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clearaflagrantj 06/06/19 8:31:09 AM #1: |
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4:30am: woke up 5am-6am: ran 6am-6:30am: got ready for work 6:30am-7am: commuted 7am-5pm:worked 5pm-5:30pm: commuted 5:30pm-7pm: lifted weights 7pm-7:30pm: ate dinner 7:30pm-8:30pm: MY ONLY PERSONAL HOUR 8:30pm-9pm: got ready for bed 9pm-4:30am: sleep How do you fit dealing with little crotch demons and driving them to band camp and helping with their homework and shit. I don't get it. There aren't enough hours in the day for me let alone me, a wife, 2.5 kids and a labrador. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Yefoloogi 06/06/19 8:32:39 AM #2: |
Take away lifting weights and sleep.
There, youve got yourself a proper kid schedule --- (@)(@) ZzzzZ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 06/06/19 8:36:06 AM #3: |
Normal people dont work out 2.5 hours a day
Also your job takes up 11 hours of your day --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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YoshitoKikuchi 06/06/19 8:36:08 AM #4: |
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SailorGoon 06/06/19 8:56:24 AM #6: |
I'd imagine most people work 7 hours a day and work out only for 1 - 1.5 hours a day. That's how it is for my sister at least.
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DyingPancake 06/06/19 8:59:09 AM #7: |
How is this a constant topic that CE has trouble with? At this point I imagine its just a bunch of people being dense on purpose
You have almost 4 hours of time to yourself, your work takes on 11 hours, and things like getting ready for bed take almost half an hour. --- Under a cold October sky, I wait I had ice cream with chill02! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CheekSqueak 06/06/19 9:02:50 AM #8: |
we just don't live your schedule. it's relatively easy.
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ShutThe_F---_UP 06/06/19 9:07:44 AM #9: |
You work 10 hours and commute for another hour and work out for 2.5. It takes you 30 whole minutes to get ready for bed
Think about how much more time you'd have if you worked an 8 hour job that's relatively close and didn't spend way too much time exercising. Those are absolutely your personal hours btw. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HydraSlayer82 06/06/19 9:09:21 AM #10: |
Weird how you dont consider the 2.5 hours of exercise as personal time?
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clearaflagrantj 06/06/19 9:27:26 AM #11: |
ShutThe_F---_UP posted...
It takes you 30 whole minutes to get ready for bed DyingPancake posted... and things like getting ready for bed take almost half an hour. Taking supplements, flossing, brushing, listerine, face routine, it's a process HydraSlayer82 posted... Weird how you dont consider the 2.5 hours of exercise as personal time? Because I view that as an obligation. Personal time is more like free time where I can watch TV or play video games. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CheekSqueak 06/06/19 9:30:33 AM #12: |
clearaflagrantj posted...
Because I view that as an obligation. Personal time is more like free time where I can watch TV or play video games. it's not though. it's your choice. --- Let's be--*toot* ... Oh, sorry about that. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romulox28 06/06/19 9:31:21 AM #13: |
my wife (borat voice) & i want to have kids soon but this is one of my biggest fears, with work/commuting/errands/etc im only home a small fraction of the time, how would i even be able to spend a significant amount of time with my kid
idk how ppl do it really, the thought of having a kid and then having him/her raised ages 1 - 5 primarily by minimum wage workers at a daycare center gives me anxiety --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 06/06/19 9:32:15 AM #14: |
clearaflagrantj posted...
ShutThe_F---_UP posted...It takes you 30 whole minutes to get ready for bed No wonder youre so unhappy Heres my schedule 8am: wake up 9ish-5ish: work 5:30-midnight: personal time, spend time with gf, maybe go out for dinner or a show Midnight-8am: sleep --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DyingPancake 06/06/19 9:34:14 AM #15: |
Romulox28 posted...
my wife (borat voice) & i want to have kids soon but this is one of my biggest fears, with work/commuting/errands/etc im only home a small fraction of the time, how would i even be able to spend a significant amount of time with my kid Things are different and you have to make a schedule work, but I literally haven't given up a single thing I love doing since having a kid. I have time every night for myself and I still go out and do my hobbies on a regular basis. You have to have a partner that works with you though. And we only have one kid (and that's all we're having). No idea how time would work with 2 or more though --- Under a cold October sky, I wait I had ice cream with chill02! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ShutThe_F---_UP 06/06/19 9:34:53 AM #16: |
I don't see how exercise is an obligation. An important thing to maintain, but not an obligation. Does your gym have ellipticals? Maybe you can cut down on the morning runs or at least alternate between one or the other between days instead of doing them both every day.
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TheoryzC 06/06/19 9:34:56 AM #17: |
Nothing more personal then being alone in your thoughts and working out
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TheGoldenEel 06/06/19 9:38:02 AM #18: |
DyingPancake posted...
You have to have a partner that works with you though. And theres also this When my gf and I have kids its likely shell take a leave from her job to be a stay at home mom for a while We have the funds to support it between me getting a big raise with a new job and us selling our individual houses to move into one together Of course for someone like Clear money is literally everything so Im sure hed views those funds as retirement money or some shit --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romulox28 06/06/19 9:40:30 AM #19: |
DyingPancake posted...
Romulox28 posted...my wife (borat voice) & i want to have kids soon but this is one of my biggest fears, with work/commuting/errands/etc im only home a small fraction of the time, how would i even be able to spend a significant amount of time with my kid yea i figure once we actually have the kid we will get into a routine and figure it out, just seems real daunting from my perspective now --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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1337toothbrush 06/06/19 9:42:31 AM #20: |
It'd be a lot easier if work didn't take up a massive amount of time. Even if you had a "normal" eight hour job, it's a massive time sink. The answer is you give up sleep and all personal time and barely make it out as a zombie.
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Romes187 06/06/19 9:44:36 AM #21: |
Just take away that hour of personal time and the workout time
And youll live my life I mean, I get to spend it with my kid which is better than tv or video games haha Your priorities change ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 06/06/19 9:46:42 AM #22: |
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Romes187 06/06/19 9:52:49 AM #23: |
here's a dad schedule for you
6-7am - get woken up by kid 7-4PM commute work (I work from home a few days a week so that does help but on days I go into work I have a 2.5 total commute blah) eatget home about 530 get yelled at by wife get yelled at by kid read books and play with kid watch jeopardy watch wheel kid bath kid sleep dad time ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dorfmann_ 06/06/19 9:53:02 AM #24: |
Romes187 posted...
Your priorities change I was typing out a longer reply, but this is really all that needs to be said. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romes187 06/06/19 9:54:30 AM #25: |
although I just realized I guess I do get an hour of tv but its with the kid and wife....
i mean you are able to do stuff while your kid just plays by themselves haha in fact, its probably better that you let your kid go off by themselves as much as possible ... Copied to Clipboard!
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darkmaian23 06/06/19 10:22:30 AM #26: |
Romes187 posted...
watch jeopardy Please no. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romes187 06/06/19 11:04:36 AM #27: |
darkmaian23 posted...
Romes187 posted...watch jeopardy uh your life probably sucks ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 06/06/19 11:07:51 AM #28: |
I hope your wife isn't really shouting at you bro
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SauI_Goodman 06/06/19 11:09:58 AM #29: |
It might be expensive, but you can get yourself a personal at home gym so you can watch the kids and lift at the same time. Or you can find a gym with a childcare center.
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Romes187 06/06/19 11:10:15 AM #30: |
emblem boy posted...
I hope your wife isn't really shouting at you bro nah she's cool it was more a joke the kid will yell though you haven't lived until you've attempted to stand up to a temper tantrum that a toddler is throwing lmao its actually pretty funny because they simply can't control themselves but no the wife is cool ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pres_madagascar 06/06/19 11:11:13 AM #31: |
YoshitoKikuchi posted...
10 hours of work? I work four 10 hour shifts per week and have off three days. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SauI_Goodman 06/06/19 11:11:48 AM #32: |
Ah yes, 4 10's. I loved it when I had it.
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pres_madagascar 06/06/19 11:12:50 AM #33: |
SauI_Goodman posted...
Ah yes, 4 10's. I loved it when I had it. They can pry it from my cold dead hands. I have off every Saturday through Monday because of it, and I wouldn't go back to five 8's if I could help it. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EvalAngell 06/06/19 11:17:05 AM #34: |
you just figure it out as you go. my wife and I had twin boys and yes our free time is basically gone. All day is focused around them but you eventually get a nice routine going. Most of the time they go to bed by 9 pm so you have the rest of the night to yourself to do things. But that time ends up being dedicated to chores and keeping the house in order. I can't go to the gym quite as often as I used to. I can no longer play video games. And we can't go out with friends to drink and socialize nearly as often. But it is what it is. We knew there would be sacrifices when we decided we were going to have children.
I figure as they get older it will get easier. Right now it's tough because they're only a year old and you still gotta do everything for them. --- Perfectly balanced. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 06/06/19 11:17:23 AM #35: |
I wouldn't mind 4 10's at all. It'd be nice.
I do 9/80 right now, so 80 hours in 9 weekdays. Every other Friday is an "off" Friday. It's decent, but the "long" weeks feel like a drag --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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spanky1 06/06/19 11:20:02 AM #36: |
Not gonna lie small children seem like a pure nightmare.
The good thing about getting older is the single moms out there have kids that are older. Teenagers ain't a big deal. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pres_madagascar 06/06/19 11:20:56 AM #37: |
spanky1 posted...
Not gonna lie small children seem like a pure nightmare. Lol dude. Teenagers are absolute assholes. Puberty is a mother fucker. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romes187 06/06/19 11:23:21 AM #38: |
EvalAngell posted...
you just figure it out as you go. my wife and I had twin boys and yes our free time is basically gone. All day is focused around them but you eventually get a nice routine going. Most of the time they go to bed by 9 pm so you have the rest of the night to yourself to do things. But that time ends up being dedicated to chores and keeping the house in order. I can't go to the gym quite as often as I used to. I can no longer play video games. And we can't go out with friends to drink and socialize nearly as often. But it is what it is. We knew there would be sacrifices when we decided we were going to have children. indeed, but its almost like you have to sacrifice some liberty for responsibility and meaning in your life. Its a trade I'd make over and over again, and I'm sure you would too. plus drinking and video games and all that jazz are pretty lame when you look at what it is....just a bunch of children trying to fill the hole in their life with other things. jk not really but maybe... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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spanky1 06/06/19 11:25:56 AM #40: |
pres_madagascar posted...
spanky1 posted...Not gonna lie small children seem like a pure nightmare. Yeah but I'm looking at it from the point of view as a single guy dating a single mom. Say she has a 16 year old jerk teenager. Not my problem. I ain't their daddy. They're almost out of the house too. But if I were to date a girl with like a 3 year old or something, that basically is going to be my kid. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romes187 06/06/19 11:27:38 AM #41: |
spanky1 posted...
But if I were to date a girl with like a 3 year old or something, that basically is going to be my kid. Luckily my step dad met my mom when I was 1 and took care of business. I wouldn't be the same person without him ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 06/06/19 11:27:40 AM #42: |
Romes187 posted...
indeed, but its almost like you have to sacrifice some liberty for responsibility and meaning in your life Do you feel as if kids and family are mainly what contribute to meaning in life? --- Posted with GameRaven 3.5.1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EvalAngell 06/06/19 11:28:21 AM #43: |
Romes187 posted...
indeed, but its almost like you have to sacrifice some liberty for responsibility and meaning in your life. Its a trade I'd make over and over again, and I'm sure you would too. in the beginning there was some regret. It hit me hard when I could no longer really do whatever I wanted anymore. The lack of sleep was tough as well. But now that they actually sleep through the night, have personalities, and can actually move around/hold things and sort of communicate it's gotten to be fun. They're still a pain in the ass at times but I've come around that bringing them into the world has been spiritually rewarding. --- Perfectly balanced. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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IfGodCouldDie 06/06/19 11:28:45 AM #44: |
My Schedule:
415am: Get up and get ready for work. 430am: leave for work 5am - 4pm: Work 430pm: Get home spend time with my kids/do some cleaning 6pm: Eat supper 630pm: Get kids and self ready for bed 7pm: Put kids to bed have free time for myself and/or wife 10pm: Go to bed. This is kind of generalized as I dont always start work at 5, sometimes its earlier, sometimes its later. My wife's schedule: 6am: Get up get kids and self ready 645am - 415pm: Work/Drop off kids at school/errands/ pick up kids 415pm - 7pm: cleaning, making supper, eating 7pm: free time 8pm: bed time --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:IfGodCouldDie IGN:SuperPattyCakes FC: SW-1615-6159-5504 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romes187 06/06/19 11:29:38 AM #45: |
emblem boy posted...
Romes187 posted...indeed, but its almost like you have to sacrifice some liberty for responsibility and meaning in your life No, responsibility does, by definition (as in, you can't separate responsibility from something being meaningful...its a tautology). And the responsibility that family brings has so far been the most intense I've felt. There are other avenues to a meaningful life, of course. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romes187 06/06/19 11:31:21 AM #46: |
EvalAngell posted...
Romes187 posted...indeed, but its almost like you have to sacrifice some liberty for responsibility and meaning in your life. Its a trade I'd make over and over again, and I'm sure you would too. We got lucky with ours...she's always been a decent sleeper. Though in the beginning she was up like every two hours or so...but not for that long. And yeah once they start walking around and talking and getting a personality its pretty cool. You start seeing yourself...the good and the bad...in them. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romes187 06/06/19 11:33:01 AM #47: |
Romes187 posted...
emblem boy posted...Romes187 posted...indeed, but its almost like you have to sacrifice some liberty for responsibility and meaning in your life To add to this I think kids and family are the hedge against being resentful, lonely, and bitter when you get to be elderly. Once you hit a certain age, all that is left for you will be family. Maybe some hobbies which will help as well. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EvalAngell 06/06/19 11:34:53 AM #48: |
Romes187 posted...
I think kids and family are the hedge against being resentful, lonely, and bitter when you get to be elderly. Once you hit a certain age, all that is left for you will be family. It's funny you say this because this is the main reason my wife and I decided to have kids. We just didn't want to die alone and have nothing to show for our lives. No matter how they turn out, our kids will be the one legacy we leave behind. --- Perfectly balanced. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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spanky1 06/06/19 11:38:16 AM #49: |
Here's my schedule:
8:00: wake up 8:10 - 8:30: frantically rush to work 8:30 - 5:00: work 5:00 - 12:00: whatever the fuck I want 12:00 - 8:00: sleep --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ilishe 06/06/19 11:39:01 AM #50: |
Let me make that a child friendly schedule:
No sleep 2 hours a week personal time No but seriously... My own 1.5 years of experience as a dad? Didn't sleep at all for about a year, pretty much. Zombie unlife style. Video game time went from little to nothing. The only thing I do for myself is an average of 2 times per week futsal/5 a side soccer. Get about 2 hours of free time on these occasions which includes having a beer with my mates after our game. The rest of my day is working mostly. --- ~Phoenix Nine~ ~Victory needs no explanation; defeat allows none.~ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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knutjob 06/06/19 11:42:22 AM #51: |
My typical day
6.45am wake and get ready 7am family breakfast 7.30am play with kids and homework 8.45am take kids to school 9am commute (cardio) 9.30am work 1pm lift weights 2pm work 6pm commute (cardio) 6.30pm play with kids and get them towards bed 7.30pm cook 8pm eat dinner with tv 9pm spend time with wife 10pm work 11pm bed ... Copied to Clipboard!
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