Current Events > "If I wasn't in such a bad spot right now, I'd definitely date you"

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Ugh. lol
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Cool Spot gets all the chicks.

"How do I get you out of the bad spot and into the bed spot?"

If you can't see that this is a sign to walk away and never return, there's nothing else we can do for you.
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deupd_u posted...

If you can't see that this is a sign to walk away and never return, there's nothing else we can do for you.

I hung out with her and got a sore throat and fever the next day. That also might be a sign. But it'd be so good.
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bumop
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__aCEr__ posted...

Cool Spot gets all the chicks.

Okay. I laughed.
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__aCEr__ posted...

Cool Spot gets all the chicks.

https://imgur.com/WoHA5

Look how fucking cool he is.
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Classic trap line.
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M_Live posted...

Why would she date you when she's already in bad spot

I could get her out, and if not, I'll know for sure it wasn't meant to be
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Last
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owned
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yeah that's never gonna happen
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Even she acknowledged that we have good chemistry, and said she wished she met me before this stuff happened. Am I just getting played? Should I just be patient?
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Getting played most likely. She sees you as a good candidate, but she's also not ready to get serious since she's getting attention from other dudes. The moment a really attractive guy comes along she'll change her tune.
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if she actually, really liked you, it wouldn't matter what kind of spot she's in

it's just an excuse line

learn and move on
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Dont waste your fucking time.

Move on. Find someone else.
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cavalierking posted...

if she actually, really liked you, it wouldn't matter what kind of spot she's in

Yeah that's what part of my brain tells me.

It's just annoying. Like, I got sick yesterday and she's been texting me asking me how I feel and being like, hope you get better and all that. Why care about me like that if you don't wanna commit all the way
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alt4445 posted...

cavalierking posted...

if she actually, really liked you, it wouldn't matter what kind of spot she's in

Yeah that's what part of my brain tells me.

It's just annoying. Like, I got sick yesterday and she's been texting me asking me how I feel and being like, hope you get better and all that. Why care about me like that if you don't wanna commit all the way

Its called being nice.

Whotars posted...

Its called being nice.

I'd call it being nice if both sides didn't know what was going on. If I clearly feel something and she's so-so about it, idk, it doesn't feel very nice to me. My boss asking me how I'm feeling is them being nice.
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--Zero- posted...

Getting played most likely. She sees you as a good candidate, but she's also not ready to get serious since she's getting attention from other dudes. The moment a really attractive guy comes along she'll change her tune.

This is always, always, always the case. There hasn't been a single girl in history that said "I'm not ready" and didn't immediately drop her panties as soon as a good enough offer came along.

Anything that isn't a straight yes = you're not good enough.
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She's trying to let you off lightly
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--Zero- posted...

Getting played most likely. She sees you as a good candidate, but she's also not ready to get serious since she's getting attention from other dudes. The moment a really attractive guy comes along she'll change her tune.

She already has two guys in her life, one from before and one semi new one. It's like, why would she get that new guy if shes already in a bad spot. It's just weird. I want to force her to make a decision. I also feel like there may be a point in time when she's gonna come to me once all of her bad decisions blow up in her face, and even though I SHOULD say no, idk if I'll have the power to when the time comes.
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Tag
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I'm starting to get the feeling/idea that, if she wants to pass up a golden opportunity to be with me and get her life together, chances are she's not worth it. If she's making bad decisions already, chances are she might do that to me in a relationship too and just leave for another guy.

CM_Ponch posted...

Tag

For some reason, I lol'd
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The bad spot she's in, is that you're her best option atm.
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My crush rejects me citing she feels it would selfish to date while having kids. She just doesn't want to date anyone till they're grown and out of the house. She's 31.

Balnazarr posted...

My crush rejects me citing she feels it would selfish to date while having kids. She just doesn't want to date me . She's 31.

FTFY
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Walk. Away.
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Citrik posted...

Walk. Away.

I plan on giving her a window of time, even if it's futile and wont make a difference, it'll at least make it easier for me to get over. That way I wont regret being like, oh shit, maybe she was just about to
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Give her a few days. Thats it.

If she doesnt come knocking, then lock that fucking door and burn the house down
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alt4445 posted...

Citrik posted...

Walk. Away.

I plan on giving her a window of time, even if it's futile and wont make a difference, it'll at least make it easier for me to get over. That way I wont regret being like, oh shit, maybe she was just about to

If you need to do jump through these mental hoops and make ultimatums and all that then Its already safe to say its not happening. And even if it did happen, it wont end well.
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SSJCAT posted...

alt4445 posted...

Citrik posted...

Walk. Away.

I plan on giving her a window of time, even if it's futile and wont make a difference, it'll at least make it easier for me to get over. That way I wont regret being like, oh shit, maybe she was just about to

If you need to do jump through these mental hoops and make ultimatums and all that then Its already safe to say its not happening. And even if it did happen, it wont end well.

You're right, but also, in the past I've tend to give up too soon /easily, but maybe this is a time I should actually give up.
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Shes not interested/is trying to be nice dont make this weird for you both!!
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Howl posted...

Balnazarr posted...

My crush rejects me citing she feels it would selfish to date while having kids. She just doesn't want to date me . She's 31.

FTFY

nah, shes just weird. While I know she doesn't want to date me, I know it's not just for that. She broke off with her last b/f because she thought she was being selfish dating him.

Aeriis posted...

yeah I'd gtfo

She's only FWB with them. She broke up with her boyfriend that lasted 10 years because apparently they haven't had any sex for the last 3 years. She's obsessed over one of the guys though, even though she knows he cheats. I'm friends with that guy.
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Wtf TC Lmao. Come on man get real and drop that hoe.
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--Zero- posted...

Wtf TC Lmao. Come on man get real and drop that hoe.

The only weird thing about dropping her is that I'm still going to be seeing her somewhat frequently cause she's fucking my friend. And she's still trying to be my friend. And I tried to be distant at first but I decided to talk it out, which is when she said the line quoted in OP. She rejected my move but then held hands with me for a little before we parted ways and said "you're walking a fine line here, you know that right?"
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final bump
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WTF

So I tried just being normal and forgetting about her and stuff, and then when she was driving, she was behind me, and she's like "your brake light is out"

I'm like "Fuck! everythings shitting on me at once"

shes like " I'm sorry :(. we can chat about it if you'd like"

me: "nah it's all good, I'll figure it out"

her: "well if you want/need stuff, you know where to find me"

wtf is this crazy bitch trying to do lol?
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deupd_u posted...

If you can't see that this is a sign to walk away and never return, there's nothing else we can do for you.

Yup. She ain't really interested tbh
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