Current Events > Girl that rejected me twice back in high school now bombarding me with messages.

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High school was 10+ years ago for me. Back then I was a little heavier than I am now, I was 240-ish in high school now I'm down in the 210s. The girl was thick in high school but now is probably pushing 300 with two kids with two separate guys. I tried twice to go out with her back then and she turned me down both times. The second time she was a little brutal which, admittedly, I probably needed to hear. We've been facebook friends since school and we talked a bit when I saw her last year at our high school reunion.

Now recently, out of no where, she started sending all sorts of messages on facebook. I'm in a relationship right now, which she can see on facebook and even "liked" a photo of me and my girlfriend, but won't give up. Yesterday she sent a message that had a long ass paragraph that ended with "I've always liked you,". I haven't told my girlfriend because she's quite the fireball when she's angry and I don't want to start drama if it does piss her off. Even if I wasn't with my current gf I wouldn't be interested in her and I'm too nice to say anything so I don't know what to do.

/rant.
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jackgunney posted...

Yesterday she sent a message that had a long ass paragraph that ended with "I've always liked you,"

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Rebounding?

Why would your gf be pissed about a girl liking you, especially a fat one with two kids that you have no interest in
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Ving_Rhames posted...

Why would your gf be pissed about a girl liking you, especially a fat one with two kids that you have no interest in

Some of things the messages say are pretty forward. My gf can be pretty territorial. She's got that Latina fire.
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She's desperate for a dad for those 2. Hit it and let her down brutally afterwards. Saying that's all you wanted from her, she's not that good in bed and good luck with the kids.
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jackgunney posted...

Ving_Rhames posted...

Why would your gf be pissed about a girl liking you, especially a fat one with two kids that you have no interest in

Some of things the messages say are pretty forward. My gf can be pretty territorial. She's got that Latina fire.

You know what you need to do now.
Back away and let the gf handle the situation.

Swagger_Dagger posted...

Don't do it TC

Believe me, I have no interest in doing so.
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They get old and fat and realize they can't rely on their looks anymore so they settle for the guys that they rejected while they were being pumped and dumped by the guys they liked in their 20s. Don't do it TC.
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jackgunney posted...

Yesterday she sent a message that had a long ass paragraph that ended with "I've always liked you,"

Lmao I would have told her ass off after she sent this shit after not getting the hint.

Questionmarktarius posted...

jackgunney posted...

Ving_Rhames posted...

Why would your gf be pissed about a girl liking you, especially a fat one with two kids that you have no interest in

Some of things the messages say are pretty forward. My gf can be pretty territorial. She's got that Latina fire.

You know what you need to do now.
Back away and let the gf handle the situation.

Worst thing he can do. He just needs to tell the girl to leave him alone or block her. Simple.
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KillerKhan420 posted...

She's desperate for a dad for those 2. Hit it and let her down brutally afterwards. Saying that's all you wanted from her, she's not that good in bed and good luck with the kids.

If he wanted to cheat, why would he do it with an amorphous blob
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Just tell her she's a nice girl and all but you're in a committed relationship and can't be having her messaging you with shit like "I've always liked you". You don't need to completely ghost her but after getting that point across don't feel inclined to always have to reply or even continue the conversation, just react and leave it. Don't ask questions, don't change topics, just be like "haha cool" and then stop replying.
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Put it in her butt
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KillerKhan420 posted...

She's desperate for a dad for those 2. Hit it and let her down brutally afterwards. Saying that's all you wanted from her, she's not that good in bed and good luck with the kids.

I dunno.
She's probably fishing for a third kid.

Unknown5uspect posted...

jackgunney posted...

Yesterday she sent a message that had a long ass paragraph that ended with "I've always liked you,"

Lmao I would have told her ass off after she sent this shit after not getting the hint.

The petty side of me would love to, but I enjoy being the bigger person.

Hairistotle posted...

Just block and move on with life

Most likely waht's going to happen.
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Holy_Pumpkin posted...

Just tell her she's a nice girl and all but you're in a committed relationship and can't be having her messaging you with shit like "I've always liked you". You don't need to completely ghost her but after getting that point across don't feel inclined to always have to reply or even continue the conversation, just react and leave it. Don't ask questions, don't change topics, just be like "haha cool" and then stop replying.

That's... actually good advice. I'll probably use this, thanks.
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jackgunney posted...

Holy_Pumpkin posted...

Just tell her she's a nice girl and all but you're in a committed relationship and can't be having her messaging you with shit like "I've always liked you". You don't need to completely ghost her but after getting that point across don't feel inclined to always have to reply or even continue the conversation, just react and leave it. Don't ask questions, don't change topics, just be like "haha cool" and then stop replying.

That's... actually good advice. I'll probably use this, thanks.

np, good luck and god speed
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