Current Events > My ex accused me of sexually assaulting her. AMA

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I was really lucky in that she was super unreliable so literally nobody believed her (which is fair because I didn't do it). We got drunk and fooled around but I refused to sexy time because she was drunk and couldn't consent. Afterwards she felt slighted and told everyone I forced her to do the few things we did do. She'd claimed to have been full on raped by two people before so our entire social circle just kind of shrugged it off. I still felt super bad about it for a long time and am just now really getting over it three years later despite factually knowing I did nothing wrong. She stripped down and was making out with me before we ever started drinking.

The sad thing is she truly believed I'd assaulted her, like hardcore. She wasn't "lying" per se, she really believed it. We were working it out afterwards but I guess at some point I said something that upset her because she kinda blew up at me and I finally snapped. Blocked her on every avenue I could and haven't heard from her since. She got married a few months ago (yes, I occasionally e-stalk her) and I'm very happy for her. She had a lot of baggage and I sincerely hope she's found someone who can help her thru it.
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She sounds like a terrible person
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im not 13 posted...

She sounds like a terrible person

This is objectively true tbh. I was kinda the lynch pin of our social circle and if I hadn't insisted on including her in everything thing we did our mutual friends would have dropped her at least a year before all this happened. I just wanted to keep her happy :(
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