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Archibleedies 11/06/19 10:21:53 AM #1: |
I need an introspective. I'll talk about it in therapy tonight for sure. With women it's just that I won't give movies or games a chance if they're starring women. Don't know why, brain just goes "nah you wouldnt like that"
And with sex, well that's a whole can of worms. I hate that shit. Hate when people make any kind of reference to it. Hate being made aware of the depraved stuff people get down to. Hate how much sex motivates like, everyone. Yeah hopefully a productive session tonight. Gotta keep working on becoming normal --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Matchabuu_ 11/06/19 10:23:55 AM #2: |
Good.
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Duncanwii 11/06/19 10:23:57 AM #3: |
To be honest I'm kind of uncomfortable with some of the dirtier aspects of sex too. Kinda makes me glad my gf and I are both virgins so we can take it slow instead of going from 0 to 80 overnight.
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Wii_Shaker 11/06/19 10:25:50 AM #4: |
Listen, there is no such thing as "normal".
You don't need to like women. Respect them as people but if you are not inclined to liking movies, games or entertainment starring women, that doesn't make you a freak. Everyone has preferences. Also, just throwing this out there (not making assumptions), if you are not attracted to women, you should come to terms with that. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM ... Copied to Clipboard!
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King_Hutton 11/06/19 10:26:18 AM #5: |
_Matchabuu_ posted...
Good. The fuck? --- All hail King Hutton Official Carter Hutton fanboy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 10:27:02 AM #6: |
Wii_Shaker posted...
Listen, there is no such thing as "normal". no, like see i cant actually reason out why i dont want to give those movies/shows/whatever a chance. i cant even begin to articulate it. that's bad, i want to know why i feel that way and address it King_Hutton posted... _Matchabuu_ posted...Good. i assume she meant good that i'm gonna talk about it in therapy --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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King_Hutton 11/06/19 10:28:24 AM #8: |
Archibleedies posted...
i assume she meant good that i'm gonna talk about it in therapy Oh, yeah that would make sense. --- All hail King Hutton Official Carter Hutton fanboy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pile_of_bones 11/06/19 10:29:15 AM #9: |
Do you watch a lot of porn? That's generally unhealthy as well.
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King_Hutton 11/06/19 10:31:05 AM #11: |
Also I dont know you TC, but Im proud of you for knowing your issues and working on them with professionals. Keep up the good work.
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 10:32:23 AM #12: |
pile_of_bones posted...
Do you watch a lot of porn? That's generally unhealthy as well. i almost never watch porn. my sex drive is extremely low JustMyOpinion posted... Seems like there's a word to describe you and your warped view, but I'd probably get hit for flaming if I said it. like misogynist, prude, judgmental prick, etc etc One thing I'm really inconvenienced by is that if I'm with a group and people start talking about sex stuff, I gotta leave. I get super uncomfortable and in my own head like "why are they talking about this" and I just bail. Bailed on my best friend's bday at the time cuz everyone wanted to go to a strip club after the bar. I acted like I was going with everyone then I just went home and watched netflix instead. I'd like to just not care about this sort of thing. Like I said, it's an inconvenience when it's something everyone talks about and does --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 10:33:58 AM #13: |
King_Hutton posted...
Also I dont know you TC, but Im proud of you for knowing your issues and working on them with professionals. Keep up the good work. well it's something i always say i wanna address but never bring up with my therapist. now that my general day-to-day anxiety is abating i can remember the things i wanted to bring up with him. i know he's gonna relate all this to my tornado of a relationship a few years ago, maybe that's why i dont bring it up --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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King_Hutton 11/06/19 10:37:21 AM #14: |
Archibleedies posted...
King_Hutton posted...Also I dont know you TC, but Im proud of you for knowing your issues and working on them with professionals. Keep up the good work. Yeah sometimes thats the worst part about the biggest issues. It can take a lot of painful emotional work to get through. And thats awesome that youre already getting through anxiety issues, Im sure it aint perfect yet but its great when you can actually feel the progress. --- All hail King Hutton Official Carter Hutton fanboy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 10:43:51 AM #15: |
the anxiety was always gonna be easy to get rid of since i knew the exact source. 8 years ago i was constantly super anxious but learned how not to be in my first couple years with my doc. it came back in force from my new job, so i knew once i stepped down from this new job the anxiety would go away. im still working it but management has agreed to let me return to my old desk
damn what do i tell this guy. "hey bob so i think i hate strong women, sex, and anyone who talks about sex. how fix" --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys Monster 11/06/19 10:43:57 AM #16: |
Archibleedies posted...
Hate being made aware of the depraved stuff people get down to. Are you a virgin? --- GOML ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 10:44:51 AM #17: |
No
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King_Hutton 11/06/19 10:45:28 AM #18: |
Archibleedies posted...
the anxiety was always gonna be easy to get rid of since i knew the exact source. 8 years ago i was constantly super anxious but learned how not to be in my first couple years with my doc. it came back in force from my new job, so i knew once i stepped down from this new job the anxiety would go away. im still working it but management has agreed to let me return to my old desk Oh shit I didnt notice your sig, glad everythings getting better regarding the job too. --- All hail King Hutton Official Carter Hutton fanboy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 10:46:40 AM #19: |
thx bro
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Guide 11/06/19 10:47:14 AM #20: |
The fuck are people putting tc down for? He's being open about his problems, recognizes the negative effect they have on him, and is even open to seeking therapy.
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 10:48:18 AM #21: |
Guide posted...
The fuck are people putting tc down for? He's being open about his problems, recognizes the negative effect they have on him, and is even open to seeking therapy. it's fine. i'm a pretty hostile user these days so i dont expect many to extend any goodwill, plus the topic itself is about toxic thoughts i for sure have --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lairen 11/06/19 10:48:19 AM #22: |
I dunno, the weird thing about sex with me is the memory the other persons having about the same event.
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 10:53:10 AM #23: |
How high are you
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 10:56:52 AM #25: |
JustMyOpinion posted...
Careful. That post is in the same vein as what got you warned. I got warned for essentially calling a user mentally challenged. I don't see how the extremely common "how high are you" could be moddable --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 11:09:39 AM #26: |
JustMyOpinion posted...
Seems like there's a word to describe you and your warped view, but I'd probably get hit for flaming if I said it. im still curious as to what you were gonna say. pm? i wont mark it regardless of what it says. and i wont take it as an insult --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MutantJohn 11/06/19 11:10:15 AM #27: |
They're obviously alluding to "incel"
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Shablagoo 11/06/19 11:10:48 AM #28: |
Theyre obviously alluding to boomer
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 11:13:06 AM #29: |
MutantJohn posted...
They're obviously alluding to "incel" oh yeah that makes sense. it's pretty fitting aside from the literal meaning of incel. also i dont hate women or treat them differently irl but i just cant seem to give women in media a chance --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MutantJohn 11/06/19 11:22:18 AM #30: |
Why do you think you hate sex though?
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 11:25:06 AM #31: |
i do hate sex. these days i just think it's disgusting.
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refmon 11/06/19 11:33:58 AM #32: |
Are you a virgin or asexual?
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 11:34:26 AM #33: |
I'm neither afaik
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 12:04:27 PM #34: |
Bump
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 12:22:37 PM #35: |
Like that gangbang topic got me thinking. Why should I care about a partners previous sex life if he or she was safe about it? But in my head I'm like nah, want no part of it. Currently spending my lunch hour giggling variations of "why am I such a prude"
Also I know I'm missing out on great movies, games, shows Jessica Jones, new tomb raider games, horizon zero dawn Damn I'm so in my head today --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 12:26:04 PM #36: |
Man now memories flooding back, I did have a minor promiscuity phase and thinking about it just makes me feel shame. Like damn bro just be normal
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Wii_Shaker 11/06/19 12:30:26 PM #37: |
Archibleedies posted...
Like that gangbang topic got me thinking. Why should I care about a partners previous sex life if he or she was safe about it? But in my head I'm like nah, want no part of it. Currently spending my lunch hour giggling variations of "why am I such a prude" Do you have an diagnosed thyroid problem? I had a very serious relationship end recently because my gf had no libido due to her thyroid. It also sounds like you may have low testosterone but that really wouldn't affect your affinity for females in movies. It also sounds to me like you aren't being completely honest with your sexuality. Some people who are gay or bi but haven't come to terms with it reject female stimulation. Again, I don't want to assume but that's kind of the vibe I'm getting from this topic. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Admiral 11/06/19 12:33:49 PM #38: |
Archibleedies posted...
Why should I care about a partners previous sex life if he or she was safe about it? This is pretty classic sexual insecurity, and you're far from the only person who thinks things like that. Those thoughts do tend to go away (or at least lessen) with age. But your issues towards women seem a lot more deep-seated. I'm not going to ask you to divulge anything, but the typical kinds of questions you'd get at in therapy would be if you were abused as a child, if you might have any issues with sexual/gender identity, or if you experienced/witnessed some traumatic event at a young age that warped you (which you may not even remember). Basically trying to get to the root cause of why you have these feelings so you can begin putting them into the proper context. --- - The Admiral ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 12:34:01 PM #39: |
I've slept with cis men, cis women, and trans women. I don't think I have any issues with my sexuality
Also I don't know about any thyroid issues. Wouldn't I have other symptoms? People have suggested low testosterone to me before also --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Firewerx 11/06/19 12:45:34 PM #40: |
Respect to you for being conscious that you have issues, recognizing that they're something that's internal to you for whatever reason, and taking action to seek help and work on them, instead of simply telling yourself that the real problems are all around you.
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 12:46:13 PM #41: |
The Admiral posted...
This is pretty classic sexual insecurity, and you're far from the only person who thinks things like that. Those thoughts do tend to go away (or at least lessen) with age. Well that was just what prompted the introspection. I have unhealthy views on not just promiscuity but sex overall. Like I said, these days I find it disgusting for some reason The Admiral posted... But your issues towards women seem a lot more deep-seated. I'm not going to ask you to divulge anything, but the typical kinds of questions you'd get at in therapy would be if you were abused as a child, if you might have any issues with sexual/gender identity, or if you experienced/witnessed some traumatic event at a young age that warped you (which you may not even remember). Basically trying to get to the root cause of why you have these feelings so you can begin putting them into the proper context. I think you're onto something here --- Hairistotle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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YokoGeri 11/06/19 1:41:04 PM #42: |
Archibleedies posted...
I find it disgusting for some reason maybe you're asexual? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 1:51:00 PM #43: |
i dont think im asexual. i experience arousal it's just rare
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YokoGeri 11/06/19 2:51:13 PM #44: |
Archibleedies posted...
i dont think im asexual. i experience arousal it's just rare asexuality is a spectrum. Some are disgusted by all sex or sexual ideas. Some feel arousal and even deed. Some even deed A LOT, the just don't feel attraction to others. Some feel arousal, deed, and feel attraction to others, but get grossed out at the thought of being close to the smellier parts (genitals, butt) or french kissing. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Veggeta X 11/06/19 2:51:58 PM #45: |
Hey it's TC who got warned
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SmidgeIsntBack 11/06/19 3:07:54 PM #47: |
Seconding the asexual suggestion. You can find people attractive and even like certain sexual acts, but not understanding what people see in intercourse is a common sign of being ace.
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ultimate reaver 11/06/19 3:11:01 PM #48: |
The fact that you're trying to better yourself and not using it for fuel to shitpost on the internet puts you quite a ways above a lot of people these days. Good work
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Kitt 11/06/19 3:12:31 PM #49: |
Props for taking the steps to better yourself. You're stronger than a lot of the, most likely mentally ill, trolls here.
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Archibleedies 11/06/19 3:15:45 PM #50: |
Thanks dudes. But is asexuality something that happens to a person? I thought you're born that way, or it starts extremely young. A couple years ago I slept around and at the time I'm pretty sure I enjoyed it
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