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_Lyonidias
12/23/18 11:51:43 AM
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C.... most of the time.

Unless its in a professional context and I cant return the, uh, favor.
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gguirao
12/23/18 11:56:28 AM
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C.
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 11:58:27 AM
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Kind of, I treat others how I want to be treated with a dash of how they treat me. Im not gonna baby people just cause they baby me. I find it counter productive to always baby people.
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Uncle Choad
12/23/18 12:00:22 PM
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P sure if you just act normal everything is fine.
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 12:00:40 PM
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I also ain't gonna treat people like shit just cause they are assholes. Ill avoid them as much as I can and when they're around Ill piss them off by showing Im better than them lol
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rikasa
12/23/18 12:01:22 PM
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no, my judgment is more objective and less related to who sycophantic they can be
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rhklce
12/23/18 12:02:25 PM
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Confirm.
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prettyprincess
12/23/18 12:02:26 PM
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d, most people are more considerate and don't go for the digs, but that doesn't mean I'll drop em
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Kombucha
12/23/18 12:02:28 PM
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This is more of a case by case kind of thing. I have no hard ethical rule about how to interact with people.
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 12:03:18 PM
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rikasa posted...
no, my judgment is more objective


Well that's dangerous
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Flockaveli
12/23/18 12:16:19 PM
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Only the ones who treat me like absolute crap. Im nice to just about everyone and I dont expect them to return the favor. Being nice, helping others, and putting a smile on their face soothes my soul, even if the middle aged white lady Im assisting barely says a word and keeps a permanent frown throughout, or even says something condescending to me. I just think thats gotta be her way of trying to teach me something, thats probably how she raised her kids and who knows, it probably worked for them but me, Im content with where I am right now.

I gotta give this a Hard D, even though on paper it sounds like solid advice and more power to those who find this style of living most beneficial to them.
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TheDogfather
12/23/18 12:19:33 PM
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Flockaveli posted...
Hard D

Lenny

Also, same.
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rikasa
12/23/18 12:34:34 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
rikasa posted...
no, my judgment is more objective


Well that's dangerous

Why do you say that?
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 12:41:54 PM
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rikasa posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
rikasa posted...
no, my judgment is more objective


Well that's dangerous

Why do you say that?


When you see your judgement as objective you close your mind to improvements
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rikasa
12/23/18 12:54:12 PM
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Oh semantics posters. you're all so shit
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HBOSS
12/23/18 1:06:21 PM
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the golden rule

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here in the dark
its so hard tell
where her body ends
and the homie's begin
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SpiralDrift
12/23/18 1:07:02 PM
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My sig is much closer to reality than whatever people try to convince themselves of.
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 1:23:05 PM
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rikasa posted...
Oh semantics posters. you're all so shit


If you don't want to have the conversation there are more mature ways out of it
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 1:24:21 PM
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SpiralDrift posted...
My sig is much closer to reality than whatever people try to convince themselves of.


Believe it or not but some people are able to break out of their upbringing. The ones that don't usually make believe it's impossible so they don't have to take even a fraction of the blame.
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ImTheMacheteGuy
12/23/18 1:25:39 PM
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I'm friendly and civil with people, more so irl than online, but that's people irl are generally better. Anyone being an asshole to me though, I will 1-up them on it.
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rikasa
12/23/18 1:26:06 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
rikasa posted...
Oh semantics posters. you're all so shit


If you don't want to have the conversation there are more mature ways out of it

I don't want to have the conversation. It'll just me telling you why you're wrong and dumb and I'll get nothing out of it and you won't change. I'm going to go play videogames
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 1:26:57 PM
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rikasa posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
rikasa posted...
Oh semantics posters. you're all so shit


If you don't want to have the conversation there are more mature ways out of it

I don't want to have the conversation. It'll just me telling you why you're wrong and dumb and I'll get nothing out of it and you won't change. I'm going to go play videogames


This sounds like exactly what a "I already know everything" person would say.
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rikasa
12/23/18 1:34:10 PM
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I'm also a fat guy IRL
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 1:37:47 PM
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rikasa posted...
I'm also a fat guy IRL


So >_>. Im not arguing just for the sake of arguing right now. You should always be open when it comes to how you treat people. You can keep your core morals well being flexible. That's just my main thing.
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12/23/18 1:39:56 PM
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SterlingM
12/23/18 1:39:58 PM
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D

You earn the right to be treated as an equal.

When ants proves they're worthy I'll stop stepping on them
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SterlingM
12/23/18 1:41:46 PM
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This isn't even the golden rule either
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 1:41:51 PM
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SterlingM posted...
D

You earn the right to be treated as an equal.

When ants proves they're worthy I'll stop stepping on them


Going straight to comparing humans to ants huh? That's not setting you up for something horrible down the road
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rikasa
12/23/18 1:43:10 PM
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SterlingM posted...

When ants proves they're worthy I'll stop stepping on them

amen
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 1:46:00 PM
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rikasa posted...
SterlingM posted...

When ants proves they're worthy I'll stop stepping on them

amen


Smh at not burning them with a magnifying glass. Have some fuckin class
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SpiralDrift
12/23/18 1:55:03 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
SpiralDrift posted...
My sig is much closer to reality than whatever people try to convince themselves of.


Believe it or not but some people are able to break out of their upbringing. The ones that don't usually make believe it's impossible so they don't have to take even a fraction of the blame.

Sure, but generally speaking they're the exceptions to the rule. Also, breaking free of one part of it isn't the same as breaking free of all of it, and people will only hold up the parts they've overcome while overlooking the rest.
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 2:15:40 PM
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SpiralDrift posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
SpiralDrift posted...
My sig is much closer to reality than whatever people try to convince themselves of.


Believe it or not but some people are able to break out of their upbringing. The ones that don't usually make believe it's impossible so they don't have to take even a fraction of the blame.

Sure, but generally speaking they're the exceptions to the rule. Also, breaking free of one part of it isn't the same as breaking free of all of it, and people will only hold up the parts they've overcome while overlooking the rest.


I mean, people should congratulate themselves for what they overcome. Only focusing on what's still wrong is a losing battle. Perfection isn't achievable. Nothing wrong with finding good enough and being content, long as your good enough isn't harming those around you. You might even harm others around you more by never feeling good enough. It's exhausting being around people who are always trying to trump your optimism with pessimism.
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SpiralDrift
12/23/18 2:36:34 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
SpiralDrift posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
SpiralDrift posted...
My sig is much closer to reality than whatever people try to convince themselves of.


Believe it or not but some people are able to break out of their upbringing. The ones that don't usually make believe it's impossible so they don't have to take even a fraction of the blame.

Sure, but generally speaking they're the exceptions to the rule. Also, breaking free of one part of it isn't the same as breaking free of all of it, and people will only hold up the parts they've overcome while overlooking the rest.


I mean, people should congratulate themselves for what they overcome. Only focusing on what's still wrong is a losing battle. Perfection isn't achievable. Nothing wrong with finding good enough and being content, long as your good enough isn't harming those around you. You might even harm others around you more by never feeling good enough. It's exhausting being around people who are always trying to trump your optimism with pessimism.

For me it's not about being openly pessimistic of other people to their faces, it's more like silently gauging how vulnerable I should allow myself to be made to them until I know them better.

No one is free from conditioning of one sort or another and 9/10 times that conditioning comes more from their families than anything. People should be commended for breaking free of the bad things but it would be foolish for even a positive-minded person to convince themselves that they're truly free. I know the type and they're often worse than the ones who don't even try, because they've convinced themselves that they're free of flaws, and that's not true of anyone.
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 3:10:23 PM
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SpiralDrift posted...
I know the type and they're often worse than the ones who don't even try, because they've convinced themselves that they're free of flaws, and that's not true of anyone.


That's the battle of favoring being right or being content/happy. Hence why some the people who are less flawed are more miserable. I think the bottom line is trying to be happy while not having your ups be other peoples downs. I don't care about being right or wrong if someone else ain't taking the hit for me
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rikasa
12/23/18 3:11:16 PM
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this bloviating fuck
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 3:16:04 PM
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rikasa posted...
this bloviating fuck


Had to look that word up. Don't know how it applies unless you just don't understand what Im saying. Which people who think they know it all convince themselves people are talking about nothing when they can't understand it.
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SpiralDrift
12/23/18 3:18:29 PM
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Pretty sure that was aimed at me but I'm in love with that word now.
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Lost_All_Senses
12/23/18 3:39:22 PM
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SpiralDrift posted...
Pretty sure that was aimed at me but I'm in love with that word now.


Yeah, Imma keep it in my mental pocket. I still feel like my post applies regardless. I understood what you meant.
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ThyCorndog
12/23/18 3:40:55 PM
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I treat others the way I want to be treated until I lose my patience and then I treat them how they treat me

the second part rarely happens tho
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Yorkdrift
12/23/18 4:18:20 PM
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Common sense shit, of course confirm.
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