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butthole666 12/21/18 8:26:28 AM #1:	In one instance, I have witnessed dude being a fucking jackass while blacked out. The other is more serious and I have nothing but hearsay to go on. There is no right thing to do. --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:914491455] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>In one instance, I have witnessed dude being a fucking jackass while blacked out. The other is more serious and I have nothing but hearsay to go on. There is no right thing to do.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
t_paynes_ghost 12/21/18 8:27:02 AM #2:	Why are you with a not-so-great partner? <cite>t_paynes_ghost posted [p:914491475] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>Why are you with a not-so-great partner?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 12/21/18 8:29:52 AM #3:	If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it? --- Do unto others what your parents did to you. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:914491539] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kombucha 12/21/18 8:30:32 AM #4:	SpiralDrift posted... If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it? ^ --- http://www.last.fm/user/walkingishonest <cite>Kombucha posted [p:914491558] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote><cite>SpiralDrift posted...</cite> <quote>If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it?</quote> ^</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gafemage 12/21/18 8:31:45 AM #5:	Kombucha posted... SpiralDrift posted... If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it? ^ --- https://imgur.com/1EOFcjn https://imgur.com/epjd8zk <cite>Gafemage posted [p:914491581] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kombucha posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SpiralDrift posted...</cite> <quote>If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it?</quote> ^</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
averagejoel 12/21/18 8:32:29 AM #6:	presumably you trust your partner, right? You should listen to them "hearsay" is a legal term, and is not really relevant here unless your partner is trying to press charges --- peanut butter and dick <cite>averagejoel posted [p:914491602] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>presumably you trust your partner, right? You should listen to them "hearsay" is a legal term, and is not really relevant here unless your partner is trying to press charges</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kineth 12/21/18 8:32:30 AM #7:	There is a right thing to do and that's get the involved parties to speak of what happened to you with the other present. If another witness is necessary, then include them.. I'm assuming that this is your SO that you're calling not-so-great? --- "I don't think anyone seriously thinks that Trump supporters orgasm when they see racism in the news." - Me, reassuring Ammonitida <cite>Kineth posted [p:914491603] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>There is a right thing to do and that's get the involved parties to speak of what happened to you with the other present. If another witness is necessary, then include them.. I'm assuming that this is your SO that you're calling not-so-great?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
butthole666 12/21/18 8:32:56 AM #8:	SpiralDrift posted... If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it? Because the person in question has also shown themselves time and time again to have manipulative tendancies and seriously warped perceptions/memories of interacting with others. --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:914491610] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote><cite>SpiralDrift posted...</cite> <quote>If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it?</quote> Because the person in question has also shown themselves time and time again to have manipulative tendancies and seriously warped perceptions/memories of interacting with others.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kineth 12/21/18 8:33:03 AM #9:	Gafemage posted... Kombucha posted... SpiralDrift posted... If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it? ^ I'd guess that it's not the same person? --- "I don't think anyone seriously thinks that Trump supporters orgasm when they see racism in the news." - Me, reassuring Ammonitida <cite>Kineth posted [p:914491614] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote><cite>Gafemage posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kombucha posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SpiralDrift posted...</cite> <quote>If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it?</quote> ^</quote></quote> I'd guess that it's not the same person?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
butthole666 12/21/18 8:34:10 AM #10:	averagejoel posted... presumably you trust your partner, right? You should listen to them "hearsay" is a legal term, and is not really relevant here unless your partner is trying to press charges Not really at all, no. I have been wanting to end things for a while now. --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:914491654] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote><cite>averagejoel posted...</cite> <quote>presumably you trust your partner, right? You should listen to them "hearsay" is a legal term, and is not really relevant here unless your partner is trying to press charges</quote> Not really at all, no. I have been wanting to end things for a while now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kineth 12/21/18 8:36:19 AM #11:	butthole666 posted... averagejoel posted... presumably you trust your partner, right? You should listen to them "hearsay" is a legal term, and is not really relevant here unless your partner is trying to press charges Not really at all, no. I have been wanting to end things for a while now. I can see why you're in a pickle here. What is the accusation? --- "I don't think anyone seriously thinks that Trump supporters orgasm when they see racism in the news." - Me, reassuring Ammonitida <cite>Kineth posted [p:914491726] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote><cite>butthole666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>averagejoel posted...</cite> <quote>presumably you trust your partner, right? You should listen to them "hearsay" is a legal term, and is not really relevant here unless your partner is trying to press charges</quote> Not really at all, no. I have been wanting to end things for a while now.</quote> I can see why you're in a pickle here. What is the accusation?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 12/21/18 8:38:07 AM #12:	butthole666 posted... SpiralDrift posted... If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it? Because the person in question has also shown themselves time and time again to have manipulative tendancies and seriously warped perceptions/memories of interacting with others. You seem to surround yourself with bad people. This scenario shouldn't even be a surprise to you by this point. --- Do unto others what your parents did to you. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:914491786] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote><cite>butthole666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SpiralDrift posted...</cite> <quote>If you've already witnessed him being a jackass why would you doubt it?</quote> Because the person in question has also shown themselves time and time again to have manipulative tendancies and seriously warped perceptions/memories of interacting with others.</quote> You seem to surround yourself with bad people. This scenario shouldn't even be a surprise to you by this point.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
butthole666 12/21/18 9:09:08 AM #13:	It really shouldnt --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:914492743] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>It really shouldnt</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
butthole666 12/21/18 10:10:18 AM #14:	People are garbage and will only do garbage things --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:914494867] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>People are garbage and will only do garbage things</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
prettyprincess 12/21/18 10:10:39 AM #15:	drop them all tbh but mostly your partner --- And in an infinite regress, tell me, why is the pain of birth lighter borne than the pain of death? <cite>prettyprincess posted [p:914494878] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>drop them all tbh but mostly your partner</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
butthole666 12/21/18 12:55:12 PM #16:	Everything I have worked towards is piss Its done. And if its not, then Im irresponsible and a bad person. There is no option that is not a complete betrayal of myself. --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:914501593] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>Everything I have worked towards is piss Its done. And if its not, then Im irresponsible and a bad person. There is no option that is not a complete betrayal of myself.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eggcorn 12/21/18 12:57:25 PM #17:	Didn't your partner say the same things about you though? Or is this a different person? I would be wary. --- Warning: This post may contain triggering or distressing content. <cite>eggcorn posted [p:914501700] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>Didn't your partner say the same things about you though? Or is this a different person? I would be wary.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wronganswerfool 12/21/18 12:57:52 PM #18:	I swear to god if this 'partner' is that same non-binary person that you said has been abusing the hell out of you <cite>wronganswerfool posted [p:914501720] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>I swear to god if this 'partner' is that same non-binary person that you said has been abusing the hell out of you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 12/21/18 1:00:32 PM #19:	wronganswerfool posted... I swear to god if this 'partner' is that same non-binary person that you said has been abusing the hell out of you I wouldn't be surprised if it was them. --- Do unto others what your parents did to you. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:914501838] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote><cite>wronganswerfool posted...</cite> <quote>I swear to god if this 'partner' is that same non-binary person that you said has been abusing the hell out of you</quote> I wouldn't be surprised if it was them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
butthole666 12/22/18 11:54:34 AM #20:	You should talk to him about it I dont feel safe You should have a mutual friend talk to him about it Its not their job Basically trying to avoid any resolution to the situation in favor of it just being a thing and it comes off as very disingenuous. --- "Kenan & Kel is what made me realize I wasn't racist." ~ NewportBox100s <cite>butthole666 posted [p:914548419] in My not-so-... [t:77322207]...</cite> <quote>You should talk to him about it I dont feel safe You should have a mutual friend talk to him about it Its not their job Basically trying to avoid any resolution to the situation in favor of it just being a thing and it comes off as very disingenuous.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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