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Cleo_II 07/31/18 6:31:47 PM #1:	To a different man Soooo glad I didnt go through with it! <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:906047101] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>To a different man Soooo glad I didnt go through with it!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
0AbsoluteZero0 07/31/18 6:33:34 PM #2:	Dodged a bullet huh? --- -The Admirable <cite>0AbsoluteZero0 posted [p:906047184] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>Dodged a bullet huh?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cleo_II 07/31/18 6:38:22 PM #4:	0AbsoluteZero0 posted... Dodged a bullet huh? Big time. Dude was a pathological liar with crazy mom issues byron posted... How close to the ceremony did you call it off? 2 days <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:906047453] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote><cite>0AbsoluteZero0 posted...</cite> <quote>Dodged a bullet huh?</quote> Big time. Dude was a pathological liar with crazy mom issues <cite>byron posted...</cite> <quote>How close to the ceremony did you call it off?</quote> 2 days</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Complete_Idi0t 07/31/18 6:38:49 PM #5:	So which one was it? Today or 8 years ago? <cite>Complete_Idi0t posted [p:906047485] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>So which one was it? Today or 8 years ago?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DavidWong 07/31/18 6:38:56 PM #6:	Holy shit. How'd that go down? 2 days before the ceremony --- COOK WITH A GEORGE FOREMAN GRILL JUST TO DRINK OUT THE DRIP TRAY <cite>DavidWong posted [p:906047495] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>Holy shit. How'd that go down? 2 days before the ceremony</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
REMercsChamp 07/31/18 6:38:59 PM #7:	Another CE miracle --- Come check out my community board for NEET discussions: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1467-neet-discussions <cite>REMercsChamp posted [p:906047498] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>Another CE miracle</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/31/18 7:08:10 PM #8:	DavidWong posted... Holy shit. How'd that go down? 2 days before the ceremony It started 5 days before technically. We had rehearsal at the church. Then his mom decided it was a good time to start yelling at my mom. Because my mom decided to buy us a new mattress as a wedding gift. His mom thought it was a stupid present and that my mom should buy us a new AC for his house. Im not even kidding, she legit started screaming at my mom, who started crying. My ex sided with him mom and I sided with mine. His mom wasnt going to attend our wedding and my ex asked what we postpone it until she came around (it was a 50k wedding and all my family already flew in to a ttend). The fact that he would side with her (and it wasnt the first time) just finally made me realize it was never going to work. So I called it off entirely instead. It happened over a span of a few days <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:906049058] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote><cite>DavidWong posted...</cite> <quote>Holy shit. How'd that go down? 2 days before the ceremony</quote> It started 5 days before technically. We had rehearsal at the church. Then his mom decided it was a good time to start yelling at my mom. Because my mom decided to buy us a new mattress as a wedding gift. His mom thought it was a stupid present and that my mom should buy us a new AC for his house. Im not even kidding, she legit started screaming at my mom, who started crying. My ex sided with him mom and I sided with mine. His mom wasnt going to attend our wedding and my ex asked what we postpone it until she came around (it was a 50k wedding and all my family already flew in to a ttend). The fact that he would side with her (and it wasnt the first time) just finally made me realize it was never going to work. So I called it off entirely instead. It happened over a span of a few days</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cleo_II 07/31/18 7:20:39 PM #10:	byron posted... Cleo_II posted... it was a 50k wedding Damn who paid for it? We both kind of did. He paid for some (with his line of credit), I paid for some and my family gave $10k. I ended up stuck with $14k in debt though because all the deposits were in my name and on my card. And he was a deadbeat with no job and a secret $100k debt he hid from me The funniest memory I have is my best friend answering all the calls from our vendors. She would reply in the most casual tone Im sorry but there will be no wedding. Why? Because the groom is an asshole, thats why The bakery was pissed let me tell you. They made a 4 layer cake for 150 people for nothing. The owner almost yelled at me but when he heard my voice, he laid off Oh yeah and I also received $10k in gifts from family who couldnt make it. I gave it back to them though <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:906049753] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote><cite>byron posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>it was a 50k wedding </quote> Damn who paid for it?</quote> We both kind of did. He paid for some (with his line of credit), I paid for some and my family gave $10k. I ended up stuck with $14k in debt though because all the deposits were in my name and on my card. And he was a deadbeat with no job and a secret $100k debt he hid from me The funniest memory I have is my best friend answering all the calls from our vendors. She would reply in the most casual tone Im sorry but there will be no wedding. Why? Because the groom is an asshole, thats why The bakery was pissed let me tell you. They made a 4 layer cake for 150 people for nothing. The owner almost yelled at me but when he heard my voice, he laid off Oh yeah and I also received $10k in gifts from family who couldnt make it. I gave it back to them though</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 07/31/18 7:22:20 PM #11:	Holy shit. --- Chicago, greatest city in the world! <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:906049846] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>Holy shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MegaTech 07/31/18 7:23:47 PM #12:	That dude fucked up and missed out on a perfect woman. Smh --- There's gloom and fear in my heart when a culture fades; I drip a tear for the art and I adulterate. https://imgur.com/c8xCRi7 - CoolbeansAvi <cite>MegaTech posted [p:906049924] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>That dude fucked up and missed out on a perfect woman. Smh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSJGrimReaper 07/31/18 7:24:55 PM #13:	which CEman was it --- Big Apple, 3 A.M. https://imgur.com/CqukfNH https://imgur.com/Z0vo3WV <cite>SSJGrimReaper posted [p:906049984] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>which CEman was it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RoboLaserGandhi 07/31/18 7:25:07 PM #14:	Cleo_II posted... And he was a deadbeat with no job and a secret $100k debt he hid from me Jesus Christ, Neo You fucking Matrix-dodged that bullet <cite>RoboLaserGandhi posted [p:906050000] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>And he was a deadbeat with no job and a secret $100k debt he hid from me </quote> Jesus Christ, Neo You fucking Matrix-dodged that bullet</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kyujo 07/31/18 7:26:26 PM #15:	Can't imagine choosing that hill to die on... how could he even try to justify that, just apologize for her as best he can --- Current Game(s): Ys VIII, God of War, Must-watch: Legion, AoS, Gotham <cite>kyujo posted [p:906050077] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>Can't imagine choosing that hill to die on... how could he even try to justify that, just apologize for her as best he can</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RoboLaserGandhi 07/31/18 7:30:30 PM #18:	I'm also curious how you planned a $50k wedding with a guy you were clearly nearing your last straws with. <cite>RoboLaserGandhi posted [p:906050274] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>I'm also curious how you planned a $50k wedding with a guy you were clearly nearing your last straws with.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/31/18 7:37:16 PM #19:	MegaTech posted... That dude fucked up and missed out on a perfect woman. Smh Aww thanks hubs. Honestly I was really relieved it happened that way. It was embarrassing af, but there were so many red flags. I was already sort of panicking at the thought of going through with it. kyujo posted... Can't imagine choosing that hill to die on... how could he even try to justify that, just apologize for her as best he can He was a crazy mommas boy with a crazy momma. Like the type they make movies about, I swear. There were so many other incidents before that, I wasnt surprised his mom started a fight. RoboLaserGandhi posted... I'm also curious how you planned a $50k wedding with a guy you were clearly nearing your last straws with. Several reasons. One I was only 23 when we got engaged, after dating 7 months. So we had a long year and a half engagement. He hid a lot from me and his real self only started emerging the last 6 months. I was super naive. Also my mom was in bridezilla mode and was pushing me to make it big and expensive. Though she knew her side of the family were going to gift us big $$$$ <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:906050624] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote><cite>MegaTech posted...</cite> <quote>That dude fucked up and missed out on a perfect woman. Smh</quote> Aww thanks hubs. Honestly I was really relieved it happened that way. It was embarrassing af, but there were so many red flags. I was already sort of panicking at the thought of going through with it. <cite>kyujo posted...</cite> <quote>Can't imagine choosing that hill to die on... how could he even try to justify that, just apologize for her as best he can</quote> He was a crazy mommas boy with a crazy momma. Like the type they make movies about, I swear. There were so many other incidents before that, I wasnt surprised his mom started a fight. <cite>RoboLaserGandhi posted...</cite> <quote>I'm also curious how you planned a $50k wedding with a guy you were clearly nearing your last straws with.</quote> Several reasons. One I was only 23 when we got engaged, after dating 7 months. So we had a long year and a half engagement. He hid a lot from me and his real self only started emerging the last 6 months. I was super naive. Also my mom was in bridezilla mode and was pushing me to make it big and expensive. Though she knew her side of the family were going to gift us big $$$$</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KamenRiderBlade 07/31/18 7:40:47 PM #20:	@Cleo_II Are you happy with your current hubby? --- Are you a MexiCAN or a MexiCAN'T - Johnny Depp '*Once Upon A Time in Mexico*' <cite>KamenRiderBlade posted [p:906050813] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>@Cleo_II Are you happy with your current hubby?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
V-E-G-Y- 07/31/18 7:47:27 PM #21:	Wow, he is one hella stupid dude for letting you go for his crappy mom --- https://imgur.com/L6MQGtI https://imgur.com/HAj1Ocp https://imgur.com/Op6gMTg https://imgur.com/hNkY6mv <cite>V-E-G-Y- posted [p:906051158] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>Wow, he is one hella stupid dude for letting you go for his crappy mom</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/31/18 7:54:24 PM #22:	KamenRiderBlade posted... @Cleo_II Are you happy with your current hubby? We have our ups and downs but overall yes. I think with time we can get back on track if we both put the work in. We just got sucked up by the routine of things and need to connect again. V-E-G-Y- posted... Wow, he is one hella stupid dude for letting you go for his crappy mom Lol. They can have each other for all I care <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:906051450] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote><cite>KamenRiderBlade posted...</cite> <quote>@Cleo_II Are you happy with your current hubby?</quote> We have our ups and downs but overall yes. I think with time we can get back on track if we both put the work in. We just got sucked up by the routine of things and need to connect again. <cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>Wow, he is one hella stupid dude for letting you go for his crappy mom</quote> Lol. They can have each other for all I care</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pow Pow Punishment 07/31/18 8:03:10 PM #23:	That's insane. Did you just cut him off entirely after that? Or was there a period of him trying to woo you back? --- Currently playing: Knights of the Old Republic (Android) Training log: http://Machinhate.blogspot.com <cite>Pow Pow Punishment posted [p:906051905] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>That's insane. Did you just cut him off entirely after that? Or was there a period of him trying to woo you back?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cleo_II 07/31/18 8:21:27 PM #25:	Pow Pow Punishment posted... That's insane. Did you just cut him off entirely after that? Or was there a period of him trying to woo you back? Pretty much. We had some back and forth over like 2 weeks but then I eventually told him to go fuck himself (or rather Vas te faire fotre lol). He never really saw that what he did was wrong and was still siding with his mom. Then I just cut him off. He tried telling me I left some things at his house one time. So he came by my new apartment and started peaking in, commenting how nice it looked. It was obvious he was waiting for me to invite him in. I took my things and shut the door on him (in a casual, ok bye now! kind of way). He tried telling me he had more of my things a month later and I told him to keep it. Then a year later he emailed me happy birthday. On the wrong day lol. I never responded Godnorgosh posted... I'm surprised you made it as close to the wedding as you did, but it's good that you didn't go through with it. Some people might give in to the whole sunk cost idea and be like, well, we made it this far, so we may as well stick it out. But obviously that's not a path you want to go down. Honestly it was stupid, but the pressure of having a big expensive wedding is what kept me around. I was more worried about being embarrassed (Im middle eastern and they love to gossip). Once the wedding was off the table, I was finally free. I cried over the embarrassment of it all. But I never cried over the actual break up. I wish I could go back and slap myself in the face for letting it get to that point. It was a miracle his mom did what she did and ultimately saved me <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:906052829] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote><cite>Pow Pow Punishment posted...</cite> <quote>That's insane. Did you just cut him off entirely after that? Or was there a period of him trying to woo you back?</quote> Pretty much. We had some back and forth over like 2 weeks but then I eventually told him to go fuck himself (or rather Vas te faire fotre lol). He never really saw that what he did was wrong and was still siding with his mom. Then I just cut him off. He tried telling me I left some things at his house one time. So he came by my new apartment and started peaking in, commenting how nice it looked. It was obvious he was waiting for me to invite him in. I took my things and shut the door on him (in a casual, ok bye now! kind of way). He tried telling me he had more of my things a month later and I told him to keep it. Then a year later he emailed me happy birthday. On the wrong day lol. I never responded <cite>Godnorgosh posted...</cite> <quote>I'm surprised you made it as close to the wedding as you did, but it's good that you didn't go through with it. Some people might give in to the whole sunk cost idea and be like, well, we made it this far, so we may as well stick it out. But obviously that's not a path you want to go down.</quote> Honestly it was stupid, but the pressure of having a big expensive wedding is what kept me around. I was more worried about being embarrassed (Im middle eastern and they love to gossip). Once the wedding was off the table, I was finally free. I cried over the embarrassment of it all. But I never cried over the actual break up. I wish I could go back and slap myself in the face for letting it get to that point. It was a miracle his mom did what she did and ultimately saved me</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thronedfire2 07/31/18 8:23:07 PM #26:	Cleo_II posted... byron posted... Cleo_II posted... it was a 50k wedding Damn who paid for it? We both kind of did. He paid for some (with his line of credit), I paid for some and my family gave $10k. I ended up stuck with $14k in debt though because all the deposits were in my name and on my card. And he was a deadbeat with no job and a secret $100k debt he hid from me The funniest memory I have is my best friend answering all the calls from our vendors. She would reply in the most casual tone Im sorry but there will be no wedding. Why? Because the groom is an asshole, thats why The bakery was pissed let me tell you. They made a 4 layer cake for 150 people for nothing. The owner almost yelled at me but when he heard my voice, he laid off Oh yeah and I also received $10k in gifts from family who couldnt make it. I gave it back to them though for nothing? I would have frozen that cake and eaten the whole thing myself if my wedding got canceled --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:906052920] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote><cite>byron posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>it was a 50k wedding </quote> Damn who paid for it?</quote> We both kind of did. He paid for some (with his line of credit), I paid for some and my family gave $10k. I ended up stuck with $14k in debt though because all the deposits were in my name and on my card. And he was a deadbeat with no job and a secret $100k debt he hid from me The funniest memory I have is my best friend answering all the calls from our vendors. She would reply in the most casual tone Im sorry but there will be no wedding. Why? Because the groom is an asshole, thats why The bakery was pissed let me tell you. They made a 4 layer cake for 150 people for nothing. The owner almost yelled at me but when he heard my voice, he laid off Oh yeah and I also received $10k in gifts from family who couldnt make it. I gave it back to them though</quote> for nothing? I would have frozen that cake and eaten the whole thing myself if my wedding got canceled</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/31/18 8:29:07 PM #27:	thronedfire2 posted... Cleo_II posted... byron posted... Cleo_II posted... it was a 50k wedding Damn who paid for it? We both kind of did. He paid for some (with his line of credit), I paid for some and my family gave $10k. I ended up stuck with $14k in debt though because all the deposits were in my name and on my card. And he was a deadbeat with no job and a secret $100k debt he hid from me The funniest memory I have is my best friend answering all the calls from our vendors. She would reply in the most casual tone Im sorry but there will be no wedding. Why? Because the groom is an asshole, thats why The bakery was pissed let me tell you. They made a 4 layer cake for 150 people for nothing. The owner almost yelled at me but when he heard my voice, he laid off Oh yeah and I also received $10k in gifts from family who couldnt make it. I gave it back to them though for nothing? I would have frozen that cake and eaten the whole thing myself if my wedding got canceled I know. Looking back, we should have just brought it home. My mom had a bbq in our yard with like 50 of our guests the day we were supposed to have the wedding. We could have used it lol. But I didnt even want to see it. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:906053217] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote><cite>thronedfire2 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote><cite>byron posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>it was a 50k wedding </quote> Damn who paid for it?</quote> We both kind of did. He paid for some (with his line of credit), I paid for some and my family gave $10k. I ended up stuck with $14k in debt though because all the deposits were in my name and on my card. And he was a deadbeat with no job and a secret $100k debt he hid from me The funniest memory I have is my best friend answering all the calls from our vendors. She would reply in the most casual tone Im sorry but there will be no wedding. Why? Because the groom is an asshole, thats why The bakery was pissed let me tell you. They made a 4 layer cake for 150 people for nothing. The owner almost yelled at me but when he heard my voice, he laid off Oh yeah and I also received $10k in gifts from family who couldnt make it. I gave it back to them though</quote> for nothing? I would have frozen that cake and eaten the whole thing myself if my wedding got canceled</quote> I know. Looking back, we should have just brought it home. My mom had a bbq in our yard with like 50 of our guests the day we were supposed to have the wedding. We could have used it lol. But I didnt even want to see it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PiOverlord 07/31/18 8:33:30 PM #28:	Hey @Cleo_II I'm happy to hear you are in a good situation now with your husband. Glad you could find a way to work through it! EDIT: Idk why I mentioned you since you get notified anyways, lol sorry. --- Number of legendary 500 post topics: 26, 500th posts: 19; PiO ATTN: 2 RotM wins 1, Rejoice my comrades, utopia awaits once Capitalism dies and communism rises. <cite>PiOverlord posted [p:906053422] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>Hey @Cleo_II I'm happy to hear you are in a good situation now with your husband. Glad you could find a way to work through it! EDIT: Idk why I mentioned you since you get notified anyways, lol sorry.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cleo_II 07/31/18 9:16:26 PM #30:	PiOverlord posted... Hey @Cleo_II I'm happy to hear you are in a good situation now with your husband. Glad you could find a way to work through it! EDIT: Idk why I mentioned you since you get notified anyways, lol sorry. Thanks Pi though I dont know about good situation. Not yet anyway. But getting there I think Aeriis posted... MegaTech posted... That dude fucked up and missed out on a perfect woman. Smh This so hard <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:906055674] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote><cite>PiOverlord posted...</cite> <quote>Hey @Cleo_II I'm happy to hear you are in a good situation now with your husband. Glad you could find a way to work through it! EDIT: Idk why I mentioned you since you get notified anyways, lol sorry.</quote> Thanks Pi though I dont know about good situation. Not yet anyway. But getting there I think <cite>Aeriis posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MegaTech posted...</cite> <quote>That dude fucked up and missed out on a perfect woman. Smh</quote> This so hard</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DavidWong 07/31/18 9:23:32 PM #31:	as I've said, Cleo loves cooking, football and her husband when he puts in effort. A+ would recommend. --- COOK WITH A GEORGE FOREMAN GRILL JUST TO DRINK OUT THE DRIP TRAY <cite>DavidWong posted [p:906056045] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>as I've said, Cleo loves cooking, football and her husband when he puts in effort. A+ would recommend.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Letron_James 07/31/18 9:25:41 PM #32:	Leave your current man for me tc --- Ask me if I would eat da booty. <cite>Letron_James posted [p:906056148] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote>Leave your current man for me tc</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PiOverlord 07/31/18 9:30:51 PM #33:	Letron_James posted... Leave your current man for me tc Yikes! Cleo_II posted... PiOverlord posted... Hey @Cleo_II I'm happy to hear you are in a good situation now with your husband. Glad you could find a way to work through it! EDIT: Idk why I mentioned you since you get notified anyways, lol sorry. Thanks Pi though I dont know about good situation. Not yet anyway. But getting there I think Aeriis posted... MegaTech posted... That dude fucked up and missed out on a perfect woman. Smh This so hard Well, yeah, I guess not yet, but you have the blueprints. Good on you (and him hopefully) for trying to work your problems out. And yeah, that other guy should have learned to spread his own wings and fly from the nest. I get it, he loves his mom, I love my mom even when she does act insane, but mother doesn't always know best. --- Number of legendary 500 post topics: 26, 500th posts: 19; PiO ATTN: 2 RotM wins 1, Rejoice my comrades, utopia awaits once Capitalism dies and communism rises. <cite>PiOverlord posted [p:906056416] in Today was ... [t:76859105]...</cite> <quote><cite>Letron_James posted...</cite> <quote>Leave your current man for me tc</quote> Yikes! <cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote><cite>PiOverlord posted...</cite> <quote>Hey @Cleo_II I'm happy to hear you are in a good situation now with your husband. Glad you could find a way to work through it! EDIT: Idk why I mentioned you since you get notified anyways, lol sorry.</quote> Thanks Pi though I dont know about good situation. Not yet anyway. But getting there I think <cite>Aeriis posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MegaTech posted...</cite> <quote>That dude fucked up and missed out on a perfect woman. Smh</quote> This so hard</quote> </quote> Well, yeah, I guess not yet, but you have the blueprints. Good on you (and him hopefully) for trying to work your problems out. And yeah, that other guy should have learned to spread his own wings and fly from the nest. I get it, he loves his mom, I love my mom even when she does act insane, but mother doesn't always know best.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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