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darklink1017
11/20/19 11:53:08 AM
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Needless to say I'm pissed and hurt. I opened my heart up for someone after 7 years of being single for this bullshit. She's in complete denial mode and is gaslighting me. She blocked me and I told her that I'm done with the bitch. I told her I'd rather off myself rather than live the rest of my life with someone so conniving and manipulative.

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darklink1017
11/20/19 11:54:18 AM
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And no I will never ever want her back. I should say we are long distance and I found out she gained a tremendous amount of weight since having sex with them. She also has had two abortions in the past which I didn't know of until two days ago.

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PatrickMahomes
11/20/19 11:54:28 AM
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Your fiance "blocked" you? Do you not live together?

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ChrisTaka
11/20/19 11:54:40 AM
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7 years? Damn that's rough man
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CrimsonWaffle
11/20/19 11:54:57 AM
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Crono99 posted...
Don't fight her. Just ignore her and find someone who's worth your time.



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Heineken14
11/20/19 11:55:08 AM
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pres_madagascar
11/20/19 11:55:26 AM
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darklink1017 posted...
And no I will never ever want her back. I should say we are long distance and I found out she gained a tremendous amount of weight since having sex with them. She also has had two abortions in the past which I didn't know of until two days ago.
Oh lord dude.

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SquantoZ
11/20/19 11:55:28 AM
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The best revenge is to break up and better your life and finding someone better one day. Not letting this defeat will hurt her for so long. You will win.

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darklink1017
11/20/19 11:55:51 AM
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She is also insulting me and my entire family right now. So fake. Dodged a bullet. Her parents have cut her off and are pissed at her. She will no longer have access to the family estate. They are very rich overseas.

Her whole family loved me.

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EvalAngell
11/20/19 11:55:52 AM
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you probably got too comfortable and let another guy give her the attention she was missing or provides much greater value than you. usually how it goes.

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darklink1017
11/20/19 11:57:21 AM
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EvalAngell posted...
you probably got too comfortable and let another guy give her the attention she was missing. usually how it goes.


No. I tried and tried to care for her and made her a priority. I was gearing up for the wedding. Both our families were. Now it makes sense why she had been so distant for the last month or so. She had been feeling guilty.


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Crepes
11/20/19 11:57:27 AM
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7 year long distance relationship? Or is the long distance part new? How often did you guys meet up and fuck?
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ThyCorndog
11/20/19 11:58:27 AM
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darklink1017
11/20/19 11:58:32 AM
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PatrickMahomes posted...
Your fiance "blocked" you? Do you not live together?


No. She was finishing her undergrad in NYC. The plan was to marry in July of next year. I would see her every month.

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EvalAngell
11/20/19 11:59:10 AM
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this had to be a long time coming. women don't just cheat spontaneously like men tend to do. they're more calculated in their approach.

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darklink1017
11/20/19 11:59:55 AM
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Crepes posted...
7 year long distance relationship? Or is the long distance part new? How often did you guys meet up and fuck?


No. We were engaged for 6 months.

I said prior to her, I had been single for seven years working on myself because I had had my heart broken back then too from my precious ex, whom I had dated for three years.

I took seven years to repair myself and opened myself up for love and relationships with her. And my ex fiance turned out to be the most evil and manipulative person I ever met. She was living a double life.

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darklink1017
11/20/19 12:00:07 PM
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PlCCOLO posted...
Is this story fake lol


No.

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lww99
11/20/19 12:00:44 PM
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pres_madagascar posted...
darklink1017 posted...
And no I will never ever want her back. I should say we are long distance and I found out she gained a tremendous amount of weight since having sex with them. She also has had two abortions in the past which I didn't know of until two days ago.
Oh lord dude.


Like pregnancy weight?
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bknight
11/20/19 12:00:45 PM
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Well, at least you're not married to her or have kids with her, better to know now than further down the road, just think of it as dodging a bullet.
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darklink1017
11/20/19 12:01:45 PM
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EvalAngell posted...
this had to be a long time coming. women don't just cheat spontaneously like men tend to do. they're more calculated in their approach.


The man she was cheating on me essentially has a harem. His business is an adult day care. He hires beautiful women with student visas and promises them h1 visas during their tenure. He would give them money and incentives based on performance.

I guess it makes sense because he bought her a new 2000 dollar Macbook and I thought nothing of it last month. She must have been going the extra distance for him.

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GoodOlJr
11/20/19 12:02:32 PM
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Yeah dont do long distance


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DrizztLink
11/20/19 12:02:40 PM
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bknight posted...
Well, at least you're not married to her or have kids with her, better to know now than further down the road, just think of it as dodging a bullet.
Dude didn't dodge a bullet.

He caught a flight out of town an hour before the nukes fell.

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Trumpo
11/20/19 12:03:05 PM
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Time to Chad up
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darklink1017
11/20/19 12:03:16 PM
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This is what I get for being naive and for actually trusting her. If I had actually listened to my gut I could have saved myself from this pain long ago.

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Crepes
11/20/19 12:03:52 PM
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EvalAngell posted...
this had to be a long time coming. women don't just cheat spontaneously like men tend to do. they're more calculated in their approach.


Didn't get enough bite to your first post huh?
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GoodOlJr
11/20/19 12:05:25 PM
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darklink1017 posted...
This is what I get for being naive and for actually trusting her. If I had actually listened to my gut I could have saved myself from this pain long ago.


No no, dont develop trust issues all you can really do is trust the person your with, dont feel dumb about it

Just focus on yourself a while

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darklink1017
11/20/19 12:06:37 PM
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I'm about to say fuck it and just get a dog and enjoy my money. I'm an engineer and make a good salary. Is this route of life even worth it? People are so fickle.

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_BIueMonk
11/20/19 12:07:30 PM
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as they say on /r/relationship_advice

you dodged a bullet.

anyway sorry dude that really sucks.
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Parappa09
11/20/19 12:08:28 PM
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darklink1017 posted...
She will no longer have access to the family estate. They are very rich overseas.
darklink1017 posted...
Is this route of life even worth it? People are so fickle.
i know what's happened to you is a shit move but i'm getting vibes here that there's probably more to the story

btw, do you both live together?

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darklink1017
11/20/19 12:08:50 PM
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Thanks. I'll deal with it. I'm not taking her back even though she doesn't want me back. She said too much shit about my family. I don't deserve this pain. She can be someone else's problem.

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darklink1017
11/20/19 12:09:50 PM
#33:


Parappa09 posted...
btw, do you both live together?


No. We were arranged by our families to get married. We are south Asian and it's pretty normal.

She is in NYC finishing up her undergrad and I'm in the south.

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TheGoldenEel
11/20/19 12:10:35 PM
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How long were you together

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GoodOlJr
11/20/19 12:10:41 PM
#35:


darklink1017 posted...
No. We were arranged by our families to get married. We are south Asian and it's pretty normal.

She is in NYC finishing up her undergrad and I'm in the south.


Find a new jinani or a white chick who might treat you better

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spudger
11/20/19 12:11:11 PM
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sorry; i just have a hard time believing any of these stories
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codey
11/20/19 12:11:50 PM
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So when are y'all getting back together?
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darklink1017
11/20/19 12:12:05 PM
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I actually might go that route and date outside my race now. Because this is just ridiculous.

Or just go be single for the rest of my life with some dogs by my side.

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darklink1017
11/20/19 12:12:45 PM
#39:


spudger posted...
sorry; i just have a hard time believing any of these stories


Well it's true. Not sure what else to tell you. Some people have really shitty things happen to them. And it just so happened that this happened to me for God knows what reason.

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darklink1017
11/20/19 12:13:27 PM
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codey posted...
So when are y'all getting back together?
Never ever happening. Like I said I'd rather off myself than ever take her back.

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TheGoldenEel
11/20/19 12:13:47 PM
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Damn its 2019 and people in America still follow traditions like arranged marriages

we truly do live in a society

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darklink1017
11/20/19 12:15:23 PM
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TheGoldenEel posted...
Damn its 2019 and people in America still follow traditions like arranged marriages

we truly do live in a society


Well it's arranged in the sense that our parents introduced us and we said yes to each other we both liked each other and were attracted.

It wasn't a forced relationship.

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Malfunction
11/20/19 12:18:21 PM
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What's with dark links on CE and getting cucked
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darklink1017
11/20/19 12:27:27 PM
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Malfunction posted...
What's with dark links on CE and getting cucked


Wouldn't it be getting cucked if I stayed with her after? Because I didn't.

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EvalAngell
11/20/19 12:29:39 PM
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Crepes posted...
Didn't get enough bite to your first post huh?


just telling TC the truth. not my fault you can't handle it either.

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Veggeta X
11/20/19 12:33:31 PM
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On to the next one

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eston
11/20/19 12:44:11 PM
#47:


Spent 7 years working on yourself after the last ex and finally opened yourself up for love, yet it's an arranged marriage set up by your family.

Something does not add up
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Lorenzo_2003
11/20/19 12:52:09 PM
#48:


darklink1017 posted...
Like I said I'd rather off myself than ever take her back.


Why would you ever even consider offing yourself, even as a joke or hyperbole?

It's time to move on, so let go of these negative thoughts. Get out there and date. It'll make you forget about your ex sooner.
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cjs28
11/20/19 12:53:54 PM
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Yeah you dodged a bullet. I would not be with her anymore >_>
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Crepes
11/20/19 12:54:27 PM
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EvalAngell posted...
Crepes posted...
Didn't get enough bite to your first post huh?


just telling TC the truth. not my fault you can't handle it either.


You don't believe in anything bud. There's nothing to "handle".
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