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HagenEx 09/27/18 2:14:17 PM #1: |
Some context here.
I had a girlfriend in highschool, only person I've actually cared about. We broke up during the last year of highschool, heard about her getting married and having a kid years later with one of my highschool best friends (I know, right?). Recently I found out from him that he had broken up with her, dude's kind of a lunatic, always was, and he currently has another girl pregnant. Anyways, she contacted me through facebook, asked me about me and what I've been up to. She never mentioned being single and I didn't ask. All of a sudden, she told me we should meet up for a drink at her house. Now here's the dilemma... Life's good, I don't have anything to spoil my happiness at the moment, I enjoy being single and fooling around. I do fear, however, feelings will start coming up and I might do something stupid. I do still care for her, after over 10 years. She's still as gorgeous as she was back then, I think even more cause she grew amazing tits judging from her facebook photos. On the other hand, she has an 8 year old kid, and boy do I suck at interacting with children, they just annoy me. What do I do? --- The side of the fence that we climb determines who's afraid ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BlackScythe0 09/27/18 2:21:41 PM #2: |
No point in going back to someone who hurt you and will hurt you again.
She just wants to use you to raise her kids while she is going after other dudes again. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MICHALECOLE 09/27/18 2:24:42 PM #3: |
Date the eight year old to assert dominance
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PMarth2002 09/27/18 2:26:52 PM #4: |
Go for drinks? One time doesn't mean you're suddenly responsible for her kid or something.
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rogerskg1979 09/27/18 2:32:09 PM #5: |
How long ago was the breakup between her and he ex? If it was fairly recent, then you are more than likely the rebound. Rebound relationships never turn out well.
Plus, she has a kid. Run away. Run far away. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HagenEx 09/27/18 2:47:13 PM #6: |
BlackScythe0 posted...
No point in going back to someone who hurt you and will hurt you again. She didn't actually hurt me, we broke up on friendly terms. She was moving to another city to study after graduating and I wasn't. That's the reason I still care about her, we never had an issue. --- The side of the fence that we climb determines who's afraid ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ReggieTheReckless 09/27/18 2:52:30 PM #7: |
Nothing wrong with being her rebound fling
Just don't expect anything more Especially if you aren't prepared to be step-dad to an 8 year old ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HagenEx 09/27/18 2:55:46 PM #8: |
Yeah I guess I'll take her up on her offer, have a few drinks and whatever's gonna happen will happen.
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Mystery_Mission 09/27/18 2:56:08 PM #9: |
don't be a cuck and raise someone elses kid
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MICHALECOLE 09/27/18 2:57:23 PM #10: |
Mystery_Mission posted...
don't be a cuck and raise someone elses kid Somebody hates their stepdad! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Veedrock- 09/27/18 3:16:28 PM #11: |
HagenEx posted...
The only woman I've ever loved I don't buy it. --- My friends call me Vee. I'm not your friend, buddy. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Firewood18 09/27/18 3:38:22 PM #12: |
Just do it. And do her if the chance arises. What do you really have to lose?
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TheWorstPoster 09/27/18 3:39:38 PM #13: |
Don't bother.
Leave her. She has a kid and shit taste anyway. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mofuji 09/27/18 4:01:56 PM #14: |
Imagine being so desperate that you'd even consider going after a single mother.
--- "Youkai is evil because Youaki is bad. And I'm gonna exterminate them." ~ Reimu Hakurei during the 2016 US Presidential Campaign ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SunWuKung420 09/27/18 4:05:06 PM #15: |
Men that discount single mothers are probably the worst people in the world. Especially when it's the incel inhabitants of this board.
--- "Men have to restrain themselves around other men to avoid an outright punch out"- Kyuubi4269 9/17/18 PSN - SunWuKung420 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mofuji 09/27/18 4:14:38 PM #16: |
It's okay, you were raised by a single mother. It's not your fault that she abused you.
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CacciatoPart3 09/27/18 4:55:58 PM #17: |
Have sex wth her. And then message Ico and tell him about it to make him jealous.
--- "Why the f*** do you think I'm gay bro I'm not f***ing gay. I love p****, I'm in deep love with the female anatomy" - Nomak54/-Komaiko54- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GenericGuy 09/27/18 5:25:13 PM #18: |
Mofuji posted...
Imagine being so desperate that you'd even consider going after a single mother. --- funner ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OhhhJa 09/27/18 5:37:20 PM #19: |
SunWuKung420 posted...
Men that discount single mothers are probably the worst people in the world. Especially when it's the incel inhabitants of this board. Can't you ever not say something dumb I'm not one that's necessarily against dating a girl with a kid or 2 but having dating preferences doesn't make you a bad person. Not everyone wants kids ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LinkPizza 09/27/18 5:41:30 PM #20: |
No point to not go out for drinks. Doesn't mean you have to date or anything. The only reason I would date an ex is if we broke up because of distance, like moving away. So, if you want to date, it probably wouldn't be bad. Depending on the timing, you could be a rebound, but that's ok as long as you know. And if you do decide to date, you'll probably get use to the kid... maybe... But just take it one step at a time and just go out for drinks and enjoy yourself.
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LinkPizza 09/27/18 5:43:46 PM #21: |
Mofuji posted...
Imagine being so desperate that you'd even consider going after a single mother. I don't think that's right. You don't have to date a single mother if you don't want to, but it's not desperate to date one. At a certain age, there will be a good amount more women that have a child from a previous relationship... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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