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butthole666
09/26/19 1:40:13 AM
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This time she scratched it AND hit it enough that it was raised

Good thing they make lasers now I guess
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AnimeFan462
09/26/19 1:42:09 AM
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You cant wash or smear a tattoo so youll be fine.
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MC_BatCommander
09/26/19 1:42:12 AM
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What the fuck are you doing in such an abusive relationship
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butthole666
09/26/19 1:44:04 AM
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MC_BatCommander posted...
What the fuck are you doing in such an abusive relationship

Getting the shit kicked out of me and told its my fault and that I am a rapist when I have in fact been having lots of sex I do not want bc saying no for any reasons triggers a meltdown bc i made her dirty
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butthole666
09/26/19 1:44:32 AM
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AnimeFan462 posted...
You cant wash or smear a tattoo so youll be fine.

Injuring a tattoo during healing can ruin it pretty easily.
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DocileOrangeCup
09/26/19 1:45:09 AM
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Machete
09/26/19 1:46:05 AM
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If she is the one you have complained about... dude yeah you should get the fuck out
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butthole666
09/26/19 1:52:37 AM
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She threatened to kill me if I call the police and ruin her future then denied having done so

I am not totally convinced that she will not try to. Between this and the health problems it has caused me, Im genuinely worried Im gonna die in that apartment.
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refmon
09/26/19 1:56:17 AM
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TC gets off on this situation I bet
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SH_expert44
09/26/19 1:58:30 AM
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Slaya4
09/26/19 1:58:35 AM
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Dude wtf. Lay down the law and get the fuck out. She's literally using you like a punching back and you are just taking it. She is only doing this because she knows she can. Stand up for yourself and leave.

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MC_BatCommander
09/26/19 2:20:10 AM
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butthole666 posted...
She threatened to kill me if I call the police and ruin her future then denied having done so

I am not totally convinced that she will not try to. Between this and the health problems it has caused me, Im genuinely worried Im gonna die in that apartment.


Uh you absolutely need to escape, what the fuck dude. Get out now and call the police.
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butthole666
09/26/19 2:44:03 AM
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I have pics of every scratch and bruise on me, including my now bleeding tat
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kingdrake2
09/26/19 2:52:06 AM
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butthole666 posted...
I have pics of every scratch and bruise on me, including my now bleeding tat


that is a bit much :(. hopefully TC does something about it to save himself before it ends badly.
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cavalierking
09/26/19 2:56:36 AM
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why'd you get a new tattoo if you knew something like this could/would happen
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Axiom
09/26/19 2:59:14 AM
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MC_BatCommander posted...
butthole666 posted...
She threatened to kill me if I call the police and ruin her future then denied having done so

I am not totally convinced that she will not try to. Between this and the health problems it has caused me, Im genuinely worried Im gonna die in that apartment.


Uh you absolutely need to escape, what the fuck dude. Get out now and call the police.

He's been making topics about this girl forever. He's never going to leave her
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InYourWalls1
09/26/19 3:01:44 AM
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butthole666 posted...
I have pics of every scratch and bruise on me, including my now bleeding tat


Good stuff man

Did you end up trying that number?
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butthole666
09/26/19 3:48:47 PM
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I have not yet; what little time Ive had not at work or being terrorized Ive spent trying to zone out completely. I think I have enough for a restraining order now, though. Im covered in bruises and scratches and have multiple meltdowns worth of texts that constitute harassment.

I really, really fucking hope Im not stuck with scarring on what was my favorite tattoo because of this psychotic garbage person, but the skin was definitely broken in one spot and the tattoo is new enough that hitting that hard could def cause blowout.
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Smashingpmkns
09/26/19 3:51:12 PM
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At this point you should leave and deal with the aftermath. Seriously. Save all incriminating text messages, get as many witnesses as you can. If you dont do this shit by at least the end of fucking October then don't even bother posting about this shit again because you refuse to help yourself.

Just fucking get out man.
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Pukelid
09/26/19 3:52:25 PM
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butthole666 posted...
MC_BatCommander posted...
What the fuck are you doing in such an abusive relationship

Getting the shit kicked out of me and told its my fault and that I am a rapist when I have in fact been having lots of sex I do not want bc saying no for any reasons triggers a meltdown bc i made her dirty

flashbacks dude

except "you made me dirty" wasnt her reasoning, she would just say "i feel like you raped me"

the meltdowns from refusing were in direct opposition to that, im aware. tc i feel like yours prob says the same thing to you
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viewmaster_pi
09/26/19 3:52:35 PM
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metallica846 posted...
So what are you gonna do about it? Make another topic?
this, you're like duncan at this point. you do nothing but make topics about it that no one wants to hear about anymore. multiple people offered suggestions to help, but you don't want to do anything about it or else you would have.

my empathy has been completely wrung out at this point, and i'm convinced you just like talking about it

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Pukelid
09/26/19 3:54:04 PM
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if you guys weren't in a relationship like TC's you wont understand. it took every single person in my life to get me out, basically. my brother drove 2000 miles, made me pack my shit, then drove me back to our parents house. i just up and left and i feel like that's literally the only way i could have gotten out (relatively) safely
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QueenCarly
09/26/19 3:55:23 PM
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Pukelid posted...
if you guys weren't in a relationship like TC's you wont understand


Seriously everyone making unhelpful posts should really stfu
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butthole666
09/26/19 3:57:19 PM
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I feel like yall dont understand how scary it is to be in this. I know what I have to do, exactly, but the potential aftermath is absolutely terrifying. She has self harmed, repeatedly, threatened suicide, repeatedly, knows where I live and has threatened to kill me if I ever defend myself, says hitting me is my fault for putting my arm up to block myself and making her want to hit me, and has the power to completely ruin my life and sap me of any friends, support system, or even professional connections. There is no good outcome, just ones that are bad in different ways.
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butthole666
09/26/19 3:59:22 PM
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Im basically scared to do anything w/o my dad straight up saying she is not allowed in my house. I fucking wish somebody would step in, Im scared and I need help desperately. Ive been telling people more and more, slowly, but even then its so volatile that nobody can really do anything.
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Blue_Inigo
09/26/19 4:00:03 PM
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Well, do you want to live under her abusive thumb for the rest of your life? Stay with a friend or family for a bit if she knows where you live.

CALL. THE. POLICE.
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Pukelid
09/26/19 4:03:32 PM
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tc i know your dad is abusive but does he have enough decency to help you here? my parents have always been abusive (and continue to be after i moved back), but they still prioritized saving me over leaving me in a place i was likely to die

other than that i would consider looking for lawyers who will offer free consultation. i had to speak with a few during my relationship. ended up not going thru the law and running away instead, but it looks like the law is your best bet here. no matter how it ends it's going to suck and the mental and physical scars will be there for a long, long time (i'm going on 2 years and am still a mess), but you will be better than you are now
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BignutzisBack
09/26/19 4:04:45 PM
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refmon posted...
TC gets off on this situation I bet


I've had him tagged as "clings to suicidal women" for years. At some point he needs to shit or get off the pot.

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butthole666
09/26/19 4:05:26 PM
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Conflict posted...
This is why I've asked "what are you scared will happen besides her killing herself"

Yes, obviously her killing herself isn't a good outcome but it's not your responsibility. And what do you mean by "she can sap me of my friends, support system and professional connections"

If she says I am a rapist my social circle will largely pack up and leave and I will not be able to play music ever again
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Pukelid
09/26/19 4:06:52 PM
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TC if you dont already, record your calls. there are tons of free apps. leave a recorder or a phone that can record in your pockets when you are with her. if she is like mine was she will overtly threaten false charges in which case you will now have protection

unless RI is a 2 party consent state
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Guide
09/26/19 4:08:04 PM
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Can't feel bad for you when you stick around, knowing what'll happen. I get that emotional duress fucks with your ability to think straight, but you've already been told a billion times by people who -aren't- abusing you to gtfo of that situation.
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butthole666
09/26/19 4:08:11 PM
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Conflict posted...
Have you told your social circle about these concerns

I have begun telling my closest friends yes

Big part of the problem is Ive also alienated a ton of ppl as a direct result of this, either by her direct influence or bc I have become such a beaten down scrap of a person that I dont know how to talk to anyone and dont even open texts.
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Smashingpmkns
09/26/19 4:10:22 PM
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butthole666 posted...
Conflict posted...
This is why I've asked "what are you scared will happen besides her killing herself"

Yes, obviously her killing herself isn't a good outcome but it's not your responsibility. And what do you mean by "she can sap me of my friends, support system and professional connections"

If she says I am a rapist my social circle will largely pack up and leave and I will not be able to play music ever again


Why the fuck havent you told any of your friends? They must not be that good of friends.
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Pukelid
09/26/19 4:13:06 PM
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Guide posted...
Can't feel bad for you when you stick around, knowing what'll happen. I get that emotional duress fucks with your ability to think straight, but you've already been told a billion times by people who -aren't- abusing you to gtfo of that situation.

he's cognizant of that fact and he is aware it is irrational to continue to stay

dealing with this problem rationally isnt so simple when the person isnt being rational. he needs real life support
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viewmaster_pi
09/26/19 4:13:21 PM
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Why the fuck wouldn't your friends believe you? I get that you're worried, but maybe you're overblowing the "power" you think this person has over everyone.

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Pukelid
09/26/19 4:14:21 PM
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viewmaster_pi posted...
Why the fuck wouldn't your friends believe you? I get that you're worried, but maybe you're overblowing the "power" you think this person has over everyone.

people with personality disorders excel at sucking people in
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viewmaster_pi
09/26/19 4:14:35 PM
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Pukelid posted...
he needs real life support
then maybe CE isn't the place to be

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butthole666
09/26/19 4:14:56 PM
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A rape accusation in a small music community is a very, very, very powerful thing
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Pukelid
09/26/19 4:14:58 PM
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viewmaster_pi posted...
Pukelid posted...
he needs real life support
then maybe CE isn't the place to be

god forbid people vent
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viewmaster_pi
09/26/19 4:15:34 PM
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Pukelid posted...
god forbid people vent
for how many years

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Pukelid
09/26/19 4:18:22 PM
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viewmaster_pi posted...
Pukelid posted...
god forbid people vent
for how many years

as many as he goddamn wants. his life is currently hell and he doesnt have irl people who will listen. anyone would be doing the same in his situation. dont kick a man while he's down - it's pretty shitty
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viewmaster_pi
09/26/19 4:24:20 PM
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Pukelid posted...
his life is currently hell and he doesnt have irl people who will listen
gee maybe because he won't tell anyone or even ATTEMPT police intervention

every time something from TC popped up, I've been supportive, I even defended him when another dude made fun of him for it, but there's nothing left at this point. we'll see him "venting" for another year, then two, then three, etc.

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Solar_Crimson
09/26/19 4:28:33 PM
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Just leave her. Look after your well-being first.
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Pukelid
09/26/19 4:28:53 PM
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so ignore him instead of going from supportive to toxic? dude unless youve been threatened with rape accusations, suicide threats, reputation-ruining lies, been beaten, had your shit stolen and broken, your house broken into ETC over the course of years, just stop. you cant even imagine what he's goin thru and putting him down is absolutely not what he needs. he gets enough of that 24/7 irl
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