Current Events > I have never been able to "finish" during sex

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Well, once, but that's the only time I pulled out and finished myself on her chest.

But during sex, I can go and go and go and never finish.
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Gimme 25 seconds.
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That doesn't sound normal.
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You need to ease up on that Kung Fu grip
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Duncanwii posted...

That doesn't sound normal.

I've done some Google searches and I guess it's called Delayed Ejaculation or something. It happens when guys are so used to masturbating. I think it happens when the tip isn't stimulated, or you're not used to it being stimulated because when you jerk off, you don't really rub the head too much
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Has anyone else experienced this on here?
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You just need to think about that moment when Kenny Omega won the NJPW championship from Okada!
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--Zero- posted...

You just need to think about that moment when Kenny Omega won the NJPW championship from Okada!

But I hate that Omega won the championship

I hate the fact that they ended the greatest world title run in a really, really long time to sell more tickets to a one-time show in America.
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Now I'm just disappointed. Kenny earned that spot. If Okada was to lose the belt to anyone it would be Omega. Their feud was legendary.
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If you stop masturbating so much then you will.
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--Zero- posted...

Now I'm just disappointed. Kenny earned that spot. If Okada was to lose the belt to anyone it would be Omega. Their feud was legendary.

I do agree with that, I don't mind that Omega won the title. What bothers me is the timing. It was really, really rushed, IMO. But they had to rush that to put the title on Omega before the G1 Special at the Cow Palace
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A_Good_Boy posted...

If you stop masturbating so much then you will.

I agree with this, but how do I know when I'll have sex again? I'm 35 and I've had sex a total of 7 times in my life

Three times with my first
Two times with a friend of a friend
Two times with a different girl from Backpage

With my first it was always hard because she was a virgin as well and it was just awkward. After the first time I didn't cum, and I knew she was coming back into town (she was going to school about a 100 miles frome me) I wouldn't jerk off and I still woudln't cum during sex

The friend of a friend is random, 5 years apart, so I dind't even know it was coming.

And I didn't jerk off for a week with the Backpage women and only busted on the chest of the first one because she was a great GFE (Girlfriend Experience) and the second one I couldn't even kiss, so I threw the whole thing off

I know that not jerking if will help, of course it would, but I ask out 3-5 women every week and I always get turned down. How do I know when I'll get laid? But I've got to relive myself as well
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How often do you choke the chicken?
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Ajenla posted...

How often do you choke the chicken?

It really depends

Sometimes it's just once a week, but right now It's three times a day

I'm at that age where you can't really stop wasting erections, lol
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Bad_Mojo posted...

Ajenla posted...

How often do you choke the chicken?

It really depends

Sometimes it's just once a week, but right now It's three times a day

I'm at that age where you can't really stop wasting erections, lol

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Yeah that happens to me. Its a combination of having jacked off too much in my life and antidepressants
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If you stop then you'll have even more incentive to ensure you get laid for real.
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I didn't the first time but then I was fine. Maybe you just need to find the right situation and partner. 7 times isn't a lot.
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I found going bareback made a big difference for me. I could finish with a condom but it took so much extra work.
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I will tell you guys what the issues for me are as well, and maybe you can help me overcome them

1) How old are you? If I see a girl that's attractive and she looks kind of young, I always think she's under 18. How do you even find out? It seems the best solution is to go to a bar where everyone is over 21, right?

2) I don't drink. I feel really awkward going to a bar and not drinking alcohol.

3) After so many years of being alone, I honestly don't even know how to have a conversation with someone I'm trying to 'woo". I know that women like me because I work with all women at work and they always tell me how much they like me, but right now it's one of those endless circles. Example

4) I was brought up by my parents "wrong". My father was never around since he was in the military and in Japan a lot, and my mother always gave me *good advice (* = I don't think it was good, let CE decide) to never pressure girls into sex. So I didn't, and guess what, all my girlfriends dumped me and went to another guy because I didn't make the first move.

5) So that has effected me my entire life. I didn't have those teenage encounters because I was too "respectful" of my girlfriends. I had one girlfriend in high school, and all I ever did was go down on her. She never went down on me, she never gave me anything. But that's because I wasn't "man enough" to "make her". She was really shy as well, me being her first, but I never asked for anything. I just gave

6) Then I meet a girl and we start dating and we have sex those three times I talked about. I dumped her because I wasn't feeling it, but that's because I would only see her like twice a month (for two months) and she should have someone that was close to her.

7) The last issue, which you should have picked up on, is total lack of experience of being a "man". Men have to make the first move, have to have confidence, need to have experience. And I lack all of that because I was told long ago that you shouldn't pressure women into sex and missed out on a lot of growing up
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Conflict posted...

You jack off 3 times a day and wonder why you can't finish

In case you missed the whole "lol" part of that, it wasn't serious.
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Do you have friends in real life?

What kind of job do you do? Where do you work?
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Bad_Mojo posted...

Has anyone else experienced this on here?

sober? no

drunk? plenty lol
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I had this when I first started. As others have said, be sober, don't be tired, don't master bate, try to stay in the moment and just chill.

Ajenla posted...

Do you have friends in real life?

What kind of job do you do? Where do you work?

No, I don't have any friends

I run the kitchen at a public school

knutjob posted...

I had this when I first started. As others have said, be sober, don't be tired, don't master bate, try to stay in the moment and just chill.

I don't drink very much, so I'm always sober, and as I said before, I never know when I'm going to have sex. The last time was over 3 years ago. I have to release myself, but I have gone for awhile without deeding and all that did was make me get angry more. As for that last part, I don't even know what that means.

mariolover2 posted...

Move to a city. People love casual sex out there.

I live in a city, I live in a great city
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So, how do I know when it's okay to go up and ask a girl out? You have to make the first move, but then you hear women always talking about how they hate when men bother them all the time. So how do I know when it's okay and when it's not okay?

What's the best way to find out she really is over 18? Some girls in their mid-20 still look really young so I don't ask them out because it might be creepy

How do you know how fast to move if I do go on a date? This is what burned me with one of my frist girlfriends, I took it slow and let her set the pace, but then she dumped me because she thought I thought she was ugly because I didn't make the first move.
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Bad_Mojo posted...

and the second one I couldn't even kiss, so I threw the whole thing off

They don't kiss man
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Makeveli_lives posted...

Bad_Mojo posted...

and the second one I couldn't even kiss, so I threw the whole thing off

They don't kiss man

The first one did
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Bad_Mojo posted...

You have to make the first move, but then you hear women always talking about how they hate when men bother them all the time. So how do I know when it's okay and when it's not okay?

This is the game everyone must play. You just gotta try cause there's no real answer, unless they're visibly busy/working.

Bad_Mojo posted...

What's the best way to find out she really is over 18? Some girls in their mid-20 still look really young so I don't ask them out because it might be creepy

"You in school?"
ez pz, unless they lie...which has happened to me. lol

Bad_Mojo posted...

How do you know how fast to move if I do go on a date? This is what burned me with one of my frist girlfriends, I took it slow and let her set the pace, but then she dumped me because she thought I thought she was ugly because I didn't make the first move.

I'd go for the first date after a few "hang outs" assuming they're into. If you wait like over a month, ehhh it's your judgement at that point.
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Thanks
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