up and backwards

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GoodOlJr
11/20/19 6:06:36 PM
#83:


TheGoldenEel posted...
Well most of us live in America in the 21st century where this kind of thing is considered fucked up and backwards


Small minded worldview

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The Wheelman1
11/20/19 6:35:24 PM
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How old is she and her boss? Just curious.
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Crepes
11/20/19 8:39:03 PM
#85:


darklink1017 posted...
AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
Engaged the moment they started dating, only knew the chick for half a year and they didn't even meet in person

Lol. This is some Duncanwii type shit. Actually not even. At least he actually sees his girl


This is not fake and you guys aren't familiar with arranged marriages in Islamic culture. Islam doesn't allow dating. You either get married or engsged or you don't.


Mate. I've got plenty of islamic friends. You're talking rubbish. Loads of them have had girlfriends etc in the time I've met them. Are you Sunni or Shia?
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ThyCorndog
11/20/19 8:40:28 PM
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he said he's south asian. so he's muslim indian or pakistani or bangladeshi most likely. either way they're more strict about that stuff. the region in general is strict with that even besides religion

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AwesomeToTheMAX
11/20/19 9:43:29 PM
#87:


darklink1017 posted...
AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
Engaged the moment they started dating, only knew the chick for half a year and they didn't even meet in person

Lol. This is some Duncanwii type shit. Actually not even. At least he actually sees his girl


This is not fake and you guys aren't familiar with arranged marriages in Islamic culture. Islam doesn't allow dating. You either get married or engsged or you don't.


You should've said that from the getgo
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Ilishe
11/21/19 4:59:04 AM
#88:


darklink1017 posted...
This is not fake and you guys aren't familiar with arranged marriages in Islamic culture. Islam doesn't allow dating. You either get married or engsged or you don't.


That's radical Islam.

Normal, everyday Islam is the same as every other culture.

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MICHALECOLE
11/21/19 5:03:53 AM
#89:


She left you for a big swinging dong
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sLaCkEr408___RJ
11/21/19 5:15:40 AM
#90:


darklink1017 posted...
I actually might go that route and date outside my race now. Because this is just ridiculous.

Or just go be single for the rest of my life with some dogs by my side.
What race would that be
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Eevee-Trainer
11/21/19 5:33:19 AM
#91:


God. Man, I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this, this sounds incredibly rough.

Glad to hear it's starting to blow up in her face though. People who cheat are fucking garbage. >.>

I hope you manage to find someone who is more worth your time, TC.

darklink1017 posted...
I'm about to say fuck it and just get a dog and enjoy my money. I'm an engineer and make a good salary. Is this route of life even worth it? People are so fickle.

If by "fuck it" and "this route of life" you mean just giving up on dating forever, I wouldn't say you should give up completely on love. Definitely give yourself a good amount of time for self-care to bounce back at least, but beyond that just ... don't think about it. Let what happens happen in that respect, whether you find someone or not.

Focus on making yourself happy.

A dog probably won't hurt regardless of which path you take though. Companionship is always nice (though I'm more of a cat person myself).
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toyota
11/21/19 5:52:39 AM
#92:


Fiance? Long Distance?

lmao wtf
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darklink1017
11/21/19 8:36:03 PM
#93:


Eevee-Trainer posted...
God. Man, I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this, this sounds incredibly rough.

Glad to hear it's starting to blow up in her face though. People who cheat are fucking garbage. >.>

I hope you manage to find someone who is more worth your time, TC.

If by "fuck it" and "this route of life" you mean just giving up on dating forever, I wouldn't say you should give up completely on love. Definitely give yourself a good amount of time for self-care to bounce back at least, but beyond that just ... don't think about it. Let what happens happen in that respect, whether you find someone or not.

Focus on making yourself happy.

A dog probably won't hurt regardless of which path you take though. Companionship is always nice (though I'm more of a cat person myself).


Thanks man. I really appreciate your post. I'm just going to move on. I feel so much better already. For once, I don't feel like the bad guy in the relationship post breakup.

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SuperShake666
11/21/19 8:37:54 PM
#94:


What's it like being a cuckold?

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darklink1017
11/21/19 8:40:58 PM
#95:


SuperShake666 posted...
What's it like being a cuckold?


I wouldn't know; I left after I found out she cheated.

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Sad_Face
11/21/19 8:46:22 PM
#96:


darklink1017 posted...
This is not fake and you guys aren't familiar with arranged marriages in Islamic culture. Islam doesn't allow dating. You either get married or engsged or you don't.

This is very difficult to accomplish in US culture. The American beliefs on dating and Middle Eastern beliefs are like oil and water.

Crepes posted...
Mate. I've got plenty of islamic friends. You're talking rubbish. Loads of them have had girlfriends etc in the time I've met them. Are you Sunni or Shia?

The Muslim friends I know kept their relationships under wraps from their parents if they weren't arranged by the parents. My one friend said her brother was arranged with this one girl and they were in talks for marriage before at least 2 years before they got together. Her older sister also was also dating a guy in college before they got married when they went to graduate school. I assume in that case, it was either arranged or blessed by the parents, given how strict her father is.
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teepan95
11/22/19 2:24:44 AM
#97:


Bhai

Let it go

It's better you saw it now than after you guys had gotten married

All the best^^
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BobanMarjanovic
11/22/19 2:30:03 AM
#98:


TC, you are a strong guy and she is no good trash. You already know to move on and that's good. If you are going to the gym, that's good. If you aren't, you should just to help feel better. I'll be pulling for you but I know you don't need it. Go out and get em.

This should also be said; don't do long distance relationships.

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darklink1017
11/22/19 10:40:38 AM
#99:


Thank you for everyone. I'm just going to let it go and let karma handle the rest. I don't deserve this bullshit. And I hope that as men you guys don't have to go through this.

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