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pojr 07/10/18 1:31:47 PM #1:	Topic --- pojr I summon it. You spell it. <cite>pojr posted [p:904826116] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>Topic</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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teepan95 07/10/18 1:38:01 PM #5:	A (genuinely) nice guy doesn't need to tell people he is one --- I use Gameraven and you should too. #heavilyburntpotato <cite>teepan95 posted [p:904826445] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>A (genuinely) nice guy doesn't need to tell people he is one</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pojr 07/10/18 1:54:10 PM #6:	Do you guys believe nice guys are taken advantage of? --- pojr I summon it. You spell it. <cite>pojr posted [p:904827308] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>Do you guys believe nice guys are taken advantage of?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HeyPuff 07/10/18 1:58:58 PM #7:	He doesnt feel entitled to something for acting nice and doesnt expect to be owed by a woman to be with them because of just that. --- rip <cite>HeyPuff posted [p:904827584] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>He doesnt feel entitled to something for acting nice and doesnt expect to be owed by a woman to be with them because of just that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joestarrr 07/10/18 2:06:47 PM #8:	"Nice guys" shit on women because they feel entitled. --- you can't spell american dream without eric andre <cite>joestarrr posted [p:904828000] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>"Nice guys" shit on women because they feel entitled.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ki_cat_ 07/10/18 2:07:58 PM #9:	One is genuine and one is an asshole. --- People are afraid of what they don't understand. <cite>Ki_cat_ posted [p:904828067] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>One is genuine and one is an asshole.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArchiePeck 07/10/18 2:12:00 PM #11:	Actual nice guys like me had a regular sex life at college age and met a further wife and got married. "Nice guys" spent their time judging girls as 'dumb sluts' because they had a regular sex life. <cite>ArchiePeck posted [p:904828313] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>Actual nice guys like me had a regular sex life at college age and met a further wife and got married. "Nice guys" spent their time judging girls as 'dumb sluts' because they had a regular sex life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 07/10/18 2:12:36 PM #12:	One doesn't call attention to it for himself. --- CyricZ <cite>CyricZ posted [p:904828346] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>One doesn't call attention to it for himself.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KILBOTz 07/10/18 2:13:23 PM #13:	Mr. Rogers was a nice guy. Elliot Rodger was a "nice guy". --- https://imgur.com/O3syCWD https://imgur.com/k3YiBdG <cite>KILBOTz posted [p:904828390] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>Mr. Rogers was a nice guy. Elliot Rodger was a "nice guy".</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
An_Actual_Chad 07/10/18 2:33:33 PM #14:	Nice guys generally really are nice guys. The problem is nice guys prioritize treating women nice over having a personality. Where some nice guys probably have the capacity to say things to a girl that she would find funny/charming/confident/attractive, that part of their brain shuts off when they talk to a girl they like, and they substitute that part of their personality with excessive compliments, trying to convince her hes the white knight who will never let her down, and some even go as far as BUYING things for a girl who hasnt expressed any interest in him. Instead of talking about things she might be interested in, the conversation is always about her and things he likes about her, and possibly over-inquisitive at times. These things of course will begin to make her feel uncomfortable over time, and a nice guy will usually feel and possibly express frustration and confusion as to why his tactics arent working, because in his mind, hes doing everything right. Best case scenario, the nice guy will hide his frustration and become depressed, but wont let the girl know he is feeling this. Worst case scenario, he will try to get some sort of revenge or try to make the girl feel guilty for rejecting him, because in his mind, she is a total bitch for turning down someone who went out of his way to be the nicest, most caring, thoughtful and overall greatest potential boyfriend she could have possibly had. In really bad scenarios, stalking and threats of suicide to make her feel more guilty can ensue. Sources: I used to be a nice guy. Although I was more like the reserved example who kept his depression to himself, and never the extreme example who took his frustration out on the girl. If I did, those cases were pretty mild, and nothing like threatening suicide or anything. The worst thing I feel like I ever did was try to convince myself I could be just friends with a girl who had rejected me, and I would occasionally ask her why our friendship wasnt as strong as I felt like it should have been. Obviously, if she had been as friendly to me as I wanted her to be, I would have kept wanting more, and never would have been ultimately satisfied with anything short of her being my girlfriend. Eventually, my antics pushed her away completely, and now we havent spoken in five years. Its for the best for both of us. Good for her for obvious reasons, and good for me because learning that you can NOT be friends with someone you have feelings for is one of the best life lessons Ive ever learned. <cite>An_Actual_Chad posted [p:904829476] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>Nice guys generally really are nice guys. The problem is nice guys prioritize treating women nice over having a personality. Where some nice guys probably have the capacity to say things to a girl that she would find funny/charming/confident/attractive, that part of their brain shuts off when they talk to a girl they like, and they substitute that part of their personality with excessive compliments, trying to convince her hes the white knight who will never let her down, and some even go as far as BUYING things for a girl who hasnt expressed any interest in him. Instead of talking about things she might be interested in, the conversation is always about her and things he likes about her, and possibly over-inquisitive at times. These things of course will begin to make her feel uncomfortable over time, and a nice guy will usually feel and possibly express frustration and confusion as to why his tactics arent working, because in his mind, hes doing everything right. Best case scenario, the nice guy will hide his frustration and become depressed, but wont let the girl know he is feeling this. Worst case scenario, he will try to get some sort of revenge or try to make the girl feel guilty for rejecting him, because in his mind, she is a total bitch for turning down someone who went out of his way to be the nicest, most caring, thoughtful and overall greatest potential boyfriend she could have possibly had. In really bad scenarios, stalking and threats of suicide to make her feel more guilty can ensue. Sources: I used to be a nice guy. Although I was more like the reserved example who kept his depression to himself, and never the extreme example who took his frustration out on the girl. If I did, those cases were pretty mild, and nothing like threatening suicide or anything. The worst thing I feel like I ever did was try to convince myself I could be just friends with a girl who had rejected me, and I would occasionally ask her why our friendship wasnt as strong as I felt like it should have been. Obviously, if she had been as friendly to me as I wanted her to be, I would have kept wanting more, and never would have been ultimately satisfied with anything short of her being my girlfriend. Eventually, my antics pushed her away completely, and now we havent spoken in five years. Its for the best for both of us. Good for her for obvious reasons, and good for me because learning that you can NOT be friends with someone you have feelings for is one of the best life lessons Ive ever learned.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hexenherz 07/10/18 2:34:42 PM #15:	pojr posted... Do you guys believe nice guys are taken advantage of? Yes, 100%. People might not do it intentionally but it happens. --- ESO: @Ultima_Vyse RS3: UltimaSuende . 99 WC/99 FISH/ 89/99 Cooking <cite>Hexenherz posted [p:904829538] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote><cite>pojr posted...</cite> <quote>Do you guys believe nice guys are taken advantage of?</quote> Yes, 100%. People might not do it intentionally but it happens.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
joestarrr 07/10/18 2:54:48 PM #16:	An_Actual_Chad posted... Worst case scenario, he will try to get some sort of revenge or try to make the girl feel guilty for rejecting him, because in his mind, she is a total bitch for turning down someone who went out of his way to be the nicest, most caring, thoughtful and overall greatest potential boyfriend she could have possibly had. In really bad scenarios, stalking and threats of suicide to make her feel more guilty can ensue. Yyyyyup have had "nice guys" pull this type of shit on me. --- you can't spell american dream without eric andre <cite>joestarrr posted [p:904830647] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote><cite>An_Actual_Chad posted...</cite> <quote>Worst case scenario, he will try to get some sort of revenge or try to make the girl feel guilty for rejecting him, because in his mind, she is a total bitch for turning down someone who went out of his way to be the nicest, most caring, thoughtful and overall greatest potential boyfriend she could have possibly had. In really bad scenarios, stalking and threats of suicide to make her feel more guilty can ensue.</quote> Yyyyyup have had "nice guys" pull this type of shit on me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MarshallStack 07/12/18 5:09:28 AM #17:	one gets laid, the other is a "nice guy" --- "it's a flaming wonder, telepath" <cite>MarshallStack posted [p:904931655] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>one gets laid, the other is a "nice guy"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WafflehouseJK 07/12/18 5:11:44 AM #18:	shockthemonkey posted... Whether he is genuinely nice or nice because he believes it leads to sex. --- "She was like, 'Oh, did you see that firefighter? Hes so cute.' And I was like, Mom, I just got blown up." <cite>WafflehouseJK posted [p:904931695] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote><cite>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>Whether he is genuinely nice or nice because he believes it leads to sex.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SavenForever 07/12/18 6:03:36 AM #19:	M_Live posted... shockthemonkey posted... Whether he is genuinely nice or nice because he believes it leads to sex. /Topic --- https://imgur.com/aFt7pKH <cite>SavenForever posted [p:904932639] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote><cite>M_Live posted...</cite> <quote><cite>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>Whether he is genuinely nice or nice because he believes it leads to sex.</quote> /Topic</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pojr 07/12/18 9:52:51 AM #20:	Hexenherz posted... pojr posted... Do you guys believe nice guys are taken advantage of? Yes, 100%. People might not do it intentionally but it happens. Even a genuinely nice guy? Or just the "nice guys"? --- pojr I summon it. You spell it. <cite>pojr posted [p:904938936] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote><cite>Hexenherz posted...</cite> <quote><cite>pojr posted...</cite> <quote>Do you guys believe nice guys are taken advantage of?</quote> Yes, 100%. People might not do it intentionally but it happens.</quote> Even a genuinely nice guy? Or just the "nice guys"?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nomadic View 07/12/18 9:54:28 AM #21:	Nice Guy thinks that kind acts are tokens to collect until he can buy sex. --- {}\\{}(o){}\\//{}//=\\{})){}(< \\//{}{{-{}//\\{} {}xxxxxxxx{};;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;> <cite>Nomadic View posted [p:904938996] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>Nice Guy thinks that kind acts are tokens to collect until he can buy sex.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solar_Crimson 07/12/18 7:30:50 PM #22:	shockthemonkey posted... Whether he is genuinely nice or nice because he believes it leads to sex. teepan95 posted... A (genuinely) nice guy doesn't need to tell people he is one HeyPuff posted... He doesnt feel entitled to something for acting nice and doesnt expect to be owed by a woman to be with them because of just that. --- Be wary of boarding the hype train, lest you end up on the ruse cruise... - nanobuilder (r/nintendo) http://backloggery.com/SolarCrimson <cite>Solar_Crimson posted [p:904971170] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote><cite>shockthemonkey posted...</cite> <quote>Whether he is genuinely nice or nice because he believes it leads to sex.</quote> <cite>teepan95 posted...</cite> <quote>A (genuinely) nice guy doesn't need to tell people he is one</quote> <cite>HeyPuff posted...</cite> <quote>He doesnt feel entitled to something for acting nice and doesnt expect to be owed by a woman to be with them because of just that.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hulkasaurusrex 07/12/18 7:33:49 PM #23:	I think there are two kinds one does nice things for people but does not take shit. The other is a doormat. <cite>Hulkasaurusrex posted [p:904971319] in What is th... [t:76794394]...</cite> <quote>I think there are two kinds one does nice things for people but does not take shit. The other is a doormat.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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