Current Events > Woman refuses to have sex with her husband but wants to stay together anyway.

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UnfairRepresent 05/09/18 4:26:02 PM #1:	Question: My husband of 24 years was diagnosed with bipolar disorder about 13 years ago and spent two stays in a psychiatric hospital. He is pretty stable now and responsible with his medication. We have five children and the youngest is 10. I have not been in love with him for a long time even before his diagnosis. Our intimate life has become very unpleasant for me to the point I have told him I cant be intimate with him again. He does not feel the same way and says unless I return to sex with him he will have no option but to leave. My only concern is the impact on the children. I would be happy for us to separate. Counselling is not going to help as nothing can make me want him physically again. I havent been able to let him kiss or touch me in an intimate way for years when we had sex I just wanted it done until the next time, it was only another chore for me. I would be willing to continue without intimacy, to co-parent until the kids are older, but he says he cant do that and says no man would stay under those circumstances. This problem does not relate so much to the bipolar disorder, even though we went through some very tough years with this, but, being honest, the physical side was always a weak spot for me. We did get on well but his personality changed after his diagnosis, so for me we were left with nothing much except for the children. He still loves me and wants everything to stay the same and for sexual relations to be restored, but this is not an option for me. Now I have said my piece I am so relieved to never have to be intimate with him again. Full Article: https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/health-family/i-won-t-have-sex-with-my-husband-he-says-no-man-would-stay-in-those-circumstances-1.3480158 tl:dr: She doesn't want to have sex. But she wants them to stay together until their kids reach adulthood. What would be your advice CE? --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair. https://imgtc.com/i/14JHfrt.jpg <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:901069435] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote>Question: My husband of 24 years was diagnosed with bipolar disorder about 13 years ago and spent two stays in a psychiatric hospital. He is pretty stable now and responsible with his medication. We have five children and the youngest is 10. I have not been in love with him for a long time even before his diagnosis. Our intimate life has become very unpleasant for me to the point I have told him I cant be intimate with him again. He does not feel the same way and says unless I return to sex with him he will have no option but to leave. My only concern is the impact on the children. I would be happy for us to separate. Counselling is not going to help as nothing can make me want him physically again. I havent been able to let him kiss or touch me in an intimate way for years when we had sex I just wanted it done until the next time, it was only another chore for me. I would be willing to continue without intimacy, to co-parent until the kids are older, but he says he cant do that and says no man would stay under those circumstances. This problem does not relate so much to the bipolar disorder, even though we went through some very tough years with this, but, being honest, the physical side was always a weak spot for me. We did get on well but his personality changed after his diagnosis, so for me we were left with nothing much except for the children. He still loves me and wants everything to stay the same and for sexual relations to be restored, but this is not an option for me. Now I have said my piece I am so relieved to never have to be intimate with him again. Full Article: https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/health-family/i-won-t-have-sex-with-my-husband-he-says-no-man-would-stay-in-those-circumstances-1.3480158 tl:dr: She doesn't want to have sex. But she wants them to stay together until their kids reach adulthood. What would be your advice CE?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ImmortalityV 05/09/18 4:27:22 PM #2:	She should have sex or leave him <cite>ImmortalityV posted [p:901069511] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote>She should have sex or leave him</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tappor 05/09/18 4:27:25 PM #3:	Leave him before he leaves you tbh <cite>Tappor posted [p:901069512] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote>Leave him before he leaves you tbh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 05/09/18 4:28:04 PM #4:	ImmortalityV posted... She should have sex or leave him But what about da kids doe? --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair. https://imgtc.com/i/14JHfrt.jpg <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:901069554] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote><cite>ImmortalityV posted...</cite> <quote>She should have sex or leave him</quote> But what about da kids doe?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Burgess 05/09/18 4:28:50 PM #5:	She't not in love with him and only wants to be together for the kids. Those reasons alone are enough to end it, because it's not a healthy situation for him, her, or their kids. --- Burgess [Z?] ...follow the Mod that failed. "All that typing made me have to crap."~Dark Magic Vixen <cite>Burgess posted [p:901069583] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote>She't not in love with him and only wants to be together for the kids. Those reasons alone are enough to end it, because it's not a healthy situation for him, her, or their kids.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ImmortalityV 05/09/18 4:28:50 PM #6:	UnfairRepresent posted... ImmortalityV posted... She should have sex or leave him But what about da kids doe? Divorce is good for kids it builds character <cite>ImmortalityV posted [p:901069584] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote><cite>UnfairRepresent posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ImmortalityV posted...</cite> <quote>She should have sex or leave him</quote> But what about da kids doe?</quote> Divorce is good for kids it builds character</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bobtuse 05/09/18 4:28:59 PM #7:	They need to decide together whether to fake it for the kids or just separate. --- . <cite>bobtuse posted [p:901069592] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote>They need to decide together whether to fake it for the kids or just separate.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 05/09/18 4:30:16 PM #8:	ImmortalityV posted... UnfairRepresent posted... ImmortalityV posted... She should have sex or leave him But what about da kids doe? Divorce is good for kids it builds character --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair. https://imgtc.com/i/14JHfrt.jpg <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:901069658] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote><cite>ImmortalityV posted...</cite> <quote><cite>UnfairRepresent posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ImmortalityV posted...</cite> <quote>She should have sex or leave him</quote> But what about da kids doe?</quote> Divorce is good for kids it builds character</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 05/09/18 4:30:18 PM #9:	sounds like they should separate --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:901069660] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote>sounds like they should separate</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingCrabCake 05/09/18 4:32:07 PM #10:	Dude probably beat his wife. Fuck him. Hope she leaves and gets all the dick she wants and craves. Dont blame her snd i dont blame him either --- I have a gamefaqs following. Watch them flock to my posts. <cite>KingCrabCake posted [p:901069750] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote>Dude probably beat his wife. Fuck him. Hope she leaves and gets all the dick she wants and craves. Dont blame her snd i dont blame him either</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Aristoph 05/09/18 4:33:44 PM #11:	UnfairRepresent posted... ImmortalityV posted... She should have sex or leave him But what about da kids doe? A broken family is still broken, regardless of whether they still happen to live under the same roof. Kids may not know the specifics, but they're observant enough and around their parents frequently enough to know that something is wrong, the situation is unhealthy, and it affects them. Better to just get it out in the open and try to heal instead of continuing the farce and making the cuts deeper. --- PSN ID: Aristoph http://www.youtube.com/user/SotCRules <cite>Aristoph posted [p:901069834] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote><cite>UnfairRepresent posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ImmortalityV posted...</cite> <quote>She should have sex or leave him</quote> But what about da kids doe?</quote> A broken family is still broken, regardless of whether they still happen to live under the same roof. Kids may not know the specifics, but they're observant enough and around their parents frequently enough to know that something is wrong, the situation is unhealthy, and it affects them. Better to just get it out in the open and try to heal instead of continuing the farce and making the cuts deeper.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 05/09/18 4:33:55 PM #12:	KingCrabCake posted... Dude probably beat his wife. Fuck him. --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair. https://imgtc.com/i/14JHfrt.jpg <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:901069843] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote><cite>KingCrabCake posted...</cite> <quote>Dude probably beat his wife. Fuck him. </quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EnragedSlith 05/09/18 4:35:45 PM #13:	That was an incredibly patient, well thought out, and healthy answer for a news rag. Damn. --- ultimate milf hunter https://i.imgur.com/lCEdce6.gifv https://i.imgur.com/2N1Ezia.gifv https://i.imgur.com/ukJ6sPJ.jpg https://youtu.be/IDYaHvDiTr4 <cite>EnragedSlith posted [p:901069939] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote>That was an incredibly patient, well thought out, and healthy answer for a news rag. Damn.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dyinglegacy 05/09/18 4:37:36 PM #14:	End it. From what I have noticed, men are able to love to a greater degree in a remonatic relationship. Women can get bored, and slowly fall out of love, years before the split. The man may only have a hint that his wife is no longer in love. --- Voted best user on CE 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, and 2017 Current e-argument streak: 15008 wins. 0 losses. <cite>Dyinglegacy posted [p:901070038] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote>End it. From what I have noticed, men are able to love to a greater degree in a remonatic relationship. Women can get bored, and slowly fall out of love, years before the split. The man may only have a hint that his wife is no longer in love.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Punctus_Pilot 05/09/18 4:39:12 PM #15:	he will have no option but to leave. <cite>Punctus_Pilot posted [p:901070128] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote>he will have no option but to leave.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Omega Hunter 05/09/18 4:40:09 PM #16:	Sex is part of the marriage contract. Literally conjugal rights, if you want to take away his marital rights the marriage has to go too. --- Living is naturally hell, you have to work to put a smile on. http://images.complex.com/complex/image/upload/7_ugmpjq.gif <cite>Omega Hunter posted [p:901070178] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote>Sex is part of the marriage contract. Literally conjugal rights, if you want to take away his marital rights the marriage has to go too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 05/09/18 4:41:46 PM #17:	EnragedSlith posted... That was an incredibly patient, well thought out, and healthy answer for a news rag. Damn. Well what else is it going to say? "Well then just go fuck a black guy ina bar I guess then watch Board James on Youtube or some shit, Dreamphone was a pretty good episode I dunno lol" The whole appeal is you send in questions and get an answer. --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair. https://imgtc.com/i/14JHfrt.jpg <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:901070264] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote><cite>EnragedSlith posted...</cite> <quote>That was an incredibly patient, well thought out, and healthy answer for a news rag. Damn.</quote> Well what else is it going to say? "Well then just go fuck a black guy ina bar I guess then watch Board James on Youtube or some shit, Dreamphone was a pretty good episode I dunno lol" The whole appeal is you send in questions and get an answer.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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UnfairRepresent 05/09/18 4:43:03 PM #19:	Asherlee10 posted... it's not just her refusing sex to her husband and wanting him to stay That's literally what she wants to do Ash --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair. https://imgtc.com/i/14JHfrt.jpg <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:901070339] in Woman refu... [t:76592828]...</cite> <quote><cite>Asherlee10 posted...</cite> <quote> it's not just her refusing sex to her husband and wanting him to stay</quote> That's literally what she wants to do Ash</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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