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IdiotMachine 10/05/19 6:30:59 PM #1: |
She said something really racist during our lunch meeting, and it bothered me so much. I went to her privately and told her about it; she brushed it off, that it's just a joke / she was "just sayin", and I should be more understanding.
I talked to my manager about it, who brought in my coworker's manager and HR rep. I then filed a formal complaint. She was put on paid leave for one week (she's coming back to work on Monday). Now everyone in my group and her group, as well as those who were at the lunch, are picking on me... I feel like an idiot. I don't want to go back to HR and say they're picking on me. What do? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Irony 10/05/19 6:32:14 PM #2: |
Better than emuized
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Abiz_ 10/05/19 6:33:20 PM #3: |
Well, I don't believe you. Your group and her group both dropped you? Sounds like you chose to ignore the context or nuisance and now people don't like you for it or trust you.
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TheVipaGTS 10/05/19 6:34:20 PM #4: |
sounds like you work at a terribly toxic place.
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KainWind 10/05/19 6:35:14 PM #5: |
All I'm getting out of this is she got a free week of paid vacation for saying something racist.
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IMNOTRAGED 10/05/19 6:36:34 PM #6: |
KainWind posted...
All I'm getting out of this is she got a free week of paid vacation for saying something racist. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RickyTheBAWSE 10/05/19 6:36:34 PM #7: |
TC is a cop?
that sounds like a cop response. "so you snitched on Rodriguez and Abernathy, huh? I thought you were one of us." --- Never let those intent on misunderstanding you be the narrator to YOUR story! Context? Context!? CONTEXT!!! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EffectAndCause 10/05/19 6:38:31 PM #8: |
IMNOTRAGED posted...
KainWind posted...All I'm getting out of this is she got a free week of paid vacation for saying something racist. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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IdiotMachine 10/05/19 6:38:44 PM #9: |
Abiz_ posted...
Well, I don't believe you. Your group and her group both dropped you? Sounds like you chose to ignore the context or nuisance and now people don't like you for it or trust you. I'll try to be as sensitive as possible: We were talking about sports, and she said that certain races are just naturally good at them because of how they were bred for those traits "back then". --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Esrac 10/05/19 6:43:22 PM #10: |
Sounds like no one wants to hang out with you because you're too sensitive and a tattle-tale.
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coh 10/05/19 6:45:42 PM #11: |
Sounds like youre being overly sensitive
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ThanksUglyGod 10/05/19 6:45:56 PM #12: |
IdiotMachine posted...
Now everyone in my group and her group, as well as those who were at the lunch, are picking on me... I feel like an idiot. Then what's the problem? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ColdOne666 10/05/19 6:47:27 PM #13: |
Snitches get stitches.
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BeantownHero 10/05/19 6:47:47 PM #14: |
IdiotMachine posted...
I'll try to be as sensitive as possible: We were talking about sports, and she said that certain races are just naturally good at them because of how they were bred for those traits "back then". Yeah...that's definitely a suspendable offense --- nothing is a greater tell of an awful human than using "social justice warrior" as a pejorative. without exception.- Bomani Jones ... Copied to Clipboard!
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IdiotMachine 10/05/19 6:47:50 PM #15: |
Esrac posted...
Sounds like no one wants to hang out with you because you're too sensitive and a tattle-tale. coh posted... Sounds like youre being overly sensitive By not doing anything, it's further reinforcing that type of behavior should be allowed. It shouldn't be. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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amzpeng 10/05/19 6:48:14 PM #16: |
You might want to look for another job at this point. You've already ruined it for yourself it seem. Not saying it's fair, but it is what it is.
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ProudlyHated74 10/05/19 6:49:18 PM #17: |
IdiotMachine posted...
Abiz_ posted...Well, I don't believe you. Your group and her group both dropped you? Sounds like you chose to ignore the context or nuisance and now people don't like you for it or trust you. Lol of all the things to get triggered by. --- GT: Astral Ocean V ... Copied to Clipboard!
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karlpilkington4 10/05/19 6:49:59 PM #18: |
BeantownHero posted...
IdiotMachine posted...I'll try to be as sensitive as possible: We were talking about sports, and she said that certain races are just naturally good at them because of how they were bred for those traits "back then". Are you being serious, or facetious? Serious question. --- Is This The Krusty Krab? "No This Is Patrick!" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BeantownHero 10/05/19 6:55:05 PM #19: |
karlpilkington4 posted...
Are you being serious, or facetious? Serious question. I'm completely serious. What the fuck kinda subject is that to bring up in the work environment? --- nothing is a greater tell of an awful human than using "social justice warrior" as a pejorative. without exception.- Bomani Jones ... Copied to Clipboard!
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au_gold 10/05/19 6:57:56 PM #20: |
coh posted...
Sounds like youre being overly sensitive ColdOne666 posted... Snitches get stitches. These. --- Let me talk to your mother. Get your mother please. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Malfunction 10/05/19 7:01:49 PM #21: |
Can't believe the racist gimmick accounts don't have an issue with that
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Lost_All_Senses 10/05/19 7:06:18 PM #22: |
Sometimes doing the right thing doesn't put you in the best place after. I personally wouldn't of cared to put my reputation on the line over it but Im not gonna fault you for it. Many people like to get on others for "not doing the right thing" because those people don't have to deal with the aftermath. Sounds like you're dealing with the aftermath and there isn't any going back
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BeantownHero 10/05/19 7:06:28 PM #23: |
I need to know what sports black people were bred to be good at...and that's not even getting into the insulting nature of the claim that black people's excellency in sports stems primarily from their physicality.
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coh 10/05/19 7:07:00 PM #24: |
Don't be an SJW
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karlpilkington4 10/05/19 7:15:06 PM #26: |
Forgettable posted...
You did the right thing. All humans are equal in every aspect. It was completely wrong of her to say otherwise. uhhhh --- Is This The Krusty Krab? "No This Is Patrick!" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SiO4 10/05/19 7:16:51 PM #27: |
HR departments are the gutter of the work force.
Handle your shit. Using HR as your personal hitman is a shitty move. Learn to handle your shit. --- "Whatever the reason you're on Mars, I'm glad you're there, and I wish I was with you." ~Carl Sagan. Currently playing: Flight Simulator X.~PC ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NeoShadowhen 10/05/19 7:20:35 PM #29: |
Out of curiosity TC, what part of the country are you in?
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Diamond_Of_Time 10/05/19 7:24:12 PM #30: |
Call them all a bunch of hoes and act sarcastic whenever that say something.
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rexcrk 10/05/19 7:24:38 PM #31: |
coh posted...
Sounds like youre being overly sensitive This lmao. --- These pretzels are making me thirsty! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LordMarshal 10/05/19 7:25:21 PM #32: |
-So i bitched to her but that wasnt good enough.
-I bitched to my manager and that wasnt good enough. -I finally bitched and got her put on leave. Id hate you so hard at work and any group i knew would hate you too. --- There can be only one. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bio1590 10/05/19 7:27:49 PM #33: |
Not surprised that 75% of this topic is people seeing no issue with what was said.
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IdiotMachine 10/05/19 7:31:10 PM #34: |
NeoShadowhen posted...
Out of curiosity TC, what part of the country are you in? Northeast. Central PA. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Esrac 10/05/19 7:31:12 PM #35: |
IdiotMachine posted...
By not doing anything, it's further reinforcing that type of behavior should be allowed. It shouldn't be. Almost nobody cares about such an innocuous remark or joke. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Febrel 10/05/19 7:33:09 PM #36: |
snitch
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NeoShadowhen 10/05/19 7:35:05 PM #37: |
IdiotMachine posted...
NeoShadowhen posted...Out of curiosity TC, what part of the country are you in? Sounds about right. I would have stopped associating with that person, maybe started putting together an exit plan. But going to HR is just going to turn it into a popularity showdown. Which you clearly lost. Start that exit plan now, I suppose. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bio1590 10/05/19 7:35:43 PM #39: |
Esrac posted...
IdiotMachine posted...By not doing anything, it's further reinforcing that type of behavior should be allowed. It shouldn't be. Not surprised this comment is coming from someone who argued spousal abuse is acceptable. --- https://imgur.com/bbRWLI8 https:/i.imgur.com/S1m3po4.jpg https://imgur.com/A0BErSV https://imgur.com/7fCcfko ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zikten 10/05/19 7:36:17 PM #40: |
Abiz_ posted...
Well, I don't believe you. Your group and her group both dropped you? Sounds like you chose to ignore the context or nuisance and now people don't like you for it or trust you. boo fucking hoo. they fucked up. TC did the right thing ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LordMarshal 10/05/19 7:37:48 PM #41: |
No, bitching to everyone until being on paid leave is not the right thing.
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Esrac 10/05/19 7:38:04 PM #42: |
Bio1590 posted...
Not surprised this comment is coming from someone who argued spousal abuse is acceptable. Did I do that? I can't even recall. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Elmer_Glue 10/05/19 7:42:59 PM #44: |
What did you expect for snitching on someone? Especially so blatantly? At your next job just do it anonymously.
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A_A_Battery 10/05/19 7:48:04 PM #45: |
I was prepared to go against you but this b be talking about human beings as if they were dogs, making her the closest to that description. Paid leave is bs for that, should be unpaid, and if shes a cop, we need less shitheads like this woman in these professions.
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Jiggy101011 10/05/19 7:48:05 PM #46: |
IdiotMachine posted...
Abiz_ posted...Well, I don't believe you. Your group and her group both dropped you? Sounds like you chose to ignore the context or nuisance and now people don't like you for it or trust you. Thats a Bill Burr joke. --- Gamertag: F1RE v2 PSN ID: F1REx Man got me a 9 and she sexy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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IdiotMachine 10/05/19 7:48:09 PM #47: |
Elmer_Glue posted...
What did you expect for snitching on someone? Especially so blatantly? At your next job just do it anonymously. I thought it would remain anonymous.l between the managers and HR. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Esrac 10/05/19 7:50:42 PM #48: |
IdiotMachine posted...
I thought it would remain anonymous.l between the managers and HR. It's pretty obvious it was you when you're probably the only one who tried to confront her about it. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Wii_Shaker 10/05/19 7:53:23 PM #49: |
Retaliation in the workplace is real.
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Lorthremar 10/05/19 8:02:22 PM #50: |
definitely offensive if said in the work place, don't listen to the CE "moderates"
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Agnostic420 10/05/19 8:07:31 PM #51: |
No legit job is going to get mad at an employee for making a racist comment.
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