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JBaLLEN66 08/22/19 8:28:29 PM #1:	She said hes moving out of the country and wanted to see him before he left? I said Im not comfortable with it, but you make your own decisions. --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:926423741] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>She said hes moving out of the country and wanted to see him before he left? I said Im not comfortable with it, but you make your own decisions.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bluharvest 08/22/19 8:30:48 PM #2:	They're gonna bang --- http://gamefaqs.com/916401/b/- \|Come on down for drinks and good company\| <cite>Bluharvest posted [p:926423813] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>They're gonna bang</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 08/22/19 8:44:47 PM #3:	Bump --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:926424324] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>Bump</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Irony 08/22/19 8:45:35 PM #4:	If she could me her ex --- I am Mogar, God of Irony and The Devourer of Topics. <cite>Irony posted [p:926424350] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>If she could me her ex</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FightingJester 08/22/19 8:46:53 PM #5:	Itll be fine. <cite>FightingJester posted [p:926424394] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>Itll be fine.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Timohtep 08/22/19 8:47:23 PM #6:	If you don't trust your gf enough for her to go hang out with her ex, then you have deeper problems. If you think she would sleep with her ex, why are you even with her? --- https://imgur.com/wwCOg https://imgur.com/tu3lv https://imgur.com/BBUcOkX https://imgur.com/kEMcd https://imgur.com/GIjGS <cite>Timohtep posted [p:926424413] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>If you don't trust your gf enough for her to go hang out with her ex, then you have deeper problems. If you think she would sleep with her ex, why are you even with her?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pupeye 08/22/19 8:52:15 PM #7:	if she is drinking then she shouldn't drive. why dont you offer to drop her off and pick her up. if shes ok with that, you can trust her; if she is not ok with that..... <cite>pupeye posted [p:926424582] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>if she is drinking then she shouldn't drive. why dont you offer to drop her off and pick her up. if shes ok with that, you can trust her; if she is not ok with that.....</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alteres 08/22/19 8:53:56 PM #8:	Yeah, that sounds like a goodbye fuck. --- ........the ghost in the machine... IGN: Fox, FC: 5344-2646-0982 <cite>Alteres posted [p:926424650] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>Yeah, that sounds like a goodbye fuck.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JuanCarlos1 08/22/19 8:55:36 PM #9:	Same thing happened with my wife when we started dating. I just had phone sex with an ex while she was out with him. --- Mas dicen, que en las dimensiones de nuestro ser... hay muchos detalles por conocer... <cite>JuanCarlos1 posted [p:926424715] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>Same thing happened with my wife when we started dating. I just had phone sex with an ex while she was out with him.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk 08/22/19 8:58:45 PM #10:	I'm bored. I'm not trying to fuck with you. You're already uncomfortable with it so you should have said no. You should have made a block since you're clearly unhappy. 'If you go then we break up but I want to talk about how you can help your ex' is the proper response. But you didn't. So now you get to live with this. Are you ready? You fucked up majorly. It wasn't a power play. But she'll see it as one. You can't go back. You can't go forward. You need to balance the power which means begging. You beg to her to turn back and come home while explaining why you want it. If she listens then your relationship is saved. You let her go meet with the ex but you make it clear she can't do this again alone. ~~She's not fucking him. If she was, then this would be the 84th sign~~ --- https://i.imgtc.ws/ZSMkmi1.jpg <cite>RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted [p:926424805] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>I'm bored. I'm not trying to fuck with you. You're already uncomfortable with it so you should have said no. You should have made a block since you're clearly unhappy. 'If you go then we break up but I want to talk about how you can help your ex' is the proper response. But you didn't. So now you get to live with this. Are you ready? You fucked up majorly. It wasn't a power play. But she'll see it as one. You can't go back. You can't go forward. You need to balance the power which means begging. You beg to her to turn back and come home while explaining why you want it. If she listens then your relationship is saved. You let her go meet with the ex but you make it clear she can't do this again alone. She's not fucking him. If she was, then this would be the 84th sign</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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L0Z 08/22/19 9:02:54 PM #12:	Hes not moving out of the country. Hes trying to make her miss him so he can bang her that night and get her back. Just tell her no. Exes are exes for a reason <cite>L0Z posted [p:926424966] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>Hes not moving out of the country. Hes trying to make her miss him so he can bang her that night and get her back. Just tell her no. Exes are exes for a reason</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JimmyFraska 08/22/19 9:04:33 PM #13:	I think you gave the right answer, which is to say, her doing it would now be pretty disrespectful. It is weird. RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted... You need to balance the power which means begging. You beg to her to turn back and come home while explaining why you want it. If she listens then your relationship is saved. You let her go meet with the ex but you make it clear she can't do this again alone. She's not fucking him. If she was, then this would be the 84th sign You either ARE trying to fuck with tc or you're clueless. Framing, persuasion and sophistry aside, his girlfriend KNOWS how uncomfortable he is with it. It means she's more into this other guy. What she is doing is not normal. Yes, he should've made a more assertive statement instead of being passive, but that doesn't mean he has to BEG now. That is is ridiculous. TC, if she goes after what you told her, she has NO interest in the relationship with you! If she goes, she's making an easy decision for you! If you BEG her as this user suggests, or if you let her do it despite how she KNEW you felt, you will be in a dead relationship. Maybe you'll get dumped this year, maybe in ten years, but you will be MISERABLE and you will always remember that guy. <cite>JimmyFraska posted [p:926425037] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>I think you gave the right answer, which is to say, her doing it would now be pretty disrespectful. It is weird. RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...</cite> <quote>You need to balance the power which means begging. You beg to her to turn back and come home while explaining why you want it. If she listens then your relationship is saved. You let her go meet with the ex but you make it clear she can't do this again alone. She's not fucking him. If she was, then this would be the 84th sign</quote> You either ARE trying to fuck with tc or you're clueless. Framing, persuasion and sophistry aside, his girlfriend KNOWS how uncomfortable he is with it. It means she's more into this other guy. What she is doing is not normal. Yes, he should've made a more assertive statement instead of being passive, but that doesn't mean he has to BEG now. That is is ridiculous. TC, if she goes after what you told her, she has NO interest in the relationship with you! If she goes, she's making an easy decision for you! If you BEG her as this user suggests, or if you let her do it despite how she KNEW you felt, you will be in a dead relationship. Maybe you'll get dumped this year, maybe in ten years, but you will be MISERABLE and you will always remember that guy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk 08/22/19 9:05:25 PM #14:	JimmyFraska posted... You either ARE trying to f* with tc or you're clueless. No. the rest of your post is attacking her with literally a guess. --- https://i.imgtc.ws/ZSMkmi1.jpg <cite>RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted [p:926425067] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>JimmyFraska posted...</cite> <quote> You either ARE trying to f* with tc or you're clueless.</quote> No. the rest of your post is attacking her with literally a guess.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JimmyFraska 08/22/19 9:07:55 PM #15:	RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted... JimmyFraska posted... You either ARE trying to f* with tc or you're clueless. No. the rest of your post is attacking her with literally a guess. With only the context TC provided, that is the answer. With more context, perhaps the answer changes. But I doubt it. You are correct that he should've been more assertive in the first place. <cite>JimmyFraska posted [p:926425148] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...</cite> <quote>JimmyFraska posted...</cite> <quote> You either ARE trying to f* with tc or you're clueless.</quote> No. the rest of your post is attacking her with literally a guess.</quote> With only the context TC provided, that is the answer. With more context, perhaps the answer changes. But I doubt it. You are correct that he should've been more assertive in the first place.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 08/22/19 9:10:56 PM #16:	No one can answer that but you tc. If it doesnt bother you are you gonna suddenly take issue with it cause ce said you should? The fuck is that? --- "I got a rolla truc, look" ~ sleaford mods "The most tender place in my heart is for strangers." ~ neko case <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:926425269] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>No one can answer that but you tc. If it doesnt bother you are you gonna suddenly take issue with it cause ce said you should? The fuck is that?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk 08/22/19 9:10:58 PM #17:	JimmyFraska posted... With only the context TC provided, that is the answer. then stop talking --- https://i.imgtc.ws/ZSMkmi1.jpg <cite>RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted [p:926425272] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>JimmyFraska posted...</cite> <quote> With only the context TC provided, that is the answer. </quote> then stop talking</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 08/22/19 9:11:03 PM #18:	It seems like if she was gonna fuck around then she wouldnt have brought it up in the first place. How long did they date, how long have you been dating, and how long ago did they break up. <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:926425273] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>It seems like if she was gonna fuck around then she wouldnt have brought it up in the first place. How long did they date, how long have you been dating, and how long ago did they break up.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JimmyFraska 08/22/19 9:12:04 PM #19:	RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted... JimmyFraska posted... With only the context TC provided, that is the answer. then stop talking You're not god, that means nothing to me. TC LOOK AT ABOVE POST UNDER MY NAME FOR CORRECT ANSWER <cite>JimmyFraska posted [p:926425324] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...</cite> <quote>JimmyFraska posted...</cite> <quote> With only the context TC provided, that is the answer. </quote> then stop talking</quote> You're not god, that means nothing to me. TC LOOK AT ABOVE POST UNDER MY NAME FOR CORRECT ANSWER</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
darkmaian23 08/22/19 9:31:58 PM #20:	Did she end up going anyway? <cite>darkmaian23 posted [p:926426112] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>Did she end up going anyway?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tired-Insomniac 08/22/19 9:33:11 PM #21:	Bluharvest posted... They're gonna bang --- "I like turtles" <cite>Tired-Insomniac posted [p:926426147] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>Bluharvest posted...</cite> <quote>They're gonna bang</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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mattnd2007 08/22/19 9:34:41 PM #23:	pupeye posted... if she is drinking then she shouldn't drive. why dont you offer to drop her off and pick her up. if shes ok with that, you can trust her; if she is not ok with that..... I think this would be a fair option. She might see right through it. But at the same time if she says no you know she is probably up to no good. --- Show me a man who resorts to violence and I'll show you a man who's run out of good ideas Phil Funnie <cite>mattnd2007 posted [p:926426210] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>pupeye posted... </cite> <quote>if she is drinking then she shouldn't drive. why dont you offer to drop her off and pick her up. if shes ok with that, you can trust her; if she is not ok with that.....</quote>I think this would be a fair option. She might see right through it. But at the same time if she says no you know she is probably up to no good. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AirFresh 08/22/19 9:35:50 PM #24:	This is a very shitty move on her part and I think you should reconsider dating her. --- I am probably on the toliet. <cite>AirFresh posted [p:926426253] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>This is a very shitty move on her part and I think you should reconsider dating her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mattnd2007 08/22/19 9:35:59 PM #25:	It's like an indirect confrontation on the situation --- Show me a man who resorts to violence and I'll show you a man who's run out of good ideas Phil Funnie <cite>mattnd2007 posted [p:926426260] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>It's like an indirect confrontation on the situation </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 08/22/19 9:37:00 PM #26:	Weve been dating for like 3 months. I agree that she can be ***** her ex regardless lol --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:926426300] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>Weve been dating for like 3 months. I agree that she can be ***** her ex regardless lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 08/22/19 9:37:45 PM #27:	shockthemonkey posted... Yall fucking weird and insecure, dont date people who you think are gonna go fuck their exes This. --- "I got a rolla truc, look" ~ sleaford mods "The most tender place in my heart is for strangers." ~ neko case <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:926426329] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>Yall fucking weird and insecure, dont date people who you think are gonna go fuck their exes</quote> This.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JBaLLEN66 08/22/19 9:46:53 PM #29:	shockthemonkey posted... Also she aint gonna tell you shes seeing an ex if shes gonna go fuck. But she could be ducking him right now --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:926426641] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>Also she aint gonna tell you shes seeing an ex if shes gonna go fuck.</quote> But she could be ducking him right now</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AirFresh 08/22/19 9:51:46 PM #31:	JBaLLEN66 posted... shockthemonkey posted... Also she aint gonna tell you shes seeing an ex if shes gonna go fuck. But she could be ducking him right now Call her right now. Let's make this interesting. --- I am probably on the toliet. <cite>AirFresh posted [p:926426814] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>JBaLLEN66 posted...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>Also she aint gonna tell you shes seeing an ex if shes gonna go fuck.</quote> But she could be ducking him right now</quote> Call her right now. Let's make this interesting.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PatrickMahomes 08/22/19 9:53:55 PM #32:	tag --- MVP Tracker: 1-0 <cite>PatrickMahomes posted [p:926426890] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>tag</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 08/22/19 10:08:38 PM #33:	Should I dump her --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:926427370] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>Should I dump her</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FightingJester 08/22/19 10:11:10 PM #34:	JBaLLEN66 posted... Should I dump her Yes. <cite>FightingJester posted [p:926427471] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>JBaLLEN66 posted...</cite> <quote>Should I dump her</quote> Yes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 08/22/19 11:42:38 PM #35:	night ce bump --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:926430628] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>night ce bump</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tired-Insomniac 08/22/19 11:47:05 PM #36:	FightingJester posted... JBaLLEN66 posted... Should I dump her Yes. This, but only after you go balls deep in her doggy style and pull out to bust in her hair. --- "I like turtles" <cite>Tired-Insomniac posted [p:926430768] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>FightingJester posted...</cite> <quote>JBaLLEN66 posted...</cite> <quote>Should I dump her</quote> Yes.</quote> This, but only after you go balls deep in her doggy style and pull out to bust in her hair.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AlecSkorpio 08/22/19 11:48:39 PM #37:	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulteZYyWAA8" data-time=" --- Christian Bale profited off the Iraq War <cite>AlecSkorpio posted [p:926430814] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulteZYyWAA8" data-time="</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
StealthRock 08/23/19 12:25:50 AM #38:	shockthemonkey posted... Also she aint gonna tell you shes seeing an ex if shes gonna go fuck. Not true Just because shes doing it doesnt mean she has to completely lie about it. She could be seeing what she can get away with. And then when she does it she will play the "i thought you knew" card --- Pokemon is awesome <cite>StealthRock posted [p:926431936] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>Also she aint gonna tell you shes seeing an ex if shes gonna go fuck.</quote> Not true Just because shes doing it doesnt mean she has to completely lie about it. She could be seeing what she can get away with. And then when she does it she will play the "i thought you knew" card</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
darkmaian23 08/23/19 2:10:54 AM #39:	Do these things actually happen, or do people on CE just like giving each other a hard time? <cite>darkmaian23 posted [p:926434666] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>Do these things actually happen, or do people on CE just like giving each other a hard time?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheoryzC 08/23/19 2:16:29 AM #40:	I'll go with her lol --- This is where my sigs suppose to be. <cite>TheoryzC posted [p:926434788] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>I'll go with her lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Crepes 08/23/19 2:20:17 AM #41:	Three months is nothing. After three months Id still be in the working out stage in the relationship before fully committing to her. Ultimately in any relationship your partner or you are going to find yourselves in situations where you have the option to cheat. You both arent going to theoretically spend the next 40 years and not have chances to cheat. On the flip side I find CE is far too quick to judge on situations like this and they generally boil down to users telling you to leave them. Youre going to have to trust her one day and this seems like as good a situation as there is to put that to the test. Ultimately the only person who can tell you what to do is yourself as youre the only one with all the details. --- Praxis Makes Perfect The only intelligent tactical response to life's horror is to laugh defiantly at it. ~Soren Kierkegaard <cite>Crepes posted [p:926434874] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>Three months is nothing. After three months Id still be in the working out stage in the relationship before fully committing to her. Ultimately in any relationship your partner or you are going to find yourselves in situations where you have the option to cheat. You both arent going to theoretically spend the next 40 years and not have chances to cheat. On the flip side I find CE is far too quick to judge on situations like this and they generally boil down to users telling you to leave them. Youre going to have to trust her one day and this seems like as good a situation as there is to put that to the test. Ultimately the only person who can tell you what to do is yourself as youre the only one with all the details.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
slimfizzle4 08/23/19 2:25:00 AM #42:	FightingJester posted... Itll be fine. It be me fine her --- Meatwad make the money see, Meatwad get the honeys G <cite>slimfizzle4 posted [p:926434975] in My gf aske... [t:77957790]...</cite> <quote>FightingJester posted...</cite> <quote>Itll be fine.</quote> It be me fine her</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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