Current Events > New research shows a vast majority of cis people won't date trans people

(+) Yeah! (+)

Sad. That ought to change.

https://www.them.us/story/cis-trans-dating

Theres a good reason for this.
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People are allowed to have preferences. There's no problem with this.
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That's fine. Weeds out the assholes. I want a real man, not some asshole like that.
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Wow, what a surprise.

DifferentialEquation posted...

People are allowed to have preferences. There's no problem with this.

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"New research"

It's like, all these amazing new studies could have saved time and money by asking trans people first. But they don't.
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Sayoria posted...

That's fine. Weeds out the assholes. I want a real man, not some asshole like that.

All I want is a real woman.
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Sayoria posted...

That's fine. Weeds out the assholes. I want a real man, not some asshole like that.

So you think that guys who would be willing to date a trans woman couldn't be an asshole? And similarly guys who wouldn't date a trans woman are have the entirety of the assholery?
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RE_expert44 posted...

Sayoria posted...

That's fine. Weeds out the assholes. I want a real man, not some asshole like that.

All I want is a real woman.

Which trans women are

Unless she's like, a hologram.
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Sayoria posted...

I want a real man

<_<
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What if they want bio-kids?
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That's fine. Weeds out the assholes. I want a real woman, not some asshole like that.
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gunplagirl posted...

"New research"

It's like, all these amazing new studies could have saved time and money by asking trans people first. But they don't.

hmm its almost like a lot of the group in question have severe mental illnesses and self-reported information would have been even more unreliable than usual...
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Fluttershy462 posted...

Theres a good reason for this.

DifferentialEquation posted...

People are allowed to have preferences. There's no problem with this.

RE_expert44 posted...

Sayoria posted...

That's fine. Weeds out the assholes. I want a real man, not some asshole like that.

All I want is a real woman.

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gunplagirl posted...

Which trans women are

trans women and women born biologically female are two different things, the latter being a "real" woman and the former being someone who transitioned into it

you understand this, don't be daft

LedZeppelin posted...

gunplagirl posted...

"New research"

It's like, all these amazing new studies could have saved time and money by asking trans people first. But they don't.

hmm its almost like a lot of the group in question have severe mental illnesses and self-reported information would have been even more unreliable than usual...

Honestly you can go fuck yourself if you think that somehow depression makes people suddenly unable to realize "oh hey this cis person seems disgusted by my presence"

And by fuck yourself, I mean that's the only way you're ever going to get fucked
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You wanna be trans? That is 100% ok and you go girl. But thinking that men are obligated to fuck you now is wrong. Live your life how you want and I'll live mine how i want.
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Kaiganeer posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Which trans women are

trans women and women born biologically female are two different things, the latter being a "real" woman and the former being someone who transitioned into it

you understand this, don't be daft

"Biologically female" is a fucking misnomer.

1) read a biology textbook that's beyond middle school level
2) make sure it's from the last 20 years

And incidentally, "real" and "biological" don't have to 100% match because you're still ignoring intersex people in the process.
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Was this supposed to be a surprise?
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Person: Respect sexual and gender diversity!
Same Person: Only being sexually interested in cisgendered people is bad!

Respect cisheterosexuality and cishomosexuality, TC.
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RE_expert44 posted...

Sayoria posted...

That's fine. Weeds out the assholes. I want a real man, not some asshole like that.

All I want is a real woman.

I'm sorry but I laughed.

Anyway, this topic was clearly made to start a fight. There isn't even a link in the OP.

Edit: Disregard that last sentence.
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gunplagirl posted...

LedZeppelin posted...

gunplagirl posted...

"New research"

It's like, all these amazing new studies could have saved time and money by asking trans people first. But they don't.

hmm its almost like a lot of the group in question have severe mental illnesses and self-reported information would have been even more unreliable than usual...

Honestly you can go fuck yourself if you think that somehow depression makes people suddenly unable to realize "oh hey this cis person seems disgusted by my presence"

And by fuck yourself, I mean that's the only way you're ever going to get fucked

Says the person who could only get touched by a fetishist.
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Less competition.

Nice
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Yeah, this is kind of obvious and there's nothing wrong with that.
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ThePrinceFish posted...

gunplagirl posted...

LedZeppelin posted...

gunplagirl posted...

"New research"

It's like, all these amazing new studies could have saved time and money by asking trans people first. But they don't.

hmm its almost like a lot of the group in question have severe mental illnesses and self-reported information would have been even more unreliable than usual...

Honestly you can go fuck yourself if you think that somehow depression makes people suddenly unable to realize "oh hey this cis person seems disgusted by my presence"

And by fuck yourself, I mean that's the only way you're ever going to get fucked

Says the person who could only get touched by a fetishist.

I have sex pretty regularly and not with fetishistic men. Probably because I'm a raging lesbian. Raging in this case being because I yell as I'm being fucked.

But I'm sure that seemed more clever in your head.
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K181 posted...

Person: Respect sexual and gender diversity!
Same Person: Only being sexually interested in cisgendered people is bad!

Respect cisheterosexuality and cishomosexuality, TC.

You literally made up words at the end
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gunplagirl posted...

Kaiganeer posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Which trans women are

trans women and women born biologically female are two different things, the latter being a "real" woman and the former being someone who transitioned into it

you understand this, don't be daft

"Biologically female" is a fucking misnomer.

1) read a biology textbook that's beyond middle school level
2) make sure it's from the last 20 years

And incidentally, "real" and "biological" don't have to 100% match because you're still ignoring intersex people in the process.

Usually you ignore talking about the very very small minority of people who are affected by rare cases.
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In other news, the sun is hot
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gunplagirl posted...

K181 posted...

Person: Respect sexual and gender diversity!
Same Person: Only being sexually interested in cisgendered people is bad!

Respect cisheterosexuality and cishomosexuality, TC.

You literally made up words at the end

So your point is negated if I just made them two word phrases?

Good job?
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I have nothing against transwomen.

But I want to be a father.

I can't have that with a trans.
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This also seems to have an incel tone to it. The idea that anyone is owed sex or a relationship is outrageous.
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dang, sayoria lit a fire here
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What the fuck does "gender queer" mean, and am I right in assuming that the majority of transpeople think that it is stupid too?
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I mean, there is a perfectly valid reason not to date trans people.

gunplagirl posted...

ThePrinceFish posted...

gunplagirl posted...

LedZeppelin posted...

gunplagirl posted...

"New research"

It's like, all these amazing new studies could have saved time and money by asking trans people first. But they don't.

hmm its almost like a lot of the group in question have severe mental illnesses and self-reported information would have been even more unreliable than usual...

Honestly you can go fuck yourself if you think that somehow depression makes people suddenly unable to realize "oh hey this cis person seems disgusted by my presence"

And by fuck yourself, I mean that's the only way you're ever going to get fucked

Says the person who could only get touched by a fetishist.

I have sex pretty regularly and not with fetishistic men. Probably because I'm a raging lesbian. Raging in this case being because I yell as I'm being fucked.

But I'm sure that seemed more clever in your head.

If you don't think that a lesbian having sex with a man dressed as a woman is a fetishist, I don't know what to tell you, negi.
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gunplagirl posted...

K181 posted...

Person: Respect sexual and gender diversity!
Same Person: Only being sexually interested in cisgendered people is bad!

Respect cisheterosexuality and cishomosexuality, TC.

You literally made up words at the end

All words are made up.

He's also not the first person to use "cisheterosexuality". If you Google the word, you can find results for it as far back as 2010. It's also usually mashed up with other words to make something like "cisheteropatriarchy".
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UltraDeku posted...

Usually you ignore talking about the very very small minority of people who are affected by rare cases.

The population of trans people globally is at the same level as the number of natural redheads in the world.

But do go on about how you're somehow right for a scientific concept that you're applying as a 100% of all cases fact, while ignoring any degree of nuance.

It's like, if we suddenly discovered an exception to the law of universal gravitation, we would start to seek a way to address that, either by acknowledging the exceptions and adding to the law, or by finding a way to adjust the equation so it can also be calculated.
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I usually don't have much of a problem with Sayoria but that was dumb. no matter how good surgery gets, some people will always want a biological female. for any number of multiple reasons. it doesn't make them bigots. by that logic, straight people and gay people are both bigots cause they will only date other people like them. I have nothing against trans people but I would never have sex with one

(cue the jokes about never having sex anyway. I don't give a fuck)

Straight guys really don't like f***ing people who have dicks or used to have dicks.

That's pretty much all there is to it.
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oh man, would love to contribute but Im sure Ill get modded. all Ill say is

frozenshock posted...

I have nothing against transwomen.

But I want to be a father.

I can't have that with a trans.

oh this is a good one too

Bass_X0 posted...

Straight guys really don't like f***ing people who have dicks or used to have dicks.

That's pretty much all there is to it.

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justaguy3492 posted...

This also seems to have an incel tone to it. The idea that anyone is owed sex or a relationship is outrageous.

Is calling people out for saying they won't date "black people" saying that black people are owed sex?
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gunplagirl posted...

UltraDeku posted...

Usually you ignore talking about the very very small minority of people who are affected by rare cases.

The population of trans people globally is at the same level as the number of natural redheads in the world.

But do go on about how you're somehow right for a scientific concept that you're applying as a 100% of all cases fact, while ignoring any degree of nuance.

It's like, if we suddenly discovered an exception to the law of universal gravitation, we would start to seek a way to address that, either by acknowledging the exceptions and adding to the law, or by finding a way to adjust the equation so it can also be calculated.

I was mostly talking about intersex people >__>
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K181 posted...

gunplagirl posted...

K181 posted...

Person: Respect sexual and gender diversity!
Same Person: Only being sexually interested in cisgendered people is bad!

Respect cisheterosexuality and cishomosexuality, TC.

You literally made up words at the end

So your point is negated if I just made them two word phrases?

Good job?

I mean, you're trying to defend your transphobic views but you're coopting gender diversity terms and don't see how that's unnecessary when you're just being discriminatory, I don't know what to tell you
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Sayoria posted...

That's fine. Weeds out the assholes. I want a real man, not some asshole like that.

duncanwii amirite :^)

Weezy_Tha_Don posted...

oh man, would love to contribute but Im sure Ill get modded. all Ill say is

frozenshock posted...

I have nothing against transwomen.

But I want to be a father.

I can't have that with a trans.

"I have nothing against transwomen, but I would be unable to share my opinion without being offensive"

Ok, bro
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gunplagirl posted...

The population of trans people globally is at the same level as the number of natural redheads in the world.

Do you have a source for this?
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UltraDeku posted...

gunplagirl posted...

UltraDeku posted...

Usually you ignore talking about the very very small minority of people who are affected by rare cases.

The population of trans people globally is at the same level as the number of natural redheads in the world.

But do go on about how you're somehow right for a scientific concept that you're applying as a 100% of all cases fact, while ignoring any degree of nuance.

It's like, if we suddenly discovered an exception to the law of universal gravitation, we would start to seek a way to address that, either by acknowledging the exceptions and adding to the law, or by finding a way to adjust the equation so it can also be calculated.

I was mostly talking about intersex people >__>

Okay, and trans people still present a population large enough to rival redheads. Trying to brush all of us under the rug because we're not a large population is intellectually dishonest and scientifically invalidates your claim to any sort of 100% accuracy.
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