Current Events > what should i do here? (girl help)

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girls asks me out for a drink
we go, have a good time
tells me she is not living with her bf currently, they are on/off, she doesn't know what is happening

take her out yesterday, good time, both enjoy it
make out with her, she says "stop i have a bf"

wtf....

wake up to text message saying she loves her bf very much and would never hurt him
tries to continue messaging me, so i told her to cool it is she loves him so much
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What.. this exact same shit happened to my roommate. The girl literally came over to our place willingly despite the fact that he practically begged her not to (it was very late at night and he just wanted to chill and get some sleep). He says she got mostly undressed and they fooled around a little but it didn't go any further because she was on her period at the time.

Then the next day she texts him a novel's worth about how shitty she feels and how she loves her boyfriend and doesn't want to cheat on him, etc. The way she worded it almost made it sound like it was his fault or he was taking advantage of her, but he never even wanted her there in the first place. He told her off and blocked her, said he doesn't need that shit in his life and I agree.

Such stupid fucking logic though. If you love your boyfriend and don't want to cheat then maybe don't go on dates with other dudes and initiate intimate encounters with them? What part of that whole thing do they think is even remotely okay?
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thanks man, i agree about potential future drama..... hoe can girls do this shit when they have a boyfriend....literally ready to swing branches at a moments notice
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girls want plausible deniability

you didn't give it to her
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hit it and quit it
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Rick-C137 posted...

hit it and quit it

did you read my first post?
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My current gf did this to me, and we've been together for 8 years now. She wants a man to "rescue"/steal her from her current bf. She says she loves him, but in reality it's not romantic love and it's almost certain he doesn't love her because all the girls that did that to me were usually in a bad relationship.

Really, it depends how you feel about her and if you are willing to play her game. It took me 6 long months to win my gf over, and it was worth the effort to me.
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She said it's an on/off relationship which is pretty much all you need to know. She's really open game but she'll always fall back on how she's technically already in a relationship whenever she wants. But if that shit was serious, it (obviously) wouldn't be on/off so it's up to you to call her bluff.
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