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Space_Man 12/25/18 4:24:47 PM #1:	Sign up for tinder again or try reconnecting with a past love interest Isolation is really getting to me --- There sure are a lot of different mes just like you have a lot of different yous! I'm going outside to play now I hope all the different yous have fun too. Bye! <cite>Space_Man posted [p:914697899] in Should I..... [t:77333646]...</cite> <quote>Sign up for tinder again or try reconnecting with a past love interest Isolation is really getting to me</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NightMarishPie 12/25/18 4:25:11 PM #2:	why not both --- "Who dares, wins" 3DS FC: 1521 3697 7272 <cite>NightMarishPie posted [p:914697916] in Should I..... [t:77333646]...</cite> <quote>why not both</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 12/25/18 4:28:44 PM #3:	What happened with your past love interest? --- Name checks out <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:914698044] in Should I..... [t:77333646]...</cite> <quote>What happened with your past love interest?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Space_Man 12/25/18 5:00:58 PM #4:	Lost_All_Senses posted... What happened with your past love interest? i ghosted her and our entire mutual friendgroup when things were starting to get somewhat serious cus i freaked out. I talked to a friend from that group recently and she said that she spent about 6 months crying after that so idk what to do. --- There sure are a lot of different mes just like you have a lot of different yous! I'm going outside to play now I hope all the different yous have fun too. Bye! <cite>Space_Man posted [p:914699127] in Should I..... [t:77333646]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>What happened with your past love interest?</quote> i ghosted her and our entire mutual friendgroup when things were starting to get somewhat serious cus i freaked out. I talked to a friend from that group recently and she said that she spent about 6 months crying after that so idk what to do.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 12/25/18 5:13:34 PM #5:	Space_Man posted... Lost_All_Senses posted... What happened with your past love interest? i ghosted her and our entire mutual friendgroup when things were starting to get somewhat serious cus i freaked out. I talked to a friend from that group recently and she said that she spent about 6 months crying after that so idk what to do. I feel like if you did that once you're just gonna end up hurting her again. If you could walk away like that and she got that upset than the emotional inbalance seems to be too big. It would be more your fault than if a new girl just got attached too fast. You'd have more obligation to your old friend to not hurt her again --- Name checks out <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:914699540] in Should I..... [t:77333646]...</cite> <quote><cite>Space_Man posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>What happened with your past love interest?</quote> i ghosted her and our entire mutual friendgroup when things were starting to get somewhat serious cus i freaked out. I talked to a friend from that group recently and she said that she spent about 6 months crying after that so idk what to do.</quote> I feel like if you did that once you're just gonna end up hurting her again. If you could walk away like that and she got that upset than the emotional inbalance seems to be too big. It would be more your fault than if a new girl just got attached too fast. You'd have more obligation to your old friend to not hurt her again</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 12/25/18 5:28:36 PM #6:	Don't open old cans of worms. Find someone new who doesn't know about your issues yet and you'll have that period of good times between meeting her and when she finds out. --- Do unto others what your parents did to you. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:914700046] in Should I..... [t:77333646]...</cite> <quote>Don't open old cans of worms. Find someone new who doesn't know about your issues yet and you'll have that period of good times between meeting her and when she finds out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Space_Man 12/25/18 6:02:16 PM #7:	Lost_All_Senses posted... I feel like if you did that once you're just gonna end up hurting her again. If you could walk away like that and she got that upset than the emotional inbalance seems to be too big. It would be more your fault than if a new girl just got attached too fast. You'd have more obligation to your old friend to not hurt her again idk, that was a while ago and tbh it's my biggest regret so far. I'd be surprised if she'd even talk to me but idk. I'll probably just go for tinder just to avoid taking that chance. Like, idk. I never even apologized or tried making things right so it's probably too late anyway --- There sure are a lot of different mes just like you have a lot of different yous! I'm going outside to play now I hope all the different yous have fun too. Bye! <cite>Space_Man posted [p:914701193] in Should I..... [t:77333646]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>I feel like if you did that once you're just gonna end up hurting her again. If you could walk away like that and she got that upset than the emotional inbalance seems to be too big. It would be more your fault than if a new girl just got attached too fast. You'd have more obligation to your old friend to not hurt her again</quote> idk, that was a while ago and tbh it's my biggest regret so far. I'd be surprised if she'd even talk to me but idk. I'll probably just go for tinder just to avoid taking that chance. Like, idk. I never even apologized or tried making things right so it's probably too late anyway</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 12/25/18 6:04:40 PM #8:	You should consider apologizing to her even without trying to pursue anything with her again. You'll feel better about yourself and she'll have proper closure. --- Do unto others what your parents did to you. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:914701261] in Should I..... [t:77333646]...</cite> <quote>You should consider apologizing to her even without trying to pursue anything with her again. You'll feel better about yourself and she'll have proper closure.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Space_Man 12/25/18 6:17:36 PM #9:	SpiralDrift posted... You should consider apologizing to her even without trying to pursue anything with her again. You'll feel better about yourself and she'll have proper closure. "Hey X! Merry Christmas!! Sorry for being a douche and going ghost on you, hope all is well!!" Is that good? I'm drunk enough to type it as a draft but still coherent enough to not hit send without freaking tf out --- There sure are a lot of different mes just like you have a lot of different yous! I'm going outside to play now I hope all the different yous have fun too. Bye! <cite>Space_Man posted [p:914701700] in Should I..... [t:77333646]...</cite> <quote><cite>SpiralDrift posted...</cite> <quote>You should consider apologizing to her even without trying to pursue anything with her again. You'll feel better about yourself and she'll have proper closure.</quote> "Hey X! Merry Christmas!! Sorry for being a douche and going ghost on you, hope all is well!!" Is that good? I'm drunk enough to type it as a draft but still coherent enough to not hit send without freaking tf out</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 12/25/18 6:27:59 PM #10:	Space_Man posted... SpiralDrift posted... You should consider apologizing to her even without trying to pursue anything with her again. You'll feel better about yourself and she'll have proper closure. "Hey X! Merry Christmas!! Sorry for being a douche and going ghost on you, hope all is well!!" Is that good? I'm drunk enough to type it as a draft but still coherent enough to not hit send without freaking tf out Less casual. Maybe something like... "Hey, I know you probably hate me but I think I owe it to you to apologize and explain why I did what I did." And then just be honest about everything. Even if she does hate you, you'll at least have proven to yourself that you're a better person now and are ready to move forward without that whole thing hanging over your head and reminding you that you suck at relationships. --- Do unto others what your parents did to you. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:914702087] in Should I..... [t:77333646]...</cite> <quote><cite>Space_Man posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SpiralDrift posted...</cite> <quote>You should consider apologizing to her even without trying to pursue anything with her again. You'll feel better about yourself and she'll have proper closure.</quote> "Hey X! Merry Christmas!! Sorry for being a douche and going ghost on you, hope all is well!!" Is that good? I'm drunk enough to type it as a draft but still coherent enough to not hit send without freaking tf out</quote> Less casual. Maybe something like... "Hey, I know you probably hate me but I think I owe it to you to apologize and explain why I did what I did." And then just be honest about everything. Even if she does hate you, you'll at least have proven to yourself that you're a better person now and are ready to move forward without that whole thing hanging over your head and reminding you that you suck at relationships.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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