Current Events > Are you close with your siblings?

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I have one younger brother, and yes.

Dude just hooked me up. Told me not to pre order the Super Mario Party bundle because he pre ordered it for 82 bucks for me at Best Buy.

He's always looking out for my gaming interests :')
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I have 4 siblings. Not close to any of them, but I lack anything resembling a relationship or closeness with any of my family members.
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Can't be close to someone that doesn't exist.
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I have a lot of guilt, because I feel like I was an asshole to him a lot when we were younger. Really been trying to be that good big bro to him now.
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Nope!
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Super close. I went to my sisters new house earlier to help her paint just for the conversation. If that's not a good relationship, I don't know what is.

Let my other sister and her 2 kids live with me rent free for a year. Basically kicked her out before she got her house fixed cause I felt like she got too comfortable. Yet, it didn't fracture our relationship at all. I went to her house a couple days after and looked at the set up to make sure I didn't have to feel too bad about it >_>
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MrK3V posted...

I have a lot of guilt, because I feel like I was an asshole to him a lot when we were younger. Really been trying to be that good big bro to him now.

Let the past go man. Especially if he doesn't hold it against you. Worst thing for growth is to keep blaming yourself for the past
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i guess. talk to my older brother every other day or so, helped him move a few months back.
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I have one older brother. He's 6 years older than me. I'm really close with him and was the best man in his wedding. He was very influential on my life although it was annoying as a teen. He would try to act our parents to me sometimes. However, I learned a lot from him. He would bring me his books home from college and have me read them so we could talk about things. We don't see eye to eye on several things, but that's ok.
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Lost_All_Senses posted...

MrK3V posted...

I have a lot of guilt, because I feel like I was an asshole to him a lot when we were younger. Really been trying to be that good big bro to him now.

Let the past go man. Especially if he doesn't hold it against you. Worst thing for growth is to keep blaming yourself for the past

I know. I have a big problem with letting things go. Things that bother me, that I know shouldn't because its not bothering anyone else.

It's kind of a weird guilt where I always want to help others, before I help myself. Hell, that's my job as a behavioral therapist, and I could really use that to teach myself.
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MrK3V posted...

Lost_All_Senses posted...

MrK3V posted...

I have a lot of guilt, because I feel like I was an asshole to him a lot when we were younger. Really been trying to be that good big bro to him now.

Let the past go man. Especially if he doesn't hold it against you. Worst thing for growth is to keep blaming yourself for the past

I know. I have a big problem with letting things go. Things that bother me, that I know shouldn't because its not bothering anyone else.

It's kind of a weird guilt where I always want to help others, before I help myself. Hell, that's my job as a behavioral therapist, and I could really use that to teach myself.

It's better than being a douchebag lol. I use to be like that too. Where I felt like Id have to help if someone asked, and if I didn't I felt like I was doing wrong. I eventually learned that nobody else felt that way and I was just stressing over something that no one expected from me. Same with being scared to voice my opinion because I didn't want my choice to be what happened if someone wanted something different and just was being quiet too. Im glad Im over that kind of stuff. No way to live
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Yeah, my younger (and only) brother who is my roommate (I bought the house and he contributes informal rent money)
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Sure am.
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Unfortunately no, not really.

We get along fine when we see each other the few times a year that we do, but we basically never talk outside of those instances. I kind of wish we were closer, but we just have very different personalities and were both content doing our own thing I guess. We only live a few hours apart but we dont really visit each other unless its some sort of family gathering like holidays or weddings.