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Cleo_II 05/29/19 9:39:37 PM #1:	And they are coming tonight. My husband drove her and his brother to another town 3 hours away for his nephews graduation. They are driving back the same day. She asked me if she can bring back my husbands other nephew. Hes a good kid, quiet and keeps to himself, so I said yes. But said it would be better if my husband invited him himself. She agreed. Well she ignored that and invited him AND his little brother. Then invited the other nephew who graduated. And I find out my husbands brother is also coming back with him to stay with us when I was initially told he was staying there. Theyre all staying until Monday. My mother in law has also been a pain. She has been staying with us the last couple of days and she never respects the things we ask her to do. For example, our cats are not allowed in the guest bedroom she stays in. We asked her to be extremely careful in closing the door and not letting the cats in. Well she obviously hasn't and the cats have been going in. Worse even, she accidentally locked one of them in there for hours and he ended up peeing on the bed. He has never gone outside his box ever. Ive spent all day washing the sheets and down comforter (that shit takes forever to dry). Whenever his family stays with us, it ultimately means something in our house will get destroyed because they dont respect our rules. And now I have a gaggle of them coming over. When this was supposed to be my one week off before starting a new job. Why are in laws so awful? <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:922543872] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>And they are coming tonight. My husband drove her and his brother to another town 3 hours away for his nephews graduation. They are driving back the same day. She asked me if she can bring back my husbands other nephew. Hes a good kid, quiet and keeps to himself, so I said yes. But said it would be better if my husband invited him himself. She agreed. Well she ignored that and invited him AND his little brother. Then invited the other nephew who graduated. And I find out my husbands brother is also coming back with him to stay with us when I was initially told he was staying there. Theyre all staying until Monday. My mother in law has also been a pain. She has been staying with us the last couple of days and she never respects the things we ask her to do. For example, our cats are not allowed in the guest bedroom she stays in. We asked her to be extremely careful in closing the door and not letting the cats in. Well she obviously hasn't and the cats have been going in. Worse even, she accidentally locked one of them in there for hours and he ended up peeing on the bed. He has never gone outside his box ever. Ive spent all day washing the sheets and down comforter (that shit takes forever to dry). Whenever his family stays with us, it ultimately means something in our house will get destroyed because they dont respect our rules. And now I have a gaggle of them coming over. When this was supposed to be my one week off before starting a new job. Why are in laws so awful?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Johnny_Nutcase 05/29/19 9:41:26 PM #2:	That's when you start drinking heavily and show them who's the fucking boss. --- I've learned that life is one crushing defeat after another... until you just wish Flanders was dead. - Homer Simpson <cite>Johnny_Nutcase posted [p:922543943] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>That's when you start drinking heavily and show them who's the fucking boss.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Strider102 05/29/19 9:44:43 PM #3:	When my in-laws come over it's always such a joy. They hate my guts. --- Strider is something of a god of equine necro-brutality--Master ZED <cite>Strider102 posted [p:922544073] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>When my in-laws come over it's always such a joy. They hate my guts.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EternalDivide 05/29/19 9:47:34 PM #4:	Well idk but I can tell you what the old fashioned mexican thing is that I've seen. If someone is going to be invited somewhere (doesn't matter where, to who's house, to what event, etc) then everyone is invited too. It's taken that everyone should expect this sort of rudeness. A cousin or nephew is invited over. That actually means any siblings, any friends of theirs that are over, the mom of dad are invited too. Food is expected. It's some bs asinine culture thing. It's mostly the older generations (over 50) that I've noticed still do this. Or just simply the uncultured ones. I would leave the comforter off and when asked I'd say well if you didn't put the cat in like I asked then you'd have one tonight. --- FFVII Remake: A disaster in the making. I'll laugh at whatever I find funny whether you like it or not. <cite>EternalDivide posted [p:922544173] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>Well idk but I can tell you what the old fashioned mexican thing is that I've seen. If someone is going to be invited somewhere (doesn't matter where, to who's house, to what event, etc) then everyone is invited too. It's taken that everyone should expect this sort of rudeness. A cousin or nephew is invited over. That actually means any siblings, any friends of theirs that are over, the mom of dad are invited too. Food is expected. It's some bs asinine culture thing. It's mostly the older generations (over 50) that I've noticed still do this. Or just simply the uncultured ones. I would leave the comforter off and when asked I'd say well if you didn't put the cat in like I asked then you'd have one tonight.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSJ2GrimReaper 05/29/19 9:48:15 PM #5:	Party at Cleo's house!! --- Big Apple, 3 A.M. https://imgur.com/YzjFA85 https://imgur.com/CqukfNH <cite>SSJ2GrimReaper posted [p:922544198] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>Party at Cleo's house!!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LockeMonster 05/29/19 9:49:55 PM #6:	Miss Cleo would have seen this coming a mile away. --- "Scranton is great, but New York is like Scranton on acid. No, on speed. Nah. On steroids." FC: 3282-3258-0224 <cite>LockeMonster posted [p:922544257] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>Miss Cleo would have seen this coming a mile away.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 05/29/19 9:52:30 PM #7:	EternalDivide posted... Well idk but I can tell you what the old fashioned mexican thing is that I've seen. If someone is going to be invited somewhere (doesn't matter where, to who's house, to what event, etc) then everyone is invited too. It's taken that everyone should expect this sort of rudeness. A cousin or nephew is invited over. That actually means any siblings, any friends of theirs that are over, the mom of dad are invited too. Food is expected. It's some bs asinine culture thing. It's mostly the older generations (over 50) that I've noticed still do this. Or just simply the uncultured ones. I would leave the comforter off and when asked I'd say well if you didn't put the cat in like I asked then you'd have one tonight. This is spot on. My husband and his family are Mexican lol. I told my husband he will have to figure out what to feed them all because Im on vacation this week. I am sure as hell not feeding 7 people <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:922544359] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>EternalDivide posted...</cite> <quote>Well idk but I can tell you what the old fashioned mexican thing is that I've seen. If someone is going to be invited somewhere (doesn't matter where, to who's house, to what event, etc) then everyone is invited too. It's taken that everyone should expect this sort of rudeness. A cousin or nephew is invited over. That actually means any siblings, any friends of theirs that are over, the mom of dad are invited too. Food is expected. It's some bs asinine culture thing. It's mostly the older generations (over 50) that I've noticed still do this. Or just simply the uncultured ones. I would leave the comforter off and when asked I'd say well if you didn't put the cat in like I asked then you'd have one tonight.</quote> This is spot on. My husband and his family are Mexican lol. I told my husband he will have to figure out what to feed them all because Im on vacation this week. I am sure as hell not feeding 7 people</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 05/31/19 9:38:52 AM #8:	Well luckily my brother in law left last night and we had him take my mother in law with him. We kept the nephews. My mother in law and I used to have a good relationship but I guess as shes getting older shes losing her mind or something. She made a lot of comments that crossed lines with me. She was also upset because she also invited my other brother in law too but my husband said we were at capacity (we were), and also told her she cant just invite people to our house. She pulled me aside to complain about it for like an hour yesterday (and make more inappropriate comments, trying to stir drama with my husband and I). So my husband had her go. I guess she was super sad about it and my husband feels crappy about it. But she should learn to control her mouth. The nephews have just been playing smash brothers and being nice kids. So at least now theres some peace in the house. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:922604486] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>Well luckily my brother in law left last night and we had him take my mother in law with him. We kept the nephews. My mother in law and I used to have a good relationship but I guess as shes getting older shes losing her mind or something. She made a lot of comments that crossed lines with me. She was also upset because she also invited my other brother in law too but my husband said we were at capacity (we were), and also told her she cant just invite people to our house. She pulled me aside to complain about it for like an hour yesterday (and make more inappropriate comments, trying to stir drama with my husband and I). So my husband had her go. I guess she was super sad about it and my husband feels crappy about it. But she should learn to control her mouth. The nephews have just been playing smash brothers and being nice kids. So at least now theres some peace in the house.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zodd3224 05/31/19 9:40:59 AM #9:	My in laws are great. My parents are the issue. My mother in particular doesnt respect my wife and it has lead to drama. --- https://imgur.com/qAas5O2 <cite>Zodd3224 posted [p:922604537] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>My in laws are great. My parents are the issue. My mother in particular doesnt respect my wife and it has lead to drama.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 05/31/19 9:45:18 AM #10:	This reminds me of a situation where the mother tries to reassert herself as the primary woman in her son's life. Does that track to this? Also I forget. How long have you two been married? Anyway, sorry you had to deal with that but I'm glad it's going okay for the most part. --- CyricZ <cite>CyricZ posted [p:922604666] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>This reminds me of a situation where the mother tries to reassert herself as the primary woman in her son's life. Does that track to this? Also I forget. How long have you two been married? Anyway, sorry you had to deal with that but I'm glad it's going okay for the most part.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 05/31/19 9:47:45 AM #11:	Zodd3224 posted... My in laws are great. My parents are the issue. My mother in particular doesnt respect my wife and it has lead to drama. That sucks. What kind of things does your mom do? For the most part, we each got on fine with each others in laws. But after this recent visit, I feel like I never want to see his mother again. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:922604728] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zodd3224 posted...</cite> <quote>My in laws are great. My parents are the issue. My mother in particular doesnt respect my wife and it has lead to drama.</quote> That sucks. What kind of things does your mom do? For the most part, we each got on fine with each others in laws. But after this recent visit, I feel like I never want to see his mother again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
trappedunderice 05/31/19 9:53:08 AM #12:	A gaggle of people? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3lP0hkPDSDM" data-time=" --- He should have armed himself if he's gonna decorate his saloon with my friend. <cite>trappedunderice posted [p:922604870] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>A gaggle of people? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3lP0hkPDSDM" data-time="</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VIIVincent 05/31/19 9:54:08 AM #13:	Go to your in-laws and wreck shit. Whoops. I dumblondilly tipped over your Chinese Rose Engraved Vase. K thanks bye. I'll be over next week too. --- This is the internet. You know the price it comes with when you have entered the filth and scum of this world. <cite>VIIVincent posted [p:922604894] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>Go to your in-laws and wreck shit. Whoops. I dumblondilly tipped over your Chinese Rose Engraved Vase. K thanks bye. I'll be over next week too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zodd3224 05/31/19 9:55:12 AM #14:	Cleo_II posted... Zodd3224 posted... My in laws are great. My parents are the issue. My mother in particular doesnt respect my wife and it has lead to drama. That sucks. What kind of things does your mom do? For the most part, we each got on fine with each others in laws. But after this recent visit, I feel like I never want to see his mother again. Questions our parenting constantly, treats my daughter better than my son, etc. She is a legit crazy person and if she wasnt blood someone I would never interact with. --- https://imgur.com/qAas5O2 <cite>Zodd3224 posted [p:922604940] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zodd3224 posted...</cite> <quote>My in laws are great. My parents are the issue. My mother in particular doesnt respect my wife and it has lead to drama.</quote> That sucks. What kind of things does your mom do? For the most part, we each got on fine with each others in laws. But after this recent visit, I feel like I never want to see his mother again.</quote> Questions our parenting constantly, treats my daughter better than my son, etc. She is a legit crazy person and if she wasnt blood someone I would never interact with.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 05/31/19 9:57:59 AM #15:	CyricZ posted... This reminds me of a situation where the mother tries to reassert herself as the primary woman in her son's life. Does that track to this? Also I forget. How long have you two been married? Anyway, sorry you had to deal with that but I'm glad it's going okay for the most part. Thanks Cyric. Weve been married for 5 years and together 8. It wasnt that she was inserting herself as the alpha woman, but I think her knowing Im infertile makes her wish my husband married someone else (specifically one of his exes). <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:922605034] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>CyricZ posted...</cite> <quote>This reminds me of a situation where the mother tries to reassert herself as the primary woman in her son's life. Does that track to this? Also I forget. How long have you two been married? Anyway, sorry you had to deal with that but I'm glad it's going okay for the most part.</quote> Thanks Cyric. Weve been married for 5 years and together 8. It wasnt that she was inserting herself as the alpha woman, but I think her knowing Im infertile makes her wish my husband married someone else (specifically one of his exes).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 05/31/19 10:00:01 AM #16:	That's some cold shit, if true. --- CyricZ <cite>CyricZ posted [p:922605112] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>That's some cold shit, if true.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthGravid 05/31/19 10:03:01 AM #17:	Cleo_II posted... Well luckily my brother in law left last night and we had him take my mother in law with him. We kept the nephews. My mother in law and I used to have a good relationship but I guess as shes getting older shes losing her mind or something. She made a lot of comments that crossed lines with me. She was also upset because she also invited my other brother in law too but my husband said we were at capacity (we were), and also told her she cant just invite people to our house. She pulled me aside to complain about it for like an hour yesterday (and make more inappropriate comments, trying to stir drama with my husband and I). So my husband had her go. I guess she was super sad about it and my husband feels crappy about it. But she should learn to control her mouth. The nephews have just been playing smash brothers and being nice kids. So at least now theres some peace in the house. She doesn't like you. Simple as that. But at least he stood up for you. My mother-in-law moved in unannounced, and has interfered with every breath I've taken since. My wife won't do anything about it. --- "That one's called the monkey claw because it feels like my colon is being torn apart by a thousand monkeys." - Sir Terrance Henry Stoot <cite>DarthGravid posted [p:922605202] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>Well luckily my brother in law left last night and we had him take my mother in law with him. We kept the nephews. My mother in law and I used to have a good relationship but I guess as shes getting older shes losing her mind or something. She made a lot of comments that crossed lines with me. She was also upset because she also invited my other brother in law too but my husband said we were at capacity (we were), and also told her she cant just invite people to our house. She pulled me aside to complain about it for like an hour yesterday (and make more inappropriate comments, trying to stir drama with my husband and I). So my husband had her go. I guess she was super sad about it and my husband feels crappy about it. But she should learn to control her mouth. The nephews have just been playing smash brothers and being nice kids. So at least now theres some peace in the house.</quote> She doesn't like you. Simple as that. But at least he stood up for you. My mother-in-law moved in unannounced, and has interfered with every breath I've taken since. My wife won't do anything about it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 05/31/19 10:27:31 AM #18:	Zodd3224 posted... Cleo_II posted... Zodd3224 posted... My in laws are great. My parents are the issue. My mother in particular doesnt respect my wife and it has lead to drama. That sucks. What kind of things does your mom do? For the most part, we each got on fine with each others in laws. But after this recent visit, I feel like I never want to see his mother again. Questions our parenting constantly, treats my daughter better than my son, etc. She is a legit crazy person and if she wasnt blood someone I would never interact with. Sounds like how my mother acts with my sister in law lol. CyricZ posted... That's some cold shit, if true. Yup. She has never made comments about children before but my husband asked her not to discuss them with me. But she made comments several times anyway. Then made a comment about how Mexicans are so fertile and have so many kids, they dont understand those who cant. Then went on to talk about my husbands ex (who is Mexican and super religious) that Ive never heard about, and how she was sure they would get married, she was such a wonderful woman, goes to church all the time, blah blah blah. She said my husband must have never told me because it brings him pain (he says he didnt because she was never relevant). She showed me her Facebook and they are very close. This chick calls her her forever mom in law. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:922606101] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zodd3224 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zodd3224 posted...</cite> <quote>My in laws are great. My parents are the issue. My mother in particular doesnt respect my wife and it has lead to drama.</quote> That sucks. What kind of things does your mom do? For the most part, we each got on fine with each others in laws. But after this recent visit, I feel like I never want to see his mother again.</quote> Questions our parenting constantly, treats my daughter better than my son, etc. She is a legit crazy person and if she wasnt blood someone I would never interact with.</quote> Sounds like how my mother acts with my sister in law lol. <cite>CyricZ posted...</cite> <quote>That's some cold shit, if true.</quote> Yup. She has never made comments about children before but my husband asked her not to discuss them with me. But she made comments several times anyway. Then made a comment about how Mexicans are so fertile and have so many kids, they dont understand those who cant. Then went on to talk about my husbands ex (who is Mexican and super religious) that Ive never heard about, and how she was sure they would get married, she was such a wonderful woman, goes to church all the time, blah blah blah. She said my husband must have never told me because it brings him pain (he says he didnt because she was never relevant). She showed me her Facebook and they are very close. This chick calls her her forever mom in law.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 05/31/19 10:31:05 AM #19:	I'm gonna call my spill response team because that's some toxic shit. --- CyricZ <cite>CyricZ posted [p:922606241] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>I'm gonna call my spill response team because that's some toxic shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lordgold666 05/31/19 10:34:21 AM #20:	Put your foot down and tell them to go trash the local holiday inn --- 3DS: 1848-2391-0198 "May the Father of Understanding guide us" <cite>Lordgold666 posted [p:922606333] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>Put your foot down and tell them to go trash the local holiday inn</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 05/31/19 10:35:19 AM #21:	Lordgold666 posted... Put your foot down and tell them to go trash the local holiday inn https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkWnd1uIa94" data-time="&start=7 --- CyricZ <cite>CyricZ posted [p:922606355] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lordgold666 posted...</cite> <quote>Put your foot down and tell them to go trash the local holiday inn</quote> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkWnd1uIa94" data-time="&start=7</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 05/31/19 10:35:50 AM #22:	Johnny_Nutcase posted... That's when you start drinking heavily and show them who's the fucking boss. --- Sigful user. <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:922606371] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>Johnny_Nutcase posted...</cite> <quote>That's when you start drinking heavily and show them who's the fucking boss.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 05/31/19 10:39:29 AM #23:	Damn, after reading some of the comments, sorry OP. That sucks. --- Sigful user. <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:922606488] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote>Damn, after reading some of the comments, sorry OP. That sucks.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 05/31/19 10:41:12 AM #24:	DarthGravid posted... Cleo_II posted... Well luckily my brother in law left last night and we had him take my mother in law with him. We kept the nephews. My mother in law and I used to have a good relationship but I guess as shes getting older shes losing her mind or something. She made a lot of comments that crossed lines with me. She was also upset because she also invited my other brother in law too but my husband said we were at capacity (we were), and also told her she cant just invite people to our house. She pulled me aside to complain about it for like an hour yesterday (and make more inappropriate comments, trying to stir drama with my husband and I). So my husband had her go. I guess she was super sad about it and my husband feels crappy about it. But she should learn to control her mouth. The nephews have just been playing smash brothers and being nice kids. So at least now theres some peace in the house. She doesn't like you. Simple as that. But at least he stood up for you. My mother-in-law moved in unannounced, and has interfered with every breath I've taken since. My wife won't do anything about it. I guess she doesnt like me now that she knows I might not give her grandkids like her other sons (who have multiple kids with several baby mommas then abandon them). From what youve posted, youre going through much worse though. At least my husband had my back and it was only a few days. I couldnt imagine her living here permanently and not being able to do anything about it. CyricZ posted... I'm gonna call my spill response team because that's some toxic shit. Lol indeed. Which was why my husband kicked her out. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:922606546] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>DarthGravid posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>Well luckily my brother in law left last night and we had him take my mother in law with him. We kept the nephews. My mother in law and I used to have a good relationship but I guess as shes getting older shes losing her mind or something. She made a lot of comments that crossed lines with me. She was also upset because she also invited my other brother in law too but my husband said we were at capacity (we were), and also told her she cant just invite people to our house. She pulled me aside to complain about it for like an hour yesterday (and make more inappropriate comments, trying to stir drama with my husband and I). So my husband had her go. I guess she was super sad about it and my husband feels crappy about it. But she should learn to control her mouth. The nephews have just been playing smash brothers and being nice kids. So at least now theres some peace in the house.</quote> She doesn't like you. Simple as that. But at least he stood up for you. My mother-in-law moved in unannounced, and has interfered with every breath I've taken since. My wife won't do anything about it.</quote> I guess she doesnt like me now that she knows I might not give her grandkids like her other sons (who have multiple kids with several baby mommas then abandon them). From what youve posted, youre going through much worse though. At least my husband had my back and it was only a few days. I couldnt imagine her living here permanently and not being able to do anything about it. <cite>CyricZ posted...</cite> <quote>I'm gonna call my spill response team because that's some toxic shit.</quote> Lol indeed. Which was why my husband kicked her out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 05/31/19 11:00:41 AM #25:	Shablagoo posted... Damn, after reading some of the comments, sorry OP. That sucks. Thank you. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:922607306] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>Shablagoo posted...</cite> <quote>Damn, after reading some of the comments, sorry OP. That sucks.</quote> Thank you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shablagoo 05/31/19 11:03:05 AM #26:	Cleo_II posted... Shablagoo posted... Damn, after reading some of the comments, sorry OP. That sucks. Thank you. Its good your husband has your back. If anything hopefully thatll show her he cares more about you than giving her more grandchildren and shell change her ways. --- Sigful user. <cite>Shablagoo posted [p:922607391] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Shablagoo posted...</cite> <quote>Damn, after reading some of the comments, sorry OP. That sucks.</quote> Thank you.</quote> Its good your husband has your back. If anything hopefully thatll show her he cares more about you than giving her more grandchildren and shell change her ways.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 05/31/19 11:11:38 AM #27:	Shablagoo posted... Cleo_II posted... Shablagoo posted... Damn, after reading some of the comments, sorry OP. That sucks. Thank you. Its good your husband has your back. If anything hopefully thatll show her he cares more about you than giving her more grandchildren and shell change her ways. Doubtful but you never know. But I am very glad I didnt marry a mommas boy and that he stood up for me. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:922607699] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>Shablagoo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Shablagoo posted...</cite> <quote>Damn, after reading some of the comments, sorry OP. That sucks.</quote> Thank you.</quote> Its good your husband has your back. If anything hopefully thatll show her he cares more about you than giving her more grandchildren and shell change her ways.</quote> Doubtful but you never know. But I am very glad I didnt marry a mommas boy and that he stood up for me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Psyonix 05/31/19 11:14:06 AM #28:	Cleo_II posted... And they are coming tonight. My husband drove her and his brother to another town 3 hours away for his nephews graduation. They are driving back the same day. She asked me if she can bring back my husbands other nephew. Hes a good kid, quiet and keeps to himself, so I said yes. But said it would be better if my husband invited him himself. She agreed. Well she ignored that and invited him AND his little brother. Then invited the other nephew who graduated. And I find out my husbands brother is also coming back with him to stay with us when I was initially told he was staying there. Theyre all staying until Monday. My mother in law has also been a pain. She has been staying with us the last couple of days and she never respects the things we ask her to do. For example, our cats are not allowed in the guest bedroom she stays in. We asked her to be extremely careful in closing the door and not letting the cats in. Well she obviously hasn't and the cats have been going in. Worse even, she accidentally locked one of them in there for hours and he ended up peeing on the bed. He has never gone outside his box ever. Ive spent all day washing the sheets and down comforter (that shit takes forever to dry). Whenever his family stays with us, it ultimately means something in our house will get destroyed because they dont respect our rules. And now I have a gaggle of them coming over. When this was supposed to be my one week off before starting a new job. Why are in laws so awful? My MIL is the same on the respect level, there is none for our house rules. Shes Korean and I also get reminded daily how everything is better in korea/the Korean way. Then go back already. <cite>Psyonix posted [p:922607781] in My mother ... [t:77748998]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>And they are coming tonight. My husband drove her and his brother to another town 3 hours away for his nephews graduation. They are driving back the same day. She asked me if she can bring back my husbands other nephew. Hes a good kid, quiet and keeps to himself, so I said yes. But said it would be better if my husband invited him himself. She agreed. Well she ignored that and invited him AND his little brother. Then invited the other nephew who graduated. And I find out my husbands brother is also coming back with him to stay with us when I was initially told he was staying there. Theyre all staying until Monday. My mother in law has also been a pain. She has been staying with us the last couple of days and she never respects the things we ask her to do. For example, our cats are not allowed in the guest bedroom she stays in. We asked her to be extremely careful in closing the door and not letting the cats in. Well she obviously hasn't and the cats have been going in. Worse even, she accidentally locked one of them in there for hours and he ended up peeing on the bed. He has never gone outside his box ever. Ive spent all day washing the sheets and down comforter (that shit takes forever to dry). Whenever his family stays with us, it ultimately means something in our house will get destroyed because they dont respect our rules. And now I have a gaggle of them coming over. When this was supposed to be my one week off before starting a new job. Why are in laws so awful?</quote> My MIL is the same on the respect level, there is none for our house rules. Shes Korean and I also get reminded daily how everything is better in korea/the Korean way. Then go back already.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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