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Vermander
05/23/19 9:38:22 AM
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CE dont let me text her.
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deupd_u
05/23/19 9:53:08 AM
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I once texted a girl 2 months after she flaked on/ghosted me. We then had a 3 month relationship, and she did buttstuff. Just saying.
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Vermander
05/23/19 9:57:47 AM
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deupd_u posted...
I once texted a girl 2 months after she flaked on/ghosted me. We then had a 3 month relationship, and she did buttstuff. Just saying.


Ive already slept with girl 25 times. Actually she tried to get me to buy a butt plug the week before dumping me.
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deupd_u
05/23/19 10:06:28 AM
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Then make it 26 times, my dude. You gotta get it while the getting is good, because you may never get it again.
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On_The_Edge
05/23/19 10:06:55 AM
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ignore these guys
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Vermander
05/23/19 10:06:58 AM
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deupd_u posted...
Then make it 26 times, my dude. You gotta get it while the getting is good, because you may never get it again.


Uhh how? She hasnt texted me in almost 3 weeks, and ignored the last two I sent her.
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Colorahdo
05/23/19 10:08:49 AM
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I never had trouble dropping women out of my life. If they don't really, really want to be with me, then it's a total waste of time that pisses me off.
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WaterLink
05/23/19 10:09:10 AM
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Do you have anything else to talk about than your stupid ex GF?
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Juhanor
05/23/19 10:11:49 AM
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Read a book OP. Project Gutenberg.
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Vermander
05/23/19 10:18:48 AM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Vermander posted...
deupd_u posted...
Then make it 26 times, my dude. You gotta get it while the getting is good, because you may never get it again.


Uhh how? She hasnt texted me in almost 3 weeks, and ignored the last two I sent her.

So she's ignored you twice and you still wanna text her. Y I K E S. Have some respect for yourself dude.


She ignored me the day of the breakup, and my like my text the next morning that was like Sorry about how things turn out for x and y reason, if you change your mine let me know. PS: let me know it you want to pick up your stuff.

That was weeks ago, Ive been good and havent texted her since.
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Vermander
05/23/19 10:19:20 AM
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WaterLink posted...
Do you have anything else to talk about than your stupid ex GF?


My last topic was about lifting.
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Vermander
05/23/19 10:22:56 AM
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Gladius_ posted...
Colorahdo posted...
I never had trouble dropping women out of my life. If they don't really, really want to be with me, then it's a total waste of time that pisses me off.


This. The sooner you take this mindset the faster you get with another girl who will treat you better than the previous. Assuming you want that. Personally if someone dumps me there is no second chance, there is no texting her, and if she comes crawling back she is ignored. There are so many people on this planet that there is literally no reason to go back to the same person who didn't value you properly in the first place.


I know there are. I certainly arent meeting them. Most of the girls Ive talked to in the recent weeks range from meh to dreadful.
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Vermander
05/23/19 10:26:17 AM
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I do have this one girl that kind of whats to hook up, but I am feeling indifferent to everything right now.
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Colorahdo
05/23/19 10:27:42 AM
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Vermander posted...
Gladius_ posted...
Colorahdo posted...
I never had trouble dropping women out of my life. If they don't really, really want to be with me, then it's a total waste of time that pisses me off.


This. The sooner you take this mindset the faster you get with another girl who will treat you better than the previous. Assuming you want that. Personally if someone dumps me there is no second chance, there is no texting her, and if she comes crawling back she is ignored. There are so many people on this planet that there is literally no reason to go back to the same person who didn't value you properly in the first place.


I know there are. I certainly arent meeting them. Most of the girls Ive talked to in the recent weeks range from meh to dreadful.


I feel like people who complain in this way think these are girls you meet all the time

How many dates have you been on? I've read it's 1/20 - 1/30 dates you meet someone who's compatible. At one date a week that's just two or three people a year. Which is why people say "put yourself out there"
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Vermander
05/23/19 10:31:55 AM
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Colorahdo posted...
Vermander posted...
Gladius_ posted...
Colorahdo posted...
I never had trouble dropping women out of my life. If they don't really, really want to be with me, then it's a total waste of time that pisses me off.


This. The sooner you take this mindset the faster you get with another girl who will treat you better than the previous. Assuming you want that. Personally if someone dumps me there is no second chance, there is no texting her, and if she comes crawling back she is ignored. There are so many people on this planet that there is literally no reason to go back to the same person who didn't value you properly in the first place.


I know there are. I certainly arent meeting them. Most of the girls Ive talked to in the recent weeks range from meh to dreadful.


I feel like people who complain in this way think these are girls you meet all the time

How many dates have you been on? I've read it's 1/20 - 1/30 dates you meet someone who's compatible. At one date a week that's just two or three people a year. Which is why people say "put yourself out there"


I had one date last week. It went okay, but I didnt feel the same chemistry. I think thats why I am bothered mostly cause me and this other girl has good chemistry which is rare.
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Colorahdo
05/23/19 10:34:24 AM
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Vermander posted...
Colorahdo posted...
Vermander posted...
Gladius_ posted...
Colorahdo posted...
I never had trouble dropping women out of my life. If they don't really, really want to be with me, then it's a total waste of time that pisses me off.


This. The sooner you take this mindset the faster you get with another girl who will treat you better than the previous. Assuming you want that. Personally if someone dumps me there is no second chance, there is no texting her, and if she comes crawling back she is ignored. There are so many people on this planet that there is literally no reason to go back to the same person who didn't value you properly in the first place.


I know there are. I certainly arent meeting them. Most of the girls Ive talked to in the recent weeks range from meh to dreadful.


I feel like people who complain in this way think these are girls you meet all the time

How many dates have you been on? I've read it's 1/20 - 1/30 dates you meet someone who's compatible. At one date a week that's just two or three people a year. Which is why people say "put yourself out there"


I had one date last week. It went okay, but I didnt feel the same chemistry. I think thats why I am bothered mostly cause me and this other girl has good chemistry which is rare.


So you have a 1/30 chance and you didn't win, and that bothers you? Just keep looking, it only takes one
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Vermander
05/23/19 10:47:40 AM
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Colorahdo posted...
Vermander posted...
Colorahdo posted...
Vermander posted...
Gladius_ posted...
Colorahdo posted...
I never had trouble dropping women out of my life. If they don't really, really want to be with me, then it's a total waste of time that pisses me off.


This. The sooner you take this mindset the faster you get with another girl who will treat you better than the previous. Assuming you want that. Personally if someone dumps me there is no second chance, there is no texting her, and if she comes crawling back she is ignored. There are so many people on this planet that there is literally no reason to go back to the same person who didn't value you properly in the first place.


I know there are. I certainly arent meeting them. Most of the girls Ive talked to in the recent weeks range from meh to dreadful.


I feel like people who complain in this way think these are girls you meet all the time

How many dates have you been on? I've read it's 1/20 - 1/30 dates you meet someone who's compatible. At one date a week that's just two or three people a year. Which is why people say "put yourself out there"


I had one date last week. It went okay, but I didnt feel the same chemistry. I think thats why I am bothered mostly cause me and this other girl has good chemistry which is rare.


So you have a 1/30 chance and you didn't win, and that bothers you? Just keep looking, it only takes one


Yeah thats rough when you get maybe 10 of those a year.
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PatrickMahomes
05/23/19 10:49:27 AM
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o66T05W
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Vermander
05/23/19 11:03:03 AM
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PatrickMahomes posted...
o66T05W


Why is his hand so big?
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HairyThotter
05/23/19 11:11:13 AM
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Just ride it out man... no need to contact her at all... for any reason.

If you're still thinking about her on the daily then there's really no reason to try dating other women at this point as you're just doing yourself and your a date a disservice.

Find other things to occupy your mind and your time until you've achieved a healthy emotional distance from this girl.

When you're chillin at home just put your phone in another room so you're not constantly tempted to check it like "oh maybe she said something!".

Give yourself at least 2, maybe 3 months before you start trying to date again. Gotta get this girl outta your system. Until then, hang out with friends, throw yourself into your hobbies, etc.
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Vermander
05/23/19 11:21:59 AM
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HairyThotter posted...
Just ride it out man... no need to contact her at all... for any reason.

If you're still thinking about her on the daily then there's really no reason to try dating other women at this point as you're just doing yourself and your a date a disservice.

Find other things to occupy your mind and your time until you've achieved a healthy emotional distance from this girl.

When you're chillin at home just put your phone in another room so you're not constantly tempted to check it like "oh maybe she said something!".

Give yourself at least 2, maybe 3 months before you start trying to date again. Gotta get this girl outta your system. Until then, hang out with friends, throw yourself into your hobbies, etc.


Yep! Until summer is over and then I cant do anything all summer! :D
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HairyThotter
05/23/19 11:34:21 AM
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Vermander posted...

Yep! Until summer is over and then I cant do anything all summer! :D


Doesn't mean you cant go out and get some new leads to keep on the back-burner until you're in a better place emotionally.

Maybe pick up some new hobbies/learn something new, so you're a better version of yourself for the next person you eventually get with.

This is just from my experience though... I go through phases where I'm really into the person I'm dating, and then if things crumble, I swear off dating for a while and just focus on myself.

I know one of my ex's from 10yrs ago that I still stay in touch with is one of those girls who is always bouncing from one relationship to the next, seemingly never without a partner of some sort, and she's miserable now. Not saying that is the case for everyone, but to me it helped me realize that becoming comfortable with myself pays off big time in the long run.
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Vermander
05/23/19 11:45:14 AM
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HairyThotter posted...
Vermander posted...

Yep! Until summer is over and then I cant do anything all summer! :D


Doesn't mean you cant go out and get some new leads to keep on the back-burner until you're in a better place emotionally.

Maybe pick up some new hobbies/learn something new, so you're a better version of yourself for the next person you eventually get with.

This is just from my experience though... I go through phases where I'm really into the person I'm dating, and then if things crumble, I swear off dating for a while and just focus on myself.

I know one of my ex's from 10yrs ago that I still stay in touch with is one of those girls who is always bouncing from one relationship to the next, seemingly never without a partner of some sort, and she's miserable now. Not saying that is the case for everyone, but to me it helped me realize that becoming comfortable with myself pays off big time in the long run.


Yeah, Tinder has definitely exhausted me; I am not even attracted to most of my matches. I am kind of just at the **** it point. I dont really meet people often so I dont even know how I would otherwise.
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