Current Events > C/D If uve been single a while and u havent creeped any girls out, ur not trying

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Ic3Bullet
05/22/18 12:52:00 PM
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Sorry about the terrible grammer. Had to make the title fit.

Now that I've addressed that, let me rephrase the statement. If you've been single for a while, and you haven't RISKED the possibility of creeping a girl out, you haven't been trying.

I feel like this whole stigma about being "creepy" has been worse than it's ever been for the past few years, to the point that a lot of dudes don't try for fear of being thought of as a "creep." I write this as a guy who has recently stopped giving a fuck and been more aggressive in my pursuit of women, with the philosophy that if I don't creep any of them out, it means I'm not trying. Then again, maybe I really am creepy, and my more aggressive pursuit here lately is a result of desperation more than an actual productive epiphany.
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Loghain
05/22/18 12:53:06 PM
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Step 1. Become Chad
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EdgeMaster
05/22/18 12:53:14 PM
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Not sure wtf I just read....
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Ic3Bullet
05/22/18 12:55:48 PM
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EdgeMaster posted...
Not sure wtf I just read....

I'm not talking about sending dick pics to girls or whipping it out at parties hoping to impress.

Like for example, if I see a pretty girl on facebook that I haven't met in real life, I'll send her a message, knowing that she probably won't respond, but what do I have to lose? Whereas before, I never would have even sent the message because it's "creepy" to message someone you don't know on facebook.
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DeadSite
05/22/18 1:06:32 PM
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No
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EdgeMaster
05/22/18 1:15:01 PM
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Ic3Bullet posted...
EdgeMaster posted...
Not sure wtf I just read....

I'm not talking about sending dick pics to girls or whipping it out at parties hoping to impress.

Like for example, if I see a pretty girl on facebook that I haven't met in real life, I'll send her a message, knowing that she probably won't respond, but what do I have to lose? Whereas before, I never would have even sent the message because it's "creepy" to message someone you don't know on facebook.


God damnit. Had a reply typed out and clicked a fuckin ad at the bottom on my phone. Can't be fucked to retype it.

Cliffs: I understand but I don't agree. And there's a time and a place for everything, wouldn't do that on Facebook
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t3h_m45k3d_G4R0
05/22/18 1:19:10 PM
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Some women claim a guy is creepy just for existing. Dont worry about being called creepy
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teepan95
05/22/18 1:22:47 PM
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The average man is unfuckable

The average woman gets blasted with limitless Chad dick
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Ic3Bullet
05/22/18 1:38:25 PM
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EdgeMaster posted...
I understand but I don't agree. And there's a time and a place for everything, wouldn't do that on Facebook

Ok, but the first time I tried this after YEARS of not trying because of the stigma, the girl actually responded and was very receptive to my flirtiness. Admittedly, I was drunk when I messaged her, otherwise I never would have done it. But when she responded, thats when I came to my epiphany: Im not hopeless. I just havent been trying.
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An_Actual_Chad
05/22/18 1:39:52 PM
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Loghain posted...
Step 1. Become Chad

But what about a guy who is a chad, but doesnt know hes a chad, because hes never tried for fear of being creepy?
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RchHomieQuanChi
05/22/18 1:41:36 PM
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If you haven't gotten a restraining order you aren't trying hard enough.
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EdgeMaster
05/22/18 2:34:40 PM
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Ic3Bullet posted...
EdgeMaster posted...
I understand but I don't agree. And there's a time and a place for everything, wouldn't do that on Facebook

Ok, but the first time I tried this after YEARS of not trying because of the stigma, the girl actually responded and was very receptive to my flirtiness. Admittedly, I was drunk when I messaged her, otherwise I never would have done it. But when she responded, thats when I came to my epiphany: Im not hopeless. I just havent been trying.


Short on time but yeah you can definitely be forward/aggressive without being creepy. I wouldn't do it on Facebook, wrong time and place but on tinder or something you could send 10 girls "are we gonna tell our kids we met on tinder or makeup something cute?" 5 will ignore you, 1 won't get the joke and will freak out and tell you she doesn't want kids, the other 4 will think it's funny and you'll end up with one of them added to your body count.

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If you haven't gotten a restraining order you aren't trying hard enough.


Legitimately laughed out loud at this.
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