Current Events > modern love: when a boyfriend joins the marriage

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https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/07/style/modern-love-when-a-boyfriend-joins-the-marriage.html

this is the future Liberals want
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This is just sad man...

Unreal
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Like, is the husband with anyone? Like holy shit
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The moment my girlfriend would even say anything along the lines of "I want an open relationship" I would end things immediately.

Immediately.

Shes a whore
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clearaflagrantj posted...

The moment my girlfriend would even say anything along the lines of "I want an open relationship" I would end things immediately.

Immediately.

I thought you didn't believe in monogamous relationships or something
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Obamas america.
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She no longer has a romantic relationship with her husband, she's exclusively with her boyfriend. She and her husband just kept living together so they could both be with their kid and just never bothered getting divorced.
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pegusus123456 posted...

She no longer has a romantic relationship with her husband, she's exclusively with her boyfriend. She and her husband just kept living together so they could both be with their kid and just never bothered getting divorced.

She hasn't been in a romantic relationship with her husband in years.
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Imagine if these were your parents.
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pegusus123456 posted...

She no longer has a romantic relationship with her husband, she's exclusively with her boyfriend. She and her husband just kept living together so they could both be with their kid and just never bothered getting divorced.

yes, this is degeneracy
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The boy is going to grow up thinking being a cuck is normal or he is going to turn on his father in his teen years and completely lose respect for him.

Also, the picture suggests a lot there. A woman using two men to support herself and her kid.

They're just giving the MGTOWs ammunition at this point.
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If they think this isnt fucking that kid up she got another thing coming.
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Perascamin posted...

Shes a whore

Not much difference from bigamy. If they don't love each other anymore they should just get a divorce. Her fear from her own broken family is what's keeping them from really moving on. This is all from her, but there is no input from the husband so there isn't any way for us to know if he dates or is depressed from the relationship
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They all seem to be okay with it. I have to wonder about the kid's perspective, but yall acting like this is some sort of threat to you.
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Guess its easier to watch your wife get banged by another man than it is to pay child support.
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weekoldhotdog posted...

Guess its easier to watch your wife get banged by another man than it is to pay child support.

This is probably it tbh.

One guy I work with pays 170/week in child support. We make 500/week. He can barely get by. One of the guys that make even more money pays 1200/month in child support. The only choice he has now is to work 18 hours a day or he cant live
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this is why we need the Equal Rights Amendment
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If you're a successful man, don't get married.
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Perascamin posted...

weekoldhotdog posted...

Guess its easier to watch your wife get banged by another man than it is to pay child support.

This is probably it tbh.

One guy I work with pays 170/week in child support. We make 500/week. He can barely get by. One of the guys that make even more money pays 1200/month in child support. The only choice he has now is to work 18 hours a day or he cant live

Wrap it up, boys and girls.
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jesus fucking christ
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weekoldhotdog posted...

Guess its easier to watch your wife get banged by another man than it is to pay child support.

from the comments in this topic, it sounds like he doesn't really care anymore about her. they are just too lazy to get a divorce. hopefully he's banging some 20 year old on the side

Perascamin posted...

weekoldhotdog posted...

Guess its easier to watch your wife get banged by another man than it is to pay child support.

This is probably it tbh.

One guy I work with pays 170/week in child support. We make 500/week. He can barely get by. One of the guys that make even more money pays 1200/month in child support. The only choice he has now is to work 18 hours a day or he cant live

That's a lot, and child support payments has its issues, but how much of that would they be spending if they had custody of the child themselves and were paying for something like daycare?
Having a kid is expensive, period.
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Lmao what a world
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Esrac posted...

The boy is going to grow up thinking being a cuck is normal or he is going to turn on his father in his teen years and completely lose respect for him.

Also, the picture suggests a lot there. A woman using two men to support herself and her kid.

They're just giving the MGTOWs ammunition at this point.

this

whether or not the kid minds it, its still going to fuck him up

perfect life for the wife though. shes got the husband for money and emotional support, and the boyfriend for romance and the D
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If it works for them, it works for them. That's all there is to it.
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dirtycommunist posted...

If it works for them, it works for them. That's all there is to it.

The name fits
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Esrac posted...

The boy is going to grow up thinking being a cuck is normal or he is going to turn on his father in his teen years and completely lose respect for him.

Also, the picture suggests a lot there. A woman using two men to support herself and her kid.

They're just giving the MGTOWs ammunition at this point.

No they are trying to tell men its good to be a cuck as long as the woman is happy, fuck your happiness, and who gives a fuck how it effects the child.
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This is why Trump won
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Dot

Why can't you just be happy for them?
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At least all those dudes crying about being single in their 30's have a chance now.

Just become the bull in some failed marriage.
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The thing is though, sometimes after a few years of getting married, one partner just decides they're done. With sex. Forever. And they know it too. I don't really get upset at the man or woman in that relationship who isn't done yet.
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Tc is literally obsessed with cuckoldry apparently
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rikasa posted...

The thing is though, sometimes after a few years of getting married, one partner just decides they're done. With sex. Forever. And they know it too. I don't really get upset at the man or woman in that relationship who isn't done yet.

Those people should not get married or have kids then, sex is part of most healthy marriages.
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Hindsight is not generally a solution to most problems and you're being ignorant.
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People who decide they are done with sex dont just make that choice overnight, they usually have a steady decline in their interest in sex or have a low sex drive to begin with.

Most of the people deciding they are done with sex usually do so after marriage and having atleast 1 child. Problem is these people are not a certain age usually, they just want to get married before they completely cut off the tap because they know if they do that shit before marriage very few people will even want to marry them. Its fraud in a way since the person uses sex to secure marriage then cuts the tap off and expects their partner to deal with it.
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I don't honestly believe that these men are going into marriage knowing that their dick is going to stop working in 10 years. And even if he does, he can't be a good father? He can't love his son? There's no value in his life? Just stop. You don't even believe what you're saying and if you do you're just trash.
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So in this fantasy world viagra does not exist ?, also its not mainly men who do this, most men never lose their sex drive and those who do often want it back.
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rikasa posted...

I don't honestly believe that these men are going into marriage knowing that their dick is going to stop working in 10 years. And even if he does, he can't be a good father? He can't love his son? There's no value in his life? Just stop. You don't even believe what you're saying and if you do you're just trash.

but its the womans fault for cheating on him, and then bringing the boyfriend into his life
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@Ryuko_Chan

Most men would divorce her ass or tell her you cheat or have an affair and your ass is out on the street. Other men decide to have many many mistresses because they are so angry their wife became a cheating whore.
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If you just think for a moment about why humans have sex, it's really obvious why so many of them also lose interest in sex once procreation is off the table. If they want to continue beyond that point, good for them. Maybe you can't understand why this guy doesn't want to have sex against his will but like I said... it's because you're trash.
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Holy hell is this woman enormously greedy and selfish. The husband sounds like he's just sticking around because he can't afford to go off on his own. With how big of a deal the writer makes it out to be of how badly she wants to avoid a divorce, he reluctantly agreed to this lifestyle.
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No sane man decides to just not give a shit about sex, there are a few odd balls but most men will take viagra before just accepting that their dick doesnt work anymore.

Most men who cant get it up anymore are either depressed or become depressed they cant get it up anymore because unlike women men uaually want to fuck until it kills them or they die fucking someone.
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Damn. Imagine including depressed people in your paradigm of what marriage looks like.
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Sherry Richert Belul, who lives in San Francisco, is the author of Say it Now: 33 Creative Ways to Say I Love You to the Most Important People in Your Life, due out in May

I'm guessing creative way number 16 will be something along the lines of
"I need your permission to have an affair."

So you have no real reaponse ?, ok thanks for playing.
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Uh, my opinion is consistent and correct whether I gift you with my conversation or not. You can reread what I already said if you're still interested in not being trash.
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