Current Events > Got a long, wordy "Dear John" text today :/

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treewojima 09/04/19 10:32:07 AM #1:	I haven't been seeing her long enough to get particularly attached, though it would have been nice to have gotten a phone call instead of a text, or even better - her not being so enthusiastic about the next date and then sending a bullshit "I don't want to lead you on, let's be friends" message out of the blue the day before. Oh well, it was mostly a physical attraction anyway. <cite>treewojima posted [p:926950840] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>I haven't been seeing her long enough to get particularly attached, though it would have been nice to have gotten a phone call instead of a text, or even better - her not being so enthusiastic about the next date and then sending a bullshit "I don't want to lead you on, let's be friends" message out of the blue the day before. Oh well, it was mostly a physical attraction anyway.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HasaDiga 09/04/19 10:35:01 AM #2:	I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective. <cite>HasaDiga posted [p:926950956] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
treewojima 09/04/19 10:36:29 AM #3:	HasaDiga posted... I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective. I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened? <cite>treewojima posted [p:926951012] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote><cite>HasaDiga posted...</cite> <quote>I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective.</quote> I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eston 09/04/19 10:42:33 AM #4:	Better than being ghosted I guess --- http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i215/estonc/grizzly_bear_chairs_2.jpg https://imgur.com/8kjZU <cite>eston posted [p:926951233] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>Better than being ghosted I guess</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HasaDiga 09/04/19 10:57:56 AM #5:	treewojima posted... HasaDiga posted... I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective. I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened? Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for. <cite>HasaDiga posted [p:926951801] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>treewojima posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HasaDiga posted...</cite> <quote>I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective.</quote> I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened?</quote> Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ultima Dragon 09/04/19 11:00:11 AM #6:	eston posted... Better than being ghosted I guess It is to me. I got ghosted by my first love and I don't even know what you can take from that, lol. I like to use my past experiences to hopefully better myself going forward, but it's kind of hard when you don't even know what you did wrong or if there's anything you could have done better. --- "We know things can move faster than the speed of light because liberal tears are on the ground before something offensive even happens" - Coffeebeanz <cite>Ultima Dragon posted [p:926951879] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>eston posted...</cite> <quote>Better than being ghosted I guess</quote> It is to me. I got ghosted by my first love and I don't even know what you can take from that, lol. I like to use my past experiences to hopefully better myself going forward, but it's kind of hard when you don't even know what you did wrong or if there's anything you could have done better.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
treewojima 09/04/19 11:02:13 AM #7:	Oh yeah, WAY better than being ghosted. <cite>treewojima posted [p:926951951] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>Oh yeah, WAY better than being ghosted.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HasaDiga 09/04/19 11:04:43 AM #8:	Ultima Dragon posted... eston posted... Better than being ghosted I guess It is to me. I got ghosted by my first love and I don't even know what you can take from that, lol. I like to use my past experiences to hopefully better myself going forward, but it's kind of hard when you don't even know what you did wrong or if there's anything you could have done better. That's gut wrenching, dude.. <cite>HasaDiga posted [p:926952045] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>Ultima Dragon posted...</cite> <quote>eston posted...</cite> <quote>Better than being ghosted I guess</quote> It is to me. I got ghosted by my first love and I don't even know what you can take from that, lol. I like to use my past experiences to hopefully better myself going forward, but it's kind of hard when you don't even know what you did wrong or if there's anything you could have done better.</quote> That's gut wrenching, dude..</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
treewojima 09/04/19 11:08:03 AM #9:	HasaDiga posted... treewojima posted... HasaDiga posted... I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective. I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened? Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for. That's awful. You hang on to that kid though, that's the kind of love that will last forever. He shouldn't be without his mom though, that's shitty. <cite>treewojima posted [p:926952181] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote><cite>HasaDiga posted...</cite> <quote>treewojima posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>HasaDiga posted...</cite> <quote> I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective. </quote> I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened?</quote> Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for.</quote> That's awful. You hang on to that kid though, that's the kind of love that will last forever. He shouldn't be without his mom though, that's shitty.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 09/04/19 11:09:07 AM #10:	Thats dumb, why do people do that? --- "some guys get bored after having sex with a girl....i get bored halfway through having sex with a girl" - No_U_L7 https://i.imgtc.ws/uXfxf6P.png <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:926952225] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>Thats dumb, why do people do that?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HasaDiga 09/04/19 11:09:37 AM #11:	treewojima posted... HasaDiga posted... treewojima posted... HasaDiga posted... I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective. I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened? Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for. That's awful. You hang on to that kid though, that's the kind of love that will last forever. He shouldn't be without his mom though, that's shitty. I would never. This baby is not a weapon. <cite>HasaDiga posted [p:926952240] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>treewojima posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HasaDiga posted...</cite> <quote>treewojima posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>HasaDiga posted...</cite> <quote> I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective. </quote> I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened?</quote> Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for.</quote> That's awful. You hang on to that kid though, that's the kind of love that will last forever. He shouldn't be without his mom though, that's shitty.</quote> I would never. This baby is not a weapon.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HasaDiga 09/04/19 11:20:50 AM #12:	Shablagoo posted... Thats dumb, why do people do that? Some people treat life like it's a movie starring them as the lead role and everyone else is an extra. Plus if something happens "off screen" then it doesn't count as real to them. It's like they legitimately think that when THEY die, everything ceases to exist for everyone. Nobody else is important and everyone is a means to an end. <cite>HasaDiga posted [p:926952646] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>Shablagoo posted...</cite> <quote>Thats dumb, why do people do that?</quote> Some people treat life like it's a movie starring them as the lead role and everyone else is an extra. Plus if something happens "off screen" then it doesn't count as real to them. It's like they legitimately think that when THEY die, everything ceases to exist for everyone. Nobody else is important and everyone is a means to an end.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
treewojima 09/04/19 11:20:59 AM #13:	Good man. My dad was never really there for me. I wish you and your son the best, you'll get through this. <cite>treewojima posted [p:926952654] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>Good man. My dad was never really there for me. I wish you and your son the best, you'll get through this.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Irony 09/04/19 11:28:33 AM #14:	Should have replied with this. --- I am Mogar, God of Irony and The Devourer of Topics. <cite>Irony posted [p:926952924] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>Should have replied with this. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
treewojima 09/04/19 11:31:29 AM #15:	Irony posted... Should have replied with this. Lol. I didn't respond at all <cite>treewojima posted [p:926953033] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote><cite>Irony posted...</cite> <quote>Should have replied with this. </quote> Lol. I didn't respond at all</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
treewojima 09/04/19 11:45:49 AM #16:	On the plus side, I get to spend the weekend with my FWB at her parent's beach house, so that'll be fun. I'm just kinda in a "settle down" mood lately. <cite>treewojima posted [p:926953633] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>On the plus side, I get to spend the weekend with my FWB at her parent's beach house, so that'll be fun. I'm just kinda in a "settle down" mood lately.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 09/04/19 12:09:03 PM #17:	treewojima posted... Irony posted... Should have replied with this. Lol. I didn't respond at all Please use dat meme if u do treewojima posted... On the plus side, I get to spend the weekend with my FWB at her parent's beach house, so that'll be fun. I'm just kinda in a "settle down" mood lately. nice, that sounds way more fun anyway --- "some guys get bored after having sex with a girl....i get bored halfway through having sex with a girl" - No_U_L7 https://i.imgtc.ws/uXfxf6P.png <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:926954507] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>treewojima posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Irony posted...</cite> <quote>Should have replied with this. </quote> Lol. I didn't respond at all</quote> Please use dat meme if u do treewojima posted...</cite> <quote>On the plus side, I get to spend the weekend with my FWB at her parent's beach house, so that'll be fun. I'm just kinda in a "settle down" mood lately.</quote> nice, that sounds way more fun anyway</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hanky_Bannister 09/04/19 12:11:45 PM #18:	treewojima posted... I haven't been seeing her long enough to get particularly attached, though it would have been nice to have gotten a phone call instead of a text, or even better - her not being so enthusiastic about the next date and then sending a bullshit "I don't want to lead you on, let's be friends" message out of the blue the day before. Oh well, it was mostly a physical attraction anyway. she sounds flaky and insecure. sounds like she did you a favor. --- "3rd Best Whiskey in Northern Burma" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hvjOu4EzjYg <cite>Hanky_Bannister posted [p:926954613] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>treewojima posted...</cite> <quote>I haven't been seeing her long enough to get particularly attached, though it would have been nice to have gotten a phone call instead of a text, or even better - her not being so enthusiastic about the next date and then sending a bullshit "I don't want to lead you on, let's be friends" message out of the blue the day before. Oh well, it was mostly a physical attraction anyway.</quote> she sounds flaky and insecure. sounds like she did you a favor.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dyinglegacy 09/04/19 12:12:03 PM #19:	HasaDiga posted... Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for. I sunk into despair reading that. --- Voted worst user on CE 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, and 2018. Current e-argument streak: 0 wins. 100000 losses. <cite>Dyinglegacy posted [p:926954629] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>HasaDiga posted... </cite> <quote>Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for.</quote> I sunk into despair reading that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HasaDiga 09/04/19 12:31:22 PM #20:	Sorry. Not trying to bring anyone down but I have no idea how to be uplifting right now. <cite>HasaDiga posted [p:926955420] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>Sorry. Not trying to bring anyone down but I have no idea how to be uplifting right now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
treewojima 09/04/19 1:05:36 PM #21:	If you gotta vent, then vent. It's a current event after all lol <cite>treewojima posted [p:926956853] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>If you gotta vent, then vent. It's a current event after all lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HasaDiga 09/04/19 1:06:56 PM #22:	Yeah but now I also feel a bit guilty for hijacking your thread as if I was DarkRoast... <cite>HasaDiga posted [p:926956919] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>Yeah but now I also feel a bit guilty for hijacking your thread as if I was DarkRoast...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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treewojima 09/04/19 1:36:18 PM #24:	HasaDiga posted... Yeah but now I also feel a bit guilty for hijacking your thread as if I was DarkRoast... Lol don't, threads are organic and take on a life of their own. Grow, little topic, grow! <cite>treewojima posted [p:926958156] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote><cite>HasaDiga posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah but now I also feel a bit guilty for hijacking your thread as if I was DarkRoast...</quote> Lol don't, threads are organic and take on a life of their own. Grow, little topic, grow!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
treewojima 09/04/19 2:22:08 PM #25:	My coworker convinced me to send her that meme as a response, we'll see what she says. I know I'm gonna run into her again during my normal work lmao <cite>treewojima posted [p:926960215] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>My coworker convinced me to send her that meme as a response, we'll see what she says. I know I'm gonna run into her again during my normal work lmao</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 09/04/19 2:24:39 PM #26:	lmao nice, give your coworker a fist bump from me >.> --- "some guys get bored after having sex with a girl....i get bored halfway through having sex with a girl" - No_U_L7 https://i.imgtc.ws/uXfxf6P.png <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:926960312] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>lmao nice, give your coworker a fist bump from me >.></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Big_Nabendu 09/04/19 2:28:44 PM #27:	She broke up with u over a text? Childish bullshit. Fuck that noise. --- The embrace of the Dark is gentle. Let it absorb your sorrows, forever. \[T]/ Owner of the 500 board and Leader of sunbro board GT Nabendu <cite>Big_Nabendu posted [p:926960469] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>She broke up with u over a text? Childish bullshit. Fuck that noise. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YourDrunkFather 09/05/19 10:33:41 AM #28:	HasaDiga posted... treewojima posted... HasaDiga posted... I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective. I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened? Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for. I hope Im wrong but when girls go cold seemingly out of the blue like that its usually because of another guy --- One bourbon,one scotch,one beer <cite>YourDrunkFather posted [p:927004918] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>HasaDiga posted...</cite> <quote>treewojima posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HasaDiga posted...</cite> <quote>I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective.</quote> I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened?</quote> Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for.</quote> I hope Im wrong but when girls go cold seemingly out of the blue like that its usually because of another guy</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kaliesto 09/05/19 10:42:18 AM #29:	I was kind of ghosted by this one woman I knew for many years had some kind of sexual attraction for me that just never really went anywhere, and then eventually she got a bf apparently and then our friendship became kind of toxic because the attraction I had for her was still there, and every time I tried to talk to her I would not really get any text response back, it was just casual talk btw (I knew better at that point). So i just decided to drop the whole thing all together, and move on with my life. It really sucks because she was one the few girls in my life that ever gave some kind of damn about me at one point, I just kind of fucked it up for myself by doing dumb shit years ago. --- Gimme dat, gimme dat, gimme dat DramaFAQs-misterbum <cite>Kaliesto posted [p:927005235] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>I was kind of ghosted by this one woman I knew for many years had some kind of sexual attraction for me that just never really went anywhere, and then eventually she got a bf apparently and then our friendship became kind of toxic because the attraction I had for her was still there, and every time I tried to talk to her I would not really get any text response back, it was just casual talk btw (I knew better at that point). So i just decided to drop the whole thing all together, and move on with my life. It really sucks because she was one the few girls in my life that ever gave some kind of damn about me at one point, I just kind of fucked it up for myself by doing dumb shit years ago. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HasaDiga 09/05/19 10:44:55 AM #30:	YourDrunkFather posted... HasaDiga posted... treewojima posted... HasaDiga posted... I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective. I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened? Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for. I hope Im wrong but when girls go cold seemingly out of the blue like that its usually because of another guy If that's the case, then I could at least be told. <cite>HasaDiga posted [p:927005358] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>YourDrunkFather posted...</cite> <quote>HasaDiga posted...</cite> <quote>treewojima posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HasaDiga posted...</cite> <quote>I had something similar happen yesterday except it involved the ending of my years long relationship. Also kids are involved. We were apparently dedicated to one another and now suddenly not. Not trying to compete, just providing some perspective.</quote> I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not really sweating my thing, it's more of a bummer than anything. What happened?</quote> Too much happened. Some I know and some is a mystery. I know it's a fishy situation. I know her parents have her under their thumbs and she's probably being threatened with something. I know you don't go from crying and saying "I love you." to complete cold shoulder in less than 24 hours after three and a half years. Other than that, I'm lost and know nothing other than I'm miserable and this 2 year old baby boy is all I'm hanging on for.</quote> I hope Im wrong but when girls go cold seemingly out of the blue like that its usually because of another guy</quote> If that's the case, then I could at least be told.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HasaDiga 09/05/19 10:50:25 AM #31:	The 11 year old is still calling me dad on the phone rather than having reverted back to "Matt" so I don't think it's that. I hope not anyway. Even still, she'll eventually realize that she fucked up. <cite>HasaDiga posted [p:927005594] in Got a long... [t:77986470]...</cite> <quote>The 11 year old is still calling me dad on the phone rather than having reverted back to "Matt" so I don't think it's that. I hope not anyway. Even still, she'll eventually realize that she fucked up.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Current Events > Got a long, wordy "Dear John" text today :/