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CiIantro
12/16/18 10:58:58 PM
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A common pain that ties most LGBT people together...the comments on this article are a testament to that.
https://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2013/05/breaking-up-with-my-straight-best-friend/
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catboy0_0
12/16/18 11:00:53 PM
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he's cheating on you
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CiIantro
12/16/18 11:04:37 PM
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Parappa09
12/18/18 4:02:54 AM
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i read this and thats why you dont get crushes on straight guys

although if i was younger id probably relate to it more
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Eevee-Trainer
12/18/18 4:59:27 AM
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I've always been a little afraid of something like this happening, so usually when I start feeling that way about a girl I know is straight I tend to overcorrect and put the clamp down hard on my feelings.

Which usually results in us talking a lot less and me being walled off emotionally.

Not the best reaction but I keep hearing about this sort of thing and just, man, it breaks my heart just reading it, I wouldn't want to go through that.

Which is weird because I don't react quite that same way with other people - I tend to get feelings for my best friends every now and again, usually I just swallow it up and let it fade instead of concsciously avoiding thinking about those feelings. (Assuming of course I don't confess to them, which I usually don't for one reason or another.) Kinda weird that them not at all being into me owing to my gender - as opposed to just not being into me or wanting to date in general - changes that up for some reason. I mean, same result, but a sort of less ... paranoid reaction from me I guess?

Eh, whatever.
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CiIantro
12/19/18 1:06:19 AM
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Parappa09 posted...
i read this and thats why you dont get crushes on straight guys

I mean, its not like you get to pick who you fall for...
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Lost_All_Senses
12/19/18 1:08:57 AM
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Id end it with a friend if he couldn't stop coming onto me. Do other straight guys do that?
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Crimson_Angel
12/19/18 1:09:51 AM
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CiIantro
12/19/18 1:12:29 AM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
Id end it with a friend if he couldn't stop coming onto me. Do other straight guys do that?

And I would end it with a girl if she couldn't stop coming onto me. Good thing 99% of the population (gay or straight) knows what "no" means.
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Lost_All_Senses
12/19/18 1:14:23 AM
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CiIantro posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
Id end it with a friend if he couldn't stop coming onto me. Do other straight guys do that?

And I would end it with a girl if she couldn't stop coming onto me. Good thing 99% of the population (gay or straight) can take no for an answer.


99% seems unrealistic for humans being able to not come onto other humans >_>. I get what you're saying tho. Maybe I just hang around too many dogs
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Parappa09
12/19/18 2:36:29 AM
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CiIantro posted...
Parappa09 posted...
i read this and thats why you dont get crushes on straight guys

I mean, its not like you get to pick who you fall for...

actually i kinda have. ive managed not to fall for extremely attractive people
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catboy0_0
12/19/18 2:37:33 AM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
Id end it with a friend if he couldn't stop coming onto me. Do other straight guys do that?

I'll be sure to never come onto you
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Lost_All_Senses
12/19/18 11:34:49 AM
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catboy0_0 posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
Id end it with a friend if he couldn't stop coming onto me. Do other straight guys do that?

I'll be sure to never come onto you


I think I came off wrong. I meant like full on. Like the type of flirting that leads to fuckin. Not playful shit. Im a playful person so Id be a hypocrite if I tripped over everything.
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CiIantro
12/20/18 12:58:00 AM
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Parappa09 posted...
CiIantro posted...
Parappa09 posted...
i read this and thats why you dont get crushes on straight guys

I mean, its not like you get to pick who you fall for...

actually i kinda have. ive managed not to fall for extremely attractive people

thats weird
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Offworlder1
12/20/18 1:37:21 AM
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The guy should have found someone that was not straight to pursue, this was never going to end the way he wanted, the guy he wanted was straight. Throwing away a friendship because he never got over a crush is not good either, his friend was not even rude or mean telling him it wasnt going to happen, he clearly valued this guys friendship, that is the kind of dude you keep around, that is a true brother.
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rikasa
12/20/18 1:42:17 AM
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I'm sure it's really painful and sad but it's also kinda nice that there's that uncertain crush phase in your life for a while longer. When you're old and straight you just instantly know who you'd fuck and who'd fuck you and that's that.
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