Current Events > I honestly don't understand how people 30+ aren't constantly miserable.

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joe40001 posted...

I don't know what you want me to do or say. You are referring to stuff from a different site, 5-10 years old which you are interpreting in a way that was not what I meant when I said it.

"That's not what I meant"

"I apologize for being interpreted in that way"

"That isn't ok and on a anonymous internet forum a very depressed mid 20s guy acted out for attention"

I mean seriously what the fuck do you want from me that you won't follow me across the internet like some psycho stalker to troll me for shit that you interpreted the wrong way? What the hell do I have to say for you to go "Oh ok, that's in the past". I never hurt anybody, all the shit you are talking about is at least 5 years old, I was depressed as hell and trying to get attention, and I got it. And now you won't let it go. Is there something your insane harassment is trying to accomplish? Is there something you want from me? Or is it just your plan that for the rest of your life you are going to harass somebody over the internet that you fundamentally don't understand because in a website who's whole selling point is "shock value, everything goes" a depressed early 20s guy tried to get attention?

Do you want me to say something? Do you want me to do something? Is there literally anything I can do that would convince you that "oh, joe isn't who I think he is, I should leave him alone?" because if the answer is no then you are a flat out sociopath.

jfc

I had him confused with another user
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I just got out of a 6 year relationship and I'm good.
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ForestLogic posted...

Most people over 30 that I know are all tired and miserable. Most of them it's because they had children, but some are just like that because, idk, they're not good at coping I guess? My fiancee turned 30 this year and I'm turning 30 in a couple months. We haven't slowed down at all and make sure to keep life fun and interesting. I think what happens is most people just forget how to have fun and resign themselves to "Oh, I'm not 17 anymore, therefore I'm supposed to always feel run down and sad. I feel really bad for them, but most of them refuse to change. They lose their sense of whimsy and adventure and childlike wonder, and it's all downhill after that.

TBQH, the only part of my life I'm not satisfied with is my social life, mostly because me and my fiancee never get to see our friends anymore on account of them never wanting to make plans due to their aforementioned tired/miserable existence.

Yea, that blows my mind honestly. A ton of people on Facebook always post about how old they are and how the good days are behind them (were early 30s btw)

Im 34 with a kid and Ive havent stopped doing the things I love and my wife and I still go out plenty and take vacations (just got back from LA this week actually)

I just dont get this being tired thing. People are just letting life pass by for no reason
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DyingPancake posted...

ForestLogic posted...

Most people over 30 that I know are all tired and miserable. Most of them it's because they had children, but some are just like that because, idk, they're not good at coping I guess? My fiancee turned 30 this year and I'm turning 30 in a couple months. We haven't slowed down at all and make sure to keep life fun and interesting. I think what happens is most people just forget how to have fun and resign themselves to "Oh, I'm not 17 anymore, therefore I'm supposed to always feel run down and sad. I feel really bad for them, but most of them refuse to change. They lose their sense of whimsy and adventure and childlike wonder, and it's all downhill after that.

TBQH, the only part of my life I'm not satisfied with is my social life, mostly because me and my fiancee never get to see our friends anymore on account of them never wanting to make plans due to their aforementioned tired/miserable existence.

Yea, that blows my mind honestly. A ton of people on Facebook always post about how old they are and how the good days are behind them (were early 30s btw)

Im 34 with a kid and Ive havent stopped doing the things I love and my wife and I still go out plenty and take vacations (just got back from LA this week actually)

I just dont get this being tired thing. People are just letting life pass by for no reason

Yeah this too

Conflict posted...

Wouldn't people with a chemical imbalance need therapy the most

It would help, but no they wouldn't need therapy more than someone who's problems are a result of trauma, and it's more important that they get the right medication than anything else.
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I have to say I think Omega cookie is wrong about the murder part. I think it was just a threat of doxxing that admin and his family.
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Its bad once you realize how they oppress us >: (
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Villain posted...

I have to say I think Omega cookie is wrong about the murder part. I think it was just a threat of doxxing that admin and his family.

Is there any rationality to him flying off the handle like that? Idk TC but I can't imagine ever reacting like that.
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Villain posted...

I have to say I think Omega cookie is wrong about the murder part. I think it was just a threat of doxxing that admin and his family.

IIRC, it started out as threatening to doxx... BigCow? His name has cow in it. Then he threatened to kill him and his family, and that got him banned.

nicklebro posted...

Villain posted...

I have to say I think Omega cookie is wrong about the murder part. I think it was just a threat of doxxing that admin and his family.

Is there any rationality to him flying off the handle like that? Idk TC but I can't imagine ever reacting like that.

Guy, I don't know how many times I have to explain this to you. I'm from Southie. I curse for emphasis. When I typed all those messages yesterday? I was killing time while waiting on FFXV Comrades queues. I don't really care about anything on these boards, it's just a time killer. I'm not angry when I'm saying Joe is a fucking awful human being, I'm stating a fact.

And the point is, you don't know him. I've watched him be human garbage for almost two decades now. Notice how it went from "He's making shit up" to "it's a misunderstanding" to "boo hoo my depression made me act out for attention"? He's a liar, and a terrible person. Nothing is ever his fault, it's everyone else who is to blame.

I don't care about him, he doesn't make me angry, but pointing out how awful he is, now that's an interesting way to kill time. If he doesn't like it, he probably shouldn't do the awful shit he does.
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Probably because a majority of them have kids
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If you keep healthy you can still have an awesome sex life thru your 50s.

Plus entheogens.
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OC, what you have said has been offensive, and is horribly untrue. Please leave me alone.
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