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Lairen
10/15/19 2:36:01 PM
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33 and 32. Live together. 13 year relationship with a daughter. 1-2 a week. Were very content with that.
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Ultima Dragon
10/15/19 2:36:17 PM
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Man, I feel for the guys who aren't even getting it once a week and still want it. I can't imagine what it must be like to be in that situation when you've already made your feelings known. Obviously you still love her and don't want to leave her, especially not over something "minor" like sex if the relationship is otherwise great. It just becomes a bigger deal than people realize once it's not there at all, especially if at least one person has a healthy appetite and the other isn't willing to compromise.

Where does that leave you? Either walk away (definitely not as feasible if you're married or really want to stay together), or just deal with it? It's not ethical to pressure her or to cheat. I think I'd feel pretty trapped tbh.
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Lairen
10/15/19 2:38:22 PM
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Work + Daughter + Work opposite means were both tired and seeing each other at different times a day. Im going to work and shes coning home from work to take daughter to bus stop.
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MabusIncarnate
10/15/19 2:42:05 PM
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Married 15 years, we are good for 1 to 3 times a week.
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FarFromFields
10/15/19 4:02:45 PM
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Ultima Dragon posted...
Man, I feel for the guys who aren't even getting it once a week and still want it. I can't imagine what it must be like to be in that situation when you've already made your feelings known. Obviously you still love her and don't want to leave her, especially not over something "minor" like sex if the relationship is otherwise great. It just becomes a bigger deal than people realize once it's not there at all, especially if at least one person has a healthy appetite and the other isn't willing to compromise.

Where does that leave you? Either walk away (definitely not as feasible if you're married or really want to stay together), or just deal with it? It's not ethical to pressure her or to cheat. I think I'd feel pretty trapped tbh.

Believe me, I wish I had all the answers.
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EndOfDiscOne
10/15/19 4:10:32 PM
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My libido really started to take a dive about a year after being with my wife, but luckily she's on the same page. I don't ever get sex starved, no matter how long it's been.

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Fony
10/15/19 4:25:55 PM
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Ultima Dragon posted...
Man, I feel for the guys who aren't even getting it once a week and still want it. I can't imagine what it must be like to be in that situation when you've already made your feelings known. Obviously you still love her and don't want to leave her, especially not over something "minor" like sex if the relationship is otherwise great. It just becomes a bigger deal than people realize once it's not there at all, especially if at least one person has a healthy appetite and the other isn't willing to compromise.

Where does that leave you? Either walk away (definitely not as feasible if you're married or really want to stay together), or just deal with it? It's not ethical to pressure her or to cheat. I think I'd feel pretty trapped tbh.


Most men just cheat eventually.
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Oh_Boy_
10/15/19 4:38:43 PM
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Despite all of the issues your wives are having, there are men they would still be having sex with. It's just not you guys.

These posts all read like the first paragraph to those reddit posts from guys who get cheated on.
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LostForest
10/15/19 5:42:47 PM
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Ultima Dragon posted...
Man, I feel for the guys who aren't even getting it once a week and still want it. I can't imagine what it must be like to be in that situation when you've already made your feelings known. Obviously you still love her and don't want to leave her, especially not over something "minor" like sex if the relationship is otherwise great. It just becomes a bigger deal than people realize once it's not there at all, especially if at least one person has a healthy appetite and the other isn't willing to compromise.

Where does that leave you? Either walk away (definitely not as feasible if you're married or really want to stay together), or just deal with it? It's not ethical to pressure her or to cheat. I think I'd feel pretty trapped tbh.


That's what porn is for lol.

Do I wish we did it 3x a week like clockwork? Sure. Do we have the time? Nah.

So if it's been a couple days and I'm particularly in the mood but we don't get the opportunity, then the next day, I'll just go find some quick easy fetish porn when I get home from work and have the house to myself for an hour.
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darkprince45
10/15/19 5:44:59 PM
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LostForest posted...
Ultima Dragon posted...
Man, I feel for the guys who aren't even getting it once a week and still want it. I can't imagine what it must be like to be in that situation when you've already made your feelings known. Obviously you still love her and don't want to leave her, especially not over something "minor" like sex if the relationship is otherwise great. It just becomes a bigger deal than people realize once it's not there at all, especially if at least one person has a healthy appetite and the other isn't willing to compromise.

Where does that leave you? Either walk away (definitely not as feasible if you're married or really want to stay together), or just deal with it? It's not ethical to pressure her or to cheat. I think I'd feel pretty trapped tbh.


That's what porn is for lol.

Do I wish we did it 3x a week like clockwork? Sure. Do we have the time? Nah.

So if it's been a couple days and I'm particularly in the mood but we don't get the opportunity, then the next day, I'll just go find some quick easy fetish porn when I get home from work and have the house to myself for an hour.

Sounds like a lame excuse bro. I worked 18 hours last night and still smashed when I get home
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Lairen
10/15/19 5:53:13 PM
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darkprince45 posted...
LostForest posted...
Ultima Dragon posted...
Man, I feel for the guys who aren't even getting it once a week and still want it. I can't imagine what it must be like to be in that situation when you've already made your feelings known. Obviously you still love her and don't want to leave her, especially not over something "minor" like sex if the relationship is otherwise great. It just becomes a bigger deal than people realize once it's not there at all, especially if at least one person has a healthy appetite and the other isn't willing to compromise.

Where does that leave you? Either walk away (definitely not as feasible if you're married or really want to stay together), or just deal with it? It's not ethical to pressure her or to cheat. I think I'd feel pretty trapped tbh.


That's what porn is for lol.

Do I wish we did it 3x a week like clockwork? Sure. Do we have the time? Nah.

So if it's been a couple days and I'm particularly in the mood but we don't get the opportunity, then the next day, I'll just go find some quick easy fetish porn when I get home from work and have the house to myself for an hour.

Sounds like a lame excuse bro. I worked 18 hours last night and still smashed when I get home


After 18 hours of work she knows to back the fuck off and let me sleep. But she does though so, cool.
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NeoBowser
10/15/19 6:57:36 PM
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lmao another day of bragging on gamefaqs.com

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TreyFlowers
10/15/19 7:00:13 PM
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Age range: I'm 29, she's 27
Live together: yes
How many times: 1-3 times a week
Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: married (first anniversary this weekend, been together a total of 6.5 years)
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GoodOlJr
10/15/19 7:02:05 PM
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JBaLLEN66 posted...
How many times: maybe 5 times a week, but 7 blowies a week


Jesus christ what a waste of time

2x a week is extreme, what are you trying to prove

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darkprince45
10/15/19 10:36:15 PM
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GoodOlJr posted...
JBaLLEN66 posted...
How many times: maybe 5 times a week, but 7 blowies a week


Jesus christ what a waste of time

2x a week is extreme, what are you trying to prove

Lmao what

You got low T man
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GoodOlJr
10/15/19 11:25:19 PM
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How old are you?

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darkprince45
10/16/19 1:12:38 AM
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Trigg3rH4ppy
10/16/19 1:18:16 AM
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@lww99 posted...
LostForest posted...
lww99 posted...
treewojima posted...
lww99 posted...
Im 28, shes 25.
Engaged, live together, been together for almost 6 years.

We have sex once or twice a month

Used to be like 5 times a day when we first got together, not sure what happened

If you're engaged and it's dropped off like that you guys need to have a conversation


Weve had many. Pretty much the same conversation over and over.

Just doesnt seem to change


What's the problem then? Does she not have much of a sex drive? Cuz that's the issue I've run into with my wife in the past. She was worried she's asexual cuz her drive is so low, but we had a few awkward talks at the time and it's improved since then.

Like, I know it sucks, and it makes you feel like a perv to be like GIMME MUH SEX but once sex is introduced into a relationship, it becomes an important aspect of it


She doesnt feel like theres enough intimacy outside of sex, and therefore doesnt crave it. Also says she doesnt feel confident enough sometimes.

But from my point of view, its literally always something. Too tired, headache, dont feel well, work was stressful, etc.

And then I end up getting kind of spiteful about it, which turns into one big vicious cycle.



For example... went to a wedding, out of town, this weekend.

Booked a nice hotel, didnt have 5 pets distracting us, no work to stress about, etc. We get there a couple hours before the ceremony starts, so I figured maybe we could get a head start on the romance.

Didnt want to fool around before the wedding because youll mess up my makeup or hair, saying that itll happen later tonight.

Then once we get back from the wedding, shes stumbling over and hiccuping non stop, and passes out pretty much instantly. Then nothing the next morning before we left either.

Idk it doesnt sound like much, but I figured it would be the perfect opportunity

I'm a dude but in my relationship I'm the one with no sex drive anymore. Its probably not your fault unless you know it is deep down inside. I love my wife and shes still gorgeous but I just have no drive anymore and I make a lot of excuses like your wife. Its extremely uncomfortable to be pressured into having sex with someone you love when you're feeling low though. Sounds like she already dropped hints though, maybe try to do things other than sex to help improve her mood and maybe it will come.
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GoodOlJr
10/16/19 1:50:55 AM
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darkprince45 posted...
30


I aint losing sleep every night for that shit

Youre nuts

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