Board 8 > 35 y/o can only have SEX ONCE A YEAR because getting AROUSED gives her PAIN!!!!

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35 y/o Natalie Bricker from Newark, Delware experiences EXCRUCTIATING PAIN during SEX with her husband..and both made the "agonizing" decision to only do it ONCE a year because of it!!

She was diagnosed with persistent genital arousal disorder in 2018 that causes her severe pelvic pain every time she is AROUSED!!...

The former care assistant who has muscle spams in her pelvis can last 4 days and leaves her bedbound and now avoids ex with her husband, Robert Bricker

Natalie experiences spontaneous genital arousal at least once a day that cause painful experiences

She has sex with her partner, Robert, a real estate controller just once a year despite the pain and she worries about how it will affect their marriage

She said "Every time i feel pleasure or arousal, my muscles contract and spasm and when i orgasm my pelvic muscles go into spasm. Whenever i get aroused, my body goes into fight or flight mode. The pain becomes worse and worse. It makes even walking painful and i get so itchy. It's difficult because you feel aroused and you want to do something about it, but when you do the pain is so intense. If i tried to masturbate, i would get sharp stabbing pains and i would have to hold my ice bag down there My husband is a good man, he married me knowing the issues i have and the barriers that creates for sex. We have sex once a year but i go all out for my husband and after a couple of drinks to get through it, it hurts, it feels like i've been hit by a truck"

She thinks it happened because of a car accident in 2002 that hit her pudendal nerve that is responsible for carrying messages from the external genitalia. She even said had to stop wearing a TAMPON becauseof the pain..but even all this, her husband struck by her as her then boyfriend and they didn't even have sex even then as it wasn't a religious thing because she wanted to do it SO BAD because of her urges!!

She was forced to give up her career as a care assistant because the fatigue was so bad she couldn't work anymore and even having bowel movements was painful

She now works as a pelvic floor specialist to help work though it and is taking botox procedures to ease the pain as she dreams of having a family one day with her supportive husband even though it's gonna make the pregnancy excruciating but that if it doesn't work,they will foster or adopt.

Do you think you could marry someone who can only have sex once a year?

Natalie and Robert -














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For her safety remind me not to walk around her shirtless.

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That sounds absolutely horrible for her. I hope she is eventually able to recover/be cured
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