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JBaLLEN66 10/15/19 8:59:40 AM #1: |
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Live together: How many times: Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: Age range: Me(26) Her(23) Live together: No How many times: maybe 5 times a week, but 7 blowies a week Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: 4.3 months --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JBaLLEN66 10/15/19 9:10:39 AM #3: |
JustMyOpinion posted...
You don't live together but average a blowie a day? multiple in one day --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gatorsPENSbucs 10/15/19 9:12:08 AM #4: |
Id say a good 3-4 times a week on average. Married. Live together.
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Tired-Insomniac 10/15/19 9:14:54 AM #5: |
Both 27
Live together About 3 to 5 times a week Married for 6 years, but we've been together for 9 years --- "I like turtles" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ultima Dragon 10/15/19 9:29:18 AM #6: |
Her 29, me 33.
Don't live together but dated on and off (mostly on) for nearly four years now. We see each other often, usually have sex once a day on average but yesterday it was 4 (we just had a lazy day inside and didn't really do much lol). I'm glad the sex is still frequent since it seems like the lack thereof is a real killer of long-term relationships. --- "We know things can move faster than the speed of light because liberal tears are on the ground before something offensive even happens" - Coffeebeanz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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fjb 10/15/19 9:33:14 AM #7: |
Her 28, Me 30
Live together 1 to 2 times a week Married for 5 years, together 10 --- Focus. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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treewojima 10/15/19 9:42:00 AM #8: |
I'm 31, she's 30
Live about 40 minutes apart but work together Only about once or twice a week, whenever we're able to spend the night Not married, going on about 2 years I don't see her as much as I'd like, and she's got 2 jobs ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 10/15/19 9:43:07 AM #9: |
Im 28, shes 25.
Engaged, live together, been together for almost 6 years. We have sex once or twice a month Used to be like 5 times a day when we first got together, not sure what happened --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LostForest 10/15/19 9:44:01 AM #10: |
30 and 31
Married and living together, been together for 7 years We have sex at least 1-3 times a week depending on what's going on that week. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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treewojima 10/15/19 9:50:52 AM #11: |
lww99 posted...
Im 28, shes 25. If you're engaged and it's dropped off like that you guys need to have a conversation ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 10/15/19 9:55:02 AM #12: |
treewojima posted...
lww99 posted...Im 28, shes 25. Weve had many. Pretty much the same conversation over and over. Just doesnt seem to change --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Colorahdo 10/15/19 9:55:02 AM #13: |
me 30, her 33
5 years together, 1 married 1-2 times a week People complain about "sexless marriages" and "lol it won't be like that when you're married lololol" -- I don't WANT to have sex every day at this age. Between 25 and 30 my sex drive dropped big time. I'm super happy with 2 times a week. The sex is more of a way to intimately be with my wife than letting off sexual steam. --- But those enemies of mine who did not want me to be king over them - bring them here and kill them in front of me ~Jesus Christ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LostForest 10/15/19 10:01:50 AM #14: |
lww99 posted...
treewojima posted...lww99 posted...Im 28, shes 25. What's the problem then? Does she not have much of a sex drive? Cuz that's the issue I've run into with my wife on the past. She was worried she's asexual cuz her drive is so low, but we had a few awkward talks at the time and it's improved since then. Like, I know it sucks, and it makes you feel like a perv to be like GIMME MUH SEX but once sex is introduced into a relationship, it becomes an important aspect of it --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pogo_Marimo 10/15/19 10:05:43 AM #15: |
Age range: 27 and 25
Live together: Yes How many times: Once a week Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: Nearly 6 years Both of us are on anti-depressants which dampens our libido, but we still keep the spark alive. --- I presume my time here in my darkblack dragondark steel-obliterating solitude has come to its end as well. http://www.last.fm/user/Pogo92 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Looked gf 10/15/19 10:07:36 AM #16: |
Age range: 27, 22
Live together: No How many times: 2-3 times a week Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: 3 months --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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PatrickMahomes 10/15/19 10:08:10 AM #17: |
Age range: Me 26 Her 24
Live together: No How many times: Once a week, we hang on weekends Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: 10 months --- MVP Tracker: 1-0 September AFC Offensive Player of the Month Tracker: 2-0 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 10/15/19 10:09:44 AM #18: |
LostForest posted...
lww99 posted...treewojima posted...lww99 posted...Im 28, shes 25. She doesnt feel like theres enough intimacy outside of sex, and therefore doesnt crave it. Also says she doesnt feel confident enough sometimes. But from my point of view, its literally always something. Too tired, headache, dont feel well, work was stressful, etc. And then I end up getting kind of spiteful about it, which turns into one big vicious cycle. For example... went to a wedding, out of town, this weekend. Booked a nice hotel, didnt have 5 pets distracting us, no work to stress about, etc. We get there a couple hours before the ceremony starts, so I figured maybe we could get a head start on the romance. Didnt want to fool around before the wedding because youll mess up my makeup or hair, saying that itll happen later tonight. Then once we get back from the wedding, shes stumbling over and hiccuping non stop, and passes out pretty much instantly. Then nothing the next morning before we left either. Idk it doesnt sound like much, but I figured it would be the perfect opportunity --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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darkprince45 10/15/19 10:10:29 AM #19: |
Everyday if I want to but Im usually tired because I work a lot. So a couple times a week. We at least do some variation of Sexual acts every day though.
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FF_Redux 10/15/19 10:10:36 AM #20: |
Age range: Me 34, him 62
Live together: Nope How many times: Usually 1-4 times when we meet up. We meet up on weekends usually, not all weekends. Current lifespan of relationship: We met in April 5 years ago and been seeing each-other since then pretty much. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NeoBowser 10/15/19 10:11:49 AM #21: |
ive known my gf for quite a while. shes very pretty. we still havent had sex yet though. i see her once a week when we eat at subways.
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LostForest 10/15/19 10:14:47 AM #22: |
lww99 posted...
Idk it doesnt sound like much, but I figured it would be the perfect opportunity Nah dude, you were in the right there. Post-wedding sex is a given for all healthy couples, barring extenuating circumstances. Emotions are high, you guys get all sweaty dancing, it's fun seeing friends and family so you're in a good mood, etc... Sex after a wedding is basically a ritual lol. No offense but sounds like you guys have some deeper rooted issues putting your relationship at stake is she's holding sex over your head and asking for more affection in exchange. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jagr_68 10/15/19 10:16:48 AM #23: |
Age range: 31 (me), 32 (her)
Live together: Sort of How many times: 1/week Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: 4 years We had a rough patch and almost broke up months ago but then reevaluated things and it's been back to the early infatuation days again. Only problem is the financial implications of grad school (her) and med school (me) have gotten in the way of sex so it's like once or twice a weekend basically but w/e. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 10/15/19 10:29:26 AM #24: |
LostForest posted...
lww99 posted...Idk it doesnt sound like much, but I figured it would be the perfect opportunity Yeah thats what I thought, too. She even made a comment at the reception, you better dance with me if you want that good-good later So we danced literally the entire night, with me thinking that were building up tension the whole time. Noooope. And then well usually get in an argument in the next day or two, because I cant get it out of my head --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JBaLLEN66 10/15/19 10:38:58 AM #25: |
lww99 posted...
LostForest posted...lww99 posted...Idk it doesnt sound like much, but I figured it would be the perfect opportunity yeah, why the **** should I get married lol? --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Fony 10/15/19 10:59:16 AM #26: |
Age range: I'm 34 and she's 30
Live together: Not now, did previously and soon will again. She mostly sleeps here with me though. How many times: Before work and before bed daily. From about 8 to 1 on weekends is pretty much spent having sex until were out of energy. Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: 5 years --- It's not the end of the world, but we can see it from here. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thanosibe 10/15/19 11:02:51 AM #27: |
I'm 42, my wife is 40.
Nailing down a average is difficult with my wife being bi-polar. It can go from 7 times a week for months to 1-2 times a week for months. We live together and have been married 20 years. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 10/15/19 11:05:58 AM #28: |
Age: Im 29 shes 33
lived together a year together about 2.5 once or twice a week --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 10/15/19 11:07:25 AM #29: |
Ugh we seem to be way below average here lol
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TheGoldenEel 10/15/19 11:13:58 AM #30: |
lww99 posted...
Ugh we seem to be way below average here lolIts not the average that matters, its whether you and your partner both feel satisfied with the frequency like to me doing it every day sounds exhausting --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 10/15/19 11:18:21 AM #31: |
TheGoldenEel posted...
lww99 posted...Ugh we seem to be way below average here lolIts not the average that matters, its whether you and your partner both feel satisfied with the frequency Im definitely not satisfied with the frequency. But Im not just gonna force it on her, or guilt her into it. If she doesnt actually wanna be there, its gonna be pretty apparent, and I just dont see the point. I want her to want it, but I know my sex drive is way higher now. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 10/15/19 11:20:22 AM #32: |
lww99 posted...
LostForest posted... I get the part about what seems to be excuses. Man, with my gf, if she takes an edible for example, regardless of what she says prior, I know there's not gonna be any sex. It just makes her get too tired. Do you have moments where she actually does want to have sex, but you're not up to it, so she starts feeling some type of way about it? --- Pitter-patter, let's get at 'er ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 10/15/19 11:24:58 AM #33: |
No I dont think Ive ever turned her down.
Im at a point now where I dont even like bringing it up, because it feels like a rhetorical question. Like on the off chance she wants it, shell let me know. Otherwise its not worth the argument I make sure shes getting off when we do, too. So Im not sure what the issue is. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 10/15/19 11:31:32 AM #35: |
Yeah, shes depressed. Shes mentioned pretty much every symptom. But this has been going on for 3 years now, so idk how to help out
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Fony 10/15/19 11:36:35 AM #36: |
lww99 posted...
treewojima posted...lww99 posted...Im 28, shes 25. Sounds like a relationship based on checkboxes, obligstion and pleasing your peers and family. Just open it up now. The attraction is already dying. Fucking my fiancee is the first or second thing on my mind every day and we've been together for about as long as you and yours. --- It's not the end of the world, but we can see it from here. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Fony 10/15/19 11:41:43 AM #37: |
lww99 posted...
LostForest posted...lww99 posted...treewojima posted...lww99 posted...Im 28, shes 25. Yea, definitely sounds like you're a checkbox couple and attraction was either a low priority or non existant to begin with. No offense, but this is not looking good. --- It's not the end of the world, but we can see it from here. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Accolon 10/15/19 11:44:15 AM #38: |
Age range: 33-35
Live together: yes How many times: none in the past year Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: 7 years --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EndOfDiscOne 10/15/19 11:47:13 AM #39: |
Age range: 33-30
Live together: yes How many times: About once a month, less when pregnant and none since our baby has been born Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: 7 years --- I am the Cheese! I am the best character on the show! I am better than both the salami and the bologna COMBINED! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LostForest 10/15/19 11:48:55 AM #40: |
TheGoldenEel posted...
like to me doing it every day sounds exhausting This lol. I have a pretty high libido, but I don't understand how people manage to have sex every day or two. Like, the urge is there everyday, but there's just other shit to do that gets in the way. The times where we do it 3x in a week are great, but they're usually when we have absolutely nothing else going on lol. Me and my wife don't even work long hours or demanding jobs lol. How are people cramming in sex on a daily basis? (Unless they're just going through the motions and doing 5 min quickies everyday, in which case where's the fun in that lol) --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thanosibe 10/15/19 11:49:15 AM #41: |
Fony posted...
Sounds like a relationship based on checkboxes, obligstion and pleasing your peers and family. Just open it up now. The attraction is already dying. Fucking my fiancee is the first or second thing on my mind every day and we've been together for about as long as you and yours.Tbf depending on what's going on with his SO, she may not be able to help it. As I mentioned in my first post my wife is bi-polar. Right now it's been three months since the last time. Whereas earlier in the year she was constantly wanting it. Waking me up in the middle of the night wanting it. And I think about sex with my wife everyday. And make it known to her. She knows I'm still attracted to her, I know she is with me. But she can't force her brain to do what she wants to with the bipolar. The 22nd will be 20 years together and I would not be surprised, in our current track record if that days passes as the last 90 some days have. Which is frustrating because intimacy is a huge part of what I crave about our relationship. She doesn't shun me completely. We "cuddle" or lay together and watch something or go out to eat together, hold hands, etc. It's just the sex itself that's absent. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JScriv 10/15/19 11:51:40 AM #42: |
Age: Im 33, shes 32
Been married and living together for 9 years, relationship 11 years Frequency: 2-3 times per week All things considered Im happy with our sex life. We used to have more but shes been either pregnant, nursing or both for the past 7 years straight so her libido and hormones have been all over the place. My libido has dropped over the years Im sure too. --- Stretch the bones over my skin, stretch the skin over my head I'm going to the holy land ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheMikh 10/15/19 11:56:23 AM #43: |
with exes, they varied from four years younger to three years older, we never lived together, had rleations once or twice a week, and relationships lasted anywhere between three months and two years
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emblem boy 10/15/19 12:12:41 PM #44: |
Fony posted...
lww99 posted...treewojima posted... What's "checkbox couple " mean? --- Pitter-patter, let's get at 'er ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Fony 10/15/19 12:25:43 PM #45: |
emblem boy posted...
Fony posted...lww99 posted...treewojima posted... It means the man , woman or both date and marry someone based on the superficial and not so superficial impersonal attributes to guage viability as a mate. Lets talk about women, because its obvious and well known. Women's checkbox man is as follows: Has the right type of career and income Has the right type of car and home Has the preferred height and build Comes from the right type of family and social circle Can gain acceptance and approval from all of her friends Willing to marry her and make her special day a reality As you can see, its about stability and appearances and personal attraction isn't even on the list for many women, for some it is at the bottom. There is nothing in the checklist that even hints at real love or personal attraction. In fact a majority of people marry a person who checks most or all of these to some degree even if there is NO attraction at all. Also, the problem with approval is for couples who marry early, by the time they're my age sex really dries up. It wouldn't be an issue if not for the fact that all people want to feel desired. The amount of married women that are trying to be my side ass is crazy, and even greater are the ones who just flirt and fish for complements. They like their situation for many other things, but they aren't attracted to the spouse as much as they should be. The ones who are happy on the personal level do not engage in this behavior, ever. --- It's not the end of the world, but we can see it from here. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Top Crusader 10/15/19 12:31:16 PM #46: |
Yeah I dunno where people find the time to do it every day or all weekend or whatever. >_>
Age range: I'm 37, she's 32 Live together: yeah How many times: ??? Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: going on 12 years of marriage Can't really pin down a number, maybe a couple times a month? Used to be more but our work schedules are basically opposite with me going in really early and basically handing off our kid when she gets home from work and I go to bed. Plus yeah, having an almost two year old with weird sleep patterns definitely doesn't help, even ignoring work she keeps us up until we're too tired and then wakes us up in the morning, lol. I would like to at least get up to once a week which is probably not unreasonable, but I have a very physically demanding job so honestly at my age lots of times sleep is just more appealing. >_> --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lww99 10/15/19 2:22:08 PM #47: |
Sorry for hijacking the topic btw
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JBaLLEN66 10/15/19 2:24:45 PM #48: |
lww99 posted...
Sorry for hijacking the topic btw Nah fam, everything is welcomed --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Soggy_Pocket 10/15/19 2:26:27 PM #49: |
She's been on some anti depressants which nuke her sex drive, so it's been once a week. Used to be three times a week.
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FarFromFields 10/15/19 2:31:52 PM #50: |
Age range: 31
Live together: Yes How many times: 1-2 per month Current lifespan of relationship or marriage: 10 years together, 4 years married --- Just because this life ain't easy, doesn't make it bad... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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