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DeathDeathSong
10/13/19 12:12:05 AM
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i always tell myself not to date my friends cause it never ends well but here i am crushing on a friend yet again
the worst part is that we have so many similarities and interests and kinks and we can talk forever about the stuff we like
im not gonna say anything cause i like them too much to risk making our friendship weird, but still

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inloveanddeath0
10/13/19 12:12:26 AM
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Johnny_Nutcase
10/13/19 12:12:42 AM
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can only end in hell.
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inloveanddeath0
10/13/19 12:16:25 AM
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Johnny_Nutcase posted...
can only end in hell.

Hey we will join her there!
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DeathDeathSong
10/13/19 12:17:18 AM
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inloveanddeath0 posted...
Oh Danni...

what

Johnny_Nutcase posted...
can only end in hell.

oh dont worry im already in hell
it just sucks cause theyre really sweet and they always take the time to check in on me every day and i appreciate it way more than i can actually express to them
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viewmaster_pi
10/13/19 12:19:45 AM
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playing the pronoun game, huh

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DeathDeathSong
10/13/19 12:21:38 AM
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viewmaster_pi posted...
playing the pronoun game, huh

tag checks out
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inloveanddeath0
10/13/19 12:23:47 AM
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Are you really going to...,, Ah nevermind. You seem content so why should I care
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R1masher
10/13/19 12:24:18 AM
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Whachu mean by they take the time to check in on you are you a shut in or something ?
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DeathDeathSong
10/13/19 12:24:36 AM
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inloveanddeath0 posted...
Are you really going to...,, Ah nevermind. You seem content so why should I care

your posts in my topic arent making any sense
are you having a stroke or am i
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awesome999
10/13/19 12:26:37 AM
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You're not gonna follow my advice but you're better off being honest with your feelings and asking them out

Excuse coming in 3...2...
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Lost_All_Senses
10/13/19 12:29:10 AM
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The people who don't date friends always end up in shit relationships. Shit makes no sense. It's a risk reward system.

"I only date women I just met or ones that were never close enough to be friends"

Like..what?
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WrestlinFan
10/13/19 12:29:24 AM
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Sounds like a perfectly fine base for a relationship.
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DeathDeathSong
10/13/19 12:30:49 AM
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R1masher posted...
Whachu mean by they take the time to check in on you are you a shut in or something ?

oh not like that, its just that im notoriously asocial and a horrible conversationalist, and i will almost never initiate a conversation and i very very frequently forget to reply to messages, so they always shoot me a quick 'hey, hows your evening going" or "i hope you had a good day today" and it makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside

Lost_All_Senses posted...
The people who don't date friends always end up in shit relationships. Shit makes no sense. It's a risk reward system.

"I only date women I just met or ones that were never close enough to be friends"

Like..what?

eh its just that pretty much every relationship has been from dating a friend and they always turn bad, and then the energy of the rest of the friend group gets weird for a while
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inloveanddeath0
10/13/19 12:30:56 AM
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DeathDeathSong posted...
inloveanddeath0 posted...
Are you really going to...,, Ah nevermind. You seem content so why should I care

your posts in my topic arent making any sense
are you having a stroke or am i

Hey you know yourself better than I. Although my mind escapes me
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viewmaster_pi
10/13/19 12:31:00 AM
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DeathDeathSong posted...
tag checks out
lol, ohhhhh okay, you're one of those people who trolls other users by passive-aggressively letting them know they're tagged as something unsavory

i'll never understand why they enable toxic behavior like this. the tag system is a joke that so coincidentally only seems to be used to insult users you don't like, hmmmm

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EvenSpoonier
10/13/19 12:31:35 AM
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awesome999 posted...
You're not gonna follow my advice but you're better off being honest with your feelings and asking them out

Excuse coming in 3...2...

I concur. Secretly pining is no way to carry on a friendship It'll drive you nuts, possibly literally, and even if it does not, it is guaranteedto wreck things when the truth comes out. Coming clean now at least has a chance; staying silent has none.
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inloveanddeath0
10/13/19 12:31:54 AM
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Lost_All_Senses
10/13/19 12:34:16 AM
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DeathDeathSong posted...
eh its just that pretty much every relationship has been from dating a friend and they always turn bad, and then the energy of the rest of the friend group gets weird for a while


Sounds like you're ignoring discovering the real problem and using this as a scape goat. Did going out with non friends work any better? Maybe you should just stop dating and work on whatever ruined those relationships
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Flintlock_Staff
10/13/19 12:47:53 AM
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I know that feel :(

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Leanaunfurled
10/13/19 12:49:21 AM
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Why tag me? o.O I mean, I don't understand the concept of dating someone you don't consider a friend either/a friend makes for the best kind of relationship base, but TC can make her own decisions and all that. I don't know the relationship.
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TheDreadedWave
10/13/19 12:54:11 AM
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Never know what the possibilities could be until you try. Also you share the same kinks so that's always a plus

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viewmaster_pi
10/13/19 12:55:26 AM
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Leanaunfurled posted...
Why tag me? o.O I mean, I don't understand the concept of dating someone you don't consider a friend either/a friend makes for the best kind of relationship base, but TC can make her own decisions and all that. I don't know the relationship.
peeps just love tagging you

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DeathDeathSong
10/13/19 1:03:06 AM
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EvenSpoonier posted...
I concur. Secretly pining is no way to carry on a friendship It'll drive you nuts, possibly literally, and even if it does not, it is guaranteedto wreck things when the truth comes out. Coming clean now at least has a chance; staying silent has none.

im not sitting here going "aw man i gotta get a ring on that asap" i just have a bad case of the dokis
i dont think its worth embarrassing myself when i still enjoy said friendship as it is

Lost_All_Senses posted...
Sounds like you're ignoring discovering the real problem and using this as a scape goat

uh...lol? i dont know you and you definitely dont know me

Leanaunfurled posted...
Why tag me? o.O I mean, I don't understand the concept of dating someone you don't consider a friend either/a friend makes for the best kind of relationship base, but TC can make her own decisions and all that. I don't know the relationship.

im not a her btw

TheDreadedWave posted...
Never know what the possibilities could be until you try. Also you share the same kinks so that's always a plus

tbh those kinds of talks are always really fun cause it always ends with "wow i sure am flustered" "haha me too" "wow i think i need to go take care of some business" "haha me too i need to go take a cold shower" but somehow its not embarrassing its just fun
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Flintlock_Staff
10/13/19 1:18:46 AM
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DeathDeathSong posted...
im not a her btw
Did you used to identify as a female long ago if you don't mind me asking? Not sure if I'm mixing you up with anything. If so how are things going now?

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Lost_All_Senses
10/13/19 1:20:04 AM
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DeathDeathSong posted...
uh...lol? i dont know you and you definitely dont know me


Ok. Hope this works out for you.
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inloveanddeath0
10/13/19 1:20:59 AM
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inloveanddeath0
10/13/19 1:21:08 AM
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inloveanddeath0
10/13/19 1:22:13 AM
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I didn't see your postsl
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Strider102
10/13/19 1:22:40 AM
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I married my best friend, we've known each other since we were kids. 10 years we've been married and things are still great.

Obviously not everyone will have that same experience, but sometimes you gotta take a chance. I'd say you have a good chance because friend seems into you.
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DeathDeathSong
10/13/19 1:23:02 AM
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metallica846 posted...
TC just ask her out.

?? whos her

Flintlock_Staff posted...
Did you used to identify as a female long ago if you don't mind me asking?

if youre asking if i consciously, actively made the choice to id as female while growing up, the answer to that is technically no
but also that is not what this topic is about
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inloveanddeath0
10/13/19 1:24:02 AM
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Oh you changed your gender Danni
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ChrisTaka
10/13/19 1:28:31 AM
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TC is clearly an attack helicopter crushing on their toaster friend
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BeantownHero
10/13/19 1:29:26 AM
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People ITT really dont understand the pitfalls of trying to turn friends into significant others?

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Lost_All_Senses
10/13/19 1:30:06 AM
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BeantownHero posted...
People ITT really dont understand the pitfalls of trying to turn friends into significant others?


I mentioned risk

Strider102 posted...
I married my best friend, we've known each other since we were kids. 10 years we've been married and things are still great.

Obviously not everyone will have that same experience, but sometimes you gotta take a chance. I'd say you have a good chance because friend seems into you.


But this is the reward.
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DeathDeathSong
10/13/19 1:31:58 AM
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Strider102 posted...
I married my best friend, we've known each other since we were kids. 10 years we've been married and things are still great.

Obviously not everyone will have that same experience, but sometimes you gotta take a chance. I'd say you have a good chance because friend seems into you.

honestly though i have no reason to believe that said friend actually likes me that way
theyre very sweet and fun and we like the same stuff but none of that really points to them digging me or anything

ChrisTaka posted...
TC is clearly an attack helicopter crushing on their toaster friend

cringe

BeantownHero posted...
People ITT really dont understand the pitfalls of trying to turn friends into significant others?

im kinda surprised by it too honestly
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inloveanddeath0
10/13/19 1:34:30 AM
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Sure fine whatever you want to be. I just remembered pics of you mayve 9 years ago
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Leanaunfurled
10/13/19 1:48:00 AM
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DeathDeathSong posted...
im not a her btw

I'm sorry about my incorrect usage then, it wasn't intentional.
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inloveanddeath0
10/13/19 1:53:38 AM
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Leanaunfurled posted...
DeathDeathSong posted...
im not a her btw

I'm sorry about my incorrect usage then, it wasn't intentional.

Yeah this. You do you dude
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TheDreadedWave
10/13/19 2:13:05 AM
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BeantownHero posted...
People ITT really dont understand the pitfalls of trying to turn friends into significant others?
I dunno man, you only have one life and you have to weigh the happiness you have with them as a friend against the potential happiness you may have if things work out.

Ultimately only TC can really determine which of those they want regardless of all the advice in the world we could give.

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amzpeng
10/13/19 2:39:48 AM
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Deltarune chapter 2 isn't out yet right?
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Flintlock_Staff
10/13/19 4:36:14 AM
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DeathDeathSong posted...
?? whos her

if youre asking if i consciously, actively made the choice to id as female while growing up, the answer to that is technically no
but also that is not what this topic is about
Not exactly but more so biologically I guess. I don't really mean anything by it and I'm not trying to detract from the topic at hand. Just remember your username and not much else other than I know I saw you post on HH iirc and trying to remember stuff. I'm done now, sorry about that.

Anyways I'm kinda going through something similar with a friend/coworker which makes it double trouble. He was pretty cool with it when I finally talked to him about it but in the end said he wasn't really interested in guys anymore. Still friends but I still can't get over my feelings :(

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