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AlCalavicci
10/04/19 8:17:08 PM
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On the credit card receipt?

here are the facts:

-she has a nice smile
-shes cute
-Im engaged
-Im eating at a restaurant in another city, immediately leaving and going back to my home city
-would just leave the message on the receipt and walk out immediately , no contact info, no intention to talk to her again, etc

my message would just say you have a lovey smile , thanks for the service. And whatever tip I end up leaving. No phone number or contact info etc

thoughts?

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MabusIncarnate
10/04/19 8:35:51 PM
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No, don't be fucking creepy

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Guide
10/04/19 8:38:01 PM
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You are why we put chlorine in pools.
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Umbreon
10/04/19 8:39:08 PM
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AlCalavicci posted...
Im engaged


Fuck off flirting with other women then.
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R1masher
10/04/19 8:39:22 PM
#6:


Leave your hotel key too
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amzpeng
10/04/19 8:39:58 PM
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yes, I believe so
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AlCalavicci
10/04/19 8:45:53 PM
#8:


MabusIncarnate posted...
No, don't be fucking creepy


Why is it creepy though? Is it only for the fact that Im a guy? Like what happened to just wanting to make someones night by complimenting them?

Umbreon posted...
Fuck off flirting with other women then.


What Im trying to figure out is whether it is actually flirting , when the note would be left Knowing there was no chance of interacting with her, and no awkwardness for her in front of me because Id be gone by the time she read it. Because Im not trying to gain anything from it

R1masher posted...
Leave your hotel key too


im not staying, Im walking directly from the restaurant to catch my train out of town

anyways, I didnt do it because I had three beers, lost track of time and had to pay and go catch my train

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R1masher
10/04/19 8:48:10 PM
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Coward! Shoulda tried... youre going to regret it when youre old and sneezed on
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AlCalavicci
10/04/19 9:03:40 PM
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R1masher posted...
Coward! Shoulda tried... youre going to regret it when youre old and sneezed on


Why? I never intended to see her agaib

i think Id tweet being sneezed on tho

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MabusIncarnate
10/04/19 9:18:34 PM
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Well, for starters, she's working a job that she likely hates, and gets a dozen similar comments like this weekly, unwarranted, that just continue to build up as an annoyance she has to frequently deal with on the job. The respectable "guy" thing to do is not comment on her looks and appearance while she's trying to earn money and live her life, instead leave a good tip and leave it at that.

A "compliment" like you stated is generally not taken well, and considered harassing. She doesn't need to hear it from a stranger for the 15th time this week. You aren't being slick, or a charmer. It's just weird.

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