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_Lyonidias 10/23/18 10:18:08 PM #1:	tl;dr the latest thing (well I say latest but its gone on for a while) with mine is getting upset and crying because i care about and love people who arent her. I seriously cant talk about anyone in a positive light without her talking about all shes done for me and how shell always remember this or not saying anything but just crying. It would be amusing if it wasnt so disturbing and depressing. Those of you who have loving families have no idea how blessed and grateful you really should be. --- she's a killer queen uwu; the user formerly known as joestarrr <cite>_Lyonidias posted [p:911050467] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>tl;dr the latest thing (well I say latest but its gone on for a while) with mine is getting upset and crying because i care about and love people who arent her. I seriously cant talk about anyone in a positive light without her talking about all shes done for me and how shell always remember this or not saying anything but just crying. It would be amusing if it wasnt so disturbing and depressing. Those of you who have loving families have no idea how blessed and grateful you really should be.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hotcegaI 10/23/18 10:19:00 PM #2:	Mine used to throw dinner plates at me if I didn't eat everything <cite>hotcegaI posted [p:911050517] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>Mine used to throw dinner plates at me if I didn't eat everything</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Johnny_Nutcase 10/23/18 10:20:36 PM #3:	hotcegaI posted... Mine used to throw dinner plates at me if I didn't eat everything Well that seems stupid. They must have spent a lot of money on plates. --- I've learned that life is one crushing defeat after another... until you just wish Flanders was dead. - Homer Simpson <cite>Johnny_Nutcase posted [p:911050602] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote><cite>hotcegaI posted...</cite> <quote>Mine used to throw dinner plates at me if I didn't eat everything</quote> Well that seems stupid. They must have spent a lot of money on plates.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hotcegaI 10/23/18 10:21:25 PM #4:	Johnny_Nutcase posted... hotcegaI posted... Mine used to throw dinner plates at me if I didn't eat everything Well that seems stupid. They must have spent a lot of money on plates. Terrible parenting rarely belongs to logical people <cite>hotcegaI posted [p:911050644] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote><cite>Johnny_Nutcase posted...</cite> <quote><cite>hotcegaI posted...</cite> <quote>Mine used to throw dinner plates at me if I didn't eat everything</quote> Well that seems stupid. They must have spent a lot of money on plates.</quote> Terrible parenting rarely belongs to logical people</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Lyonidias 10/23/18 10:24:34 PM #5:	hotcegaI posted... Johnny_Nutcase posted... hotcegaI posted... Mine used to throw dinner plates at me if I didn't eat everything Well that seems stupid. They must have spent a lot of money on plates. Terrible parenting rarely belongs to logical people Exactly. And thats a horrible horrible thing for someone to do. I dont get why people have kids if they arent going to love them and care for them correctly. --- she's a killer queen uwu; the user formerly known as joestarrr <cite>_Lyonidias posted [p:911050827] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote><cite>hotcegaI posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Johnny_Nutcase posted...</cite> <quote><cite>hotcegaI posted...</cite> <quote>Mine used to throw dinner plates at me if I didn't eat everything</quote> Well that seems stupid. They must have spent a lot of money on plates.</quote> Terrible parenting rarely belongs to logical people</quote> Exactly. And thats a horrible horrible thing for someone to do. I dont get why people have kids if they arent going to love them and care for them correctly.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Garrmanarnarr 10/23/18 10:24:51 PM #6:	Leave them behind and don't look back, you don't owe any family member anything --- I really don't care, do u? <cite>Garrmanarnarr posted [p:911050839] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>Leave them behind and don't look back, you don't owe any family member anything</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hotcegaI 10/23/18 10:25:59 PM #7:	_Lyonidias posted... Exactly. And thats a horrible horrible thing for someone to do. I dont get why people have kids if they arent going to love them and care for them correctly. Abortion wasn't legal here or cheap if you got it overseas. and mostly because oh no you give up your kid for adoption then the world judges you so keep it and abuse it because you hate the fact you got pregnant <cite>hotcegaI posted [p:911050903] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote><cite>_Lyonidias posted...</cite> <quote> Exactly. And thats a horrible horrible thing for someone to do. I dont get why people have kids if they arent going to love them and care for them correctly.</quote> Abortion wasn't legal here or cheap if you got it overseas. and mostly because oh no you give up your kid for adoption then the world judges you so keep it and abuse it because you hate the fact you got pregnant</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MonkeySee 10/23/18 10:30:10 PM #9:	In retrospect, I think that was an awkward question. <cite>MonkeySee posted [p:911051104] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>In retrospect, I think that was an awkward question.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 10/23/18 10:30:53 PM #10:	MonkeySee posted... Aeriis posted... _Lyonidias posted... And thats a horrible horrible thing for someone to do. I dont get why people have kids if they arent going to love them and care for them correctly. I think about that a lot Are you pregnant? we're all pregnant and i swear that's alex he came to haunt me. --- I'm pretty much Stu from Rugrats making pudding at 4 in morning because I've lost control of my life - Polycosm <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:911051148] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote><cite>MonkeySee posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Aeriis posted...</cite> <quote><cite>_Lyonidias posted...</cite> <quote>And thats a horrible horrible thing for someone to do. I dont get why people have kids if they arent going to love them and care for them correctly. </quote> I think about that a lot</quote> Are you pregnant?</quote> we're all pregnant and i swear that's alex he came to haunt me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ImTheMacheteGuy 10/23/18 10:36:36 PM #12:	I know how you feel. It was empowering to find out at age 10 that I was the "man of the house" because my father was "being stalked by the FBI" due to various shenanigans related to "native American burial grounds." It was almost as fun as watching him scream at and berate a blockbuster employee (let's not joke about blockbuster >_>) for 10 minutes straight because she had the nerve to ask if he would provide an email address. --- Place-holder sig because new phone and old sigs not saved :/ <cite>ImTheMacheteGuy posted [p:911051391] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>I know how you feel. It was empowering to find out at age 10 that I was the "man of the house" because my father was "being stalked by the FBI" due to various shenanigans related to "native American burial grounds." It was almost as fun as watching him scream at and berate a blockbuster employee (let's not joke about blockbuster >_>) for 10 minutes straight because she had the nerve to ask if he would provide an email address.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sleepysausage 10/23/18 10:41:43 PM #13:	Being mentally ill doesn't make someone a bad parent or mean they're unloving. <cite>sleepysausage posted [p:911051654] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>Being mentally ill doesn't make someone a bad parent or mean they're unloving.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 10/23/18 10:42:23 PM #14:	sleepysausage posted... Being mentally ill doesn't make someone a bad parent or mean they're unloving. depends on the mental condition. some causes them to be more impaired than others. --- I'm pretty much Stu from Rugrats making pudding at 4 in morning because I've lost control of my life - Polycosm <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:911051688] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote><cite>sleepysausage posted...</cite> <quote>Being mentally ill doesn't make someone a bad parent or mean they're unloving.</quote> depends on the mental condition. some causes them to be more impaired than others.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Lyonidias 10/24/18 11:32:05 AM #15:	ImTheMacheteGuy posted... I know how you feel. It was empowering to find out at age 10 that I was the "man of the house" because my father was "being stalked by the FBI" due to various shenanigans related to "native American burial grounds." It was almost as fun as watching him scream at and berate a blockbuster employee (let's not joke about blockbuster >_>) for 10 minutes straight because she had the nerve to ask if he would provide an email address. Jfc yikes kingdrake2 posted... sleepysausage posted... Being mentally ill doesn't make someone a bad parent or mean they're unloving. depends on the mental condition. some causes them to be more impaired than others. Well yeah but in this case mine are horrible --- she's a killer queen uwu; the user formerly known as joestarrr <cite>_Lyonidias posted [p:911074771] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote><cite>ImTheMacheteGuy posted...</cite> <quote>I know how you feel. It was empowering to find out at age 10 that I was the "man of the house" because my father was "being stalked by the FBI" due to various shenanigans related to "native American burial grounds." It was almost as fun as watching him scream at and berate a blockbuster employee (let's not joke about blockbuster >_>) for 10 minutes straight because she had the nerve to ask if he would provide an email address.</quote> Jfc yikes <cite>kingdrake2 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>sleepysausage posted...</cite> <quote>Being mentally ill doesn't make someone a bad parent or mean they're unloving.</quote> depends on the mental condition. some causes them to be more impaired than others.</quote> Well yeah but in this case mine are horrible</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Lyonidias 10/24/18 11:35:55 AM #16:	Also I guess its ok for her to talk shit about how no one in the family cares about her no matter how much she tries and convince everyone that Im fucking awful, which is nice. Oh well I dont really like anyone in my family so it doesnt fucking matter. Maybe when shes old and everyone has abandoned her shell realize how horrible and despicable she truly is, and that people wont give her any more chances that she never fucking deserved. --- she's a killer queen uwu; the user formerly known as joestarrr <cite>_Lyonidias posted [p:911074986] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>Also I guess its ok for her to talk shit about how no one in the family cares about her no matter how much she tries and convince everyone that Im fucking awful, which is nice. Oh well I dont really like anyone in my family so it doesnt fucking matter. Maybe when shes old and everyone has abandoned her shell realize how horrible and despicable she truly is, and that people wont give her any more chances that she never fucking deserved.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teepan95 10/24/18 11:39:27 AM #17:	Just keep imagining a future without her A future you're actively working towards and will achieve soon --- I use Gameraven and you should too. #heavilyburntpotato <cite>teepan95 posted [p:911075203] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>Just keep imagining a future without her A future you're actively working towards and will achieve soon</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthWendy 10/24/18 11:42:39 AM #18:	Well I'm very sorry to hear that. I imagine it eats away at you to be exposed to this on a daily basis. Still, it's your family and you can't get another, you have to make do and be the stronger one. --- Ave Caesar, Rosae Rosam et Spiritus Rex ! - Voila, ca ne veut absolument rien dire mais l'effet reste le meme https://i.imgtc.com/eRE0ORV.jpg <cite>DarthWendy posted [p:911075377] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>Well I'm very sorry to hear that. I imagine it eats away at you to be exposed to this on a daily basis. Still, it's your family and you can't get another, you have to make do and be the stronger one.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Lyonidias 10/24/18 12:03:16 PM #20:	Goats posted... Look at it from her point of view. She has a daughter that keeps making bad decisions. And lately you've been irrational af, dumping a whole bottle of wine down the sink over a simple comment? Wtf What's more you've barely known smoliske for over a year. Saying you love him in that small of time frame is troubling, especially because you keep gallivanting across the country to be with him. They don't even know half the shit about smoliske that CE does. Damn right any parent is going to be concerned Lmao you are clueless about the degree of cruelty she has for me. Clueless. Shes treated me like shit and been abusive my whole fucking life. She hates seeing me happy with or without anyone - I cant even discuss getting along with coworkers without it being made about her. I got married to my first husband without even telling her, she knows shes lucky I give her any information on anyone. --- she's a killer queen uwu; the user formerly known as joestarrr <cite>_Lyonidias posted [p:911076550] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote><cite>Goats posted...</cite> <quote>Look at it from her point of view. She has a daughter that keeps making bad decisions. And lately you've been irrational af, dumping a whole bottle of wine down the sink over a simple comment? Wtf What's more you've barely known smoliske for over a year. Saying you love him in that small of time frame is troubling, especially because you keep gallivanting across the country to be with him. They don't even know half the shit about smoliske that CE does. Damn right any parent is going to be concerned</quote> Lmao you are clueless about the degree of cruelty she has for me. Clueless. Shes treated me like shit and been abusive my whole fucking life. She hates seeing me happy with or without anyone - I cant even discuss getting along with coworkers without it being made about her. I got married to my first husband without even telling her, she knows shes lucky I give her any information on anyone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Lyonidias 10/24/18 12:03:58 PM #21:	And no I dont keep making bad decisions wtf are you going on about lmao Shitposting here isnt real life yknow --- she's a killer queen uwu; the user formerly known as joestarrr <cite>_Lyonidias posted [p:911076586] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>And no I dont keep making bad decisions wtf are you going on about lmao Shitposting here isnt real life yknow</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Devimon 10/24/18 12:05:04 PM #22:	mine was physically abusive --- Opinions posted on this account do not reflect the opinions of the user behind it <cite>Devimon posted [p:911076645] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>mine was physically abusive</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthWendy 10/24/18 12:08:14 PM #23:	This is a serious topic and I can see why the matters confessed are important and certainly not a place for laughs. But.... joe dear.... did you just say "yikes" ? I literally giggled irl :p Aaaand I'm out. --- Ave Caesar, Rosae Rosam et Spiritus Rex ! - Voila, ca ne veut absolument rien dire mais l'effet reste le meme https://i.imgtc.com/eRE0ORV.jpg <cite>DarthWendy posted [p:911076836] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>This is a serious topic and I can see why the matters confessed are important and certainly not a place for laughs. But.... joe dear.... did you just say "yikes" ? I literally giggled irl :p Aaaand I'm out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Lyonidias 10/24/18 12:10:13 PM #24:	Devimon posted... mine was physically abusive Yeah Ive had books thrown at me and was occasionally hit with a paddle or belt. Far from actual physical abuse but still. Sucks no matter what kind of abuse it is, especially when its from someone who is supposed to be loving and caring. --- she's a killer queen uwu; the user formerly known as joestarrr <cite>_Lyonidias posted [p:911076961] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote><cite>Devimon posted...</cite> <quote>mine was physically abusive</quote> Yeah Ive had books thrown at me and was occasionally hit with a paddle or belt. Far from actual physical abuse but still. Sucks no matter what kind of abuse it is, especially when its from someone who is supposed to be loving and caring.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YoungMutual 10/24/18 12:11:08 PM #25:	Hey guys please check r/raisedbynarcisists It's a help subreddit for people in these kinds of situations, it may help you. --- http://cdn.memearcade.com/2013/4/30/7f2c568372233f97d925aa24c15950c4.gif http://media.giphy.com/media/IAko0WCRgslry/giphy.gif <cite>YoungMutual posted [p:911077011] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>Hey guys please check r/raisedbynarcisists It's a help subreddit for people in these kinds of situations, it may help you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Lyonidias 10/24/18 12:13:03 PM #26:	YoungMutual posted... Hey guys please check r/raisedbynarcisists It's a help subreddit for people in these kinds of situations, it may help you. That sounds vaguely familiar, I think theres also one for adults who were fucked up by their parents homeschooling them which I visited a few times in the past. Will definitely check it out --- she's a killer queen uwu; the user formerly known as joestarrr <cite>_Lyonidias posted [p:911077132] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote><cite>YoungMutual posted...</cite> <quote>Hey guys please check r/raisedbynarcisists It's a help subreddit for people in these kinds of situations, it may help you.</quote> That sounds vaguely familiar, I think theres also one for adults who were fucked up by their parents homeschooling them which I visited a few times in the past. Will definitely check it out</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teepan95 10/24/18 12:56:18 PM #27:	YoungMutual posted... r/raisedbynarcisists Can't believe I forgot about that place Seconded, it's worth checking out --- I use Gameraven and you should too. #heavilyburntpotato <cite>teepan95 posted [p:911079737] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote><cite>YoungMutual posted...</cite> <quote>r/raisedbynarcisists</quote> Can't believe I forgot about that place Seconded, it's worth checking out</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryetoast 10/24/18 1:01:47 PM #28:	I was lucky I had loving parents.. I had my Mom for 15 years, and I love my Dad. Sorry about your folks Joe, you don't deserve the crap. --- The user formerly known as 626 <cite>Ryetoast posted [p:911080045] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>I was lucky I had loving parents.. I had my Mom for 15 years, and I love my Dad. Sorry about your folks Joe, you don't deserve the crap.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthGravid 10/24/18 1:44:45 PM #29:	I was raised by terrible parents. They were physically and mentally abusive. My childhood was hell. And it's over. I became an adult as fast as I could. I moved out on my own at 15, and I have supported myself ever since. Since then, I have healed myself by succeeding without them. Think of it this way: Your parents were terrible and threw you in a mud pit. Do you sit in the mud and cry about being dirty and because they did that to you? Does that help? I chose to climb out, wash myself off, and move on, without them. People like that aren't going to help you, as they have clearly shown you already. You have to fix you. People can help, but it's ultimately (and completely) on you. --- Torn between two minds. Is either correct? Perhaps together.....but how? Can it be done? <cite>DarthGravid posted [p:911082541] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>I was raised by terrible parents. They were physically and mentally abusive. My childhood was hell. And it's over. I became an adult as fast as I could. I moved out on my own at 15, and I have supported myself ever since. Since then, I have healed myself by succeeding without them. Think of it this way: Your parents were terrible and threw you in a mud pit. Do you sit in the mud and cry about being dirty and because they did that to you? Does that help? I chose to climb out, wash myself off, and move on, without them. People like that aren't going to help you, as they have clearly shown you already. You have to fix you. People can help, but it's ultimately (and completely) on you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sLaCkEr408___RJ 10/24/18 1:45:57 PM #30:	Just remember not everyone is perfect. <cite>sLaCkEr408___RJ posted [p:911082622] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>Just remember not everyone is perfect.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/24/18 2:00:22 PM #31:	What do you think your moms side would be like if she was in this conversation? --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:911083485] in Having an ... [t:77126185]...</cite> <quote>What do you think your moms side would be like if she was in this conversation?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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